前段时间，温州乐清一名“狼爸”因女儿不听话，用体罚的方式将6岁女儿活活打死。10月21日，龙湾瑶溪街道又有一名类似的“虎妈”在教育孩子时，将孩子打得遍体鳞伤。10月21日下午， 12岁女孩小林(化名)因不堪家暴，跑到附近邻居家“避难”，引起了大家的关注。

Some time ago,Wenzhou yueqing a"The Wolf dad"For daughter not obedient,The way with corporal punishment will be 6 years old daughter killed alive.On October 21,,Longwan yao creek street and have a similar"Tiger mother"In the education child,Children will be beaten black and blue all over.On October 21, afternoon, 12 years old girl xiao Lin(alias)For a domestic violence,Run to the nearby neighbor's"refuge",Caught everyone's attention.

女儿：“妈妈打我，快来救救我” daughter:"Mum hit me,Come help me"

　　10月21日上午10时许，一名女孩冲进张女士的小店。“救救我，我妈妈会打死我的。”她神情慌张，哭喊着寻找角落躲藏。“几个月来，这个小女孩已经不止一次遭到母亲的毒打，因为忍受不了家暴，她曾多次离家出走。”据店主张女士介绍，经常看到小林脸上或身上有淤青，而小林也经常向附近居民了解去江苏老家及其他地方的行车线路。“她每次离家出走被找回来后，都会遭到母亲更加严厉的毒打。”一知情者称，“我住在他们家附近，经常看到小林一个人在家里搭一些诸如‘电笔头’之类的小产品赚钱，邻居们都怀疑，小林是不是两夫妻亲生的。”

On October 21, morning at about 10,A girl rushed into ms. Zhang shop."Save me,My mom is going to kill me."She's facial expression of,Crying and looking for hidden corners."A few months,The little girl has more than once beaten by mother,Because can't stand domestic violence,Many a time has she run away from home."According to the shop that lady is introduced,Often see xiao Lin face or body bruises,But Lin also often to nearby residents understand to jiangsu hometown and other local traffic line."Every time she run away from home was to find after,Mother will were more severely beaten."One insider says,"I live near their home,Often see xiao Lin a person at home and take some such as‘Electric written’And so on small products to make money,The neighbors all doubt,Xiao Lin is husband and wife two of his own."

　　10月21日中午，小林向记者展示了遍布全身的伤痕，她的头上、肩膀、背上和腿上全是血条和淤青，让我们很吃惊。“哪有亲妈对孩子下这么重的手的？”听了小林的讲述，多名邻居愤愤不平，便拉着小林去找其父母评理。

At noon on October 21,,Xiao Lin told reporters throughout the body shows the scar,Her head/shoulder/Back and legs is full of blood bar and bruises,Let us be very surprised."Which have close mama for children under such a heavy hand?"Listen to the xiao Lin's about,More than neighbor resentful,He took the Lin to find their parents reasoning.

母亲：“女儿不乖，含泪下狠手” mother:"Daughter not good,Tearful man hand"

　　此时的小林居然全身颤抖并大哭，“我不要回去！妈妈会打死我。”是什么样的母亲能让女儿怕成这样？大家怀着疑问找到了小林的父母。

The Lin incredibly shivering and cry,"I don't want to go back to!Mom is going to kill me."What kind of mother can let daughter afraid to become so?Everyone with doubt found xiao Lin's parents.

　　“哪个父母不心疼自己的孩子，更何况小林是我亲生的，打她也是为她好。”小林的母亲董女士向记者诉苦道，由于她和丈夫常年外出打工，小林从小就寄养在老家。小林在老家由于没人管教，经常不去上学。他们3个月前将小林从江苏老家带到自己身边。“没想到她不适应这里的生活，和我们说都不说，好几次自己拿钱跑回老家，因为这事才被我打了好几次。”

"Which parents do not love their children,Besides xiao Lin is my own,Hit her is also good for her."Xiao Lin's mother ms dong told reporters plaint way,Because of her and her husband in a year,Xiao Lin grew up foster in their hometown.Xiao Lin in their hometown because no one discipline,Often does not go to school.They 3 months ago will Lin from jiangsu hometown to his side."Didn't expect she doesn't adapt to the life here,And we say all don't say,Several times take their money back to run,For this thing is I hit several times."

　　房东张先生说，“小女孩多次出走，父母经常到处找她，每次找到后回家就要挨打。”董女士表示，外面社会复杂，小孩子经常不跟父母打招呼就跑出去，多危险。“她每次出走，我们都要找她到半夜，已经教育了很多次，除了武力，我们也没其他办法了。”

The landlord Mr Zhang said,"The little girl away many times,Parents often looking all over for her,Every time after find home will be beaten."Ms dong said,Outside the complex social,Children often do not say "hello" with their parents ran out,How dangerous."Every time she run away,We all want her till midnight,Education has many times,In addition to force,We have no other way."

结局：孩子承诺不乱跑，母亲答应多交心 end:The child promise not to run about,Mother promised to heart more

　　经过当地村干部和附近多名热心群众的劝导，“虎妈”董女士终于承认打孩子实施家暴的行为不对，并向小林承诺，“只要你以后听话不乱跑，妈妈再也不会打你了，其实妈妈一切都是为了你好。”小林随后也向父母表达了自己想要上学的意愿，并向父母低头认错，“今后去外面都会和妈妈先讲好。”

After the local village cadres and nearby the more than enthusiastic advice,"Tiger mother"Ms dong finally admitted that playing children implementation of domestic violence behavior wrong,And to xiao Lin commitment,"As long as you do not run after obedient,Mother will never play you,In fact my mother all is for you."Xiao Lin and then also to their parents expressed their willingness to want to go to school,And to their parents to bow,"The future will be to go out and speak good mother first."

　　记者在采访中发现，其实小林还是很关心母亲的。“妈妈你也一定饿了，这碗你先吃吧。”在董女士盛上一碗热腾腾的米饭时，小林第一时间想到的是母亲还没吃饭呢，母女之间那种水火不容的状态瞬间被亲情融化。

Reporter in the interview found,In fact Lin is still concerned about the mother's."Mom you must be hungry,This bowl of you first to eat."In ms dong put on a bowl of hot rice,Xiao Lin first thought is the mother has not to have a meal,Between mother and daughter the incompatible state instantly be affection to melt.

　　温州医学院心理学专家何金彩主任表示，出现这种情况是由于小林从小没和父母共同生活，双方还没建立密切的亲子关系，加之孩子和母亲没有良好的沟通，因此出现小林经常离家出走的情况，但采用打骂等家庭暴力的行为显然激化了这种矛盾，家长可以试着多和孩子沟通，并时常和孩子参加一些亲子活动，慢慢建立信任。(据温州商报)

Wenzhou medical college psychology experts HeJinCai director said,Appear this kind of circumstance is due to xiao Lin from my parents and live together,The two sides also didn't establish close parent-child relationship,Together with the child and the mother has no good communication,So there Lin often away from home situation,But the beat and scold and family violence behavior obviously intensified the this kind of contradiction,Parents can try many and children communication,And often and children take part in some of the parent-child activities,Slowly build trust.(According to the wenzhou business newspaper)