现在作为中职学校的老师时常感到很无奈，常常觉得自己付出了很多努力，但学生却是无动于衷，依然我行我素，甚至多次请来家长也不一定有什么效果，面对这样学生感到很是苦恼，但分析这些学生的情况，还是能够发现很多背后的因素，他们在中学就是学习和平时表现都不好经常被训斥，所以表面无所谓，内心却是很自卑，很渴望受到肯定。面对他们冷漠的脸和渴望爱的心灵，作为班主任就要耐心发现他们的点滴进步，用爱和真心帮助和感化他们。

Now as a secondary vocational school teachers often felt very helpless,Often feel a lot of effort,But students are indifferent,Remains calm,And even many parents, please also don't have what effect,In the face of such students is worrying,But analysis of the students,Still can find a lot of factors behind the,They have poor performance in the middle school is to learn the peace often be reprimanded,So the surface doesn't matter,He is very inferiority at heart,Very eager to get recognition.Face them indifferent to face and heart longing for love,As a teacher in charge will be patience to find their progress,With love and sincere help and influence them.

用"爱"去融化学生心灵的坚冰 use"love"To students heart of the ice melting

　　教育技巧的全部奥秘就在于如何爱护学生。教师的爱应该洒向班里的每个学生，而不应仅对优秀生关怀备致，对后进生不闻不问。由于种种原因，后进生往往对教师有疑惧心理和对立情绪，对老师时时戒备，处处设防，甚至恶言相向。古言云：亲其师，才能信其道。只有消除师生之间的情感障碍，达到心理相容，学生那紧闭的心扉才可能向老师敞开。而要做到这一点，教师就要给予他们更多的温暖，更多的关怀，用师爱去融化他们心灵的坚冰，点燃他们心中自尊和进取的火花，引导他们一步步上进。

Education skills all the mystery lies in how to care for the students.Teachers' love should be spread to every student in the class,And should not only have to care of excellent students,Turning to the underachiever.A variety of reasons,The underachiever often doubt psychological and antagonism are placed on teachers,Always alert to the teacher,Everywhere the fortification,Even angry.The ancient word cloud:Kiss the teacher,To believe it.Only remove emotional barriers between teachers and students,To achieve psychological compatibility,Students that closed door to open to the teacher.And to do this,Teachers have to give them more warm,More care,With love to melt them down to the heart of the ice,Kindle the spark their self-esteem and enterprising,Guides them to progress step by step.

　　我们班有这样一个学生，由于家庭和环境的影响，入学不久就在班里称王称霸，稍有不顺就用拳头说话，学习也上不去，面对这么顽固的学生，我在关注着她，寻找突破口。机会终于来了，一天中午，我发现她心神不安，马上关心地问她身体不舒服，还是有别的事。经过追问，原来她因一件小事和别的班级同学发生口角，并约到校外去打架。我很焦急，午饭也顾不得吃，立刻带着她去找另外几个想和她打架的同学，做双方的思想工作，动之以情晓之以理，而且我很真诚的告诉她，我不愿意看到我的学生受到伤害。在我的劝说之下，他们终于握手言和。过后，这位学生找到我说："老师，你是真心关心我，我以后不会再打架了，不然，太不够朋友了"。我居然和她成了朋友，趁此机会，我鼓励她积极为班级、学校做事，努力把学习搞上去。以后，她果真有了很大变化，虽然有时还表现不稳定，也会出现一些小问题，但我始终关注她，同时安排同学为她补课，她的学习成绩在逐步提高。班里出板报，她积极的帮着写板书；开主题班会，她在帮助布置会场；班级劳动，她捡最脏最累的活干；班级劳动，她捡最脏最累的活干，就是这位学生，在我生病时，她给我打电话让我要注意身体好好休息，还说：老师，我能帮你做些什么？班里事情你就别惦记着了，您快点好起来吧。我真的很感动。她的转变再一次证明了，做后进生的转变工作，靠机械的说教、批评往往收效甚微，它需要教师把爱的情感投射到学生身上，才会引起他们心灵的共振，行动上的回报。

One of the students in our class,Because of the influence of the family and the environment,Entrance hegemony in his class soon,Slightly when talked with his fist,The study also couldn't get on,In the face of persistent student,I'm watching her,breach.Opportunity is finally here,One day at noon,I found her uneasy,Immediately concerned her body uncomfortable,Or is there something else.After a follow-up,She because of a little thing quarrel and other classes,And about to fight outside the school.I am very worried,Also did not eat lunch,Immediately take her to find a few other want to fight with her classmates,Do the ideological work of both parties,Respond to,And I am very sincere to tell her,I don't want to see my students get hurt.In my persuasion,They finally shaking hands.After the,The student find I said:"The teacher,You are really care about me,I won't fight again in the future,otherwise,Too not enough friends".I had made friends with her,Take this opportunity to,I encouraged her to class/School work,Efforts to learn make up.after,She really had the very big change,Although sometimes unstable performance,Also can appear a little problem,But I always pay attention to her,Arrange students make up a missed lesson for her at the same time,Her study result in gradually improve.Out in the class approved,She actively help the writing blackboard writing;Open topic class meeting,She is helping the venue layout;Class and grade work,She picked up the most dirty tired work;Class and grade work,She picked up the most dirty tired work,Is that the students,When I was ill,She called me let me pay attention to the body have a good rest,Also said that:The teacher,What can I do for you?Things you don't thinking in the class,You get well soon.I'm really touched.Her transformation proves once again,Do the underachiever transformation work,By mechanical sermon/Criticism is often with little success,It needs to project the emotion of love to the students,Will only cause them the resonance of the mind,Action on return.

善于发现学生闪光点，多赞美，多鼓励 Good at discovering the best students,More praise,How to encourage

　　每一个学生都有自己的优点，作为班主任应该善于捕捉每个学生身上的闪光点，虽然可能只是一个小小的闪光点，但很有可能通过这个小小的闪光点可以挖掘出埋藏在他心里头的大金矿。前苏联著名的教育家马卡连科曾经有这样一句话："用放大镜看学生的优点，用缩小镜看学生的缺点"，我国著名的文学家刘心武先生在他的一篇作品中也有这样一句经典的话："一个丑恶的罪犯也有他自己的心灵美！"，我们的学生再怎么调皮也不至于将他同罪犯等同起来吧？

Every student has his own advantages,As a teacher in charge should be good at capturing the sparkle of each students,Although may be a little sparkle,But is likely to through this little sparkle can dig buried in his heart a head of big gold mine.The famous former Soviet union educator marca even families used to have such a word:"Use a magnifying glass to see the advantages of students,Use narrow mirror to see the students' shortcomings",Famous litterateur in China Mr Liu in a piece he has such a classic sentence:"A hideous criminals also have his own heart!",A naughty that our students are not to equate him with criminals?

　　我们班有个学生，性格比较反叛，孤僻，和父母交流也很少，总是上网玩游戏或者聊天，晚上睡的晚，早晨起不来，经常迟到，在学校跟同学也很少交流，总是一个人独来独往。我发现她白天上课多半时间都在睡觉不听讲，作为在校学生还烫发，戴耳钉，化浓妆，也许是在用这种方式掩饰内心的孤独。针对她这些问题我较劲了脑汁，使用了各种方法，也不见成效。正好学校组织的12.9合唱节，我们班学生想出各种有创意的方案排练节目，她们觉得只是唱歌太单调，就建议让这位学生弹吉他作为朗诵台词时的伴奏，可是她却一直拒绝参加，怕弹得不好影响班级成绩，我发现她很不自信，就私下里找她谈，她终于同意了，第二天她把吉他拿来跟大家练习，弹完一遍后，我和学生一起给她鼓掌，都称赞她弹奏的很棒，她开始有自信了，后来听她妈妈说，她那一阵子回家也不上网了，每天都在练习弹吉他，跟父母的交流也多了，最终我们班的歌曲获奖了，大家都说她的功劳最大，我也多次找她谈心，问她什么时候开始喜欢吉他的，真诚的夸奖她弹得很好，她开始慢慢接受我了，跟我敞开心扉交流起来了，我说，你要好好培养你的这个特长，争取做得更好，以后去参加比赛，肯定能得奖。她更加自信了，感觉到自己的价值了，不再像以前那样孤僻了，朋友也多了，平时那些违纪的行为也都慢慢的少了，还经常给大家弹奏她的新曲。

A student in our class,Personality is rebellion,withdrawn,Communicate with parents and seldom,Always play games or chat online,Sleep late at night,Morning don't come,Always late,Communicate with classmates and rarely in school,It is always a loner.Sleep most of the time in class during the day I found out she didn't listen,As a college student has a perm,Wear earrings,Heavy make-up,May be in disguise inner loneliness in this mode.Against her these questions I compete my brain,Using various methods,Is not working.Just 12.9 GeChangJie organized by the school,Students in our class to come up with a variety of creative solutions rehearsal program,They think just sing too drab,Just advice to let the students play the guitar as a reading lines of accompaniment,But she has refused to attend,Afraid of playing badly affect class grades,I found that she is not confident,Just talk to her privately,She finally agreed,The next day she brought to practice guitar,After playing it again,I and students together to clap for her,All praise her played great,She began to have confidence,Later to listen to her mother said,Her home for a while don't surf the Internet,Practice playing the guitar every day,Communicate with their parents too much,Finally our class songs won the prize,Everyone was saying she deserved,I also many times to find her talk,Ask her what time do you start like the guitar,Sincere compliment she plays very well,She began to slowly accept me,To open up communication with me,And I said,You want to have a training of this specialty,Strive to do better,To compete in the future,Is sure to win.Her more confident,Feel their value,No longer lonely,Friends are much more,The usual disciplinary actions are also gradually less,Also often play her new song for you.

　　我想教师只有细心捕捉到学生身上瞬间闪现的火花，才会说出言简意赅、内涵深刻的赞美话语。赞美是春风，让人温暖和感动。赞美是激励，它能充分体现学生心中美好的憧憬和理想。生活和人生需要赞美，孩子们需要热情鼓励。我们应当学会赞美，一个善于把赞美献给每一个学生的老师，一定是一个时刻快乐、幸福的人。

I think the teacher only care to catch students instant flash sparks,Will say it/Connotation is profound praise words.Praise is the spring breeze,Let a person warm and moved.Praise is motivation,It can fully embody the students' ideal and dreams of the heart.Life and life need praise,Children need warm encouragement.We should learn to praise,A good at praise to each student's teacher,Must be a happy moment/The happiest people.

通过开展活动感化心灵 Through the activities influence the mind

　　一个班风好学风正的班级肯定要开展很多活动，这些活动的开展不只是让学生一起玩一起乐，更为重要的是，要让同学们在活动中充分发挥学生的积极性和主动性，培养学生的组织纪律观念和集体荣誉感，学生在具体的情境中感受、体验、理解新知识，在这里接受社会价值观，理解社会生活目标，获得社会技能，体验社会角色，活动中要确立正确方向保证班级活动收到良好效果。班集体，要想成为真正意义上的集体，即能通过各种活动建立起人际关系同时更能建立起心理关系，通过不断交流，不断活动，不断碰撞，更加稳固和紧密，集体的凝聚力才能得到巩固集体感才能得到培养。

A good ban feng style of study class is must carry out many activities,These campaigns not only let the students play music together,Even more important,Let the students give full play to the enthusiasm and initiative of students in the activity,Cultivate the students' discipline concept and the collective sense of honor,The student feel in specific situations/experience/Understand the new knowledge,Accepted social values here,Understanding social life goals,Acquire social skills,Experience of social roles,Activities to establish the right direction to ensure the class activity received good results.class,If you want to become a real sense of the collective,Can establish relationships through various activities at the same time to establish a psychological relationship more,Through constant communication,Keep moving,The collision,More solid and tight,Collective cohesion to consolidated collective feeling to get training.

　　读书能净化学生心灵，陶冶学生情操，在读书中养成良好习惯，成为一种生活方式。我组织学生每天下午放学读书20分钟，引导大家想读书、会读书、读好书，把读书作为精神成长的重要源泉，崇尚和营造良好的读书风气，学生还自制幻灯片背景同时还配上优美的音乐，在优雅的环境下陶冶在书海中，这样学生的积极性更高昂。比如，我们一起学习孝道，通过学习，学生们深刻的理解了孝是中华民族传统美德之首，如果连父母的大恩都不懂得报答，将来怎能回报社会？大家还就此展开了讨论，轮流发言，讲出了自己的心里话，有的举得以前做得不好总惹父母生气了，有的说自己在家一直很孝敬父母，知道父母不容易，好多事情都独立完成不让父母操心等等，之后，以前在家里经常和父母吵架闹矛盾的也开始反思了，自己的衣服也自己洗了，也开始帮父母做家务了，生活费也不乱花了，用省下来的钱给父母买他们一直需要但不舍得买的东西，家长也打来电话，说孩子变化很大，变董事了，冬天冷了还亲手给奶奶织围巾，交流也多了，开始理解父母了，不再那么任性了。

Reading can purify the students mind,Raising students sentiment,Form a good habit in reading,Become a way of life.I organize the student reading 20 minutes after school every afternoon,Guide you want to read/He that can read/Reading good books,The reading as an important source of spiritual growth,Advocate and create a good study atmosphere,Students also homemade slides also deserve to go up beautiful music in the background,In the elegant environment edify the books,So that the enthusiasm of the students is more high.Such as the,Together we learn filial piety,Through the study,Students a profound understanding of filial piety is traditional virtues of the Chinese nation,If you don't even know repay parents gave them,How will you repay society in the future?We also discussed,Take turns to speak,Speak out your mind,Some have to do well always make parents angry before,Some said they have been very filial piety parents at home,It is not easy to know the parents,A lot of things don't let parents worry about independently and so on,after,Previously at home often quarrel with parents make antinomy also began to reflect on,Also wash his own clothes,Also began to help parents do the housework,Living expenses is not random,Used the savings to the parents to buy but not willing to part with or use to buy things they have need,Parents also calling,Speak of the children has changed a lot,Became director of the,Winter cold hands to give grandma knit scarf,Communication is much more,Begin to understand their parents,No longer so capricious.

　　感恩节到了，为了向老师表示感谢之情，我组织学生送祝福卡片给老师，但是班委会讨论后，她们决定要把这次活动做大做好，都下决心让全校师生都看看我们护理一班的风采，为此成立专门策划小组，有负责做展板的，让师生了解感恩节由来与意义，有组织排练礼仪队的，有负责写口号的，在其中组织过程中遇到困难难问题，大家都自己解决克服，每个人都不想拖后腿，想在这次活动中做得更好，不给班级丢脸，还互相鼓励，最终，在感恩节那天，同学们以饱满的精神状态和一颗真诚的心为老师们送去了祝福，在送出贺卡的那一刻，她们看到老师幸福与感激的笑脸，自己脸上也洋溢出快乐与自信，因为这一刻让他们体验到了给别人带来快乐后的快感。虽然那天很冷，但是她们的心是热血澎湃的，她们为自己能组织处这么成功的活动而自豪，体验到了自己的价值。通过这个活动，我们班学生更加团结了，在她们心中有着一个共同的声音，我们是最棒的，我们可以做得更好，每个人都深深的爱着这个集体，大家也都更加相互包容相互帮助，形成一种互帮互助的良好班风。

Thanksgiving Day is the,In order to thank the teacher of love,I organize the student to send greeting CARDS to the teacher,But after the class committee to discuss,They decided to do this activity well,Are determined to let all the teachers and students all have a look at our nursing class,To establish a planning team,Responsible for panel,Let the teachers and students to understand the Thanksgiving Day origin and meaning,Organized to rehearse etiquette team,Responsible for writing slogans,Difficult difficult problems in an organized process,Everyone is overcome by myself,Everyone don't want to drag,Want to do better in this activity,Don't bring discredit on class,Also encourage each other,In the end,On Thanksgiving Day,Students with full mental state and a sincere heart for teachers sent blessing,Send greeting CARDS at the moment,They saw the teacher happy with smile of gratitude,His face is permeated with the joy and confidence,Because this moment let them experience pleasure after to bring happiness to others.Although very cold that day,But their heart is passionate about,They take pride in) such a successful activity,Experienced their own value.Through this activity,The students in our class more united,In their hearts have a common voice,We are the best,We can do better,Everyone has deep in love with this collective,You are more inclusive each other. Help each other,Form a good ban feng helping each other.

　　类似的活动还有很多，考试前，为了防止有作弊违纪发生，我们就专门开班会讨论对作弊行为的看法，大家轮流发言，有说作弊动机的，又说作弊时紧张心情的，有说后果的，有评价这种行为可耻不光彩的，大家经过思考讨论后，意识到此种行为是对自己不负责的表现，考试时就没有作弊的了大家就很自觉了；中秋节了，我让学生自己来讲中秋节的来历，习俗，历史故事等，唤起大家对历史的兴趣，并能给学生一个表现的机会，把自己的知识分享给大家，她们会有一种成就感会更自信；在圣诞节，元旦时，联欢会是必不可少的，在这里大家可以发挥自己的文艺才能，表演才能，增进同学之间的友谊，师生关系也更加亲密，大家一起玩，一起唱歌，平时的隔阂没有了，班级氛围活跃起来了，大家的心离得更近了，所以闹矛盾的少了，互相帮助的多了，就像一家人一样同学们更加团结了。

There are many similar activities,Before a test,In order to prevent cheating violations occur,We will have a class meeting to discuss opinion of cheating,We take turns to speak,Have said cheating motive,And nervous mood when you talk about cheating,Have said the consequences of,There are evaluating this disgraceful shameful behavior,Everyone thought after discussion,Aware of such behaviour is to oneself irresponsible performance,When there is no cheating in the exam you very consciously;The Mid-Autumn festival,The origin of the Mid-Autumn festival I let the students themselves,custom,Historical stories, etc.,Arouse people's interest in history,And can give students a chance to show,To share their knowledge with you,They will be more confident to have a sense of accomplishment;On Christmas day,When the New Year's day,Party is necessary,Here everyone can use their literary talents,Acting talent,Enhance the friendship between classmates,The relationship between teachers and students also more intimate,We play together,Sing the song together,The usual barriers,The class atmosphere active,Everyone's hearts closer,So make antinomy,Help each other,The classmates more united as a family.

　　每位学生都像一颗闪闪发光的小星星，而我就是以一片"爱心"，一颗"诚信"，精心呵护、耐心培育着他们，寻找他们的发光点，用满腔热忱点燃希望之光，使这个生机勃勃的集体放出夺目的光彩。（作者系北京卫生职业学院教师）

Every student is like a shining stars,And I think I can be in one"love",a"Good faith",care/They cultivate with patience,Looking for their markers,With enthusiasm lit a light of hope,Make this vibrant collective release dazzling brilliance.(The author is Beijing health vocational college teachers)