青苹果之恋:从不能自拔到不能自制 Green apple of love: from can not extricate themselves to incontinence

　　

一名高二男生向同班女同学表白被拒，拿刀砍伤女孩耳朵 A senior high school boys to his female classmate profession was rejected,The sword ears hurt the girl

　　记者郭志远王玮皓实习生渠雪冰

GuoZhiYuan reporter wang hao interns canal snow ice

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summary

　　想和同班同学小芳恋爱不成，高二学生小成手持水果刀，向她砍去。10月27日，在郑州市一所高中，学生们课间休息的时候，这起血案发生。包括行凶者在内，共有4人受伤。

Want to and classmate small fang love fails,School students small into hand fruit knife,To cut her to.On October 27,,A high school in zhengzhou city,The students during recess,The murder happened., including the assailant,Has four people were injured.

　　

爆料 kept

　　

一女生被砍耳朵 A girl was cut ear

　　27日上午9时许，陆续有多位郑州某中学的学生通过QQ向本报报料称，大约半个小时前，就在大家课间休息的时候，高二一个班里发生了血案，“一名女生的耳朵被同学砍掉了”。

27 at about 9 in the morning,Have a number of zhengzhou one secondary school students through QQ attempting to our newspaper said,About half an hour ago,In everybody during recess,A high class murder happened,"A girl's ears were classmates cut off".

　　“大概八点二十分，我们听到楼下很吵，就朝楼下看，就看见一堆人从教学楼往学校门口跑，还喊着‘抓住他’，然后看见一个女孩捂着耳朵出来了，流了可多血。”一位学生说，事发在该校高二年级，当时刚下了第一节课，一女生被同班一男生砍掉耳朵，班里走廊上都是血，还有两个男同学为该女生挡刀，也被砍伤。

"About twenty eight o 'clock,We heard very noisy downstairs,Just look at the,They saw a bunch of people from building to run at the school gate,Also cried out‘Catch him’,And then saw a girl wu wear ear out,Flow the blood more."One student said,The high grade in the school,At that time just the first class,A girl is my a boy cut down the ear,In the class the corridor is blood,There are two male classmate for this girl stop knife,Also cuts.

　　对于事发原因，同学们众说纷纭，有人说是因为“女生听到了不该听的，所以才被砍耳朵”，有的说“女生拒绝男生表白，遭到报复”。一位学生说：“女生短发，长得挺漂亮，女孩的家长找到了学校，和老师发生了激烈的争吵。”

For the reason,The classmates opinions vary,Some say that because"The girl heard shouldn't listen,So just be cut ear",Some said"The girl refused to vindicate the boy,retaliation".One student said:"Girls hair,Looks very beautiful,The girl's parents find the school,And the teacher quarreled bitterly."

　　随后，记者驱车赶至事发学校，向值守保安亮明身份，但被拒之门外。中午放学时，不少学生走出校门，一位知情学生说，砍人的男生是从高三留级到高二的，追求那名女生已一年多，始终没有被接受。

then,Reporters drove rushed to the school,To watching security bright bright identity,But was rejected.When the noon,Quite a few students out of the school gate,A person close to the students said,The boy cut from three to repeat a year to the high,The pursuit of the girls already more than a year,Never be accepted.

　　“早上第一节课下课，他又表白被拒，看到这名女生和同桌说话，以为是在议论自己，于是挥刀就往她头上砍去，周围几名同学看到后，上前用手为她挡刀，都被砍伤，走廊里都是血。两三天前，我们就看见这个男生拿着刀。因为他平时性格孤僻，谁也没敢问他拿刀是做什么的。”另有同学这样向记者描述。

"In the morning the first class after class,He vindicate rejected,See the girls and sit at the same table talk,Thought is talking about himself,So the wave knife went to her head cut off,A few students around after see,With the hand to place her knife,Cuts are,The corridor is blood.Two or three days ago,We saw the boy take knife.Because he withdrawn at ordinary times,No one dared ask him, and took the knife do."Another classmate this description to the reporter.

　　

校方 school

　　

砍人学生已被控制 Chop down a person students has been control

　　昨日中午，据该校一位不愿具名的负责人透露，这件事情发生在上午8时30分，行凶者系高二的男生小成（化名），他的性格比较内向，对同班女同学小芳暗恋不成，手握从家里带的水果刀，利用课间休息的时间，向她动了手。

At noon yesterday,According to the school one anonymous person in charge said,The incident happened in the morning at 8:30,The assailant system high small boys into(alias),His character is introverted,To my female classmate small fang like no,Hand from home with the fruit knife,Using the class recess rest time,Move to her hand.

　　“女孩的耳朵没有砍掉。”这位负责人称，事发不久，包括他在内，学校领导班子全都赶到医院处置此事。水果刀砍向女孩左耳耳根处，已缝了针，“有几个男孩起身夺刀的时候，手掌也被扎伤了。”他说，学校已将此事告知了辖区嵩山路派出所，并将当事学生控制。

"The girl's ear not cut off."The officials say,The soon,Including him,School leadership team all hurried to the hospital disposal the matter.Fruit knife cut to the girl left ear ear place,Already seam a needle,"There are several boys got up and took the sword,Palm has also been pierced hurt."He said,The school has put the matter told the police station jurisdiction songshan road,And students party control.

　　随后，记者赶到接诊的郑州市骨科医院，该院急诊科证实，有4名受伤的学生被送至此处，其中3名进行了缝合手术，另一名同学左手背被砍掉一大块皮，已手术完毕。在病房门口，记者见到了受伤的女生小芳，她头上缠满了纱布，不停掉着眼泪。小芳说，她和砍伤自己的男生“有过节”，该男生性格非常偏执。

then,The reporter arrived became orthopaedic hospital of zhengzhou city,The hospital emergency department confirmed,Four injured students were sent in the mansion,Three of the name of the surgical suture,Another student left back was cut down a large piece of leather,Has finished the operation.In the doorway,Reporters saw the injured girl small fang,Her head wind filled with gauze,Keep away tears.Small fang said,She cut down and hurt his boy"Have the feast",The boy character is very paranoid.

　　

思考 thinking

　　

早恋问题咋应对 Early love problem zha to deal with

　　10月27日是周六，为何该校没有例行放假呢？该校一位负责人介绍，在此之前，学校承担了全国自考和成人高招考试，耽误了学生一些课程，为了把学生们落下的课补上，老师们便牺牲掉周末时间，选择补课。

On October 27 was Saturday,Why the school holiday not routine?The school a chief introduction,Before this,The school take the national entrance examinations and take an examination of oneself and adults,Delay the students some courses,In order to put the students falling at making up stories,The teachers and sacrificed weekend time,Choose make up a missed lesson.

　　是否因为感情教育的缺失，使孩子走上了极端？对此，郑州市教育学会教育心理学专家王海勇老师认为，孩子们进入青春期后，对异性产生好感是一件自然而然的事情，但是他们需要正确积极的引导。从小成同学这种砍人的行为可以推测，他在家里缺少与父母应该有的情感连接。所以才会将这种需求转移到小芳身上。但是反复求之而不得，心中产生强烈的失落感，由于无处交流与释放，逐渐变成了愤怒与恨，最后选择了这样一种极端的方式。

Is it because the lack of emotional education,Make the child going to the extreme?this,Zhengzhou education society education psychology experts WangHaiYong teacher think,The children after puberty,A good to the opposite sex is a natural things,But they need correct positive guide.From childhood into classmate this chop down a person's behavior is speculation,He is at home with their parents lack should some emotional connection.So we will this demand transferred to small fang body.But repeated for the and do not,Heart produces strong loss,Because they have nowhere exchange and release,Gradually became the anger and hate,Finally chose to such an extreme way.

　　对于这起校园伤人案，王海勇认为是学校教育、家庭教育与社会教育不协调的结果，校方、家长与社会都有不可推卸的责任。首先，家庭是孩子渴望被爱与被了解的最原始的源泉，家长应该对孩子有足够的了解与交流，从而在孩子需要的时候给予孩子积极正面的引导；其次，我国的学校教育缺失对孩子爱情观的教育，在孩子青春懵懂的阶段，学校并未给予孩子足够的情商教育与爱的教育；最后社会上的各种网络以及媒体所传播的内容，在某些程度上也夸大了孩子相关方面的感受。因此，青少年因早恋引发的案件屡禁不止。 For the case of campus hurt,WangHaiYong think is the school education/Family education and social education not harmonious results,school/Parents and society all have an unshirkable responsibility.First of all,The family is the child a craving to be loved and to be understand the most original source,Parents should for children have enough understanding and communication,Thus in the children need time to give children positive guidance;secondly,China's school education lack of love for children education,In the child youth ignorant stage,The school did not give children enough emotional quotient education and love of education;Finally on the various social network and the spread of media content,In some extent, also exaggerated children related experience.therefore,Teenagers caused by early love case repeatedly endures more than.