案例：2002年2月23日，清华大学学生刘海洋“为了测试熊的嗅觉”将硫酸泼向北京动物园的5只熊，随后被西城区公安分局拘留。刘海洋泼熊一事在2002年引发了公众的热烈讨论，中国青少年研究中心副主任孙云晓研究员也曾在《没有秘密的孩子不长大》的出版座谈会上指出：“该事件暴露了现阶段青少年情感教育的缺失。”

case:On February 23, 2002,Tsinghua university students LiuHaiYang"In order to test the bear's sense of smell"Will sulfuric acid spilled to Beijing zoo 5 bear,Is then xicheng district public security bureau detention.LiuHaiYang spilt the bear in 2002 sparked public a heated discussion,China youth research center deputy director SunYunXiao researchers also worked in[No secret children do not grow up]The publication of the symposium pointed out:"The incident exposed the lack of emotional education at the present stage teenagers."

　　“目前，中小学生普遍存在一种情感体验缺失的现象，该现象表现为不会感受自己的感受，同时也不太能理解别人的感受。”北京师范大学心理咨询中心宋振韶博士指出，这种情感体验缺失不利于健全人格的养成。由于情感体验的深刻性和丰富性不足，致使青少年内心淡漠，缺乏真诚，快乐流于表面，犯错误后缺乏内疚感和自我完善的动力。针对如何加强青少年的情感体验，宋老师也给出了如下建议。

"At present,Primary and middle school students is a prevalent phenomenon of lack of emotional experience,This phenomenon performance for won't feel their feelings,At the same time also not too can understand the feelings of others."Beijing normal university psychological counseling center SongZhenShao pointed out that dr,This lack of emotional experience unfavorable to the cultivation of healthy personality.Due to emotional experience of profundity and lack of abundance,The teenagers inner indifference,Lack of sincerity,Happy superficial,A mistake lack of feeling of guilt and self perfect power.In the light of how to strengthen the adolescents emotional experience,Song the teacher also gives the suggestion as follows.

　　12.中小学生必备的心理情感攻略

12. Primary and middle school students the necessary psychological emotional strategy

　　学会表达和体会个人感受

Learn to express and experience personal feelings

　　学生可以尝试在做完每一件事之后，与同伴、老师、父母表达自己的体会、分享自己的感受。这期间也需要父母、老师能够多关心孩子本身，引导孩子抒发个人感受和情感。情感体验缺失使得孩子不理解自己，不感受自己，凡事都用超理智的方式和人交往，这也会导致与人交往时关系肤浅、不深入。

Students can try to finish everything in after,And companion/The teacher/Parents express their experience/Share your feelings.This time also need to parents/The teacher to care for children itself,Guide your child to express personal feelings and emotions.Lack of emotional experience that children don't understand yourself,Don't feel their,All things are with super a rational way and people,This could also lead to a relationship with people when superficial/No further.

　　学会尊重

Learn to respect

　　尊重包括很多，例如尊重自己、尊重师长、尊重人与人之间的差异。尊重体现在能够体察到别人和自己的不同，这样才能够去尊重别人的感受和行为，同时也要学会尊重自己。

Respect including many,For example, respect yourself/Respect teachers/Respect for differences between people.Respect is embodied in can be observed others and their different,So to be able to respect other people's feelings and behavior,Also want to learn to respect yourself.