吕娜的母亲看到女儿的获奖证书就打开了话匣子 实习记者 马捷文 LvNa mother saw her award certificate reserve open practice reporter MaJieWen 都出在2号楼3单元，年龄基本在27到30岁 All out in the tower 2, 3 unit,Age basic in 27 to 30 years old

　　

一个单元出了这么多高材生，家长有啥高招呢？ A unit made so many gifted student,Parents have what silver bullet??

　　一次偶然聊天，西安城北太华路社区主任发现了“隐藏”在家属院一个单元里的“秘密”：2个博士、6个硕士和6个本科生，集中在同一个单元里。居民听后开玩笑说，啥时让我们也住进去，沾沾喜气儿！

A chance to chat,Xian north too China road community director found"hidden"Family members' hospital in a unit of the"secret":Dr. 2/6 a master's and six undergraduates,Focus on the same unit.People listen to joked,What let we also live in,Time to be happy!

　　

居民羡慕 Residents envy

　　

“啥时也让我们搬进去，沾沾‘状元’喜气儿” "What also let us moving in,be‘champions’Xi time"

　　“我们小区每年都有‘放卫星’的，考上清华北大很平常。”啤酒厂家属院的杨孝斌，说的“放卫星”就是子女考上大学，提起这事，他总是一脸自豪。

"Our village every year‘FangWeiXing’of,Admitted to tsinghua Beijing university is very common."Family members' hospital YangXiaoBin of beer,said"FangWeiXing"Is children admitted to university,Mentioned it,He is always a face of pride.

　　“小区有人上哈佛了。”“好事呀！我们单元也出了不少‘高材生"。今年4月，太华路社区主任唐雪荣和居民程润德闲聊，俩人掰指头一算，还真是，2号楼3单元18户竟出了不少博士和硕士，都差不多大。

"Village someone on the harvard.""Good ah!We unit also out of many‘Gifted student".In April this year,So China road community director TangXueRong and residents ChengRunDe chatting,Two people snapping fingers a calculate,is,Tower 2, 3 unit 18 families have out a lot of doctor and master's,Are as large.

　　随后，她多方走访，逐户询问，整理出了一份本单元的“状元名单”。“有的租房，不在这住了，一个个打听到的。”她提供的名单显示：2个博士，6个硕士，6个学士，出自同一单元，年龄基本在27岁到30岁。

then,She visited many,Ask what,Sorting out a copy of this unit"Top list"."Some renting a house,Not lived this,Each one to talk."She provide a list of display:Dr. 2,6 a master's,6 a bachelor's,From the same unit,Age basic in 27 to 30 years old.

　　“啥？咱小区还有个‘状元单元’？”小区居民听后开玩笑说，“啥时也让我们搬进去，沾沾‘状元’的喜气儿。”

"what?I still have a village‘Top unit’?"Community residents after listening to joked,"What also let us moving in,be‘champions’Time or."

　　自那以后，“状元单元”的说法就在小区里传开了。

Since then,"Top unit"That is in the community spread.

　　

家长分享 Parents share

　　

培养孩子独立意识和兴趣，在重大选择上，不强制干涉 Cultivate children to independent consciousness and interest,In the major choice,Don't forced interference

　　“一个单元能出这么多‘高材生’，家长有啥‘教育秘方’？”昨日上午10点，带着疑问，记者走进了5楼吕保山家。他女儿吕娜在上海交大读博士，明年毕业。“说实话，让女儿读博，我也担心她找对象是否顺利，但我更愿意让她走自己的路。”吕保山说，从小他就注重培养女儿的独立意识。他说，女儿3岁时，让她去隔壁房子取东西，可她怕黑不敢去，他拍了几下女儿屁股。“事后想想，打她不对，可此后，她敢一个人睡了。”往后，在女儿高考、选专业等大事上，他只提建议，很少强加意愿。“培养独立意识，就为让她有独立判断和选择的能力。”

"A unit can make so many‘Gifted student’,Parents have what‘Education secret recipe’?"Yesterday morning 10 o 'clock,With doubt,The reporter walks into the fifth floor lu baoshan home.His daughter LvNa in Shanghai jiaotong university dr. Read,Going to graduate next year."To tell you the truth,Let daughter read bo,I also worried about her find object is smooth,But I'm more than willing to let her go his own way."Lu baoshan said,From childhood he pays much attention to the training of her daughter's independent consciousness.He said,3 years old daughter,Let her go to the next house take things,But she afraid of the dark dare not go,He took a few her ass."Later think,Hit her not,But since then,She dare a person sleep."back,In the daughter college entrance examination/To choose major, etc on the event,He only advice,Rarely impose intend to."Cultivate independent consciousness,For let her have independent judgment and choice of ability."

　　研究生毕业，女儿想读博，吕保山心里纠结：社会上流传女博士对象不好找，敢继续上吗？“听导师说她的专业方向不错，她下月也要结婚了。”他没告诉女儿自己的担忧，现在看来担忧是多余的。

graduate,Daughter wants to read bo,Lu baoshan heart ravel:Circulate socially female doctor object not seek,Dare to continue it on?"Listen to teacher said her professional direction good,She will get married next month."He didn't tell her daughter your own worries,Now it seems worry is unnecessary.

　　孙廷朴的儿子孙诚，在清华大学工商管理学院读研。“他上学一帆风顺，我常让他按自己的兴趣来，选学校、选专业我很少干涉。”他说，孙诚上中学时，基本没有督促过他。“他还有上博的打算。”说起儿子的未来，他信心满满。

The son of SunTingPiao SunCheng,The college of business administration in tsinghua university to go to graduate school."He go to school plain sailing,I often let him according to your interest,To choose the school/Choose professional I seldom interference."He said,SunCheng in high school,Basic did not supervise and urge him."He still has the intention of bo."Speaking of son's future,He is full of confidence.

　　记者采访5位家长发现，在子女教育方面，他们有个共识：培养孩子独立意识和兴趣，在重大选择上，家长不强制干涉。

Reporters found that five parents,In children education aspects,They have a consensus:Cultivate children to independent consciousness and interest,In the major choice,Parents don't forced interference.

　　

“状元”说法 "champions"statement

　　“我们小区环境很单纯，父母见面经常说孩子考学的事，听到谁考上好学校了，我心里也暗暗较劲儿：要努力”“啊？出了这么多人才啊。”还在上海上学的吕娜，听说住了十几年的单元楼，是个“状元单元”，惊诧了几秒，又说，算一算，还真是，真想邻居们。

"We community environment is simple,Parents often say children meet KaoXue things,Hear who admitted to a good school,My heart is JiaoJinEr secretly:Try to""ah?Out of so many talents ah."Also in Shanghai LvNa to go to school,Heard that lives for more than ten years of ChanYuanLou,Is a"Top unit",Surprised a few seconds,said,calculate,is,Really want to the neighbors.

　　“邻居叔叔阿姨都是啤酒厂职工，在一起交流，总爱提孩子上学的事。”吕娜回忆，上大学之前，一直住在家里，单元里没有“闲人”，很安静。“隔壁的璐璐姐，大我1岁，给了我不少帮助，高考那年，他们全家到我家来，指导我填志愿。”她前几天听家人说，“璐璐姐”怀孕了，“很开心，下月回西安，一定要去看她。”

"Neighbor uncle aunt are brewery worker,Communicate with the,Love always ask the children to school."LvNa memories,Before college,Has been living at home,Unit there is no"idler",Very quiet."Next door of life of elder sister,1 year old self,Give me a lot of help,Year college entrance examination,Their family come to my house,Guidance I fill volunteer."Her family said a few days ago to listen to,"Kill the elder sister"pregnant,"Very happy,Back to xi 'an next month,Must go to see her."

　　“璐璐姐”就是5楼西户的冯璐，在西安建大读完博士后，留校任教。“我们小区环境很单纯，父母见面经常说孩子考学的事，听到谁又考上好学校了，我心里也暗暗较劲儿：要努力。”吕娜说。“孩子上学就是要‘静’，这个院子很安静，单元里没‘闲人’，孩子在一起不容易走偏路学坏。”原汉斯啤酒厂领导刘笑予说。

"Kill the elder sister"Is the fifth floor of the west door FengLu,In xian kenda read postdoctoral,teaches."We community environment is simple,Parents often say children meet KaoXue things,Hear who admitted to a good school,My heart is JiaoJinEr secretly:Try to."LvNa said."The child is to go to school‘static’,The yard was quiet,Unit didn't‘idler’,Children together to get partial road that which is evil."The original Hans brewery leadership LiuXiaoYu said.

　　

社区推广 Community promotion

　　

邻里节时，让“状元单元”的家长介绍经验 Neighborhood quarter,let"Top unit"Parents introduce experience

　　太华路社区唐主任说，今年5月，她曾要求3个“状元单元”的学生家长交流教子经验，都谈出了自己的看法。10月，社区将举办邻里节，届时将邀请“状元单元”家长和小区其他居民分享经验。

So China road community tang said,In may this year,She ever asked three"Top unit"The students parents exchange godson experience,All talk about out of their views.October,The community will hold the neighborhood section,At the appointed time will be invited"Top unit"Parents and community other residents Shared experience.

　　“我们小区有600多户，有些家长不会教育孩子，但小区风气很好，家长对孩子考大学、上名校有认同感。”他说，以后每年的邻里节，都会把“子女教育”作为固定内容延续下来。

"Our village has more than 600 households,Some parents won't education child,But village atmosphere is very good,The parents to the child take an examination of university/School on a sense of identity."He said,A year after the neighborhood section,will"Children education"As a fixed content continue down.

　　

专家解读 Experts read

　　

属亚群体文化，形成了相互促进、相互激励的氛围 Belong to the group culture,Formed to promote each other/The atmosphere of mutual encouragement

　　“这是一种亚群体文化。”西安财经学院心理学教授、博士李望舒说，亚群体指的是没有具体组织，但拥有相同价值观、兴趣爱好的群体。同一栋楼多个孩子考上名校，他们之间应该是有一定联系的。亚群体文化形成了相互促进、相互激励的氛围，有利于共同进步。“去年重庆某大学一女生宿舍8人都考上名校研究生，这两种情况有相似之处。”她说。

"This is a kind of the group culture."Xian institute of finance and economics professor of psychology/LiWangShu said dr,The group refers to no particular organization,But with the same values/Interest groups.The same building more children enter school,Between them should be have some relations.The group culture formed to promote each other/The atmosphere of mutual encouragement,To make progress together."One university of chongqing last year a girl's dormitory 8 people admitted to graduate school,These two kinds of situation is similar."She said.

　　“现在的独生子女比较孤单，亚群体文化对独生子女的学习成长起到促进的作用。”李教授说，多个孩子考上名校给小区起到了榜样示范的作用，值得其他的小区学习。(记者王磊实习生刘佩)

"Now the only child is lonely,The group culture on the singleton female learning growth plays a promoting role."Professor li said,More children enter school district to play a model demonstration role,Worth other community learning.(Reporter wang lei LiuPei interns)