作者 傅煜 贾茜

The author Fu Yu Jia Qian

　　“内心强大是比所谓漂亮分数更重要的一种素质。”受西方育儿文化影响，越来越多深谙此理的中国内地家长开始意识到“情商”的重要性，抛弃过分强调“智育”的传统教子方式，各类情商培训机构也因此应运而生，成为行业新宠。

"Inner strength is a quality is more important than the so-called beautiful score."Influenced by the western parenting culture,Understand the follows more and more parents begin to realize that in mainland China"Emotional intelligence"The importance of,Throw away too much emphasis on"Intellectual education"The traditional way godson,All kinds of emotional intelligence training institutions also so arises at the historic moment,Become an industry to be bestowed favor on newly.

　　28日，在长沙市的“资优领袖培训班”上，4岁的铭铭正在老师指导下认真撕着一张代表人生100年时间、被划分成10等份的白纸。“想想你会活到多少岁，再撕下你已经过完、准备退休和将花在吃饭睡觉上的‘时间’，剩下的就是你拥有的工作时间。”老师说道。

28,In changsha city"Gifted leaders training class"On the,4, inscription inscription is under the guidance of the teacher seriously to tear a life time in 100/Is divided into 10 portions of the white paper."Want to think you will live to how old,Tear off you again have been finished/Ready to retire and would spend to eat sleep‘time’,The rest is the work you have time."The teacher said.

　　撕完后，铭铭发现，自己手中的白纸只剩下两等份。他若有所思地对老师说：“原来我的时间这么短！”

After the tear,Inscription inscription found,Their white paper only two equal parts.He thoughtfully to said the teacher:"Originally I so short of time!"

　　这家针对3岁以上孩子的情商培训机构成立于2012年8月，目前共招收了年龄在3-18岁间的49名学生，每周末授课两小时，内容包括情绪管理、自信心、团队精神、沟通技巧等。上述“时间纸条”游戏是培训方式之一，目的是让孩子们感知时间的有限。

This for more than 3 years old children's emotional intelligence training institution was founded in August 2012,Currently enrolled 49 aged between 3 and 18 years old students,Two hours each weekend,Content includes emotion management/self-confidence/Team work spirit/Communication skills, etc..The above"Time to note"Game is one of the training methods,Purpose is to let the children's sense of time is limited.

　　据该机构创始人吴旭介绍，当初筹备情商培训学校是因发现“自己孩子身上出了问题，特别以自我为中心”，而许多新生代父母也开始认识到情商教育在孩子成长中的作用，让她看到了其中的商机。

According to the agency founder Wu Xu,When preparing the eq training school is his discovery"Their children out of the question,Particularly self-centered",And many new parents are beginning to realize that emotional intelligence education role in child growth,Let her see the business opportunities.

　　尽管每年要收取15000余元人民币的高额培训费，但每周仍有不少学员加入吴旭所在机构。学员付晓燕的家长说，“孩子以前对待输赢时特别脆弱，甚至会因输了游戏而打同学，现在竟开始遵守游戏规则了。”虽然培训费偏贵，但家长看到孩子身上的变化感觉“值得”。

Despite the charge 15000 RMB every year high training fees,But there is still a lot of students every week to join Wu Xu organization.Students FuXiaoYan parents said,"Children are particularly vulnerable when used to treat the winning or losing,Even for losing the game and play,Now began to abide by the rules of the game."Although training too expensive,But parents see their kids feel the change"Is worth".

　　类似培训机构在内地并不鲜见。据媒体报道，一家名为“龅牙兔”的儿童情商乐园，目前已在内地拥有超过65家分支机构，足迹遍布北京、上海、南京等地。但现今这类机构大多走“贵族化”路线。

Similar training institutions in the mainland is not rare.According to media reports,A company called"Buck teeth rabbit"The children's emotional intelligence,Now has more than 65 branches in the mainland,Footprints all over Beijing/Shanghai/Nanjing and other places.But now most of such institutions"nobility"route.

　　记者在街头随机采访中发现，一些家长对情商培训表现出浓厚兴趣，但也各有担忧。如无法确任培训机构资质、收费偏高、担心加重孩子负担等。“现在孩子升学压力大，周末已报了各种文化课程的培训班，怕再也挤不出时间了。”有家长如是说。

Reporter interviews found that randomly on the street,Some parents in emotional intelligence training showed a keen interest,But also have their own concerns.If not it qualification training institutions/Charge on the high side/Worry about child burden heavier, etc."Now children enters a higher school pressure,Has a variety of cultural courses training this weekend,Afraid of can't squeeze out of time."Have parents,.

　　相较将孩子送往专门机构培训“情商”，湖南师范大学发展与教育心理学研究生导师曹中平更看重生活教育。他说，有些独生子女的确存在情商方面的问题，“但情商培养不同于吃药看病，不是通过补钙就能解决缺钙那样的问题，从根本上需要孩子在生活中去体验并得到父母持续正确引导”。(完)

Compared with children sent to a special body training"Emotional intelligence",Hunan normal university development and education psychology graduate student tutor Cao Zhongping valued life education.He said,Some only children do exist problems of eq,"But emotional intelligence training is different from the medicine the doctor,Not by calcium calcium that can solve a problem,Fundamentally requires children to experience in your life and get the parents continue to correct guidance".(After the)