“开学一个月毁6年教育观”追踪 "Opening a month destroyed six years education"tracking

　　“开学一月摧毁6年教育观”，“我花6年把女儿培养成‘最好的自己’开学一个月便把这一切摧毁，6年后，我将收获一个怎样的孩子？”近日，一位家长的天问式自述文章（本报10月11日B05版曾报道），在微博上引发热议“你担心孩子被学校教坏吗？”其中控诉的一条“学校整齐划一的要求摧垮个性化教育”引发网友共鸣。

"Destroy the January 6 years in education","I spend six years training into his daughter‘Your best’Opening a month gave it all destroyed,Six years later,I will reap a how children?"recently,A parents' love type readme articles(This newspaper on October 11 B05 edition has been reported),In micro blog trigger hot debate"You worry about the children be school bad?"The accused of a"The school uniform requirements destroy individualized education"Cause net friend resonance.

　　而在上海，有家长的爆料更为惊人：有老师规定小学生每天上厕所不得超过三次，孩子只好借上厕所的机会玩抽水马桶。

And in Shanghai,Parents had more amazing support:Have the students every day the teacher made it a rule to go to the toilet must not exceed 3 times,The children had to borrow the toilet opportunities to play toilet bowl.

小学要求买统一牌子的水笔 Elementary school for unified brand of pen

　　吴瑜（化名）的女儿，是上海一所小学五年级学生。今年开学，老师规定全班学生必须用某一品牌的可擦拭水笔写作业，原因是那种水笔擦后一点痕迹都看不出，作业看着干净整洁。

WuYu(alias)daughter,Shanghai is a primary school year 5 students.The start of this year,The teacher made it a rule to the class must use a brand can wipe pen write operation,The reason is that pen brush after not a trace of them can't see,Homework looked at clean and tidy.

　　“这个品牌的水笔一支20多元，一根笔芯10多元，又贵又难买。”吴瑜说，她偶尔一次在网上买过，发现擦得不干净，跑断腿才在位于上海南京西路的专柜买到。

"This brand of pen a 20 multivariate,A piece of cartridge 10 multivariate,And expensive and difficult to buy."WuYu said,Occasionally she once had bought on the net,Found not wipe clean,Run it in leg located in Shanghai nanjing west road of the shop to buy.

　　在她看来，如此“整齐划一”是人为给家长制造麻烦。

In her eyes,so"uniform"As to the parents make trouble.

　　除了统一的水笔，老师还要求学生在课本上贴上名字贴。吴瑜之前买的黏性不牢，女儿说被老师批评了。后来，她特地挑选质量好、彩色的名字贴，又被老师判为“不合格”。吴瑜叹气说，老师规定名字贴必须是白色的、统一的大小尺寸、一定要贴在固定的位置。

In addition to unified pen,The teacher also asked the students on textbooks on name stick.WuYu buy before the sticky rickety,Daughter said to be the teacher criticized.later,She specially selected are of good quality/Color name stick,Was the teacher found for"The unqualified".WuYu sigh said,The teacher made it a rule to stick name must be white/Uniform size/Must be posted in a fixed position.

　　此后，吴瑜“乖”了，严格执行老师的要求。 “有些话还有道理，如对作业格式的要求，回答问题时坐姿的规定，可有些规定确实过于死板，也不够人性化，影响了孩子创造性。”吴女士说。

Since then,WuYu"good"the,Strict implementation of the requirements of the teacher. "Some words and truth,As for homework format requirements,Answer the questions in the provisions of the sitting position,But some provisions do too rigid,Also not enough human,Influence the child creative."Ms wu said.

限制上厕所导致孩子玩马桶 Limit the toilet closestool in children play

　　小男孩Alex（化名）今年刚上一年级，他说自己对新校园没什么好感，“老师管得太严，下课除了上厕所，不准走出教室。一天上厕所，还不准超过3次”。

The little boy Alex(alias)This year just were in grade one last year,He said his new campus on a ociatio,"The teacher is in charge of too strict,Class is over in addition to go to the toilet,Not walk out of the classroom.One day the toilet,Still no more than three times".

　　“老师说我们调皮，容易发生意外。听说一至四年级下课都不可以离开教室。”Alex说，一下课他们只能在教室里“大闹天宫”。

"The teacher said we are naughty,Easy accident.Heard that one to grade four class is over all may not to leave the classroom."Alex said,A class is over them only in the classroom"Make welkin".

　　Alex的奶奶对学校规定有些不满：“我现在每天接他回家后不敢逼着他先做功课，在学校里关了一整天，只能先放到小区里让他玩会。男孩子呀，总让他坐在教室里不难受啊？没地方玩，他就借着上厕所的机会玩抽水马桶，结果几个男孩子一起玩，一个个子矮的，都一脚踩到马桶里去了。”

Alex grandmother to regulation of the school some dissatisfaction:"I meet him every day now home can't force him to do his homework,In school all day off,Can only be put in the community will let him play.Boys ah,Always let him sitting in the classroom not bad ah?No place to play,He will take up the toilet opportunities to play toilet bowl,Results some boys to play together,A short,Have a foot to the inside of the toilet went to."

　　Alex的奶奶说，老师对文具的规定也是无比的细致，H铅笔6支、比4A纸大一点的垫板两块，连橡皮的品牌也规定。

Alex grandmother said,The teacher to stationery provisions are also very meticulous,H pencil with 6/More than 4 a paper a larger plate two block,Even the rubber brand have rules.

一年级学生三分钟要完成百道口算题 A first-year student three minutes to complete the crossing computational problem

　　许静（化名）一直坚持“顺其自然、快乐学习”的育儿理念，儿子进入上海某名校前几乎是“一张白纸”。

Xu jing(alias)Has been insisting"Let nature take its course/Happy learning"Educational concept,Son into the Shanghai some school is almost before"A blank sheet".

　　一学期后，许静坐不住了，暑假里，她找来二年级的教材给儿子预习。

After a semester,Xu sit not to live,In the summer,She found two grade materials for son preview.

　　“上小学前，我认为孩子纯真很重要，上小学后，老师根本不允许你有等待的时间。现实告诉我，这些都不重要，速度最重要。”许静十分困惑，一年级开学一个月后，儿子所在的小学要求孩子3分钟内完成100道口算题，于是孩子们开始每天100题的“魔鬼训练”，暑假也没空闲过。

"Elementary school before,I think children pure is very important,Elementary school after,The teacher doesn't allow you to have waiting time.Reality told me,These are not important,Speed is the most important."Xu jing is very confused,A grade school after a month,The son of elementary school children for three minutes finished 100 crossing computational problem,So the children began to every 100 problem"The devil training",Summer also didn't have free.

　　“每个孩子入学前的程度不一样，为什么要用最好学生的标准来要求每一个孩子？”在许静看来，老师拔高速度和难度，给孩子造成很大压力，导致孩子一碰到计时口算题，急得浑身发抖。

"Each child before admission rate is different,Why want to use the best students standard for every child?"In xu jing seems,The teacher high speed and difficulty,Give children caused great pressure,Cause the child to have touched the timing mouth computational problem,Urgent shaking and trembling.

　　许静说，儿子最爱自然、美术和信息课，但他全部的精力都放在语数外等科目上。

Xu jing said,Son favorite natural/Art and information class,But all his energy on the language of the number of subjects, etc.

　　不少家长还反映，小学生学写字，开始写得东扭西歪很正常，但一些老师不能容忍，不是怪小孩笨，就是埋怨家长不负责任，家长说，孩子的手指在这个阶段，还没有完全成熟。

Many parents also reflect,Pupils learn to write,Began to write east torsional west slanting is very normal,But some teachers can't tolerate,Not blame kids stupid,Is to blame parents irresponsible,Parents say,The child's finger at this stage,Is still not fully mature.

　　许静希望老师多给家长和孩子一些时间，毕竟习惯的养成需要一个过程。

Xu jing hope the teacher give parents and children some time,After all habits need a process.

部分家长无奈选择国际学校 Some parents but choose international school

　　“听了一些已经上小学的孩子的家长讲各种严格的规定，感觉很多体制内的学校对孩子个性的扼杀让我难以接受，可能会考虑让Anna去民办学校的国际部学习。”家住上海徐汇区的一名大班女孩的妈妈接受采访时说。

"Listened to some have elementary school children of parents speak all kinds of strict rules,Feeling a lot of system inside the school to the child personality stifle let me hard to accept,May consider let Anna to private school international department study."Shanghai xuhui district in a class the girl's mother an interview.

　　由于女儿明年就要上小学，一直奉行快乐教育、自由发展的妈妈非常担心女儿无法适应体制内一些学校死板、严格的规定。几个月前，她就开始四处打听，首先了解徐汇区有没有体制内的 “快乐小学”；其次，了解附近民办学校的国际部情况。

Since my daughter going to primary school next year,Pursues happiness education/Free development mother very worried about my daughter can't adapt to the system in some schools rigid/Strict rules.A few months ago,She began to ask around,First of all know xuhui district have within the system "Happy primary school";secondly,Understand the international department situation near school of run by the local people.

　　在上海黄陂路某写字楼工作的一位妈妈说：“我好纠结，我曾参观过一个学校的国际部，真心羡慕那些孩子，作为工薪家庭，我们是不可能让孩子去读国际部，只能适应国内教育。”

HuangBei address in Shanghai office work a mother said:"I good ravel,I CengCan GuanGuo one school's international department,Really envy those children,As a working families,We are impossible to let the children to read the international department,Can adapt to domestic education."

　　而家住上海闵行区的李小姐则已经在今年的9月，用重金把女儿送入了某名校的国际部。在接触英语、多元文化的同时，个性得到保护和发展是她选择的主要原因。

And live in minhang district of Shanghai of miss li is already in September of this year,With the daughter out into a school of international department.In the contact English/Multicultural and at the same time,Personality is protected and development is the main cause of her choice.

　　事实上，已经有越来越多的家长开始考虑让孩子进入不需要外籍证的小学国际部学习，这些家庭往往经济条件较好，家长已经做好让孩子出国的准备，他们知道，一旦开始跨入“国际部”的大门，哪天想回到普通高中去参加高考，太难了，因为在相对自由放松的学习环境中成长的学生，很难和国内部要大量做题训练的学生比拼。

In fact,Already more and more parents began to consider getting children into don't need foreign card primary school international department study,These families are often economic conditions are good,Parents have to let children abroad for preparation,They know,Once you begin into the"International department"door,Which day want to return to the ordinary high school to attend the university entrance exam,Too difficult,Because in relatively free relaxed learning environment where there are many students,It is difficult to house to want a large number of training students to question competition.

老师们也是一肚子苦水 Teachers also is full of bitter

　　“老师面对的却是一个班级三四十个孩子，没有规矩不成方圆，没有整齐划一的要求，老师根本没法开展工作。”全国劳模、虹口区第三中心小学一年级李莉老师认为，规定说到底是为了帮助孩子养成一个良好的习惯，更快地适应小学生活， “孩子既然生活在集体中，就需要有一种团队观念和一定的游戏规则，在守规则的前提下再去发展个性，否则整个班级就要乱套了。”

"The teacher face is a class SanSiShiGe children,Can be accomplished without norms or standards,No uniform requirements,The teacher couldn't work."The national labor model/The third center hongkou district primary school grade one teacher to think lily,Provisions in the final analysis is to help children to develop a good habit,To adapt to the primary school life more quickly, "Since children living in the collective,It is necessary to have a team concept and some rules of the game,In the premise of rules to the development of personality,Otherwise the whole class will be what a mess."

　　不过，在卢湾第一中心小学一年级教师周浩文看来，家长与老师需要沟通。周老师说，孩子刚入学，在行为习惯和自理能力方面都比较弱，需要老师规范指导，你得先入格，然后再出格。 “我们希望家长能理解，不能只站在自己角度，而是用长远的、全局的眼光看待问题。”

but,In LuWan first center primary school grade one teacher ZhouHaoWen looks,Parents and teachers need to communicate.Weeks the teacher said,The child just entrance,In the behavior habits and self-care ability is weak,Need the teacher standard guidance,You have to first in case,Then revolutionary. "We hope that parents can understand,Can't just stood in their Angle,But with the long term/Global look at problems."

　　“发帖的家长是一位新生家长，可能还没有适应做一位小学家长，需要调整一下自己的心态。”上海市浦东新区进才实验小学校长赵国弟提醒道，对于学校、老师的规范和建议，如果大部分学生和家长都可以做到，少数的家长需要调整自己的心态。

"No parents is a new parents,May have not adapted to be a primary school parents,Need to adjust their own state of mind."Shanghai pudong new area into just experimental primary school principals ZhaoGuoDi warns,For the school/The teacher's standard and the suggestion,If the majority of students and parents can do it,A few parents need to adjust their own state of mind.

97%的网友认为要关注孩子的天性 97% of the netizens think that attention to the nature of the child

　　究竟该怎样教育孩子？“学校这么做是在帮孩子适应生存规则，可以理解”，还是“学校的做法是潜规则，家长不该盲从”？

What how to education child?"The school to do so is to help children in survival rule,Can understand",or"The school practice is latent rules,Parents should not blindly follow the"?

　　根据某微博一项3万多网友参与的调查来看，支持前者的不足3%，而后者的支持率占97%。

According to a micro bo a more than 30000 net friend to participate in the survey to see,Support the former are less than 3%,While the latter's approval rating accounted for 97%.

　　支持者认为，关注孩子的天性，因材施教，才是人才培养的关键。

Supporters think,Pay attention to the nature of the child,Teach students in accordance with their aptitude,Talent training is the key.

　　网友“@三丫头11”说，让孩子成为“自己”很重要，“大规模、流水线、标准件”式的教育只使一个个有棱角的孩子变得毫无个性。

Net friend"@ three girl 11"said,Let your child be a"oneself"Very important,"large-scale/line/standard"Type education only make a hard-edged children become no personality.

　　而在反对者看来，孩子想要立足首先得适应群体规则。

And in opponents looks,Children want to based on the first of all have to adapt to the rules of the group.

　　网友“@oo菁o菁oo”说，两个家长管理一个孩子，当然可以培养孩子的个性，顺着孩子的意愿做任何事情。虽然老师也希望孩子能更好地发展，但一人管理四十来个学生，如果学生没有规矩，各成方圆，试问老师要怎么管理？

Net friend"@ oo cyanine cyanine oo o"said,Two parents management a child,Of course can cultivate children's personality,The children will do anything.Although the teacher also hope children can better development,But one management forty to a student,If students have no rules,Each ChengFangYuan,Asked the teacher how to management?

　　网友“@天添向上2012”认为，社会在一定的规则下运行，学会按要求行事也是必要的；面对别的孩子的“优秀”和老师的“批评”就该淡定一点，在学校的整齐划一与统一要求并不会就此抹杀孩子的个性。

Net friend"@ day add up to 2012"think,In a certain society under the rules of operation,Learn to press requirement act is also necessary;In the face of the other children"excellent"And teachers"criticism"The calm a little,In the school uniform and unified requirements will not be on the killing of a child's character.

“严格而合理”的规矩不影响个性发展 "Strict and reasonable"The rules do not affect personality development

　　“规定是与人性的弱点作斗争，来到学校这个大家庭就要遵守这里的规定。”上海市宋庆龄学校的袁老师说，中小学的教育并不是要培养伟大的文学家、数学家，而是按照规律办事，让孩子爱上学习，做好规矩，养成良好的学习和生活习惯，今后走进社会成为拥有良好素质的成年人。

"Regulation is human weaknesses and struggle,Come to school this big family will abide by the provisions of here."Shanghai song ching ling school yuen teacher said,The primary and secondary school education and is not to develop great writer/mathematician,But according to laws,Let children love learning,Completes the rules,Develop good study and living habits,The future into the society into a good quality of adults.

　　袁老师举了一个例子：他们学校曾经有一名学生，笔袋里光橡皮就有五六块，全都是各种花样图形，这会影响孩子上课的注意力。所以，学校规定，学生只带所有必要、简朴的文具。同样，有学生因为没有条理，经常乱放东西，导致一个学期光一本作业本就要换四五次，这在他们学校也是不允许的。

Yuen teacher give a example:Their school had a student,Pen bag light rubber have WuLiuKuai,All is all sorts of figure graphics,This will affect the child's attention in class.so,The school rules,Only students with all the necessary/Simple stationery.The same,Have students because there is no organized,Often leave about things,A term to light an exercise book will be in four or five times already,This in their school is not allowed.

　　“这些学生在家里也是乱扔东西，没有养成良好的习惯，而在学校，学生要学习管理自己。”袁老师说。

"The students at home is also throw things,Without good habit,While in school,The student to study management himself."Yuen teacher said.

　　曾有人采访了56位诺贝尔奖得主，几乎所有的人回答一生中最重要的阶段是“幼儿园或小学”。他们在幼儿园和小学学会睡前鞋子放整齐、自己的东西和朋友分享、饭前便后要洗手，袁老师说这些不仅仅是习惯，更是一辈子受用的品质，这些规定和创造力的发展不冲突。

Someone once interviewed 56 Nobel Prize winner,Almost all the people answered in the life the most important phase is"Kindergarten or school".They in kindergarten and elementary school learn to bedtime shoes put in order/His things and friends share/Before the rice then empress to wash your hands,Yuen teacher said that these is not only a habit,Is the quality of the last a lifetime,These regulations and creativity development does not conflict.

　　江苏特级教师吴非认为，教育的特征就是“慢”。教师的操之过急与家长的拔苗助长同样会剥夺他们的童年。

Jiangsu superfine teacher WuFei think,Education feature is"slow".Teacher's act too hastily and parents spoil things by excessive enthusiasm will also deprived of their childhood.

　　在教育学者熊丙奇看来，不少小学都要求一致，千校一面，没有个性和特色。“不改变现在的评价体系，就不可能把学校、老师、学生和家长解放出来。”熊教授表示，单一的评价体系扼杀学生的创造力和想象力，目的是为了升学，把他们变为升学的工具。

Education scholars in XiongBingJi looks,Many primary school are required,Thousand school side,No individual character and characteristic."Don't change the present evaluation system,It is not possible to assign the school/The teacher/Free for students and parents."Bear professor said,Single evaluation system kill students' creativity and imagination,The purpose is to study,Put them into bound tools.