我和丈夫都不是北京人，双方父母不在身边，工作又没个准点，照看孩子是个大问题。其中最头疼的就是暑假，整整两个月，总不能老把孩子关在家里吧！不过幸好我丈夫从7月下旬开始有一个月的高温假，可以在家照看孩子，但在这之前之后的空档里，孩子没人看管。

My husband and I are not from Beijing，Both parents not at nearby，Work and not on time，Taking care of children is a big problem。One of the most headaches is summer vacation，For two months，Total can't take the children kept in home！But fortunately, my husband from late July began to have a month of GaoWenJia，Can look after children at home，But in this before and after in the gap，No one watch children。

　　在给孩子报托管班之前，我和老公纠结了很久，因为我们在电视和网络上看到了一些暑托班的负面信息，还有专家说，一些托管机构注册的经营范围是汽车维修、缝纫培训、美容排毒、按摩培训等，与家庭教育根本不沾边。

The child to custody before class，My husband and I and ravel for a long time，Because we see on TV and network some "the class of negative information，And experts say，Some trust institution registered scope of business is vehicle maintenance、Sewing training、Beauty detoxification、Massage training, etc，And family education doesn't them。

　　于是，我们给孩子报了一个知名培训机构的暑假托管班，后来发现，这类暑托其实就是变相的全科辅导，上的课程和平时的辅导班类似，强度太大，孩子不愿意上。我们想，毕竟孩子是在放暑假，最好还是要给孩子留点时间来玩耍，况且这样的托管班比较贵，算下来一个月得两三千元，对我们这种普通家庭来说实在吃不消。

so，We give the child to a well-known training institutions summer vacation managed class，I later found out that，This kind of summer heat and Joe is in fact disguised general guidance，Of course the remedial class similar peace，Strength is too big，The child refused to go to。We want to，After all, children are in the summer，Still had better give him leave some time to play，Besides so managed class is more expensive，Count down a month have to 23000 yuan，For us this kind of ordinary families could chew。

　　我们后来又去实地考察了几个家庭托管班，感觉相当糟糕。我在那些暑托班里看到，托管老师基本上很少管孩子，孩子大部分时间不是上网就是看电视。

We then to field investigated several family trust class，Feel very bad。I am in the class who has seen，Hosting the teacher basically rarely tube children，Most of the time the child is not the Internet is watching TV。

　　其实，我最担心的还是孩子的适应问题，我们家的孩子性格比较内向，和陌生小朋友相处时总是很抵触。之前了解到的一些发生在暑托班的伤害案例都是学生之间发生的冲突，我比较害怕孩子在暑托班里会受欺负。

In fact，I am most worried about the child or the adjustment problems，We children's personality is introverted，Get along with other children and strange was always very inconsistent。To know before some occurred in summer heat and Joe class damage cases are students between the conflict，I am more afraid of children in the class "will be humiliate。

　　最后，我们选择了小区里的一家暑托班，管理者是一位山西的退休小学校长，退休之后就随子女来了北京。这个班级招收的都是小区内的孩子，有好几个还是我家孩子的同班同学。因为我在医院工作，经常要上夜班，回来晚的时候，她也能帮着多照看一下。虽然条件没法和那些专业的暑托班比，但是接送方便，价格便宜，关键是交给邻居看更安心一点。

finally，We chose the community a summer heat and Joe class，Management is a shanxi retired primary school principals，After he retired with children came to Beijing。For this class is inside the village children，There are several or my children's classmate。Because I work in a hospital，Often on the night shift，Come back late，She can also help to many look after。Although conditions can't and those professional summer heat and Joe than class，But transportation convenient，cheap，The key is to the neighbor see a bit more at ease。

　　去年夏天，我们小区里的几个家长一起办了一个暑托互助小组，几个家长轮流照看孩子，这样虽然省心，但是每个家长的时间没法很好地衔接，经常会出现无人看管的空档，所以只能不了了之。

Last summer，We the community together a few parents do a summer heat and Joe group，Several parents take turns to look after the child，So although save worry，But every parents time can't well cohesion，Often appear unwatched gap，So can conclude without concrete result。

　　总之，当前选择的暑托班和我们最初的设想是有落差的，即便是这样，我们也必须选择，这是我们双职工家庭的无奈之举。

In a word，The currently selected the holder class and our initial idea is a head of，Even if is such，We also have to choose，This is our working couple family with trepidation。

　　(来源:中国教育报)

(Source: China education report)