东方网10月22日消息：据《劳动报》报道，继“中国式过马路”之后，“中国式接孩子”又成网络热门话题。昨天，南京某论坛将这一话题置顶到首页，立即引来众多网友的跟帖热议。而类似的话题，在全国各地的论坛中，也都吸引了众多家长吐槽。

DongFangWang October 22 news:According to[LaoDongBao]reports,the"Chinese cross the road"after,"Chinese joint children"And into network hot topic.yesterday,Nanjing some BBS will this topic stickies to the first page,Immediately draws many users to post hot debate.A similar topic,In all parts of the country in the BBS,Also attracts many parents vomit tank.

　　现实中，每到放学时间，全国各地小学门口便会上演“中国式接孩子”，家长们开着二轮、三轮、四轮等交通工具，早早就在翘首以待，数量之众、人群之嘈杂仿如集市。与之相对照，在国外多数地方的小学门前，却很少会看到这样的景象。这一中国特色式现象背后的问题值得反思。

reality,Every time after school,All over the country at the door of the elementary school will stage"Chinese joint children",Parents open two wheel/Three rounds/Four-wheel vehicle,In early perked up,The number/The noisy crowd copy such as mart.By contrast,In a foreign country where most of the elementary school door,Rarely will see this scene.The Chinese characteristic type phenomenon behind the question deserves reflection.

　　

核心事件 Core events

　　

贴上“中国式”标签的“接孩子” Labeled as"Chinese"label"Pick up the kids"

　　昨日，网友“郗宝贝”在某论坛发帖，类似连日来引发热议的“中国式过马路”，她要批评的主题是“中国式接孩子”。这篇帖子很快被置顶到首页，数百位网友评论。

yesterday,Net friend"Xi baby"In a BBS post,Similar days cause of hot debate"Chinese cross the road",She is the theme of the criticism"Chinese joint children".This post was soon stickies to the first page,Hundreds of the net friend comment on.

　　这篇帖子写道:“"中国式接孩子"的场景每天都会在不同城市、不同学校的门口上演相同的内容。众多家长无论男女老幼，在孩子放学的时间聚集到学校门口，你拥我挤互不相让，其热闹程度不亚于街头闹市。”“大家都翘首期盼眼巴巴地盯着学校门内的孩子，有时因为学生太多令家长眼花缭乱，还要在队伍中仔细搜寻。此时此刻，还有哪个家长顾得了什么交通规则和礼让的风范？因此，发生交通拥堵，甚至交通事故似乎也就在情理之中了。”

This is the post wrote:""Chinese joint children"Every day the scene in different cities/Different schools on the door of the gate of the same content.Many parents regardless of men, women and children,In the time of school children gathered to the school gate,You hold me crowded eyeball over,The busy downtown street as degree.""Everyone -- -nikita Khrushchev eagerly looked stared at the school gate of children,Sometimes for students' too much make parents dazzling,Also in the team search carefully.At this moment,What other parents to get what the traffic rules and comity demeanor?therefore,Happen traffic jams,Even the traffic accident it seems that there is in reason the."

　　“前几天，媒体上热议的"中国式过马路"对国人的规则意识、文明素养，以及交通现状进行了深刻的反思与争论。国人这种可以贴上"中国式"标签的日常行为与生活习惯不在少数，"中国式接孩子"自然也应该在反思与理性解决之列。”

"A few days ago,The media of the hot debate"Chinese cross the road"To people's consciousness of rules/Civilization accomplishment,And the traffic status of a deep reflection and debate.People can be labeled as such"Chinese"Label daily behavior and habits and customs is not a few,"Chinese joint children"Nature also should be in the reflection and rational solution of the column."

　　这篇文章引发网友的热议，网友纷纷对自己身边已经见怪不怪的“中国式接孩子”吐槽。微博网友“在别处”直指这种现象的交通隐患:“在中国大多数学校门口，都会有大量的自行车、电动车、摩托车、汽车毫无秩序地停在学校附近，更有不少小商贩夹杂于人流、车流之中，不仅瘫痪了交通，还给孩子们的安全埋下了隐患。”

This article cause net friend's hot debate,Have net friend to your side already inured to strange"Chinese joint children"Vomit tank.Micro bo net friend"elsewhere"Directed at this kind of phenomenon traffic hazard:"In China most of the school gate,There will be a large number of bicycles/Electric car/motorcycle/Car no order to stop near the school,More many vendors inclusion in people/Of traffic,Not only has paralyzed traffic,Back to the children's safety the hidden trouble."

　　网友“钧的爸爸”进一步反思:“送孩子上学，接孩子放学，不管风吹雨打，这已成为很多中国家庭生活的一个模式。可为什么家长都不放心孩子自己上学放学呢？这是一个社会问题，绝对不是家长的问题。”

Net friend"Jun's father"Further reflection:"Send their children to school,Pick up the kids school,Regardless of wind and rain,This has become a lot of Chinese family life of a model.But why parents are not trust to your child from school to go to school?This is a social problem,Absolutely not parent questions."

　　只要上网稍加搜索就会发现，这篇名“中国式接孩子:值得社会反思与解决的生活习惯”的帖子在全国各地的论坛上均有出现，各地网友对此话题均高度关注。

As long as the Internet slightly search will find,This title"Chinese joint child: worth social reflection and solving living habits"Post all over the country in the BBS all have appeared,For this topic all net friend are high attention.

　　

现状调查 Investigation on the current situation

　　

中国特色孩子和接送的家长几乎一对一 Chinese characteristics pick-up children and parents almost one-on-one

　　下午3时许，南京凤凰花园城小学门口已聚集了百余位家长。不少家长开着私家车过来接孩子，将车停靠在湛江路马路两边。马路两边原本就停靠有一排车辆，这使狭窄的湛江路更显得拥堵。

Afternoon 3 when xu,Nanjing phoenix garden city at the door of the elementary school has amassed more than a parent.Many parents open private car to pick up the kids,Park in zhanjiang road on both sides of the road.On both sides of the road were parked have a row of vehicle,This makes the narrow road congestion zhanjiang more.

　　更多家长则选择电动自行车前来接小孩。30多台电动车将学校与湛江路交叉的小空地挤得满满当当，家长们或坐在车上闲聊，或聚集在校门口向校内观望，嘈杂的情形和热闹的集贸市场没有差别。

More parents can choose electric bicycle to come to pick up the child.More than 30 Taiwan electric vehicles will be the school and zhanjiang road cross the small space crowded get full to the brim,Parents sat in the car or chatting,Or to gather at the school gate the wait-and-see,Noisy situations and busy trade market no difference.

　　随着不断有更多的家长赶来，人群和不断走出的学生流汇合，整个校门口更显热闹。徐女士每天都要来接读三年级的儿子，因为儿子还要上一会儿兴趣班，大约4点多才会出校，这让她在人群中显得不那么着急。

With the constantly have more parents arrived,The crowd and constantly out of students flow convergence,The whole school gate more lively.Ms xu every day to meet the son of the third grade,For even the son for interest,About 4 o 'clock will be out of school,This let her in the crowd not so worried.

　　孩子不小了，为什么还要来接？面对提问，徐女士表情有些夸张，她感觉这问得有些莫其妙“你看到有哪个小孩不用接的？”她反问，“都是家里的独苗，家长怎么可能放心让他们(孩子)自己回家。”

Small children,Why to meet?In the face of questions,Ms xu face some exaggeration,She feels this ask some mo its wonderful"You see what children need not answered the?"She ask,"Are home an only child,How can parents trust them(children)Home on your own."

　　恰如徐女士所说，在学校门口，前来接小孩的家长群和小学生几乎形成一比一的比例，没有人接的学生屈指可数。如此大的人流量自然对学校门口的交通造成很大压力。城市的其他地方，路上交通压力最大的时间是上班族们的上下班时间，而对于学校附近的道路而言，它完全由学校上学、放学时间主导。

As ms xu said,At the school gate,To meet the child's parents group and elementary school students form a than almost a proportion,No one answered the students can be counted on one's fingers.So much for the person natural at the school gate traffic caused great pressure.Other parts of the city,The road traffic pressure maximum time is the office worker's working hours,For near the school in the road,It completely by the school to go to school/School is over time leading.

　　附近一家小店老板说，每天早上7时许、下午3点多是湛江路最热闹的时候，因为接送小孩的车辆较多，加之不断有车辆违停、调头等，这条路上经常就被堵起来了。

A nearby store boss said,Every morning at about seven/3 PM is the most busy time zhanjiang road,Because the shuttle children more vehicles,Together with constantly have a default vehicle stop/Head back, etc,This road is often stuck up.

　　

国外见闻日本学校设专人引导学生回家 Foreign knowledge Japanese schools shall establish special guide students to go home

　　对于“中国式接孩子”，不少家长表示，这确实是中国特色，但不必“言必称国外”，美欧校车接送的那一套在中国行不通。

for"Chinese joint children",Many parents said,It is China's characteristics,But don't"Say foreign",Us and European transportation is the one that won't work in China.

　　不过，也有家长指出，不说美欧，我们可以参照从城市形态、交通状况等方面与我国都较为类似的日本，在日本的小学门口，很少见到有家长来接送小孩的，都是小朋友自己上下学。

but,Also have parents pointed out,Don't say the us and Europe,We may follow from urban form/Traffic condition, etc in China and Japan are more similar,In Japan at the door of the primary school,Seldom see have parents to shuttle children,Are children ShangXiaXue himself.

　　一位彭姓家长介绍，她有个亲戚在日本，去年她曾去探亲，看见亲戚家的小妹妹在上小学，因为没什么可帮忙，她自告奋勇表示可以接送小妹妹上下学，没想到亲戚一口回绝:“完全不用，在这边，小朋友都是自己走路上学。”

A PengXing parents is introduced,She has a relative in Japan,Last year she had gone to visit,See relatives little sister in elementary school,Because there is nothing to help,She carried her little sister ShangXiaXue said can pick-up,Didn't expect relatives a rebuff:"Completely don't,In this,Children all go to school on foot."

　　见惯了“中国式接孩子”，彭女士有些不信，日本的家长不担心孩子放学回家路上的安全问题吗？她于是跑到亲戚家小孩所上的小学门口一看，结果到了放学时间，真没发现一个家长来接小孩，小朋友都是列好队自己走回家。

used"Chinese joint children",Peng lady some do not believe,Japan's parents don't worry about the children come home from school on the road safety issue?And she ran to the relatives children go to school the door a look,Results the time after school,True have never found a parent to meet the child,Of children is listed good team walk home on my own.

　　据了解，在日本，孩子们按区域就近上学。大多数日本小学生每天清晨6点半左右就要起床，出门后和住在附近的同学们会合，然后一起走路上学。

It is understood,In Japan,The children go to school by area nearby.Most Japanese elementary school pupils every morning at 6:30, the or so will get up,Go out and live nearby classmates rendezvous,Then walk to school together.

　　对于有家长担心孩子上学路上的安全问题，在日本，学校专门设有“学童拥护员”，他们的任务是在每天上下学时间，站在校外车流量大、交通比较复杂的路口引导学生们安全通过。

For parents worry that their children to school the road safety problem,In Japan,The school has special"Children support member",Their task is to ShangXiaXue time every day,Standing outside the big traffic/Traffic more complex intersection guide students through security.

　　除了“学童拥护员”外，保护孩子们交通安全的还有个民间组织“PTA”(家长教师联合会)。这个组织是自发的，纯属尽义务，不领报酬，其成员定期轮流担任安全员，在孩子上学放学的时间去交通要道护送孩子。

In addition to"Children support member"outside,Protect the children traffic safety is a folk organization"PTA"(The parent-teacher association).This organization is spontaneous,Is do one's duty,Don't bring remuneration,Its members regularly take turns as a security officer,Children to school in the school time to traffic arteries escort the child.

　　一位定居日本的中国人唐辛子便曾参加“PTA”，她专门著文记下了自己的感受:“那些在骄阳下风雨中，将自己的身体拦在道路的中间，挥舞小旗指挥孩子们过马路的妈妈们的背影，是我所见过的最美丽的背影。”

A settled in Japan's Chinese TangXinZi he had attended"PTA",Her special article wrote down their feelings:"Those in the hot sun the wind and rain,Her body lies in the middle of the road,With small flag command the children of the mothers of figure,I have seen the most beautiful figure."

　　

深层思考 Deep thinking

　　

应用时间纠正“中国式习惯” Application time correct"Chinese habit"

　　对于“中国式接孩子”，一项有意思的数据值得相关部门研究。目前，南京幼儿园的接送率是100%，而小学尤其是低年级的学生，接送率目测至少在九成以上。一个城市有几十万乃至百万的小学生及幼儿园小朋友，那么，每天要往返学校两次人流将是数百万计，这对城市的交通压力可想而知。

for"Chinese joint children",An interesting data is worth related departments to study.At present,Nanjing kindergarten transfers rate is 100%,And elementary school especially young students,Shuttle rate visual at least in more than ninety percent.A city has hundreds of thousands or even millions of elementary school students, and kindergarten children,so,Everyday round the school two people will be millions,The city traffic pressure cans be imagined.

　　既然日本的经验证明，小学生可以自己上下学，而为什么我们的家长还是坚持接送呢？一位正在上幼儿园大二班的小朋友说出了一个答案。他妈妈曾告诉他，路上有“小偷”，会偷小朋友。

Since Japan's experience proved,Students can ShangXiaXue,And why our parents insisted on shuttle?A was in kindergarten children sophomore class out an answer.His mother told him,The road there are"The thief",Will steal children.

　　多位家长表示，之所以要接送孩子，小孩放学路上的安全是他们最担心的，在听闻一些小孩被别人拐走的消息后，家长们对孩子上学放学更是不愿意“放手”。

Many parents said,The reason why shuttle children,School children on the road safety is their most to worry about,In some of the children heard by others after the news of the abducted,The parents to the child to go to school is not willing to school"To let go".

　　归结起来看，除了孩子上学、放学路上的安全问题外，家长坚持接送还有多项原因，诸如城市交通复杂，不按规矩行驶的车辆很多；路边有些“不良”小店，担心小孩学坏以及孩子还没长大，还不能独立回家等。

Boils down to see,In addition to their children to school/On the road outside the school security problems,There are several reasons why parents insist on transportation,Such as the urban traffic complex,Not according to the rules of driving vehicle many;Roadside some"bad"shop,Worry about the child that which is evil and the children haven't grown up,Can't independent home, etc.

　　不少家长表示，在当前的大背景下，不可能真的让自家的小孩独立上下学，“大环境不允许”，但他们真心希望“中国式接送”能够有所改变，应该设一个时间表，废除这种“中国式的生活习惯”，想一想，家长不用操心，孩子能自己安全上下学该多好啊！

Many parents said,In the current background,Can't really let their children ShangXiaXue independence,"Environment are not allowed to",But they really hope"Chinese transportation"Can change,Should set a timetable,Abolished the"Chinese living habits",Think about,Parents don't worry about,Children can safety ShangXiaXue should much good!

　　

微评 Micro evaluation

　　

寻求中国式解决之道 Seek Chinese solution

　　“中国式过马路”引发的讨论热乎劲还没完全退去，“中国式接孩子”又来抢夺眼球了。在城市各中小学，每到放学时点，都会有众多的家长和密密麻麻的各种车辆聚集。一时间，交通阻塞，家长焦虑，行人徒呼奈何。

"Chinese cross the road"Caused by the warm discussion strength haven't completely recede,"Chinese joint children"And to rob the eye.In the city each middle and primary school,Every time after school,There will be many parents and numerous vehicles gather.time,Traffic jams,Parents anxiety,Pedestrian ACTS call alternative.

　　究其原因，孩子过远的上下学路程、潜在的交通安全、人身安全风险，都可能造成一个家庭不能承受的痛苦。所以，“中国式接孩子”体现了家长们一种安全诉求。对此，我们更应该考虑现实国情，寻找“中国式解决”之道。

Investigate its reason,A child ShangXiaXue far journey/Potential traffic safety/Personal safety risk,May cause a family can't bear the pain.so,"Chinese joint children"Embodies the parents a safe appeals.this,We also should consider actual conditions,Looking for"Chinese solve"way.

　　其一，尽可能发挥校车的优势。如果说挨家挨户接送学生难以操作，可以在一些学生住址相对集中的区域设置集合点。更重要的是，全社会要在公路规划、行车权利上形成校车优先、重视学生安全的意识。

one,As far as possible play the advantages of the school bus.If the door to door transportation students difficult to operate,Can in some students address relative concentration of locale set point.More important is,The press want in highway planning/Traffic rights formed on the school bus priority/Pay attention to the safety of the students consciousness.

　　其二，家长中间应该倡导规则意识和公共文明。互相礼让、井然有序的接送秩序，不仅体现着个人的文明修养、为孩子们做出表率，更能减轻校门口拥堵，从整体利益的角度节省时间成本。

The second,Among parents should advocate rule consciousness and public civilization.Mutual comity/Sleek shuttle order,Not only embodies the personal civilization accomplishment/Makes the model for the children,More can reduce school gate jams,From the point of view of the overall interests save time cost.

　　最后，不妨推广部分学校实行的多校门、错峰放学等办法，减轻拥堵的现象。

finally,Might as well promote a few schools more than the school gate/Wrong peak to school,Relieve congestion phenomenon.

　　的确，“中国式接孩子”已经不是家长送不送、接不接的问题，而是怎么接送、怎么尽可能降低公共成本的问题。这就需要各方面相互配合，妥善解决。

indeed,"Chinese joint children"Is not parents send don't send/Joint don't answered the question,But how shuttle/How to reduce costs for the public problems.This needs various aspects and cooperate with each other,Properly solve.

　　作者：谷岳飞 李笑晗

The author:GuYueFei lee Han smile