记者注意到，这3套标准都提到要将保护学生生命安全放在首位，教师要尊重学生人格，不讽刺、挖苦、歧视、体罚或变相体罚学生。同时，在小学教师专业标准中，还明确要求教师了解对小学生进行青春期和性健康教育的知识和方法。

Reporter noticed,The three sets of standard are mentioned will protect students' life safety in the first place,Teachers should respect students personality,Don't irony/sarcasm/discrimination/The corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised forms students.At the same time,In elementary school teachers' professional standard,There were clear requests the teacher to understand pupils as adolescence and sexual health education knowledge and method.

　　近年来，学生安全事故频发，“幼儿性教育”及“学校安全”成为公众关注热点，国家此次出台教师专业标准意味着对相关问题的重视。记者在采访了多位老师、家长及教育专家后了解到，虽然社会上对“性教育”及“学生安全”的重要性有普遍共识，但在具体操作执行上仍然存在不少问题。

In recent years,Students' safety incidents,"Infant sex education"and"The school security"Become a public concern hot spot,Countries on the teachers' professional standard means to the attention of the relevant problems.Reporter in the quizzed the teacher/Parents and education experts to understand after,Although the society to"Sex education"and"Students' safety"The importance of the common understanding,But in the concrete operation on execution still exists many problems.

关键词：性教育 keywords:Sex education

学生面对侵犯伤害 Students in the face of the infringement of damage

小学教师要懂应对 Elementary school teachers should understand to deal with

　　近年来，“教师猥亵女童”事件时有发生，这让“幼儿性教育”及“幼儿性安全”问题备受公众关注。

In recent years,"The teacher obscene girl"incidents,It makes"Infant sex education"and"Infant sex safety"Problems have been public concern.

　　此次教育部发布的《小学教师专业标准（试行）》中明确规定：“小学教师要了解对小学生进行青春期和性教育的知识和方法，了解小学生安全防护的知识，掌握针对小学生可能出现的各种侵犯与伤害行为的预防与应对方法。”

The ministry of education issued[Elementary school teachers' professional standards(trial)]Explicitly stipulated in the:"Primary school teacher to understand to pupils as adolescence and sexual education knowledge and method,Understand pupil safety knowledge,Master in primary school students may appear all kinds of infringement and damage behavior of the prevention and way to deal with."

　　这一规定表明国家对幼儿性教育问题的日益重视。而在采访过程中，记者发现，大多数家长和老师对此都有着普遍的共识，但对于如何实施性教育仍存有忧虑。

The provisions of the state that child sex education problem getting attention.And in the interview process,Reporter discovery,Most parents and teachers to have common consensus,But for how to carry out the sex education there is still worry.

家长：孩子青春期提前 需要懂得性知识 parents:Children need to understand early puberty sexual knowledge

　　家住鸿福路的杨女士告诉记者，她的女儿五年级时第一次来了“例假”，但是因为缺乏相关知识，不知道这是正常的生理现象，杨女士的女儿以为自己生了病，独自着急了好几天后,才向杨女士“求助”。

Live in great luck or blessing road ms Yang told reporters,Her daughter five grade first came to"Official holiday",But because of the lack of knowledge,Don't know this is normal physiology phenomenon,Ms. Xiuzhu daughter thought he was ill,Alone try so hard for several days,Just XiangYang lady"For help".

　　杨女士说：“现在生活条件好了，孩子吃得很有营养，青春期比起我们那时候提前了好几年，很多女孩儿五六年级时就来了“例假”，但因为缺乏性知识，不知道怎么处理和保养。”杨女士认为，对小学高年级的孩子进行简单的性教育很有必要。“尤其对于女孩儿来说更加重要，不然受到性侵犯自己都不明白。”

Ms. Xiuzhu said:"Now living conditions well,Children eat very nutritious,Adolescence compared to us that the time for several years in advance,Many girls at level five or six years came"Official holiday",But because of the absence of sex knowledge,Don't know how to handle and maintain."Ms. Xiuzhu think,The elementary school senior children simple sexual education is necessary."Especially for the girl is more important,Otherwise by sexual assault you don't understand."

　　莞城的商先生对此也表示赞同，但对于如何开展性教育，商先生觉得“是个难题”：“我儿子上小学六年级，有时他会问我人体构造、男女之别一类的问题，我们家长只知道基本的生理健康知识，也不知道如何用合适的方法跟他解释。”

Guan city Mr Shang have also agreed,But for how to develop sex education,Quotient sir think"Is a difficult problem":"My son elementary school sixth grade,Sometimes he would ask me the human body structure/The men and women don't sort of problem,We parents only know the basic physiological health knowledge,Also don't know how to use the right methods with his explanation."

　　商先生认为，如果由学校老师将相关知识教给他们，会更有专业性，也能更好地引导孩子。

Quotient sir think,If the school the teacher will teach them knowledge,Will have even more professional,Also can better guide the child.

老师：性教育很重要 但不知该如何教 The teacher:Sex education is very important but didn't know how to teach

　　在采访过程中，几乎所有的小学教师都认为对小学高年级的学生传授简单的性知识很重要，不少老师称：“青春期的孩子在生理上会有不小的变化，这会导致他们的心理和情绪产生波动，恰当的性教育无论对孩子的身体健康还是心理状态都有好处。”

In the interview process,Almost all of the primary school teachers all think that the elementary school senior students teach simple sexual knowledge is very important,Many teachers say:"Adolescence children in physiological and will have a lot of change,This will lead to their psychological and emotional produce fluctuation,Appropriate sex education for both the child's health or mental state is good."

　　然而记者了解到，目前东莞大多数小学并未开设有关性教育的课程。

But the reporter understands,At present the dongguan most primary school did not open about sex education curriculum.

　　望牛墩育林小学校长周国明告诉记者，该校设置有“科学课”，但讲授的主要是人、动物、自然等内容，并未涉及到男女生理知识。

Hope cattle pier cultivation primary school principals nelson chow told reporters,The school has set up"Science class",But the main is taught/animals/Content such as natural,Did not involves men and women physiological knowledge.

　　宏远外国语学校的老师也表示，学校给小学高年级的学生设置有心理辅导课，但并不讲授青春期性知识。

Tigers foreign language school teacher also said,The school to the elementary school higher grades of students with mental set tutorial,But does not teach puberty sexual knowledge.

　　不少学校的老师都反映，虽然大家都已意识到性教育的重要，但由于小学教师缺乏性教育的专业培训，国家也没有这方面的统一教材，所以“不知道该怎么教”。

Many school teachers are reflected,Although everyone has realized that sex education important,But as a result of primary school teacher absence of sex education professional training,Countries also have this aspect of unified teaching materials,so"Don't know how to teach".

关键词：体罚 keywords:Corporal punishment

不得讽刺挖苦体罚学生 Not sarcasm the corporal punishment student

　　上述3套标准中都明确规定，教师应尊重学生人格，维护学生合法权益，平等对待每一位学生，不讽刺、挖苦、歧视学生，不体罚或变相体罚学生。而在采访过程中，对于教育方式的问题，家长和老师们意见不一。

The above three sets of standard of specific provision,Teachers should respect students personality,Protect students' legal rights,Equal treatment to every student,Don't irony/sarcasm/Discrimination students,Not the corporal punishment or the corporal punishment student in disguised form.And in the interview process,For the problem of education way,Parents and teachers have different opinions.

赞：靠“动手”管学生的老师无能 praise:by"begin"Pipe the student's teacher can

　　不少家长认为，无论孩子犯了什么错，都不应该用体罚的方式处理。

Many parents think,No matter what the children make wrong,Should use corporal punishment ways of dealing with.

　　“小孩子肯定是有这样那样的毛病的，如果都听话了就不需要老师教了。”一位吴姓家长说，“学生不听话，教师应该多沟通、多讲道理，随意动手或者采取语言暴力都会对孩子身体和心灵产生伤害。”

"Children must be have this or that kind of wrong,If all obedient and don't need the teacher taught."A WuXing parents say,"Students not obedient,Teachers should communicate/More reasonable,Optional hands or take language violence will be to the child body and mind damage."

　　东华幼儿园的何老师认为，作为教师，首要的条件就是要有爱心、有耐心。“学生犯错了，不能简单粗暴地对待，要动脑筋找到合适的、有效的教育方式，要靠动手来让孩子听话的老师是无能的、不合格的。”

Donghua kindergarten teacher to think how,As a teacher,The first condition is to have love/Have patience."The students made a mistake,Not simple mishandled,Thinking to find the right/Effective education mode,Want to rely on begin to let the child obey teacher is incompetent/unqualified."

　　据何老师透露，在东莞很多学校，老师体罚学生或侮辱学生，造成恶劣影响的都会被严惩甚至开除。

According to what the teacher said,In the dongguan many schools,The teacher the corporal punishment student or insult students,Cause bad influence will be severely punished even fire.

弹：无强制措施管不住“淘气包” bomb:No compulsory measures not tube"trouble"

　　采访过程中，也有一小部分家长认为，老师在必要的时候对学生进行类似罚站、斥责等教育方式是可以允许的。

interview,There is also a small part of their parents think that,The teacher when necessary for students in similar make stand as punishment/Rebuke and education mode can be allowed.

　　“我家小孩本来就皮，爱生事，在家里我们自己都管不住，‘武力解决’才会收敛点，如果学校老师不能打不能骂，那他得翻了天了。”一位杨姓家长称。

"My child was skin,Love make trouble,At home we have not tube,‘Of military force to solve’Will convergence point,If the school the teacher can't play can't scold,That he had to turn the days."A 28-year-old parents say.

　　部分老师也表示，如果遇到“淘气包”型学生，确实会很头疼。“有的家长送孩子过来的时候会叮嘱我们，说要是孩子不听话就尽管打、尽管骂，一定要我们帮忙治治坏毛病，这也让我们很为难。”东华幼儿园的一位老师称。

Part of the teachers also said,If meet"trouble"Type students,Really will be very headache."Some parents send children over time will be told us,Said if the child not obedient though dozen/Although scold,Must we help cure bad habit,This also let us very embarrassed."Donghua kindergarten a teacher says.

　　采访中有老师反映，虽然不会进行体罚，但教学过程中还是会采取短时间罚站等方式让学生认识错误。“如果一点强制措施都没有，很难管住调皮的学生。”

Interview have teacher reflect,Although not corporal punishment,But the teaching process will take short time make stand as punishment, etc to let the students know error."If a compulsory measures are not,It is difficult to control naughty students."

专家：学生犯错 先“冷处理”再“热关心” experts:Students make mistakes first"Cold treatment"then"Hot concern"

　　资深教育工作者、幼儿教育专家何芳认为，体罚、言语挖苦学生都是不尊重孩子人格的体现，会伤害孩子的自尊心，也会影响孩子的自信心，对孩子的成长很不利。

Senior education workers/Preschool education experts HeFang think,Corporal punishment/Speech sarcasm students are not respect the child personality reflect,Will hurt the child's self-esteem,Also can affect a child's confidence,To a child's growth is very adverse.

　　“对于特别淘气的孩子，如果简单粗暴地对待，很容易激发他们产生逆反心理，所以遇到这类学生一定要有耐心，要分析学生犯错的原因，根据学生的个性、特点采取合适的教育方式。”

"For special naughty children,If simple mishandled,Very easy to arouse their produce negative mentality,So meet this kind of student must have the patience,To analysis the reason of students make mistakes,According to students' individual character/Characteristics to adopt suitable education mode."

　　何芳建议，老师在遇到屡教不改的学生时，可以尝试先“冷处理”、再“热关心”的方式。“孩子犯错后，先给他讲明道理，他不听的话，在一定时间内‘冷漠’地对待他，让他自己意识到他的行为不被周围人认同；等他意识到错误所在后，再给予关心和引导。”（记者喻莉萍）

HeFang Suggestions,The teacher in the student met often teach not to change,Can try first"Cold treatment"/then"Hot concern"way."After a child makes a mistake,Give him to stipulate truth,He didn't hear,In a certain time‘apathy’To him,Let he realized that his behavior will not be around identity;He realized that after fault,Then give care and guidance."(Reporter YuLiPing)

　　（广州日报 喻莉萍）

(Guangzhou daily YuLiPing)