2月22日，李双江之子李冠丰(原名李天一)涉嫌轮奸女子被刑拘，目前该案正在审理中。另据报道显示，李天一之父，今年74岁高龄的李双江已气病送医，其母梦鸽在接受媒体采访时也数度哽咽，恳求社会和大众能宽容其子。(2月24日《华西都市报》)

2月22日,Li tianyi, the son of Li Guanfeng(Formerly known as li)Alleged gang rape women being detained,Now the case is pending.According to reports,The father of li,This year the 74 - year - old Mr. Li has air condition,Its parent MengGe also choked several times in an interview with the media,Pleaded with society and the public can tolerant like son.(On February 24,[West China metropolis daily])

　　可怜天下父母心。任何时候，孩子违法犯罪，最受伤害的都是为人父母者。从舆论反馈来看，“家庭教育”首当其冲，绝大多数媒体和论者都认为“慈父多败儿”、“过度娇惯纵容”乃是造成李天一今日的主因。“星二代”坑爹与家庭教育的缺失当然不无关系。养不教，父之过，作为一个尚未成年的年轻人，李天一在被劳动教养释放不到半年时间，再次犯上性质更为恶劣的轮奸妇女罪，家庭教育的先天不足显而易见。但我认为，如果我们仅仅把星二代坑爹的反思视角立足于家庭教育，其实是非常狭隘的。

可怜天下父母心.At any time,Children illegal crime,The most hurt is parents.From the feedback of public opinion,"The family education"Bear the brunt of,Most of the media and the theorists believed that"Father often son"/"Too much spoil indulge"The main reason is caused by belting out today."celebriots"Pit dad and the lack of family education, of course.Keep not to teach,SINS of the father,As a young man not yet adults,Li was released reeducation through labor is less than half a year,Nature of the offence of more bad gang rape women crimes again,Congenital deficiency of family education is obvious.But I think,If we just keep the celebriots pit dad perspective based on the reflection of the family education,Is actually very narrow.

　　事实上，从已知的信息来看，李双江的家庭教育很难简单地用“失败”来形容。李天一4岁学钢琴、8岁学书法，均师从名家，并且达到了很高的水准 这样的教育正是眼下绝大多数家庭所追求和艳羡的教育模式。或者，我们不该以结果来论证李双江家庭教育的失败，而更应反思为何这样看似正统的教育没有培养出一个知书达理、善良正直的李天一？其实，对孩子娇生惯养乃至溺爱纵容，在很多家庭都存在，但并不是所有的孩子都会成为“李天一”，两者之间真的有密不可分的联系吗？

事实上,From the perspective of a known information,Mr. Li's family education is difficult to simply use"failure"To describe the.Li piano lessons at the age of 4/8 years old studying calligraphy,Are from famous artists,And reached a high level of such education is pursued by most family education model and envy.or,We shouldn't have to result to demonstrate Mr. Li the failure of family education,而更应反思为何这样看似正统的教育没There are培养出一个知书达理/Kind and li?In fact,For children and even spoil indulge in,In many families,但并不是所There are的孩子都会成为"li",两者之间真的There are密不可分的联系吗?

　　看得见的家庭教育之外，还有看不见的特权，从叫嚣“我爸是李刚”的李启铭，到公然袭警的李正源，再到今天的李天一，莫不如此。我坚信再有权势的家庭，也不希望孩子走上邪路，他们的家庭教育从形式和内容，看似与普通家庭并无二致，但由于这种基于身份而形成的特权，教育往往从一开始就发生了变异。而等到孩子从家庭走向社会，这种特权的影响力就会更加明显。大多数情况下，普通人家的孩子即使没有受到良好的教育，也会基于趋利避害的本能去遵守法律和各种社会规范，因为他们没有任何可以倚仗的关系和利用的资源，而星二代、官二代和富二代们，则无这样的风险意识，出了事总有父辈为他们遮风避雨，甚至轻易地摆平一切，而整个社会也因为媚官媚富媚名人的劣根性，会给予他们更大的容忍度。如果这个社会没有特权的存在，每个阶层的人在社会规则面前都得到公平的对待，想必也不会出现如此多坑爹的儿子。

看得见的The family education之外,还There are看不见的特权,From Shouting"My father is li gang"The Mr. Li,To openly Li Zhengyuan of assaulting a police officer,To li today,, etc.我坚信再There are权势的家庭,Don't want children to astray,Their family education from the form and content,Seems to be no different with ordinary family,But as a result of this privilege based on identity and form,Education is often the mutation from the start.And wait until the children from the family to society,The privilege of influence will be more obvious.In most cases,普通人家的孩子即使没There are受到良好的教育,Will be based on the disadvantages of instinct to abide by the laws and social norms,因为他们没There are任何可以倚仗的关系和利用的资源,While celebriots/The officer the second generation and the rich second generation,, no such risk awareness,出了事总There are父辈为他们遮风避雨,Even handle everything with ease,And the whole society because rich mei mei mei officer celebrity's prey,Will give them greater tolerance.如果这个社会没There are特权的存在,Every class of people in front of the social rules to get a fair treatment,Must have also won't appear so many pit dad's son.

　　因此，“坑爹”现象的本质，不是家庭教育出了问题，而是因为社会特权的存在。“李天一”不是一天炼成的，“李天一”也不是一个人，他们正为他们曾经享受过的特权而付出着沉重的代价。

因此,"Pit dad"The essence of the phenomenon,Is not a family education out of the question,But because of the existence of social privileges."li"Not for a day,"li"Is not a person,They are for they have been enjoying the privilege of paying a heavy price.

　　（济南日报）

(Jinan daily)