记者石伟 实习生苏莹 裴蓓蓓

Reporter ShiWei interns SuYing PeiBeiBei

　　三九天脱光儿子的衣服，任由三四岁的小伢在雪地玩雪；三伏天带儿子到山区“夏令营”，每天让儿子“暴晒”两小时；儿子高烧40℃，拒绝看医生，坚持“自然痊愈”。为了让儿子的成长免受世俗限制，还给孩子取名“图非”，甚至口头上把孩子喊作“土匪”……

SanJiuTian strip off the son's clothes，Allow three or four years old Ya small in the snow to play with snow；Dog days take my son to the mountains“Summer camp”，Let the son every day“exposure”Two hours；Son high fever 40 ℃，Refused to see a doctor，Adhere to the“Spontaneous recovery”。In order to let the son growth from secular limit，Back to child named“Figure not”，Even the children shouted for oral“bandits”……

　　华中科技大学哲学系的老师姚国华，因为一系列“野蛮”的育儿方法，被网友称为“虎爸”。前天，姚国华和妻子黄子明带着儿子在成都“夏令营”了一个半月后回家，说起外界给出的“虎爸”称呼，姚国华坚称自己不是虎爸，是被人误解。

Central China university of science and technology philosophy teacher YaoGuoHua，Because a series of“savage”Educational method，Be net friend called“Tiger dad”。The day before yesterday，YaoGuoHua and his wife HuangZiMing took his son in chengdu“Summer camp”A half moon home after，Speaking of the outside world given“Tiger dad”call，YaoGuoHua insists he is not tiger dad，Is to be misunderstood by others。

冬天让儿子“裸体”爬山 Winter let the son“naked”Mountain climbing

　　立秋之后天气转凉。前天下午，记者穿着T恤走在华中科大的校园里，明显感觉到秋意凉凉。在校内宿舍区，记者向一位婆婆询问姚国华的家，婆婆说：“姓姚的？是不是对孩子很野蛮的那一家？”

After the beginning of autumn weather turns cool。The day before yesterday afternoon，Reporter was wearing a T-shirt walking in the campus of the university of central China，Obviously feel of autumn cool。In the school dormitory area，Reporters from a mother-in-law asked YaoGuoHua home，She said：“Name yao's？For children is very brutal that a？”

　　被姚国华接上楼后，一眼看到他的儿子、4岁半的姚图非正席地坐在客厅玩拼图。瘦瘦的小伢只穿着一件背心，见到来人主动抬头问好。问他只穿背心冷不冷、地上凉不凉，他腼腆地摇头。

YaoGuoHua connected by walking up stairs，Look at his son、4 1/2 yao diagram is not sitting on the ground to play jigsaw puzzle。Thin little Ya dressed only in a vest，See bearer active looked up to say hello。Ask him to wear vest cold not cold、The ground not cool cool，He sheepishly shook his head。

　　其实在家属区，姚国华一家早已是“名人”了：大冬天带着两三岁的儿子爬山，一边爬一边把儿子衣服脱掉，登顶时孩子被脱得精光。附近锻炼的教职工家属忍不住提醒别冻坏孩子，他却坚持如初。

In fact in the relational area，YaoGuoHua a is already“celebrity”the：DaDongTian with two or three year old son mountain climbing，Climbs the son side clothes，When the top children they had stripped completely。The faculty of exercise near families could not help but remind don't frozen bad children，He insist。

　　这套在外人看起来“野蛮”的教育方式，完全从一次偶然开始。在姚图非1岁左右的冬天，姚国华抱着他在阳台晒太阳，发现孩子很享受手脚露在寒风中的感觉，就试着一件一件脱掉孩子的衣服，孩子一点不怕冷，反而欢快地甩胳膊。

This stranger seems in“savage”Education mode of，Completely from a accidental start。In yao diagram than 1 s winter，YaoGuoHua embrace him in the balcony in the sun，Discover the child enjoy the feeling of hand and foot dew in the cold wind，Try a a take off their clothes，Children not in the cold，But bright left arm。

　　姚国华一直对“里三层外三层把小孩包起来养”的做法很不赞同，发现儿子不怕冷之后，他开始对儿子“野蛮”起来，并且一发而不可收。

YaoGuoHua has been to“Three layer in the three layers of the children wrapped up to raise”Practice is not agree with，Find son not afraid after cold，He began to son“savage”up，And become a process without stop。

“疯狂”爸爸 “crazy”dad

烈日下每天暴晒两小时 The sun insolates two hours every day

　　冬天会训练孩子的耐寒能力，夏天训练的则是耐暑能力。

Winter will train the child's cold resistant ability，The summer training is the resistance ability。

　　姚国华说，今年暑假在成都的一段时间，每天都会带着儿子在太阳下“暴晒”两小时。住的地方附近有一段山坡，常和儿子一起爬山。爬的过程中，儿子几次耍赖不想爬，姚国华连哄带骗把儿子‘推’了上去，一次也没有抱他。

YaoGuoHua said，This year summer vacation in chengdu period of time，Every day in the sun with a son“exposure”Two hours。Living in the vicinity of a have a hillside，Often together with the son mountain climbing。Climb in the process of the，Son several times play to depend on don't want to climb，YaoGuoHua even with her son to cheat‘push’up，A no holding him。

　　为特训儿子，一家三口到海螺沟长途远足。早上六七点骑车出发，路上遭遇大雨，衣服全部淋湿，小图非上吐下泻，但远足没有停止。中午火热的太阳出来，父子俩在太阳下锻炼。晚上气温骤降，姚国华和妻子黄子明加上毛衣，把儿子裹在怀里，结果小家伙从姚国华怀里挣扎出来，穿着单衣自己一边玩去。

Specially for the son，A family of three to HaiLuoGou long hiking。Based on LiuQiDian morning ride a bike，Road suffered heavy rains，Clothes are all wet，Insets not vomiting and diarrhea，But hiking didn't stop。The hot sun out at noon，The father and his son in the sun exercise。The evening air temperature pelter，YaoGuoHua and his wife HuangZiMing plus sweater，The son wrapped in her arms，The results from YaoGuoHua struggled out little arms，Wear garment of single layer his side to play。

“蛮干”爸爸 “foolhardy”dad

儿子高烧40℃却“拒绝治疗” Son a fever but 40 ℃“Refused to treat”

　　“4年多来，我儿子几乎没打过针，也没吃过药。”姚国华坚决反对生病之后就吃药、打针。2008年，不到半岁的姚图非发烧，初为父母的姚国华和妻子黄子明焦急地把儿子抱进医院。经诊断只是一般性感冒。松了一口气的姚国华，却对着医生开出的大堆药品犯愁起来。

“Four years，My son almost have no dozen over the needle，Also didn't eat medicine。”YaoGuoHua firmly opposed after sick take medicine、injections。In 2008,，Less than half years old yao diagram the fever，The parents' YaoGuoHua and his wife HuangZiMing anxiously holding the son into hospital。The diagnosis is the common cold。The YaoGuoHua breathed a sigh of relief，Yet on the doctor a lot of drug worry up。

　　“药品说明书显示，这种药没有三个月以下儿童使用情况的资料，而且大部分是抗生素类的药品。”几番犹豫之后，夫妻俩商量不给孩子服药，让孩子通过自身免疫能力与病症抗争。紧张观察了两天后，孩子自愈了。

“A written description of the drug display，The drug has no children under three months of the use of material，And the most antibiotic medicines。”How many times after hesitation，A couple to consult don't give children take medicine，Let the children through the autoimmune disease ability and struggle。Nervous observed two days later，The children from the。

　　这坚定了两人“远离药品”的决心。儿子两岁时被诊断为“疑似手足口病”，两人照旧把孩子抱回家，在家静养，几天后居然又痊愈了。

This firm for two people“Away from drugs”determination。Son two years old diagnosed“Suspected of hand, foot and mouth disease”，Two people as the baby home，Rest at home，After a few days again incredibly well。

　　“抗病就像是过关，抗过一次，抗病能力就强大一点，越往后我们越有信心。”类似的经验让他们胆子“越来越大”。去年，3岁的姚图非高烧40℃，还连续烧了三天，一直没去医院。因为担心是脑膜炎，两人抱着儿子去检查之后，排除了危险的可能，姚国华依旧在病历上写下“拒绝治疗”，抱着儿子回家。一天后孩子又一次痊愈。

“Resistance is like a pass，Resistance to a，Resistance is a more powerful，The more we back the more confident。”Similar experience let them courage“Is more and more big”。Last year，3 years old yao diagram is not a fever of 40 ℃，Also continuous burn for three days，Hasn't been to the hospital。Because of worry is meningitis，Two people to embrace a son to check later，Ruled out the possibility of danger，YaoGuoHua still write in medical records“Refused to treat”，To embrace a son home。A day after the child and a recovery。

揭秘“虎爸” revelation“Tiger dad”

暗地做功课钻研育儿经 Secret do his homework by studying parenting

　　在外人看来，这些教育方法纯属蛮干，姚国华却说自己做了不少功课。他是做哲学研究的，为了让自己的教育方式科学化，一旦儿子出现什么问题，他都要在网上查找各种病症诊断、医疗常识、人体科学方面的专业知识，还会向认识的医界朋友求证。

From outsider's point of view，These education method is foolhardy，YaoGuoHua saying he did a lot of homework。He is doing philosophy research，In order to make his own education scientific way，Once the son appear what problem，He will be in the Internet to find all kinds of disease diagnosis、Medical knowledge、The human body science professional knowledge，Also to know those friends verification。

　　他说，他的原则是“能自然康复就绝不吃药，能吃药康复就绝不打针”。“我大哥小时候打针出了意外，我自己打抗生素之后晕倒，从此我对抗生素很抗拒。”他说，在网上查找专业的医疗资料之后，得知一般的感冒都会自然痊愈，才敢看着儿子感冒还扛着。

He said，His principle is“Can natural rehabilitation will never take the medicine，Can take medicine rehabilitation shall by no means an injection”。“When I was a child I eldest brother injection had an accident，I myself after antibiotic faint，From now on I'm very resistant to antibiotics。”He said，The Internet to find professional medical material later，That the common cold will spontaneous recovery，Will dare to look at son cold also carried。

　　“老一辈认为小孩子经常在冰寒的环境里，长大后会患风湿病。日本的小孩大冬天都是光着腿在雪地里上下学，但他们长大之后并没有多少人患风湿。很多东西并不是大部分人那么说就是对的。”姚国华说，根据自己查找的资料，目前风湿病是否与光着腿在寒冷的环境生活有必然关系，并且专门找了日本朋友询问，发现日本的风湿比例也不是人们想当然的那样高。

“Older generation think that young children often in the cold environment，Will grow up to suffer from rheumatism。Japan's child DaDongTian are bare legs in the snow ShangXiaXue，But they grow up and not many people suffer from rheumatism。A lot of things and not most people say that is right。”YaoGuoHua said，According to their own search data，At present rheumatism whether with bare legs in the cold environment life is inevitable relationship，And especially found a Japanese friend asked，Found that Japan's rheumatism proportion also is not people take it for granted that high。

　　作为妻子和妈妈，黄子明表示支持丈夫的做法：在医院排除严重病情之后，坚持拒绝打针、吃药。

As a wife and mother，HuangZiMing voiced support for the practice of her husband：Out in the hospital after serious illness，To refuse to give or take an injection、Take medicine。

对话“虎爸” dialogue“Tiger dad”

“其实外界误解了我” “In fact the outside misunderstood me”

　　姚国华认为，外界对自己的育儿方式理解片面化了，看到自己冬天脱光儿子的衣服，就定义为“虎爸”，其实是对自己的误解。他并没有预先想出一套既定方案，去强求孩子接受，一切都是让儿子自主选择，在他的兴趣基础上给予帮助。

YaoGuoHua think，Outside of their parenting style understand the one-sided，To see their son off the clothes in winter，Is defined as“Tiger dad”，In fact is to oneself of misunderstanding。He did not advance to come up with a given set scheme，To save children to accept，Everything is let the son choose independently，In his interest to give help based on。

　　“网上有视频，一个家长为了训练儿子，把小孩扒光丢在雪地里，小孩哭喊着追爸爸，这是有问题的。”同样是耐寒训练，姚国华认为自己的方式比较科学，让孩子哭喊着在雪地里求助则是蛮干。他说，自己的耐寒、耐暑训练，是在发现儿子不怕冷之后开始，儿子也没有觉得痛苦，完全是独自在玩。一旦觉得冷，就可以立即穿衣服。

“Online video，A parent for training son，The child steak light lost in the snow，The child crying after dad，This is a problem。”The same is hardy training，YaoGuoHua think their own way more scientific，Let the child crying in the snow for help is foolhardy。He said，Own hardy、Heat resistance training，Is in the discovery after son not afraid of cold start，Son also not feel pain，Is completely alone in play。Once the cold，Can immediately to wear clothes。

　　“人对大自然冷热的适应是一种本能，对音乐的喜好也是一种本能，需要从最小开始，一步一步跟着适应，喜欢就享受，不喜欢就可以放弃。突然把他扔到雪地里，突然塞给他一架钢琴，强迫他去忍耐，太急功近利。”他说，自己非常反感家长给孩子的一些“强迫训练”。

“People adapt to cold and heat of nature is a kind of instinct，The be fond of of music is a kind of instinct，Need to start from the minimum，Step by step to follow，Like to enjoy，Don't like it, you can give up。Suddenly he threw it into the snow，Suddenly plug gave him a piano，Forced him to patience，So get rich quick。”He said，His parents give children so pissed-off some“Force training”。

　　姚国华不愿意把自己跟其他网络上红起来的“虎爸”归为一类，“没有办法强求外人都理解我。误解就误解吧，我会思考并坚持自己的理念和方式。”

YaoGuoHua don't want to compare yourself with other network the red up“Tiger dad”Categorized as a kind of，“There is no way to demand a stranger all understand me。Misunderstanding will misunderstand it，I'll think and insist on his own idea and the way。”

　　针对华科“虎爸”的育儿方式，湖北省妇幼儿童保健科医生杨勤以“需谨慎，不鼓励”表达看法。

According to huake“Tiger dad”Child-rearing methods of，Hubei maternal and child health care practitioner in children YangQin“Should be cautious and，Don't encourage”Express their views。

　　“根据冬夏气温的变化，可以适当调整自己的适应能力，但不能极端化。”杨勤认为，对于幼儿需要合理的呵护，里三层外三层的呵护过度不可取，但也不能完全走向另一个极端。她说，幼儿的体质不能跟大人相比，并且各自情况都不一样，严重过冷过热都会出现问题，虽然少数幼儿通过适应训练，可以达到在冰天雪地行走不怕冷的效果，但大部分幼儿做不到，如果模仿可能会出问题，家长需要谨慎行事。

“According to the change of winter and summer temperatures，Can adjust their adaptability，But can't ~。”YangQin think，For young children need reasonable care，Three layer in the three layers of excessive care not desirable，But it cannot completely go to the other extreme。She said，Children's constitution to cannot be compared with adults，And each situation is different，Serious overheating too cold will appear problem，Although a few children through the adaptive training，In a world of ice and snow can achieve the effect of walk not afraid of cold，But most of the children can't do，If imitation may be out of the question，Parents need to proceed with caution。

　　“生病了最好还是送医院检查，单凭自己观察来确定孩子的病情，风险比较大。”杨勤说，对家长来说，很难单从表面症状去看清病情，幼儿的身体比大人脆弱多了，一旦小发烧、小感冒背后有脑膜炎等其他情况，耽误了治疗时间，后果非常可惜。武汉晨报

“Ill still had better send hospital inspection，Single by observation to determine the child's illness，Risk is bigger。”YangQin said，For parents,，It is difficult to single from surface symptoms to see the illness，The body of children much more fragile than adults，Once the small fever、Small cold behind have meningitis, and other conditions，Delayed the treatment time，Result very pity。Wuhan morning