大学生性观念越来越开放，这是社会发展的必然结果。但是，性观念过度开放，不但存在健康隐患，还会影响婚姻家庭稳定，甚至造成社会责任感缺失。性观念变化所引发的一系列社会问题，令人深深地担忧，值得引起全社会的广泛关注与思考。

The college students' idea more and more open,This is the inevitable result of social development.but,Sexual idea over open,Not only existing health concerns,Can also affect the stability of marriage and family,Even a lack of social responsibility.Sexual idea change a series of social problems,A deep concern,Worth caused extensive concern of the whole society and thinking.

一个班就有1/4学生同居 A class has 1/4 students live together

　　当代大学生越来越开放，这基本上成了当下社会的“共识”。近日，广东省的一项调查显示，48%的大学生赞成“恋人间发生婚前性行为”。华南地区几所大学进行的一项大学生性观念抽样调查显示，近40%的大学生不介意自己的伴侣是否是处女(或处男)。

Contemporary college students more and more open,It's become basically the social"consensus".recently,A survey of guangdong province,48% of college students agree with"Occur between lovers premarital sex".A few university in south China a college students' concept sampling survey,Nearly 40% of college students don't mind his partner is a virgin(Or a virgin).

　　近日，《生命时报》记者走访发现，大学生性观念日渐开放，通过学校周边的“设施”可见一斑。东湖新村是武汉一个颇具规模的城中村，村子的一个入口与武汉某著名高校的校园完全打通。村民们盖起了高矮不一的自建楼房，不光是村民自己住，它们还承载着另一个重要“功能”每当夜幕降临，不少大学生情侣在上完课后成群结队走向东湖新村，他们一般会在村里的小饭店吃晚饭，然后并肩走进简易的出租屋过夜。还在读大三的李敏（化名）就是校外租住群体的一员，她最开始是为了考研，想自己租个房子住方便深夜复习。而后男友提出了一起住，说既可以互相照顾还可以分担房租，她也就同意了。这样的“同居生活”李敏并没有告诉父母。“我们班大概有1/4的同学在外面住。”李敏说，他们并不觉得同居是一件稀奇的事，不少人都习以为常。

recently,[Life times]Reporter found that visit,The college students increasingly open concept,Through the school surrounding"facilities"Immigrants are.East lake, wuhan saemaul undong is a considerable size of the villages,The village a entrance and a famous wuhan university campus completely through.The villagers built height differ self-built buildings,Not only is the villagers living,They also carrying another important"function"Whenever night comes,Many college students are lovers in after class in crowds to east lake of saemaul undong,They are generally in the village of small restaurant for dinner,Then side by side into the simple and easy let overnight.Also reading a junior David(alias)Is external to rent a member of the group,She is the first to one's deceased father grind,Think of yourself rent a house to live convenient review late at night.And then put forward her boyfriend live together,Say not only can look out for each other can also share the rent,She also approval.this"cohabitation"David did not tell his parents."Our class is about a quarter of the students live in the outside."David said,They don't think cohabitation is a wonder,Many people are used to.

　　在辽宁省沈阳市的沈北大学城，坐落着四五个大型院校，路边“日租房”、“月租房”的招牌成了一道醒目的“风景”。校园周边的设施并不完善，但各式小宾馆和日租房却相当红火，服务对象主要是大学城的学生。一到晚上和周末，宾馆就热闹起来，学生情侣们手拉手大方地出入，人多时甚至要提前预定。其中一家宾馆的老板表示：“一到寒暑假，我们这里也就歇了，主要就是给学生开的，很少有其他人来住。”

In shenyang, liaoning province shen north university town,Is located the four or five large colleges and universities,roadside"Day rent a house"/"Month rent a house"Signs became a marked"scenery".Campus surrounding facilities is not perfect,But a small hotel and day rent a house is quite prosperous,The service object is mainly university students.In the evening and weekend,The hotel is hilarious,Student lovers hand in hand and easy to access,As people even booked in advance.One of the hotel boss said:"A summer and winter vacation to,We here also rested from,The main thing is to give students open,There are few others to live."

　　10月10日，记者来到北京外国语学校、北京师范大学，对20余名学生进行了随机采访，大多数学生表示可以接受婚前性行为，并对大学生去宾馆开房的行为表示理解。一名同学更是直言不讳：“大学生在校都可以结婚了，我们现在有权力选择这些。”记者在这两所学校调查时发现，告示栏中都贴有日租房、月租房信息。在学校附近一家房产中介，中介人员坦言，学校附近的小区租住者有一半多都是学生，其中以情侣一起租住居多。在某大学的论坛BBS上，专门开设了一个租房信息板块，记者发现上面有不少是男女朋友求租房或者合租的信息。

On October 10,,Reporters came to Beijing foreign language school/Beijing normal university,For more than 20 students the random interviews,Most of the students said they can accept premarital sexual behavior,And college students to the hotel check in behavior understands that.A classmate is call a spade a spade:"College students can get married,We now have the power to choose."Reporter in the two schools survey found,Notice bar are stuck on the day rent a house/Month rent information.Near the school a real estate agent,Intermediary personnel said,Near the school district to rent is more than half are students,The lovers to rent is in the majority.In a certain university BBS BBS,Special opened a rent information plate,Reporter found that it has a lot of friends is men and women for renting a house or shares information.

　　这样的情景，陈楠（化名）在十几年前根本不敢想象。1990年，陈楠大学毕业。她回想说，那时候的大学生，甚至连谈个恋爱都难以启齿。“我们当时对性方面的知识基本为零，同学谈恋爱了都羞于让别人知道，更别提婚前性行为了。”据国家人口和计划生育委员会进行的一项调查显示，近70%的中国人有婚前性行为，而在20世纪80年代末，这一数字仅为16%。陈楠听说，她的学姐中也有极个别婚前怀孕的，有的甚至跳楼自杀了。“哪像现在的孩子，上着学呢就开始同居了。”

Such a sight,ChenNan(alias)In more than a decade ago don't imagine.In 1990,,ChenNan graduated from the university.She recalls said,At that time of college students,Even talk about a love are so hard to say."We had to sexual knowledge basic is zero,Students love is ashamed to let others know,Not to mention premarital sex in order to."According to the state population and family planning commission a survey,Nearly 70% of Chinese people have sex before marriage,But in the 1980 s,This figure is only 16%.ChenNan heard,She learn elder sister also has the extremely individual premarital pregnancy,Some even jumped off a building suicide."Which be like now children,The study on it began to cohabitation."

　　前不久，国家人口计生委发布的一组数据引起了社会各界的广泛关注，数据显示，中国每年人工流产多达1300万人次，位居世界第一，其中25岁以下妇女占一半以上，也就是600多万人，大学生成了人流的主力军。甚至有妇产科医生感慨，每年寒暑假期间，医院妇产科的人流手术量就会暴增，甚至有人称8月是“暑期学生人流月”。

Not long ago,The national population state family planning commission issued a set of data caused wide attention of all social sectors,Data display,Every year China artificial abortion as many as 13 million people,Up to the top of the world,Among them 25 years old the following women accounted for more than half,Is also more than 600 ten thousand people,College students become the main force of people.Even in the department of obstetrics and gynecology doctors regrets,Every year during winter and summer vacation,Hospital department of gynaecology and obstetrics to flee the surgical extent will jumps,There is even said August is"Summer students on people".

性观念开放背后的隐忧 Open concept in sex behind the malaises

　　那么，究竟是什么原因导致了大学生性观念的改变？上海社科院青少年研究所所长杨雄告诉《生命时报》记者，原因是多方面的。首先，是社会大环境的变化。随着经济的发展，社会整体道德观随之逐渐宽松，离婚、同居、一夜情等事情不再让人“闻之色变”，甚至是司空见惯了。社会的宽容导致人们的价值观也在发生变化，处于思想变化期的大学生更容易接纳这些观点，对待“性”形成了一种无所谓的态度。其二，是受网络发展的影响。有调查显示，网络是青少年获取性知识的第一渠道，网络发展也催生了诸如虚拟爱情等多种带有强烈性暗示的产物。其三，是青少年普遍生理早熟。生活条件的改善，体现在孩子营养丰富了，生理发育期提前，身体发育成熟与法定结婚年龄这中间长达十多年的时间，被称为性空白期，一方面是需要渠道释放生理需求，另一反面是晚婚大潮愈演愈烈，大学生正处于其中，因此也催生了性观念的开放。

so,What are the reason led to the changes in the concept of the college students?Shanghai academy of youth institute director YangXiong tell[Life times]reporter,The reason is various.First of all,Is the change of social environment.With the development of economy,Society as a whole morality then gradually free,divorce/cohabitation/One night stand things no longer let a person"It is the colour change",Even is commonplace.Social tolerance lead to people's values also is in produce change,In the ideological change period of college students are more likely to accept these views,treat"sex"Formed a kind of indifferent attitude.The second,Is subject to the influence of network development.Research has shown that,The network is teenagers the first channel of the sexual knowledge,The network also speeded up the development of such as virtual love and so on the many kinds of with strong sex product.thirdly,Is the youth common physiological precocity.The improvement of living conditions,Reflected in the child nutrition rich,Physiological development period in advance,Body development maturity and legal marriageable age among this for more than ten years of time,Called sexual blank period,On the one hand is needed to release channels physiological needs,Another negative is marry at a mature age spring intensified,College students are in among them,Therefore gave birth to the concept of open sex.

　　当越来越多的大学生随波逐流，接受开放的性行为时，却很少有人注意这背后的隐忧。

When more and more college students go with the stream,Accept open sex too,But few people pay attention to the potential behind this.

　　性安全意识淡薄。中国性学会青少年性健康教育专业委员会主任徐震雷表示，由于缺乏正规的性知识和正确的价值观，导致大学生群体的性安全意识淡薄。据《2010年广东省大学生性与生殖健康研究报告》显示，大学生在各种性行为中，每次都戴安全套的比例仅为34.30%。而不安全的性行为存在很多健康隐患，受访的大学生中竟有16.96%“生殖器曾经患病”，包括炎症、性病，甚至有个别被确诊为艾滋病。

Sexual safety consciousness.China sexology will adolescent sexual health education professional committee director XuZhenLei said,Due to the lack of regular sexual knowledge and correct values,Lead to college students sexual safety consciousness.According to[In 2010, guangdong university by nature and reproductive health research report]display,University students in all kinds of sexual behavior,Every time the proportion of wearing condoms is only 34.30%.And not safe sex behavior has many health concerns,The surveyed students there should be 16.96%"Genital once sicken",Including inflammation/Venereal disease,There is even individual was diagnosed with AIDS.

　　社会责任感缺失。北京大学社会学教授夏学銮告诉记者，“性”本是一件纯洁美好，并且可以说是严肃的事情，但是有部分大学生却将其当成一种娱乐甚至是游戏行为。大学生是社会的人才储备，一旦将这种“游戏人生”的态度带到工作岗位和以后的社会生活中，势必造成他们缺乏历史责任感和社会责任感，对社会生活中的大事漠不关心，不利于社会的发展。

Lack of social responsibility.Beijing university professor of sociology XiaXueLuan told reporters,"sex"This is a pure and beautiful,And can say is a serious matter,But there are some students but its as a kind of entertainment, or even the game behavior.College students are social talent reserve,Once the"The game of life"Attitude to work and future social life,It will be bound to cause they lack history sense of responsibility and the sense of social responsibility,To the social life the important events of indifference,Go against the development of the society.

　　婚姻忠诚度降低。性观念开放，对个人寻求婚姻和婚姻的稳定会产生很大影响。如果把性看成很随便的事，婚姻的神圣感、尊严感和承诺意愿都会降低，随之而来的婚姻忠诚度瓦解、婚姻冲突等问题便会爆发。

Marriage loyalty to reduce.Open concept in sex,For individuals seeking marriage and marriage stability will have a great influence.If the sex as easy thing,The marriage of the sacredness/The dignity and commitment will reduce the will,Subsequent marriage loyalty collapse/Problems such as marital conflict will outbreak.

　　引发心理焦虑。有些女性与男友分手了，不但很难接受失去贞操的事实，还可能出现抑郁等情绪障碍，甚至自杀；同样，不少男孩子在发生性关系后，想对女方负责，但目前的个人条件还达不到，也出现了不同程度的心理焦虑。

Cause psychological anxiety.Some women and her boyfriend broke up,Not only it is difficult to accept the fact that lose chastity,May also appear depression, mood disorders,And even suicide;The same,A lot of boys in after having sex,To the woman is responsible for,But the current individual condition also can not reach,Also appeared different degree of psychological anxiety.

　　人流易造成女性不孕。如果在发生性关系时不注意安全，很可能产生未婚先孕、流产、被传染性病等危险。专家提醒，人工流产对女性生殖健康的影响存在于多方面，特别是重复流产的危害更为严重。短期内可能出现一些并发症，如出血、感染月经不调、慢性盆腔炎等，从长期来看可能危害更大，重复流产4次以上92%会导致继发性不孕症。

People easy cause of female infertility.If the sexual with do not pay attention to safety,Is likely to produce premarital pregnancy/abortion/Infect venereal diseases, and dangerous.The expert reminds,Artificial abortion for female reproductive health effects exist in many aspects,Especially repeat abortion more serious harm.In the short term there may be some complications,Such as bleeding/Infection menstruation to be not moved/Chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, etc,In the long term may be more harmful,Repeat abortion 4 times above 92% will lead to secondary infertility.

　　攀比成风，却由父母埋单。还有专家表示，现在很多大学生谈恋爱，攀比和炫耀心理严重，其恋爱消费大大超出了自己的承受能力，基本都由父母埋单。据一项调查显示，近75%的大学生恋爱经费出自父母给的生活费，只有25%左右表示能够自己通过兼职等方式满足恋爱花费。

Bandwagon common practice,But parents by bill.And experts say,Now many students fall in love,"Keep up with the joneses" and show off psychological serious,The love consumption greatly beyond their capacity,Basic are made by parents buried single.According to a survey,Nearly 75% of college students love funds from the parents to the living expenses,Only 25% said to himself through part-time etc meet love spending.

中国大学缺乏系统性教育 The Chinese university lack of systematic education

　　在信息开放和对接全球化的语境下，中国正处于社会转型期，同样面临着上世纪六七十年代美国“性解放”的隐忧萌芽。如何引导大学生树立良好的性观念，是一个令人深思的问题。

In the information open and butt globalization context,China is in the social transition period,The same face to the s the United States"Sexual liberation"Of malaises bud.How to guide students to establish a good sex idea,Is a provocative question.

　　杨雄认为，对于“婚前性行为”，应该疏导分流，引导年轻人自我保护，合理宣泄欲望。除了课堂教育，在学校管理和家庭生活中有很多方式可以渗透性教育的理念、知识、正确的方式方法。

YangXiong think,for"Premarital sexual behavior",Should dredge shunt,Guide the young people to protect themselves,Reasonable catharsis desire.In addition to the classroom education,In the school management and family life there are many ways to permeability education concept/knowledge/The correct methods.

　　徐震雷强调：“青少年性健康教育还要注意文化的敏感性，因为中国的文化和社会与其他国家不一样。我们应当结合青少年不同阶段的需求，制定相应的性健康内容，从情感、生理、性知识等角度进行引导，让他们学会为自己、为他人、为爱负责。在这个过程中，我们还要学习国外注重能力决策的培养，其中包括人际交往技能、恋爱技能、生活技巧等，让大学生学会恋爱知识和技巧，在发生性关系后有能力应对。”

XuZhenLei emphasize:"Adolescent sexual health education must pay attention to the cultural sensitivity,Because Chinese culture and society and other countries is not the same.We shall, in combination with the needs of the different stages of teenagers,To formulate relevant content of sexual health,From the emotion/physiological/Sexual knowledge and guided Angle,Let them learn for themselves/For others/For love is responsible for.In this process,We have to study abroad to pay attention to the cultivation of ability decision,Including interpersonal skills/Love skills/Life skills, etc,Let students learn to love knowledge and skills,After having sex in the ability to deal with."

　　为此，专家呼吁，高校开设性教育课势在必行，这样才能使大学生接受科学而系统的性教育。曾参与主持大学生性观念调查的华南师范大学心理咨询研究中心主任李江雪介绍，性教育的目的，不仅仅是要给青少年传授性知识，更重要的是让他们树立正确的性态度和形成良好的性道德。

therefore,The experts urged,Colleges and universities in sex educational curricula is imperative,This way can make college students accept the science and the system of sex education.Participated in host university by nature idea survey of south China normal university psychological consulting research center director li j snow is introduced,The purpose of sex education,Is not only to teach teenagers sexual knowledge,More important is to let them to establish a correct sexual attitude and form good sexual morality.