钟艳和小朋友在一起

ZhongYan and children together

钟艳写给家长的信

ZhongYan letter to parents

　　迪迪一边大喊"要开飞机喽"，一边伸出圆滚滚的胳膊，从小床上铺扑进钟艳怀里。　　这个4岁的小女孩自今年9月幼儿园开学后，早就习惯了午休后这样起床。她已经非常信任钟艳了，无论是学会叠被子或是和小朋友吵架，总会第一时间呼唤"钟老师"。

Didi side Shouting"Want to open the plane after ather",Side stretch out round arms,From childhood on the bed and flies into ZhongYan bosom.The 4 years old girl from September this year after the start of the kindergarten,Have long been accustomed to it after lunch break this up.She has very ZhongYan the trust,Either learn to fold the quilt or and children quarrel,Always call the first time"Clock teacher".

　　不过，小女孩并不知道，自己曾在老师和妈妈之间传递过一个秘密，而妈妈则向互联网公布了这个秘密：钟老师会对家长的礼物说不。

but,The little girl did not know,He had in the teacher and between mother had delivered a secret,But mother is published to the Internet is the secret:Bell the teacher will be a parent's gift said no.

　　刚刚过去的教师节一早，钟艳像往常一样在上海爱绿幼儿园门口迎接小朋友。迪迪来得有点迟，送她的外公特意拍了拍她粉红色的小书包，叮嘱钟艳："孩子和她妈妈给老师们准备了贺卡，您一定要收下。"

Just the past teachers' day early in the morning,ZhongYan as usual in Shanghai love green at the door of the kindergarten children meet.Didi was a bit late,Send her grandpa have patted her pink small bag,Told ZhongYan:"The child and her mother to teachers prepared greeting card,You must accept it."

　　钟艳一下子就听出来，"老人家话里有话"。在安顿好孩子们之后，她打开迪迪的书包，找到3个黄色的信封。在给班级3位老师的贺卡内，都夹着超市购物卡。

ZhongYan was listening to come out,"HuaLiYouHua old man".In settle good children later,She opened the didi bag,Find three yellow envelope.In class three teachers in the CARDS,All came out of the supermarket loyalty card.

　　事实上，从教6年、曾在3个幼儿园做过老师的钟艳经常面对这样的场景。她稍微思考了一下，很快作出处理决定：利用上午空余时间给迪迪妈妈写一封信，并让搭班的两位老师共同签字，归还购物卡。

In fact,6 years teaching/Once in the three kindergarten did the teacher's ZhongYan often face such a scene.She slightly thinking once,Soon decision to deal with it:Use spare time in the morning to didier mother writing a letter,And let the two teachers DaBan jointly sign,Return loyalty card.

　　在钟艳看来，迪迪是转学生，家长想让她多照顾一些这可以理解。由于和迪迪妈妈还并不熟悉，所以直接退还礼物显得生硬，更可能引起家长的误会，"是不是嫌少？"、"是不是侮辱了老师？"她觉得，"亲笔信"是最真诚的方式。

In ZhongYan seems,Didier is a transfer student,Parents want her to take care of some this can understand.Because and didi mother is not familiar with,So direct return gift appear as stiff as a poker,More likely to cause parents a misunderstanding,"Isn't too few?"/"The teacher is an insult?"She felt,"holograph"Is the most sincere way.

　　趴在办公桌上，钟艳一笔一画地写道："收到您们和孩子精心制作的贺卡，我们很开心……但里面的购物卡我们不能收。"她特意写上了"我们"，因为"班级是一个整体"。

Desk on,ZhongYan a sum of a painting to wrote:"Receive you and the children elaborate greeting card,We are very happy……But the inside of the loyalty card we can't accept."She have written"we",because"The class is a whole".

　　这封后来被迪迪妈妈贴到网上的信，字迹非常工整，看不到一丝涂改的痕迹。"因为都是心里话"，钟艳一气呵成。她又找到另外两位老师，请她们也签下了名字。

This letter was later didi mother posted online letter,Handwriting is very neat,See a trace of alter."For they are my mind",ZhongYan one.And she found two other teachers,Please they also signed name.

　　"从我毕业那天开始，我就发誓要做一个好老师，这些年我也一直在坚持。"28岁的钟艳表示自己这6年来从未收过家长的任何礼物。从前大部分礼品她会当面谢绝，后来感觉到其他老师的不满，她只好用"兜圈子"的方式，先收下，再偷偷"写封信"归还。

"I graduated from that day on,I'll swear to do a good teacher,Over the years I have been in the insist on."At the age of 28 ZhongYan said he this 6 years have never received any gifts parents.Once upon a time most gift she will face to face decline,Then feel the other teacher's dissatisfaction,She had to use"In circles"way,First take,Then secretly"Write a letter"return.

　　其实，钟艳很早便意识到自己是个异类。有的同事让她收下礼物，"管他的"。有的同事劝她："你做的事没错，但现实就是这样，你一个人站出来一点好处也没有。"甚至有同事不满她耽误了大家的"福利"，背着她狠狠抱怨。

In fact,ZhongYan early then realized I was a different species.Some colleagues let her take gifts,"Tube his".Some colleagues advised her:"You do that's right,But the reality is so,You one step forward is not at all good."Even with a colleague has she delayed everybody"welfare",Carry her rip complain.

　　尽管钟艳不相信"世上没有一处纯洁的地方"，但她还是时常感觉到孤独。她从不参与"说闲话"，因为"那不是我的语言"。有人劝她奉承欣赏她的领导，她会直接拒绝，虽然"这种风就此刹住"，却也得罪了同事。

Although ZhongYan don't believe"There is no one place pure place",But she still often feel lonely.She never participate in"talk",because"That's not my language".Somebody advised her to flatter appreciate her leadership,She will direct refused,although"The wind in this put on the brakes",But also have sinned against colleagues.

　　有一次，一位搭班的保育员故意为难她，把本该自己承担的搬椅子的工作交给小朋友去做。钟艳担心孩子们会受伤，便独力完成。"别人可以转身就走，但我丢不下。"她说。

once,A DaBan of nurse deliberately embarrassed her,Should the pay themselves move the chair job to children to do.ZhongYan worry that their children will get hurt,Will finish on."Others can turn round and then walk,But I lost not."She said.

　　即便在工作之外，钟艳也会让自己"多承担一些"。在爱绿幼儿园为单身女职工提供的租屋内，她是名副其实的"楼长"，总是主动打扫卫生，还把水电费用为大家算得清清楚楚。民办幼儿园教师流动性大，宿舍楼上楼下经常人数不一致。为了均摊房租，"谁也不觉得吃亏"，她就经常换着住，抱着被子上下穿梭。

Even in the outside of work,ZhongYan also can let oneself"Bear greater".In love green kindergarten for single female worker provide rent the house,She is worthy of the name"everywhere",Always active cleaning,The water and electricity fee is clear for everyone.Private kindergarten teachers liquidity big,The dormitory building downstairs number often inconsistent.In order to capitation rent,"Who also don't feel cheated",She often change to live,Holding the quilt up and down the shuttle.

　　只有了解钟艳真实情况的同事才知道，她不是不缺钱。母亲患有癌症，上大学又欠了几万元债，这个从农村走出来的姑娘没让自己奢侈过一次。除了公摊费用，在上海浦东工作生活的她每月只花两三百元。一般每月10日发工资，11日她就准备钱还账。

Only know ZhongYan true circumstance of colleagues to know,She is not lack of money.Mother had suffered from cancer,The university and owed the tens of thousands of yuan debt,This from the countryside to come out of the girl didn't let oneself luxury once.In addition to the male booth fee,In the Shanghai pudong work life she only spend a month 2300 yuan.General monthly 10 pay,11 she is ready to shell out the money.

　　在同事们看来，钟艳是一棵名副其实的"杂草"，貌不惊人，生命力却很顽强。她从不化妆，也很少买新衣服。"猛一看小钟，其貌不扬，她需要人去细品。"曾经的一位领导这样形容她。

Colleagues in looks,ZhongYan is a tree worthy of the name"weeds",MaoBuJingRen,Life force is very strong.She never make up,Also seldom buy new clothes."Fierce a look small bell,ugly,She needs to fine product."Once a leadership that describe her.

作为80后，"杂草"钟艳一点儿也不"潮"。她从不关心"时尚"，对"八卦"更是完全不感兴趣。业余时间，她读书、写文章、关注时事政治。早在上大学的时候，她便是班上连年的一等奖学金获得者。　　"虽然我条件差，但我可以靠自己的双手去创造，内心充实而有意义。"当被问及为何不收下家长的礼品改善生活时，钟艳表示。

As an after 80,"weeds"ZhongYan doesn't"tide".She never care about"fashion",to"gossip"Is is not interested in.Spare time,She read/Writing articles/Concern current political.As early as in university,She is in a class of scholarship winners."Although I condition is poor,But I can rely on their own hands to create,The heart full and meaningful."When asked why not take parents' gift to improve life,ZhongYan said.

　　不过从不接受礼物的钟艳也会"送礼"。对大学时告诫自己"当一天老师，就要负责到底"的恩师，她曾组织全班同学"翘课"悼念老师的父亲，逢年过节，她从没忘记打一通电话，发一个短信。

But never accept gifts ZhongYan will also"gifts".For college told myself"When one day the teacher,Will be responsible for the"'s teacher,She had organization the whole class"To skip class"Mourn for the teacher's father,holiday,She never forget a telephone call,Send a message.

　　当汶川特大地震发生时，这个省吃俭用的姑娘立即捐出一个月的生活费。在开幼教研讨会时遇到最新的儿童玩具和教具，她也会自费给孩子们买回来。

When wenchuan earthquake occurs,The pinch and scrape girl immediately donated a month's living expenses.In the open international conference on preschool education in the latest toy for children and AIDS,She also will be at one's own expense to the children buy back.

　　"我必须让爸爸妈妈们明白，即使不送礼物，我也会真心对待孩子们。"教师节的下午，钟艳把准备好的信件和退还的购物卡放进迪迪的书包里。

"I must let parents understand,Even if not gifts,I will also true to the children."Teacher's day afternoon,The prepared ZhongYan letters and returned loyalty card into the didi bag.

　　这封信感动了迪迪的妈妈，这位女士将扫描件贴到网上，"想让大家知道身边真的有这样的老师"。虽然，这个母亲曾顾虑有人将此当成一种炒作，"但既然是真实发生的，在这样的风气下，我们就需要对这样的老师们给予掌声和支持。"

This letter touched didi's mother,The lady will scan a posted online,"Want to let everybody know side there really is such a teacher".although,The mother had some concerns this as a hype,"But now that is actually happened,In such a climate next,We need to such teachers give applause and support."

　　钟艳起初对此一无所知。直到被副园长叫到办公室，她才知道，自己在网上"出名了"。

ZhongYan at first don't know anything about it.Until it is vice kinzley is called to the office,She didn't know,Himself in the online"famous".

　　她的一位前任园长将这条在网上转发上万条的新闻发到了"园长交流群"里，赞扬钟艳的讨论一下子"开了锅"。不过，在这位了解她的园长看来，这就是钟艳会做的事，再平常不过了。

One of her former the principal will this article in the online forward article of the news to the hair"Calls communication group of"in,Praise ZhongYan discussion at one fell swoop"Opened pot".but,In the understanding of the principal she looks,This is ZhongYan will do,Even more commonplace.

　　在这位园长眼里，钟艳朴实、勤奋、爱着班上的每一个孩子。她回忆，钟艳会特别留意班里调皮的孩子，还会给性格自闭的孩子更多关照，几乎每天都是幼儿园走得最晚、来得最早的老师。而这位园长此前收到的所有针对钟艳的家长评价，无一不是好评。

In the eyes of the principal,ZhongYan guileless/diligence/Love every one of the children in the class.She recalled,ZhongYan will be particularly pay attention to class naughty children,Also can give disposition autistic children more attention,Almost every day is kindergarten go the most late/Come the first teacher.The principal and the previously received for all ZhongYan parents evaluation,Notting have is not praise.

　　钟艳说起自己带的第一班小朋友，还能脱口说出他们的名字和样貌。她把孩子们从托班带到大班，整整4年。毕业典礼上，她还针对每个孩子的特点发表了一篇演讲。

ZhongYan about his first class with children,Still can blurted out their names and appearance.She put the children from class to class ",Exactly four years.The graduation ceremony,She also according to the characteristics of each child delivered a speech.

　　站在舞台上，灯光照着钟艳的脸。她始终微笑着，祝福孩子们"珍重未来"。而对她自己来说，"所有的心酸都在心里"——拿着微薄的薪水，付出巨大的努力。有时，她会躺在床上，在夜幕的笼罩中问自己，"这条路选对了吗？"

Stood on the stage,Light as ZhongYan face.She always smiles,Bless the children"Take good care future".And for herself,"All the sadness in mind"-- with a low salary,To make great efforts.sometimes,She will lie on the bed,In the shadow of night in ask yourself,"The road to choose?"

　　孩子们的反应是给钟老师最好的答案。班上的一个女孩长得瘦小，钟艳总是亲手给她喂饭。有一次，小女孩认真地睁大眼睛对她说："钟老师，等你老了我也给你喂饭，还给你买大轮椅！"还有一个小男孩直接对她表白："钟老师，你会结婚吗？等我长大了，我们就结婚吧！"

The children's response is to bell the teacher the best answer.Class a girl grow thin,ZhongYan always hand to her hello rice.once,The little girl seriously zheng big eyes said to her:"Clock teacher,Wait till you get old and I give you feed the rice,Back to you to buy big wheelchair!"There is a little boy directly to her profession:"Clock teacher,Will you get married??When I grow up,We'll go get married!"

　　而转学还不满一个月的迪迪如今已经对钟艳非常依恋。有时候她正在玩儿游戏，会突然想到钟老师，跑过来亲她一口。

And transfer is less than a month now didier to ZhongYan very attachment.Sometimes she is playing the game,Will suddenly think of clock teacher,Run to come over to kiss her one mouthful.

　　"有一天，当你走上讲台面对那一张张稚气天真的笑脸时，你会拿什么去给那些可爱的孩子。"大二时，钟艳在一篇散文中写道。她让孩子们带一本好书来上幼儿园，学会"分享"。也会在某个孩子打不还手时鼓励他，学会"宽容"。中班的孩子有时会撒小谎，钟艳会直接拆穿，教他们学会"诚实"。有同事悄悄跟她打招呼，"某个小朋友是教育局领导介绍过来的"，她只会笑笑，"这和我有什么关系？"

"One day,When you up onto the platform in the face of that one of the juveniles naive when smiling face,You will take what to give those lovely child."sophomore,In an essay ZhongYan wrote.She lets her children with a good book to kindergarten,Learn to"share".In a dozen don't strike back child when encouraged him,Learn to"tolerance".Middle shift children sometimes fib,ZhongYan will directly reveal,Teach them to"honest".A colleague has quietly greeted her,"A friend is bureau of education leadership and introduced",She could only smile,"This and I have what relation?"

　　在钟艳看来，家长们不论富贵贫穷，都应该得到公平的对待。她有时甚至会"偏心"条件差一点的或是转学区过来的孩子。

In ZhongYan seems,Parents regardless of wealth and poverty,All should be treated with justice.She sometimes"eccentric"Conditions almost or transfer area over the child.

　　当看到有些幼儿园老师因为家长不送礼物而让孩子挨打、挨饿时，钟艳会直接表达她的愤怒。"这样的人根本不适合留在教育岗位上。"她说，"只有自己做到一个‘人’字，才有资格去陪伴小朋友长大成人。"

When I saw some kindergarten teacher because parents not to send gifts and let the children take a beating/When starving,ZhongYan will direct expression of her anger."Such people do not suitable for stay in education post."She said,"Only yourself to do a‘people’word,Only then has the qualifications to accompany children grow up."

　　1984年农历8月15日是钟艳的生日，这一天也是公历9月10日，中国第一个教师节。钟艳有时会感慨，"这可能就是一种注定"。工作后的每年生日，她最开心的事便是收到小朋友亲手绘制的贺卡，上面画着小花小草小圆圈，还有钟老师带着小朋友，"这就足够了"。

In 1984 the lunar August 15, is ZhongYan birthday,This day is also Gregorian calendar September 10,,China's first teacher's day.ZhongYan sometimes regrets,"This may be a doomed".After work every year birthday,She is the most happy thing is received with children drawing CARDS,The picture of the grass floret small circle,And clock teacher with children,"It is enough".

　　为了教孩子们好好学习英语，钟艳自称是火星人，"只有学好英语才能和钟老师到火星上去，和火星小朋友一起玩儿。"当被孩子们问到火星上有什么时，她形容那里有一座美丽的幼儿园，里面开满花朵，老师带着小朋友一起快乐地做游戏。

In order to teach the children to learn English,ZhongYan claims to be the martians,"Only learn English well and to the teacher to Mars,And Mars children play together."When the children asked what's on Mars,She describe where there is a beautiful kindergarten,It open with flowers,The teacher together with the kids happy to do the game.

　　"每个人都在默默做事，不用送礼，不用奉承领导。"那也是钟艳自己的梦想，拥有一所属于自己的幼儿园，每个孩子、每个家长都得到真诚、公平、友善的对待。

"Everyone was silent work,Don't give gifts,Don't flatter leadership."It is ZhongYan his dream,Has a to belong to own kindergarten,Every child/Every parents get sincerely/fair/Friendly with.

　　曾经有亲戚给这个姑娘介绍对象，因为不想别人分担自己的经济重担，钟艳都拒绝了。她心里非常清楚，要改善自己的生活状况，还要奋斗很多年。但她不愿意走任何捷径，更不愿接受物质帮助。在她心里，"做老师不在于技能有多高，品格才是第一位的。"

Once had relatives to the girl introduction object,Because don't want others to share their own economic burden,ZhongYan refused.She was very clear,To improve their living conditions,To struggle for many years.But she didn't want to go any shortcuts,Less willing to accept material helps.In her heart,"Being a teacher is not how high skills,Character is the first."

　　钟艳曾对家长们说，正因为孩子小不懂事，才不能把"送礼"这种负面行为放进他们的小书包。但对于和自己一同签字的同事，她心里充满了愧疚和担忧。"她们被我拖进了这场风波里，我希望新的新闻出来，很快覆盖掉旧的，让我们的生活恢复正常。"（记者 秦珍子）

ZhongYan had told the parents said,Because of the child small doesn't know any better,Just can't"gifts"This kind of negative behavior in their small bag.But for and his signature with colleagues,She was filled with guilt and worry."They are I dragged into the storm in,I hope the new news out,Soon cover off the old,Let our life returned to normal."(Reporter QinZhenZi)