自本报《“女生教育”中山实验》一文刊发后，“女生教育”成为市民网友的热议话题。据悉，中小学开展“女生教育”最终目的就是培养女生“自尊、自信、自立、自强”的精神，做一名既具传统美德又不失现代社会价值的女生。

Since the["Girls education"Zhongshan experimental]After publish a penny saved is a,"Girls education"Become citizens of the net friend a topic of hot debate.It is reported,Middle and primary school develops"Girls education"Final purpose is to help the girl"self-esteem/confidence/self-reliance/self-improvement"spirit,Do a is a traditional virtue does not lose the modern social value of girl.

　　对于这个拟推广至全市的“女生教育”试点，社会各界有赞有弹。为什么要开展“女生教育”？成功女性的定义是什么？怎样开展“女生教育”？开展“女生教育”后，“男生教育”会否缺位……

To the quasi promotion to the city"Girls education"pilot,The social from all walks of life have praise a bomb.Why do you want to carry out"Girls education"?What is the definition of a successful woman?How to carry out"Girls education"?Carry out"Girls education"after,"Boy education"Will no vacancy……

　　

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“女生教育”能否培养成功女性？ "Girls education"Can cultivate successful women?

　　

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一种情商教育 A kind of emotional quotient education

　　

东区柏苑小学副校长 班荣军 The east end cypress garden primary school vice President class disabled soldier

　　“儿要穷养，长大了才会奋斗；女要富养，长大了才不受诱惑。”许多家长让自己的女儿学习琴棋书画，唱歌舞蹈，培养气质，穿着打扮更是讲究。但说实话，任性、刁蛮的女孩还真不少。

"Son to a poor,Grew up will struggle;Female to eutrophic,Grow up to be superior to."Many parents let his own daughter learn chess,Singing dance,Culture temperament,Dress is exquisite.But to tell you the truth,capricious/Stroppy girl really many.

　　尤其是五六年级以及初中阶段的女孩子注重打扮、不爱回答问题、喜欢上网、喜欢流行歌曲和歌星，沉迷看校园小说，个别还有可能出现早恋现象等，因此，开展女生教育，让女孩子改掉坏习气，这类似于情商教育，在现行教育环境中应该支持。

Especially in five or six years level and the junior middle school stage girls pay attention to dress up/Don't love answer this question/Likes surfing the Internet/Like pop songs and singer,Indulging see campus novels,Individual and may appear early love phenomenon, etc,therefore,Girls education in,Let the girls get rid of the bad habit,This is similar to eq education,In current education environment should support.

　　中国传统女性形象是受世人仰慕的，“女生教育”是传统教育和现代教育的体现，中国女性既有传统文化思想又有现代科学知识有什么不好，有些人打着崇尚时尚、个性的幌子把女子引上了斜路，也直接影响到下一代的正确培养和教育，“女生教育”是纠正这些错误的开始，是好的开端。

The traditional Chinese female image is affected by the desire of the people of the world,"Girls education"Is the traditional education and modern education reflect,Chinese women both have the traditional cultural thoughts and modern scientific knowledge have what not good,Some people advocate dozen fashion/The mask of personality the woman drawing the ramp,Also directly affect the next generation of the right training and education,"Girls education"Is the beginning of the correction of these errors,Is a good beginning.

　　

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因材施教，不要成机器“模子” Teach students in accordance with their aptitude,Don't into machine"mold"

　　

网友 快人快语 Net friend KuaiRenKuaiYu

　　女生可以活泼开朗，也可以文静，或者成熟、大方。怎么非要全是一个模样呢？

The girl can be lively and cheerful,Can also gentle and quiet,Or mature/generous.How to full is a painting?

　　女性可以是淑女，但一定要活得清新自然，要发自内心的美丽、善良。礼节可以随时代改变，而不变的是发自内在的真善美，清新、自然、高贵、成熟、豪放、泼辣都是美的。何必要变成一个机器模板压出来的物品？

Women can be a lady,But must live pure and fresh and natural,The beauty of your heart/kind.Etiquette can change over time,And the same beauty comes from within,Pure and fresh/natural/noble/mature/Bold and unconstrained/Rude and unreasonable is beautiful.Why should become a machine template pressure out items?

　　此外，像学校编写专为女生而设的教材，但这些并非考试内容，学校就能保证每个女生都有阅读这些教材吗？而一些思想已经偏离了的女生，倘若她们对任何社团任何活动都失去兴趣，那么“女生教育”对于她们来说或许只是一句口号。

In addition,Like the school write designed for girls and set of teaching materials,But these are not exam content,The school can ensure that every girl has reading these materials?And some ideas have already deviated from the girl,If they to any society any activity all lose interest,so"Girls education"For them it might be just a slogan.

　　因此，我认为尽管采取了一系列举措，但也难保培养出来的女性就是成功的。学校倒不如因材施教，具体到每一个女生身上还比较有意义。

therefore,I think although adopted a series of measures,But also be difficult to cultivate out of women is successful.As the school teach students in accordance with their aptitude,Specific to each girl on more significance.

　　

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有“女生教育”，是否也要推“男生教育”？ have"Girls education",Whether to push"Boy education"?

　　

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女生教育忽视了男生 The girl education ignore the boy

　　

家长 陈立 Parents ChenLi

　　如今学校不是都在说“男孩危机”吗？不推行男孩教育反而推行女孩教育，以后男孩会不会更“娘”，更没有自信心？女生教育可能会让女生更强势，而男生则更懦弱。如果要推行女生教育，为什么不推行男生教育？这样大力推“女生教育”，很有可能从小就造成男女性别对抗，因此我认为开展女生教育的同时也要开展男生教育，这样方可体现男女平等的观念。

Now the school not all with said"The boy crisis"??Do not implement the boy education instead of carrying out the girl education,Later the boy will more"niang",More have no confidence?The girl education may let girls more strong,The boys are more weak.If you want to implement girls education,Why not implement the boy education?So vigorously push"Girls education",Very likely caused by a sex against,So I think girls education carried out at the same time to carry out the boy education,This may reflect the idea of equality of men and women.

　　

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中山市华侨中学党委副书记 高毅 Zhongshan overseas Chinese school, vice secretary of party GaoYi

　　

1个好女生带动10个好男生 1 a good girl drive 10 a good boy

　　如果你在家教育儿子，就是在教育公民；如果你在家教育女儿，就是在培养整个民族。事实上，女生对班风、学风、校风方面的影响举足轻重。

If you at home education son,Even in education citizens;If you at home education daughter,Even in training the whole nation.In fact,Girls in the class to/style/The effect of the school spirit plays an important role.

　　而现今，令学校管理者棘手的许多问题，比如早恋问题、男生打架问题，背后常常有“问题女生”的因素。因此，加强女生教育，“抓女生，促男生”应当是新时期学校德育管理的新思路。

And now,Make school administrators difficult many problems,For example early love problems/Boys fight problems,Behind often have"Problem girl"factors.therefore,Strengthen girls education,"Grasp the girl,Promote boys"In the new period should be school moral education management of new ideas.

　　

男女生眼中的“完美女神” In the eyes of men and women living"Perfect goddess"

　　中小学开始培养“现代淑女”，并声称此淑女不再是古时“君子好逑”的“窈窕淑女”，而是“在传统美德基础上又不失现代社会价值的淑女，是新文明、新文化、新时代背景下的新女性”。正如一千个人眼中有一千个哈姆雷特，什么样的女子才是符合现代审美的“成功女性”，不同的人感想是不同的，男生与女生心中的标准也是不同的。

Primary and secondary schools begin to develop"Modern ladies",Claiming the fair maiden is no longer ancient"A gentleman's good mate"of"My fair lady",but"Based on the traditional virtue and not lose the modern social value of the lady,Is a new civilization/New culture/Under the background of new era new woman".As one thousand people eyes have one thousand Hamlet,What kind of woman is accord with the modern aesthetic"Successful woman",Different people feeling is different,Boys and girls heart standard is also different.

　　

女生说：工作家庭两不误 Girl said:Working families two not mistake

　　现代女性自强、独立的意识逐渐强烈，因追求事业而忽略家庭的现象普遍存在。在李敏华看来，这是一种得不偿失的做法，她认为家庭和工作同样重要，不可偏废其一。只有把自己摆在一个足够重要的位置，才能平衡两者的关系，使家庭和工作真正达到平衡、和谐。

Modern female self-improvement/Independent consciousness gradually strong,Because of the pursuit of the cause and ignore the family phenomenon exists generally.In LiMinHua seems,This is a practice of the loss outweights the gain,She thinks that family and work are equally important,Humanoriented one.Only put himself in a enough important position,To balance the relationship between them,Make a family and working really achieve balance/harmonious.

　　在家庭生活中要做好一个女人，既要关心丈夫和孩子，也要懂得爱惜自己，懂得付出但不能全部承担；在工作上无论自己能力有多强，也要给自己休息、娱乐的时间和学习提高的机会。

In family life to do a woman,Should not only care about her husband and children,Also want to know how to care yourself,Know how to pay but not for all;In the work no matter how strong your ability,Also want to give yourself a rest/Entertainment time and chance to improve learning.

　　

男生说：外柔内刚最理想 Boy said:The outside is soft inside just the most ideal

　　在市华侨中学高二学生韦家俊心目中的成功女性应该拥有外柔内刚的特质。他表示，随着女性社会地位提高，现代女性承受的心理、生理压力逐年升高。女性拥有刚强健康的心灵，就成为成功女性的前提条件。

At the municipal overseas Chinese middle school students WeiGuJun idea of successful women should have the outside is soft inside just of the trait.He said,As women to improve social status,Modern women under psychological/Physiological pressure increases year by year.Women have strong and healthy mind,Become the premise condition of successful women.

　　此外，如今，有些女生相貌出众，衣着打扮前卫，过分追求个性，总希望保持独特，结果与人格格不入。相比较有些女生处事懂分寸，恶言秽语都能从容化解，和身边的人常有欢笑。虽说相貌不出众，能力不算强，但是良好的人际关系往往成为集体的焦点，容易得到别人的支持和帮助。这样的女生也是韦家俊心中理想女性的标准之一。

In addition,now,Some of the girls looks outstanding,Dress avant-garde,Excessive pursuit individual character,Always want to maintain the unique,Results to fit in.Compared to some of the girls to understand discretion,Evil bawdry can easy dissolve,And the people around him laugh often.Although looks not outstanding,Ability is not strong,But good interpersonal relationships often becomes the focus of the collective,Easy to get other people's support and help.This girl is also WeiGuJun female ideal heart of one of the standard.

　　

他山之石 Stones from other hills

　　

新加坡南洋女子中学 勤慎端朴塑品格 Singapore nanyang girls' school in frequently end piao plastic character

　　新加坡南洋女子中学创立于1917年，是一所历史悠久的女校。在学术和课外活动均有不俗表现的南中，对学生在品格上的塑造也非常重视。南中的校训是“勤慎端朴”，致力于培养学生的德智体群美的完人。

Singapore nanyang girls' middle school was founded in 1917,Is a girls' school with a long history.In the academic and extracurricular activities are good in the south,To the student in the character of the shape also attach great importance to.The school motto is south"Frequently in end piao",To cultivate students' integrated group of perfect beauty.

　　与许多女校一样，南中在打造学生成为女中豪杰与贤妻良母的两种角色上，面对挑战。该校的负责人曾说过：“我们希望学生们有魄力，巾帼不让须眉，同时也能够不失女性的温柔”。一方面，学校鼓励学生有话直说，鼓励学生们在学校开店创业；另一方面，学校安排学生上仪态课，教她们餐桌礼仪、各种文化的礼仪、面试的技巧等。

As with many girls' school,In the south in make students to become woman hero and wife and mother of two roles,In the face of the challenge.The head of the school said:"We hope that the students have the courage,Women don't concede before man,At the same time can also do not break women's gentle".On the one hand,Schools encourage students to speak out,Encourage the students in the school set up shop business;On the other hand,School for students in class carriage,Teach their table manners/All kinds of cultural etiquette/The interview skills, etc.

　　南方日报记者 邓泳秋

Southern daily reporter DengYongQiu