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　　没有嘘寒问暖，没有儿孙绕膝……守在空荡荡的家里，退休后的李大妈和老伴，内心充满了孤独。最终，无法忍受“空巢”落寞的两个老人，将他们的3个儿女告上法庭，请求法院判令子女们每周末回家和父母团聚。

Not to be caring and attentive,No children and grandchildren RaoXi...Keep in the empty house,Retirement LiDaMa and his wife,Filled with loneliness.finally,Can't stand"Empty nest"Two of the lonely old man,Their three children to court,Requesting the court to judge their children every weekend home and parents together.

　　昨日，宝丰县人民法院透露，经调解，儿女们承诺今后多回家看望老爸老妈。

yesterday,BaoFengXian people's court has revealed,Upon mediation,Children in the future promises more home visit ssi.

老人希望3个儿女常回家 The old man want three children often go home

【孤独难忍】 [Alone bear hard]

　　被父母起诉到法院，儿女们感到很意外，他们觉得老爸老妈不缺钱，不愁吃喝，不明白为啥还不满意。李大妈老两口认为，他们在物质上并无需求，精神上却极度空虚。

By parents Sue to the court,Children feel very accidental,They feel how I met your mother does not need the money,Don't worry, and did eat and drink,Don't understand why still not satisfied.LiDaMa the old couple think,They in the material and no demand,Mentally, it is extremely empty.

　　李大妈和老伴均是退休干部，经济上没什么压力。李大妈说，他们有两女一男3个孩子，均已参加工作，成家立业。但自从他们老两口退休后，生活就开始变得松散了，而子女们工作太忙，平时很少有时间带孩子一起回家，“我们真的很孤独。”李大妈说。

LiDaMa and his wife are retired cadres,Economic nothing pressure.LiDaMa said,They have two daughters and a male three children,Have been to work,A fond memory.But since they the old couple after retirement,Life is become loosely,And their children to work too busy,Usually there is little time to bring the child go home together,"We really lonely."LiDaMa said.

　　其实老人的愿望很简单，就是想让子女们在闲暇时，能常回家看看，全家人一起吃顿饭、聊聊天。但跟孩子们沟通几次后，并未如愿。于是，两个老人一纸诉状，将儿女告到法院，要求法院判令3个子女每逢周末回家，尽精神赡养义务。

Actually the old man's desire is very simple,Just to let their children in their leisure time,Can go home often,The whole family have dinner together/chat.But with the children communication after several times,Did not get it.so,Two old man a paper petition,Children will tell to the court,Request the court ordered three children home on weekends,All of the spiritual support obligations.

孩子感受到了爹娘的落寞 Children of parents feel lonely

【法官调解】 [The judge mediation]

　　接到老人诉状，宝丰县人民法院立案庭很慎重。“常回家看看”虽没有写进法律，可中国自古以来形成的“养老、敬老、爱老”道德观念，早已被人们接受。孔子说“父母在，不远游”，实际上就是教育人们要多给父母感情上的慰藉。当前，随着家庭单元越来越小，以往那种四世同堂的大家族已很少出现。孩子们成人后逐渐离开家庭，老人只能独守“空巢”。

Received the old man complaint,The people's court BaoFengXian LiAnTing very careful."Go home often"Although no written into law,China since ancient times can be formed"endowment/it/love"Moral concept,Already be accepted by people.The master said"Parents in,Don't make the",Is actually education people to give parents emotional comfort.The current,With more and more small family unit,Before the sort of four generations of the family have rarely appears.The children gradually after the adult leave home,The old man can only keep alone"Empty nest".

　　宝丰县法院决定先从调解入手，委托该县城关镇社会法庭接手该案。经过双方不断沟通，老人的子女意识到，他们在经济上对老人的关怀是足够了，但却忽略了老人们的精神需求。调解过程中，3个子女亲热地叫着“爸爸”、“妈妈”，承诺以后会多抽时间回家看望二老。孩子们的表现，让两位老人挺开心，表示撤回诉状。

BaoFengXian court decided to start with the mediation,Entrust the county town social court take over the case.After both sides communicate unceasingly,The old man's children realize,Their economic on the old man's concern is enough,But ignore the old people's spiritual needs.Mediation process,Three children called intimacy"dad"/"mother",Commitment will take time to see more home telephone.The children's performance,Let the two old man quite happy,Said withdraw complaint.

应对父母尽精神赡养义务 Parents do their duty to the spirit

【从“心”开始】 [from"heart"Began to]

　　“近年来，老人们对物质赡养的要求一般都很低，能够维持基本生活即可，但对‘儿孙绕膝’的向往却很强烈。”采访中，调解法官深有感触地说，在这类案子中，有不少老人都明确提出了精神赡养的请求。有些法院审理精神赡养案时，以“对赡养人不履行精神慰藉义务应承担何种责任，法律上没有作出明确规定”为由，驳回诉讼请求；而有些法院则支持了诉讼请求，争议的焦点就在于“精神赡养”究竟是道德义务还是法律责任。

"In recent years,The old people to material support requirements usually very low,To maintain basic life can be,But for‘RaoXi sons’Yearning is very intense."interview,The judge said that mediation,In such cases,There are many old people clearly put forward the request of the spiritual support.Some court case when the spiritual support,to"To support person fails to perform the spiritual solace obligations should bear what kind of responsibility,The law did not explicitly provided"for,Dismiss a lawsuit request;And some of the court is supported the litigation request,The focus of the dispute is that"Spiritual support"What exactly is the moral obligation or legal responsibility.

　　事实上，在现实生活中，对老人的物质赡养，全社会已普遍了解认同，但对于精神赡养问题，有些子女并不知晓这也是自己对父母应尽的义务，导致精神赡养责任不能履行。法官建议，应将精神赡养纳入我国现行法律范畴，将精神赡养从道德责任“硬化”为法律义务。

In fact,In real life,To the old man's material support,The whole society has been a common understanding identity,But for the spiritual support problem,Some children don't know it is their duty to their parents,Cause of the spiritual support is unable to perform responsibility.The judge suggested that,Spiritual support should be included in China's current legal category,Will the spiritual support from moral responsibility"hardening"For legal obligation.

　　线索提供 王刚 王晓芬记者 韩景玮 实习生 袁晓帅

Clues to provide wang gang WangXiaoFen reporter HanJingWei interns YuanXiaoShuai