17岁的陈周玲在弹奏古琴。 17 year old ChenZhouLing playing guqin。

　　文/图 佛山日报记者 麦凤庄

Wen/diagram foshan daily reporter MaiFengZhuang

　　温婉娴静、水灵含秀，由内而外散发着古典气质。她是广东省古琴研究会秘书长陈是强的女儿陈周玲，父亲是古琴大师，母亲也是古琴老师，自小在琴瑟之音熏陶中成长的玲玲，早已将古琴融入了自己的生命，15岁时，她就获得了2010年中国青少年音乐选拔赛广东赛区金奖。

Wen wan demure、Watery including show，By inside and outside sending out the classical temperament。She is guangdong province of guqin secretary general Chen is strong ChenZhouLing daughter，Father is guqin masters，Mother is plucked the teacher，Trained in the voice of harps influence China long lingling，Have gu qin into his own life，At the age of 15，She won the 2010 China youth music tryout guangdong division gold medal。

　　许多琴童都面临文化课与专业的两难烦恼，陈周玲和父母选择了最简单的那种12岁那年，玲玲与父亲商量之后，毅然放弃普通孩子的上学之路，以全身心投入琴棋书画的修为当中，这也引发不少身边人的议论：到底是尊重孩子天赋，抑或是一种冒险？

Many QinTong all face the dilemma of literacy class and professional troubles，ChenZhouLing and parents choose the most simple of that kind of 12 years old，Lingling and father after consulting，Resolutely abandoned ordinary children's school road，To devote yourself to qinqi painting practice of for，This also caused many beside the person's discussion：What is the respect a child talent，Or is an adventure？

　　伤怀：

harm：

　　古琴文化日渐式微

Gu qin culture fade

　　前天下午，记者走进陈老师位于禅城同济小学附近的琴舍，宽口茶具，两张罗汉床，与几台古琴相伴，仿佛穿越回到了古代。

The day before yesterday afternoon，The reporter walks into Chen is located in zen city tongji elementary school nearby piano pieces，Wide mouth tea set，Two arhat bed，And a few table gu qin associated，As if through back to ancient times。

　　玲玲，穿着素雅的她，一直伴在父亲身边，静静听着大人讲话，偶尔，脸上会掠过一丝含蓄羞涩的微笑，甚少插话，当记者忍不住问及她小学生活时，她说，“挺好的”，只是心中更喜欢对着琴。

lingling，In her simple but elegant，Has been accompanying in the father's side，Quietly listen to the adult speech，occasionally，Face will skim over a implicative shy smile，Little episode，When a reporter asked if she could not help when primary school life，She said，“good”，Just more like heart to the piano。

　　古琴，是古代“礼乐文化”的核心灵魂，位居琴、棋、书、画“四艺”之首，陈是强如此形容，“中华文化有多深，古琴文化就有多深。”然而，陈老师悲哀地看到，浮躁的社会氛围，让古琴文化日渐式微，他谈及自己一个深刻的经历：“江门是岭南古琴派的发源地，2008年在那儿发现了一部承载着许多岭南古琴文化发展印记的古琴谱，弥足珍贵，”话锋一转，陈老师神色黯然，“为此成立的江门琴会，可真正能弹古琴的人仅两三个，这古琴的发源地，大多数人连‘古琴是什么’都不知道，不免让人伤怀。”陈老师认为，女儿是在为传承古琴文化而努力，一切是值得的。

Gu qin，Is an ancient“Music culture of”Core soul，In piano、chess、The book、painting“Four art”of，Chen is strongly to describe this，“How deep is the Chinese culture，Gu qin culture are deep。”however，Chen sad to see，Blundering social atmosphere，Let gu qin culture fade，He talked about yourself a profound experience：“Jiangmen is the birthplace of the lingnan gu qin sent，2008 there found a carry a lot of lingnan gu qin culture development of the ancient tablature mark，precious，”A turn of，Chen looked sombre，“Therefore established jiangmen harp will，But really can play guqin people only two or three，The birthplace of this musical，Most people even‘Guqin is what’All don't know，Not let a person harm。”Chen think，Daughter is in for inheritance gu qin culture and efforts，Everything is worth it。

　　选择

choose

　　不能让功课磨掉天赋

Can't let homework grind off talent

　　江门发现古琴谱那一年，陈老师的女儿玲玲12岁，这一年玲玲小学毕业，陈老师和她进行了一次深刻的对话，“爸爸，我想做我自己喜欢做的事情，不想天天束缚在功课上。”渴望心灵自由，渴望有更大的空间研习自己钟爱的古琴文化与技艺，玲玲向父亲坦诚。女儿的心声，与陈老师心底里的愿景产生了强烈的共鸣。

Jiangmen found ancient tablature that year，Chen's daughter lingling 12 years old，This year lingling elementary school graduation，Chen and she made a deep dialogue，“dad，I want to do I do things they like，Don't want to everyday bound in the lessons。”Eager to soul free，Eager to have more space to study their favorite gu qin culture and skill，Lingling to father frank。Daughter's voice，And Chen the bottom of vision to have a strong resonance。

　　他坦诚，“其实我从女儿6岁入学就开始考虑这个问题了，她从小就在音乐绘画上表现出天赋，尤其是古琴弹奏，到9岁开始真正学琴时，技艺已相当纯熟。可当下以考试为中心的教育，学生们光每天应付功课已经占去大部分精力和时间，还要应付那无穷无尽的科考、月考、期考等考试。”陈老师不忍眼看女儿的兴趣和天赋，在日复一日的作业和考试当中被渐渐地磨光。于是那一年起，玲玲就没再升读初中，脱离了寻常孩子的学习道路，全身心沉浸在古琴、国画、书法、棋弈研习当中，并得到不少省内知名的书画大家的亲自辅导，并准备于今年报读广州美院进修班，主攻国画。

His frank，“In fact my daughter from 6 annual income study began to consider this problem，She grew up in the music painting displays the talent，Especially playing guqin，To 9 years old started to really learn piano，Skill already quite fluent。But then on the test center for education，The students every day light cope with homework has been already take up most of the energy and time，To deal with the endless expedition、Monthly exam、Terminal examination and test。”Chen cannot bear to see her daughter's interest and talent，In day after day homework and examination is of little by little polishing。So that a year，Lingling had not applicants from junior high school，From the ordinary children's study road，All immersed in gu qin、Traditional Chinese painting、calligraphy、Chess implement of study，And get a lot of province famous painting and calligraphy everyone's personal guidance，And prepare this annual report read guangzhou academy of class for further studies，Main attack Chinese painting。

　　忐忑：

in：

　　“身边琴友没人敢试”

“Side harp friends nobody dared to have a try”

　　让自己唯一的孩子走一条“非主流”的路子，陈老师心中并没有如外界想象的那样潇洒自如，担心焦虑如影随形。他也坦诚，“我身边的琴友无人敢尝试！”而最大的担忧莫过于两条：一个是日后孩子的谋生问题；另一个就是她的社交圈子问题，毕竟学校是大集体，是所有孩子社交的起步点。

Let oneself the only child takes a“non-mainstream”way，Chen heart and no such as external expected free，Worry about anxiety ruyingsuixing。He also open，“My side harp friend no one dare to try！”And the biggest worry than two：One is a living child in the future of the problem；Another is her social circle problem，After all school is the larger group，Is all children social start point。

　　但玲玲日渐成熟过硬的本领，也令陈老师在焦灼中得到缓解。在记者采访两个小时内，陈老师接到至少5个电话，都是邀请玲玲进行古琴演出的，有商业的，有公益的，玲玲走出家门结识志同道合的朋友不少，再加上陈老师所处的文术圈子，客观上也为玲玲提供了很多事业发展的机会。

But lingling is mature day after day high power，Also makes Chen in deeply worried in ease。Reporters in two hours，Chen received at least 5 a phone call，Are invited to perform gu qin ling ling，A commercial，Have the public welfare the，Lingling get out of the house to meet like-minded friends a lot of，Plus Chen in the art circle，Objectively speaking, it also for lingling offers many career development opportunities。

　　“学好本事，功底扎实，国学修养到位，机会总系有的！”玲玲的成长给予了父母亲“继续走下去”的自信心。 （报料人老马奖金50元）

“Learn skill，Strength solid，In Chinese culture，Opportunities always system some！”Lingling's growth gives parents“Continue to go on”confidence。 （Writer who nag bonus 50 yuan）

　　学者观点

Scholars view

　　“非主流”方式是反思也是冒险

“non-mainstream”Way is to reflect on and adventure

　　“有人认为玲玲父母违反国家的义务教育法，但我认为这不一定违法，只要征求孩子意见得到同意就不能算违法。”对于弃学弹琴，中国法学会会员王学堂认为“不能简单论对错”，“此前，我也接触顺德‘私塾’的问题，一些家长在学校注册之后，其子女并不去就读，而是另外请老师在家里头教学，酷似以前的‘私塾’，为的也是最大限度地保护孩子的天赋和创造能力。”王学堂坦言，其个人是支持这样的民办私塾，“独生子女时代，相信没有一位父母轻易放弃孩子求学的机会，这些非主流的尝试，恰好反映了越来越多的家长与学生对当前应试教育体制‘只会应试’的有益反思，以及自身一种积极的探索。”“教育体制已经到了不得不改的地步了，”王学堂表示。

“Some people think that lingling parents in violation of state of the compulsory education law，But I think this is not necessarily illegal，As long as to seek child opinion approved would not be illegal。”For QiXue harps，Law under China law society, member WangXueTang think“Not simple theory is right or wrong”，“after，I also contact shunde‘private’problems，Some parents in the school after registration，The children not to attend，But in addition please the teacher is teaching at home，Like previous‘private’，Also for maximum protection to the child's talent and creativity。”WangXueTang said，The man is support the private run by the local people，“One-child age，Don't believe a parents give up easily children study opportunities，The non-mainstream try，Just reflects more and more parents and students to the current examination-oriented education system‘Will only takes an exam the’Useful reflection，And own a kind of active exploration。”“Education system has come to have to change it，”WangXueTang said。

　　广州社科院研究员彭澎教授也承认，现行的教育体制及其对应的就业体制，不适合标新立异的创新型人才的发展，更多的是塑造安分守己缺乏创造力的学生，这对于整个社会发展是不利的。

Guangzhou academy of PengPeng researcher professor also admitted，The current education system and its corresponding employment system，Not suitable for the development of novel creative talents，More line is to build a lack of creativity of students，This to the society as a whole is adverse to the development。

　　当然两位专家也认为，在如今的教育体制和人才就业体制下，这样非主流的道路是“很冒险”的，要慎重考虑，对孩子要做充分的评估和准备，“不能一棍子打死，也不宜盲目跟随”。（麦凤庄）

Of course the two experts also believe that，In today's education system and personnel employment system，This alternative way is“Very adventure”of，Consider carefully，For children to do full assessment and preparation，“Not a stick killed，Also should not be blindly follow”。（MaiFengZhuang）

　　微博热议

Micro bo hot debate

　　赞：教育本该如此

praise：Education should have so

　　@淳牛奶ruiyan_ye：有才华噶，有实力噶，无需一张文凭证明，实力就系最好的证明。

@ chun milk ruiyan_ye：Being talented，To have actual strength karma，Without proof of a diploma，Strength is the best proof。

　　@钢铁家园副站长：我觉得人一生只要学会他想学的东西已经足够了，除非他不喜欢琴棋书画！

@ steel home assistant station master：I think that as long as people life to learn his what they want to learn is enough，Unless he don't like chess！

　　@rio糖莲子：无错，教育本应如此！

@ Rio sugar lotus.：Error free，Education should be so！

　　@孖宝老窦：支持！现在教育不敢恭维！

@ margin treasure old sinus：support！Now education can't compliment！

　　弹：人际交往能力堪忧

bomb：Interpersonal skills worried

　　@泥行：学什么不重要，但还是最好给孩子与同龄人相处的一个空间,学校就是一个很好的圈子，尽管某些方面不尽人意。

@ mud line：Learn what is not important，But still had better give children get along with peers of a space,The school is a good circle，Although some respects。

　　@echo_yulm：再发展专长也需要与社会接轨。学校除了是知识学习的平台，还是人际交往、团队合作、沟通交流等能力的训练场。

Echo_yulm @：Again development expertise also need and social practice。The school besides is knowledge learning platform，Or interpersonal、team、Communication ability and so on the training ground。

　　@苏彦璁_风雨同路广州队：那她以后靠什么生活呢？个性发展的末端，她靠什么生活？

SuYan @ Cong _ rain go the same way guangzhou team：After that she rely on what life？At the end of the personality development，She rely on what life？

　　@FaT-HoUsE：在中国，绝对是冒险。

@ FaT opt-in subscribers who：In China，Absolute is an adventure。