8月22日下午4点，宁化县湖村镇城门村，79岁的陈显海戴着斗笠，冒雨在田间放牛。“他有一个瘫痪卧床的儿子，10多年都是靠他照料，真不容易呀!”村民赖守玉对笔者感慨地说。

August 22 at four in the afternoon，NingHuaXian lake village village gate，The 79 - year - old ChenXianHai wearing a hat，In the rain to pasture in the field。“He has a paralyzed in bed son，More than 10 years by his care，Really don't easy!”LaiShouYu villagers to the author regrets ground say。

　　陈显海曾经拥有一个美满的家庭，虽然生活并不宽裕，但老伴持家有方，儿女勤劳孝顺，随着儿女们相继成家生子，儿孙满堂的陈显海更令乡邻羡慕。

ChenXianHai once have a happy family，Although the life is not well，But his wife housekeeping square，Industrious filial children，Children with a half-rural one after another，The sons of ChenXianHai more to admire his neighbour。

　　然而，厄运不期而至。1991年年底，陈显海的儿子陈抗兴不时觉得双膝阵阵刺痛，到医院检查，结果是“类风湿关节炎”。“当时为了给我治病，家里能卖的东西都卖了，最后姐姐、妹妹将出嫁时收取的礼金都拿给我治病。”陈抗兴说。

however，Bad luck when。By the end of 1991，The son of ChenXianHai ChenKangXing from time to time think knees the sting，To the hospital the examination，The result is“Rheumatoid arthritis”。“At that time in order to give me cure，Home can sell things are sold，Finally the elder sister、Sister will marry the gift collection when show me cure。”ChenKangXing said。

　　但陈抗兴的病情并没有好转，1996年年底，他就卧床不起了。随后，妻子撇下他和年仅4岁的儿子离家出走。

But ChenKangXing condition and no better，By the end of 1996，He is staying in bed。then，His wife left him and the four-year-old son ran away from home。

　　从此，陈显海每天要给儿子陈抗兴喂饭、擦洗、翻身；还要照顾年幼的孙子；还得下地干农活，撑起一家生计。

From now on，Every day ChenXianHai to his son ChenKangXing feed rice、scrub、Keel over；Also take care of the young grandson；The earth have to do farm work any more，Hold up a livelihood。

　　“头几年，真难。”陈显海很是无奈，但他要咬紧牙关坚持着。

“Head a few years，It's hard to。”ChenXianHai is very helpless，But he to grit your teeth and persistence。

　　长期瘫痪在床，陈抗兴有时会伤心、发脾气。“看见儿子伤心，我既生气又心疼。心里实在憋闷时，就出去转转，有时偷着擦干眼泪，回屋后还得笑脸对着儿子。”在陈显海的精心照料下，15年来，陈抗兴没有生过褥疮，居住的小屋也没有异味。

Long-term paralyzed in bed，ChenKangXing sometimes sad、temper。“See son sad，I am angry and love dearly。When the heart is oppressed，A walk，Sometimes steal dry the tears，Back to the museum have to smile to the son。”In ChenXianHai under the care，15 years，ChenKangXing no gave birth to bedsore，Living hut also without peculiar smell。

　　陈显海在山坡上还种了些地瓜，加工成地瓜粉，拿到集镇上去卖。积攒些钱，他全用于给儿子买药或买点肉补身子，“不怕你们笑话，我买的猪肉都是槽头肉，就图个便宜”。在当地政府帮助下，如今陈家3人每月可领到360元的低保金，但陈显海还是想撑着多干点活，就为了让儿子过得更好一些。

ChenXianHai on the hillside also planted some sweet potato，Processed into sweet potato powder，Go up to town to sell。Save some money，He used to buy medicine all son or buy some meat for the body，“Not afraid you joke，I bought pork is slotted head meat，Will map a cheap”。In the local government help，Now the three people can receive 360 yuan a month of low gold，But ChenXianHai still want to stay up to work more live，Just to let the son had better。

　　陈显海说：“10多年照料儿子，要说没烦过，那是瞎话。但照顾他是我的责任，没什么可抱怨的，只要还有一口气在，就会一直照料他。”让陈显海欣慰的是，一家人都参加了新农合，儿子的医疗费用能报销一部分，孙子今年20岁了，也能帮上家里不少忙，他坚信日子终究会慢慢好起来的。(东南网-福建日报 罗旺水 罗鸣 张忠诚）

ChenXianHai said：“More than 10 years take care of son，Say didn't be vexed after，That is a lie。But take care of him is my responsibility，There is nothing to complain about，As long as there is one breath left within，Will always care of him。”Let ChenXianHai are pleased，The family were involved in the new agriculture together，Son's medical expenses can submit an expense account part，This year the son of 20 years old，Can also help home a lot of busy，He believes that day will finally better。(Southeast of the net - fujian daily LuoWang water LuoMing ZhangZhongCheng）