幼儿园男女同厕 女孩回家站着小便 Men and women kindergarten with toilet girl home urinating standing up

荆州幼儿园“男女同厕” 女孩站着小便家长担忧 Jingzhou kindergarten"Men and women with toilet" The girl stood urinate parents worry

　　近日，有市民致电称，他的女儿在上幼儿园，有一次，女儿回家后竟然站着小便。该市民认为，女儿之所以这样，是因为幼儿园男女厕所没分开的缘故。

recently,Have people call says,His daughter is at kindergarten,once,After she came home urinating standing up unexpectedly.The people think,Daughter reason,Because men and women kindergarten toilet didn't separate sake.

　　

新闻背景 News background

　　

家长：女儿竟然站着小便 parents:Daughter unexpectedly urinating standing up

　　昨日下午5时，在沙市区柳垸一路的一家幼儿园，记者看到，门口围满了前来接孩子的家长。在采访中，记者发现，不少家长对幼儿园男女同厕的现象有一些意见。

At 5 yesterday afternoon,In the sand urban region liuheyuan a kindergarten all the way,The reporter sees,The door circumference full to meet the child's parents.In the interview,Reporter discovery,A lot of parents to men and women kindergarten with toilet phenomenon have some advice.

　　“我的女儿就曾经站着小便!”刘女士说，前一段时间，她看见女儿学着男生的样子站着小便，于是告诉女儿这样不对，结果女儿每次上厕所都要念叨：“男生站着上厕所，女生蹲着上厕所。”

"My daughter was once stood urinate!"Liu said,Some time ago,She saw her daughter learn to the appearance of the boys stood urinate,Then told her daughter that is wrong,Results the daughter every time the toilet will be talking of you:"The boy stood up the toilet,The girl squat down to the toilet."

　　站在一旁的家长也认为，现在孩子成熟得早，幼儿园的厕所一定得分开，加上幼儿园的孩子年龄都还小，不懂事，好奇心重，模仿能力又很强，幼儿园在这方面更要加强教育。

Standing on one side of the parents also think,Now that the children are mature early,Kindergarten toilet must separate,Add the kindergarten children age are still small,No sensible,Curiosity heavy,Imitation ability and strong,Kindergarten is in this respect more to strengthen education.

　　对此，有些家长则持相反的观点，他们认为，孩子长大之后，就知晓了这些方面的知识，没什么大惊小怪的。“我们原来也是这样过来的。”

this,Some parents are the opposite point of view,They think,Children grow up,Just know the knowledge,No fuss."We had also come over this."

　　

调查：幼儿园男女同厕较普遍 survey:Men and women kindergarten with toilet is very common

　　记者跟随一位家长，进入幼儿园。当记者提出幼儿如厕的疑问时，一位小班班主任带着记者来到该班厕所。记者看到，该厕所整体呈半分开状，男女厕所相邻，中间没有门隔开。一边是男童使用的小型便池，另一边则是女童使用的小号马桶，马桶与便池分别位于同一方向、同一边。

Reporters followed a parent,In kindergartens.When the reporter put forward the toilet when children questions,A small class teacher in charge with the reporter comes to this toilet.The reporter sees,This toilet whole shows half a separate form,Men's room and lady's room neighboring,Intermediate no doors off.One is the boy's use of small then pond,The other side is girl's use of small toilet,The toilet and then pond located in the same direction/The same side.

　　“我们不可能像对待成年人那样来对待孩子。”这位班主任称，园方尽可能地让孩子们分开上厕所，最多允许4男4女同时上厕所，老师则分别站在空门中间，时刻照看孩子。

"We can't treat as adults to treat children."The teacher in charge said,The zoo as far as possible, let the children separate toilet,The most allow four male and female at the same time the toilet,The teacher is standing in the middle gate, respectively,Time taking care of children.

　　“这里可不可以安装一扇门?”记者建议。“安上门，孩子的安全就得不到保障了。”该班主任解释说，孩子们现在都很顽皮，如果装上门，可能会撞到孩子。

"Here can install a door?"The reporter suggests to."Ann the door,The child's safety, you will not get the guarantee."This director explained,The children are now very naughty,If put the door,May hit the child.

　　记者走访了解到，城区幼儿园男女同厕现象较普遍。

Reporter visits to know,Urban men and women kindergarten with toilet phenomenon is very common.

　　

专家：家长可因势利导 experts:Parents can improve the occasion

　　一位从事幼教多年的教育人士称，孩子上厕所一定要男女分开，但大、中、小班的孩子没必要刻意将他们完全隔开，这个时期的小孩子还没有性别概念，只是一种模仿，是正常现象，太过刻意地“严防死守”，只会激起孩子的好奇心，反而不利于孩子的成长。

A engaged in preschool education years of education personage says,Children toilet must separate men and women,But the big/in/Small class children don't need to know they are completely separated,This period children haven't gender concept,Is a kind of imitation,Is normal phenomenon,Too sedulous ground"defend",Will only arouse the curiosity of children,But against a child's growth.

　　这位教育人士也称，家长也不用过分担心，必要时还可以适当告诉孩子一些相关的知识，对孩子的不正确行为进行有效疏导。“但5岁以上的孩子上厕所必须男女分开。”

The education people also called,Parents also need not worry overly,If necessary they may be appropriately tell children some relevant knowledge,To the child's not correct behavior carries on the effective dredge."But 5 years old children toilet must separate men and women."

　　

新闻解读 News reading

　　

“男女同厕”给性别教育的一记耳光 "Men and women with toilet"Sex education to a slap in the face

　　性别教育有利于孩子形成健康的人格，正确的回答、正确的引导对于一个性别心理成长阶段、喜欢问为什么的孩子来说显得至关重要。因此，作为比青春期阶段还重要的幼儿园阶段，性别教育就呼之欲出、引起广泛地焦虑和注意，但是长时间却只是纸上谈兵、白白忧虑，迟迟没有让性别教育得当教育、走上正轨。时下，女生中性化、男性“伪娘”化时不时的挑战着公众，长发美女、帅气大男孩其实都是我们眼里的赝品。这些现象的出现，使得所有矛头直指性别教育。

Sex education to the child to form healthy personality,Correct answer/The right guidance for a sex psychological growth stage/Like to ask why child it is very important.therefore,As more important than adolescent stage kindergarten stage,Sex education will be vividly portrayed/Cause widely anxiety and attention,But long time just be an armchair strategist/Worries in,Can not make sex education proper education/On track.nowadays,Girl neuter/men"Pseudo niang"The challenge of change from the public,Long hair beauty/Handsome big boy actually all is our eyes fakes.The appearance of these phenomena,Make all spearhead directed at sex education.

　　当然，性别教育也是个极敏感、难回答的生活问题，而不会教、不重视，依然是“男女同厕”存在的原因之一。大部分家长面对性别教育都是“老虎吃天，无处下爪”，更有部分家长甚至不予理睬、不去重视，从而多方面对孩子健康的性别意识造成一定的影响。独生子女的时代，男孩“宝贝”般的娇生惯养，女孩却当作男孩看，处处上演“谁说女子不如男”，这一切，也为当下“男不男，女不女”现象出现做出了巨大的“贡献”。

Of course,Sex education is also a very sensitive/Difficult to answer questions of life,And don't teach/Don't pay attention to,Is still"Men and women with toilet"One of the reasons of the existence of.Most parents face sex education is"The tiger to eat day,Nowhere next claw",Some parents even more ignored/Not to pay attention to,In the face of the health of children and the gender consciousness produce certain effect.Only child's age,The boy"baby"Like spoiled,But the girl as a boy looking at,Everywhere on"Who says women than men",All this,Also for the"Men don't male,A female not to female"Phenomenon to appear made great"contribution".

　　仁者见之谓之仁，智者见之谓之智。什么事情都没有绝对的，严格的界定“性别”也是有害的，因此，正确得当的性别教育应当“因情引导、适时介入、巧用语言、身体模范”。不过，幼儿园也得加强校园厕所文化建设，正所谓“麻雀虽小，五脏俱全”。作为父母、作为教师、作为社会上的你，要避免孩子们的未来遭受到被动的伤害，就必须家庭与社会、学校联合起来，正视性别教育，加强性别文化建设，积极健康引导，避免“单性化教育”、实现“双性化发展”，为祖国“未来”的明天搭建健康成长的天桥。（文/梁德民）

"Just see the kernel,The wise see "of wisdom.Everything there is no absolute,Strict definition of"gender"Is also harmful,therefore,Correct proper sex education should be"Because of the situation lead/Timely intervention/Use opportunely language/Body model".but,Kindergarten have to strengthen the campus cultural construction of the toilet,so-called"Although spadger is small,all-sided".As parents/As a teacher/As a social you,To avoid the children's future is subjected to the passive damage,Must the family and society/The school together,Face sex education,To strengthen the construction of gender culture,Positive health guide,avoid"Single gender education"/realize"Double gender development",For the motherland"The future"Tomorrow builds the healthy growth of the bridge.(Text/LiangDeMin)

　　

微言大义 Sublime words with deep meaning

　　@红烧憨豆：这个应该从小教育!

@ braised bean:This should be from childhood education!

　　@xiaozhuaini1：我觉得应该分开了，幼儿园的小朋友什么都懂了。

Xiaozhuaini1 @:I think should be separated,Kindergarten children know everything.

　　@CYS老刘卡卡：女儿在沙市机关幼儿园和深圳XX幼儿园都上过，都是开放式的，表示很不能接受。

@ CYS Lao liu kaka:Daughter in shashi authority kindergarten and shenzhen XX kindergarten are on,Are open,Said very can't accept.

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