张女士：前几天，带着5岁的儿子去朋友家做客，大人们在客厅聊天，孩子们便在房间玩耍，玩着玩着，房间里没有声音了，我便轻轻推开一条门缝看，结果吓了一跳，朋友5岁的女儿和我儿子都把内裤脱在腿上，两个孩子发现我时一副惊慌失措的模样。晚上睡觉时，我问儿子玩的是什么，并答应保密，儿子支支吾吾好久才说玩脱裤子摸屁股游戏，还亲嘴的。老天，现在的小孩是怎么了？我该怎么教育啊？

Ms. Zhang：A few days ago，With a 5 year old son go to a friend's home，The adults in the sitting room to chat，Children will play in the room，playing，The room no sound，I will gently pushed a door to see，Results a scare，Friends 5 year old daughter and my son had panties on the leg，Two children found me a pair of panic-stricken appearance。Sleep at night，I asked my son play of is what，And promised to confidentiality，Son hem and haw long before he said to play to take off pants to touch bottom game，Also kissed him。god，Now children is what？How can I education？

专家：这是孩子好奇又得不到引导造成的 experts：This is children are curious again not caused by the guide

　　张女士的遭遇不少家长都遇到过，“孩子在某个时期对某种事情感兴趣而已，过段时间就好了，不过家长在这个过程中要及时引导。”也有家长认为，这个年龄段的孩子对新鲜事物好奇，也容易模仿。

Ms. Zhang encounter many parents are met，“Children in a certain period to some things just interested in，After a short time，But parents in the process to timely guide。”Also have their parents think that，This age children to new things curiosity，Also easy to imitate。

　　网友的说法得到了江苏省学前教育学会副秘书长郦燕君的认同，“这事发生在5岁的孩子身上，并不奇怪，但家长切勿拿成人的思维去揣摩孩子的心理。”郦燕君说：“其实孩子很小就有性别意识了，尤其到了5岁，思维和之前有很大差别，不明白的事情，他们会有强烈的愿望要去弄明白，好奇心也很强，这时如果没有得到正确引导，他们就会用自己的方式去弄明白，只不过每个孩子的表现形式不一样。”郦燕君说，中国的家长还是不愿直面性教育这个问题，忌讳甚至恐惧，但实际上，这个问题是回避不了的，相反，正确的引导反而会让孩子打消那么强烈的好奇心，也就不会有这样的行为了。

Net friend that got the preschool education in jiangsu province deputy secretary-general of LiYanJun identity，“It happened in the age of five children，Is not surprising，But the parents don't take adult thinking to conjecture the child's psychological。”LiYanJun said：“In fact when they are very young children have the gender consciousness，Especially to 5 years old，Thinking and before make a great difference，Don't understand things，They will have a strong desire to understand，Curiosity is also very strong，Then if you don't get the correct guidance，They can use their own way to understand，But each child's form is not the same。”LiYanJun said，China's parents or don't want to ZhiMianXing education this problem，Taboo even fear，But in fact，This problem is ignored，instead，The right guidance, on the contrary, will let the child out of so intense curiosity，Won't have such behavior。

　　郦燕君建议，家长应一方面转移孩子的注意力，另一方面进行正确引导，让他认识男女之间的差异，减少好奇心，“这个年龄，父母还要告诉孩子，身体是不能给别人随便看、随便摸的。”

LiYanJun Suggestions，Parents should hand transfer the child's attention，On the other hand correctly guide，Let him know the difference between men and women，Reduce curiosity，“This age，Parents need to tell the children，The body is not to give others to look、Literally touch of。”

　　另外，郦燕君说，这个年龄段的孩子模仿能力很强，家长应注意在孩子面前的亲密举动，以及电视画面上出现的亲密镜头。

In addition，LiYanJun said，This age children imitate ability is very strong，Parents should pay attention to in front of children intimate behavior，And the television picture appear close lens。