乐乐（化名），6周岁8个月，今年9月份刚上城北一所小学的一年级，到上周五，连头带尾才上了2周的学。

lele(alias),6 years old eight months,In September this year just north on a primary school in the first grade,To last Friday,Even the head to tail on the 2 weeks to learn.

　　因为爷爷忘了时间，没去学校接，乐乐花了近一个小时，自己走回了在北大桥附近的家。

Because grandpa forgot about the time,Didn't go to school after,Lele took nearly an hour,Them to go back to the north bridge near the house.

　　这件事被乐乐妈陈女士（化名）贴到了杭州本地论坛里，引来了网友大讨论，到昨天，阅读量达到了5万次。

It was lele mother ms. Chen(alias)Stick to the hangzhou local in the BBS,Drew net friend big discussion,Yesterday to,Reading quantity achieved 50000 times.

　　看似简单的小事，为什么会有这么大的社会反响？

The seemingly simple things,Why is there such a big social repercussions?

乐乐：一路跟着穿校服的哥哥，还劝“抽烟的爷爷”把烟丢掉 lele:Follow all wear uniforms brother,Also advised"Smoking grandpa"The smoke away

　　9月14日下午，乐乐站在校门口等了将近半个小时，也没等到爷爷，“不想再回学校打扰老师”，他决定走回家。

On September 14th,Lele stood waiting at the school gate for nearly half an hour,Don't wait until grandpa,"Don't want to go back to school to bother the teacher",He decided to walk home.

　　凭着印象，乐乐出发了。从学校到小区，沿着一条主干道直走，大约2公里多的路程，车流量大，路上有七八个红绿灯，还有一个工地在施工，乐乐到家的时候灰头土脸的。

With impression,Lele set out.From the school to the community,Go straight along a main road,About 2 kilometers away,Big traffic,The road have traffic lights,There is a site in the construction,Lele got home of the door.

　　在路上还发生不少插曲。“路上我碰到了一个老爷爷，他跟我一起在那里等人，他一直抽烟，我就跟他说不要抽烟，那个老爷爷让我不要挡着他抽烟，我就继续说吸烟有害健康，时间长了你的肺就变黑了，然后你就会死……结果老爷爷就把烟扔了！”

In the road also took place many episodes."The way I met a grandpa,He is with me in there, etc,He had been smoking,I told him not to smoke,The grandpa let me don't stop him smoking,I will continue to say smoking is harmful to health,A long time your lungs will be darkened,Then you'll die……Results grandpa took the smoke away!"

　　乐乐说，他知道“绝对不闯红灯，否则有生命危险！”，因此走路的时候很小心，他走在一群中学生的旁边，“哥哥都是穿校服的，不会有事的。”

Lele said,He knew"Absolute don't rush at a red light,Otherwise, have life risk!",So when you walk very carefully,He walked on a group of high school students in the side,"My brother is wearing school uniforms,Won't have a."

　　这是乐乐第一次自己放学走回家，整整走了近一小时。没有不知所措，没有害怕危险，回到家还安慰起妈妈：“这是每个小学生都要经历的事情，妈妈你不用担心。”

This is the first time lele his walk home from school,Go for nearly an hour.Not at a loss,No fear of danger,Back to home also comfort the mother:"This is every primary school pupils to experience things,Mother that you don't have to worry about."

网友：有时候孩子并没有我们想象中的弱 Net friend:Sometimes children and no we imagined weak

　　帖子亮相之后，引来很多网友的关注，更多的是家长。当然，意见也是有分歧的。绝大部分网友都持肯定态度，认为乐乐的表现值得表扬。“聪丫头88”竖起大拇指说：“孩子很独立，自我保护意识也很强，值得表扬。”

Post after the appearance,Draws the attention of many users,More is parents.Of course,Opinion is divided.Most of the people held a positive attitude,Think lele performance is worth praising."Chung girl 88"Puts his thumb up and says:"Children are independent,Ego to protect consciousness is very strong,commendable."

　　这事同时引起了大家的反思。

It also caused everybody's reflection.

　　“碧血兔”说：“其实现在的孩子远没有大人们认为的那么弱，大人们是不是应该反思一下，自己在孩子独立方面是否给予了培养，或是否太溺爱孩子了。如果想孩子将来有竞争力，就应该适时地放手，并加以引导。现在回想小时候，父母忙于生计，我们不就这么过来的吗？”

"Loyal rabbit"said:"In fact now children far from the adults think so weak,If the adults should reflect on,His children in independent would give the training,Or if too dote on children.If you want to children in the future competitive,Should be timely to let go,And guidance.Now looking back when I was a child,Parents are busy living,We don't so come over?"

妈妈：教给孩子生存能力，才是最重要的 mother:Teach your child survival ability,Is the most important

　　昨天，记者联系上了陈女士，她表示有点后怕。“孩子安全到家，我觉得这并不是一件坏事，就当锻炼一下；但是万一没有安全到家呢？很多事情无法想象。”

yesterday,Contact reporters on the ms. Chen,She said a little fear."The child safety home,I think this is not a bad thing,When the exercise;But one thousand without a safe home??A lot of things can't imagine."

　　因为对应试教育持反对态度，陈女士都没有刻意教乐乐提前学习。但是，一直以来孩子都很自信：“我想教育在于生活中的细节，孩子听进去了就会自己应用。”平时生活中，遇事时提醒一下孩子，久而久之，孩子自己就学会了。

Because of exam-oriented education disapprove,Ms. Chen are not trying to teach lele advance learning.but,Since children are very confident:"I think education is life in details,Children listen to in will be his application."Peacetime life,When something has taken place making him remind children,As time passes,Your child learns to.

　　陈女士本来准备在乐乐上二年级开始让孩子独立上下学。为了乐乐读书，陈女士一家租房子到学校附近，公交车和路程都是她测算过的，控制在锻炼孩子的安全范围之内。

Ms. Chen was ready to lele on the second grade began to let the child ShangXiaXue independence.In order to lele reading,Ms. Chen a rent a house near the school,The bus and distance is she the measure,Exercise control in children's safety scope.

　　没想到，因此这次的意外，这样的独立提早了一年。“我觉得，和学习成绩比起来，教给孩子生存能力，才是最重要的。”

Didn't expect,So this accident,Such independent early for a year."I think,And learning achievement than up,Teach your child survival ability,Is the most important."

　　面对这次的事情，陈女士也吸取了教训，她决定告诉乐乐两点：一是遇事及时和老师联系，不要怕麻烦；二是给孩子身上放一些零钱，遇事可以与家长联系。

In the face of this thing,Ms. Chen also learned a lesson,She decided to tell lele two points:He is a timely and contacted the teacher,Don't be frightened by this trouble;The second is to give children put some change,When anything crops up to contact parents.