女生

girl

更觉压力大 Feel more pressure

　　记者在调查中发现，男生的焦虑程度普遍高于女生。“我既不是‘富二代’，也不是‘官二代’，不早点努力，以后找工作、买房子都难。”江辉向记者诉苦说，想到以后要面临结婚、生子等各种压力，他连觉都睡不着。

Reporter in the survey found,The level of anxiety in the boy is commonly higher than girls."I'm not‘Rich the second generation’,Is not‘Officer the second generation’,Not to early,Job later/Buy houses are difficult to."JiangHui complained to reporters,Thought of later face get married/A son, etc. Various kinds of pressure,He couldn't sleep sleep.

　　“有时寝室开‘卧谈会’，大家一聊到将来的发展规划就很沉默。”江辉表示，进入社会甚至成家以后，还是得靠男生挑大梁，如果找不到好工作，怎样承担这份责任？

"Sometimes bedroom open‘Will lie to talk to’,Everyone a chat to future development plan is silent."JiangHui said,Into the social and even get married later,Still have to rely on the boy play the leading role,If you can't find a good job,How to bear the responsibility?

　　“父母对我找工作的期望也不是很高，只要能养活自己就行。”武昌工学院一名即将毕业的女生告诉记者，她在就业上的压力不是很大。“以后我肯定是以操持家务为主，赚钱的事还是得靠男朋友啊。”该校另一名女生坦言。

"The parents of my job expectations also is not very high,As long as it can support himself will do."Wuchang engineering college students to graduate from a girl told reporters,She was on the employment pressure is not very big."Later I'm sure is mainly housework,Make money of the matter still depends on boyfriend ah."The school the other a girl said.

学习求职不可舍本逐末 Learn to apply for a job not at the shadow and lose the substance

　　“大学生担心找不到合适、满意的工作，担心企业不适合自己，担心工资太低，这都是就业焦虑的表现。”中央教科所心理健康教育研究专家尹邓安表示，就业焦虑症不可忽视，轻者可带来压力、唤起大家的警觉；重者则会使人在就业面前惊慌失措，感到无所适从，甚至对就业产生恐惧。“如果长期处于过度焦虑的惊恐状态，容易造成生理失常或产生焦虑性神经症。”他提醒说。“大学生应该理性面对就业，做好自我定位和职业规划，有目标地加强学习。”尹邓安强调，扎实的专业功底才是找工作的根基，同学们即使焦虑也不能舍本逐末，丢掉上课的时间去跑招聘会。（楚天 金报 记者宋锐 通讯员莫玉津 实习生蔡孟妍）

"College students worry about finding the right/Satisfactory work,Worry about enterprise do not suit oneself,Worry about the salary is too low,This is all employment anxiety performance."The central training section mental health education research experts DengAn Yin said,Employment anxiety can not be ignored,Light person can bring pressure/Call everyone's vigilance;The person that weigh will make the person is in front of employment panic,Feel not know what to do,Even for employment produce fear."If long-term excessive anxiety in fear of the state,Easy to cause physiological disorder, or develop anxiety neurosis."He warned."College students should be rational face employment,Do self orientation and career planning,Objective to strengthen learning."DengAn Yin emphasis on,Solid professional skills is the foundation of looking for a job,The students even if anxiety can't at the shadow and lose the substance,Throw away the class time to run recruitment.(Chutian 27 reporters SongRui correspondent MoYu tianjin CaiMengYan interns)