像李诺这样的“80后”在中国不算是少数，他今年28岁，大专毕业的他目前的工作是父亲的朋友帮忙介绍的，他害怕辞职会引发父亲的不满，也担心自己再难找到合适的工作。

Like LiNuo such"After 80"In China is not a few,This year he is 28 years old,College graduate his present job is father's friends to help introduction,He is afraid of resignation will result in father's dissatisfaction,Also worry about more difficult to find the right job.

　　“我想找个女朋友，可我的收入和学历都不高，也没时间陪她。现在我就是一个纯粹的‘宅男’，早上起来照镜子的时候，我经常有种怅然若失的感觉。”李诺说。

"I want to find a girlfriend,But my income and degree is not high,Also does not have the time to accompany her.Now I'm just a pure‘igawa’,When the morning look in the mirror,I always have the feeling of a sense of loss."LiNuo said.

　　中国古语云：三十而立。在上海打拼的时响也感觉到了而立之年的压力：“我拼了这么多年，攒下的钱只够在上海买几平方米的房子，每次过年回家，老妈都劝我回家工作，可在上海立足是我的梦想，但这梦离我越来越远。”他说，“对中国的年轻人来说，三十而立这词儿该改改了，应该叫‘三十难立’。”

China archaism cloud:Stand 30.In Shanghai when played ring also felt the pressure of thirty years of age:"I am dying for so many years,Saved money enough to buy only in Shanghai a few square meters of the house,Every New Year's day to go home,Old mama are advised me to go home work,Can be in Shanghai based on is my dream,But the dream from me far more and more."He said,"To China's young people,30 the tune the stand this word,Should call‘30 difficult to set’."

　　有专家就80后“三十难立”的问题做出过解释，专家认为，作为中国迅速发展的经济和独生子女政策催生的一代，“80后”在成长过程中几乎经历了中国社会变迁的全部，“80后”用一代人、三十年的时间，经历了别国几代人、300年所经历的焦虑和苦痛。

The expert is after 80"30 difficult to set"Problems made explanation,Experts say,As China's rapid development of the economy and the one-child policy ecbolic generation,"After 80"In the process of growing up the almost experience the Chinese social change of all,"After 80"Use a generation/Thirty years of time,Experienced foreign generations/300 years experience anxiety and pain.

　　前一阵从北京“逃离”回西安家中的邹舟说：“虽然我已经习惯了北京的工作和生活，但在北京时我陷入到了一种‘高不成低不就’的怪圈之中：我看上的男生嫌弃我没有北京户口，看上我的男生我却看不上，所以我决定回家。”

Before a from Beijing"Escape from"Back to xian home ZouZhou said:"Although I have already become accustomed to Beijing work and life,But in Beijing I in to a‘High inadequate DiBuJiu’Among the circle:I saw the boy abandon me no Beijing hukou,After my boy but I despises,So I decided to go home."

　　与怅然若失的李诺相比，选择“逃离”的邹舟无疑是幸福的。在“宅男”的生活里，网络游戏已经成为了李诺重要的一份精神寄托，“玩网游能找点自信，也能娱乐、放松下身心。”他说。

Compared with a sense of loss of LiNuo,choose"Escape from"The ZouZhou undoubtedly is happy.in"igawa"life,Network game has become the LiNuo important a spirit to place,"Play online can look for the point self-confidence,Can also entertainment/Relax the body and mind."He said.

　　所谓“80后”，指的是中国在1980年至1989年出生的人群，南京大学的一项统计表明，全国目前有接近两亿的“80后”。很多“80后”即将或已经迈入而立之年。

The so-called"After 80",Refers to China in 1980 to 1989 people were born,Nanjing university a statistics show,The national now has close to two hundred million"After 80".A lot of"After 80"Is or has been entering thirty years of age.

　　万通集团董事局主席冯仑曾对目前“80后”的处境表示过同情，他说，我们这一带人当年可以推卸责任，把所有的困难推向单位。现在的年轻人，只能将处境的喜忧归结为能力或者运气，别无他法。

Wantong group chairman of the board FengLun had told at present"After 80"Situation expressed sympathy,He said,We this area that people can pass the buck,All the difficulties to the unit.Young people nowadays,Only the situation like sorrow comes down to ability or luck,Have no choice but to.

　　南京大学社会学系的风笑天教授则表示，每一代人在成长的过程中总会遇到问题。“80后”是垮不了的，他们走个弯路也好，摔个跤也好，选择这个选择那个也好，让他们去。这就是社会，这就是时代。

Nanjing university of the department of social wind laugh day, said professor,Each generation in the process of growing up always encounter problems."After 80"Down is not,They walk or a detour,Fall off a falls or,Select the choice that all right,Let them go to.This is the social,This is the age.