不买房子，没有汽车，甚至也没有特别的求婚仪式，两个因去贵州山区支教而相识的80后年轻人要结婚了。

Don't buy a house,Do not have a car,Even without special courtship ritual,Two to guizhou mountainous area for education and met after 80 young people to get married.

　　他们要将“红包”变成520套冬季校服，送给农村学校的孩子们。

They will"Red envelopes"Become 520 sets of winter uniform,For the rural school children.

　　可当他们再次回到山区时，那里的乡亲们却为他们举办了一场特殊的婚礼。

But when they once again return to the mountains,Where folks but for they held a special wedding.

　　喜酒还没摆，新人陈华信和吴文苑已经计划好了“红包”的用途。这对刚刚领取结婚证的广东小夫妻早就决定，用结婚收到的礼金购买新年礼物，送给贵州和广西山区3所小学的孩子们。

Shower haven't put,The couple of faith and Chen hua.very wu yuan has been planned"Red envelopes"USES.This has just get marriage certificate of the guangdong small husband and wife decided early on,With a marriage received as gifts to buy New Year gift,To guizhou and guangxi mountainous area 3 primary school children.

　　如果一切顺利，这份礼物，将会是520套冬季校服，每套100元。数字“520”则象征着“我爱你”。

If all goes well,This gift,Will is 520 sets of winter uniform,Each 100 yuan.digital"520"Symbol is"I love you".

　　这份特殊的“浪漫”并非一时心血来潮。事实上，阿信和文苑正是因大学时支教贵州山区小学而相识。“520套冬衣，为庆祝也为感恩。”他们在微博上写道。阿信附上了他创办的支教助学公益组织银行账号，期待有更多人加入，募捐的截止日期是12月2日婚礼当天。

This special"romantic"Not on impulse.In fact,To xin and WenYuan but because college primary school education guizhou mountainous area and acquaintance."520 sets of winter clothes,In order to celebrate for Thanksgiving."They in micro blog wrote.He founded the ahshin attach education student public welfare organization bank account,Look forward to have more people to join,The deadline is December 2, wedding day.

　　“元旦就回贵州发放我们募捐来的衣服。”文苑表示，那就是他们的蜜月之旅。

"New Year's day and returned to guizhou issue we pass the hat round to clothes."WenYuan said,That is their honeymoon trip.

　　整座学校除了屋子和桌椅，什么都没有，墙壁突出的部分被涂黑，就当黑板用，每学期都有孩子辍学

Entire school in addition to the house and desks and chairs,nothing,Wall prominent part is painted black,When the blackboard with,Each semester has children drop out

　　阿信的微博很快引来不少认捐和转发，这其中“七八成是亲朋好友”，也有些陌生人。在上百条留言中，一位网友声称自己正处在“贫困期”，但也要“认捐”。阿信的一位朋友则称虽然婚宴未必能到场，也要“红包奉上”。

To xin micro bo soon drew a lot of subscription and forwarding,the"Seven eighty percent are relatives and friends",Also some stranger.In the article the hundreds of messages,A net friend claimed that they are in"Poverty period",But also"subscription".A friend of ahshin, said although the wedding party may not be present,Also want to"Red packets in".

　　截至11月12日，这场网友口中“最美的婚礼”已经收到1万多元“红包”，可以购买180多套冬季校服。

By November 12,,The net friend mouth"Most beautiful wedding"Have received 10000 multivariate"Red envelopes",Can buy more than 180 sets of winter uniform.

　　“最多也就两三百套吧。”对于最终能否完成“520”的目标，26岁的阿信并不乐观。这位供职于南都全媒体品牌事业中心公益事业部的新郎官策划过不少公益项目，他觉得“甜蜜校服计划”太微不足道了，不会引起广泛关注。

"Only 2300 set of it."For final can be completed or not"520"goal,26 years old to xin is not optimistic.This worked for SMW all media brand business center of public welfare department groom all planning to a lot of public welfare projects,He felt"Sweet school uniform plan"Too little,Not aroused widespread concern.

　　但对这对新婚夫妇来说，这却是最特别的仪式。2012年春节过后，相恋4年的阿信和文苑把“结婚”提上日程。男孩出生在农村，女孩在都市长大。不买房子，没有汽车，也没有特别的求婚仪式，只是双方父母见面，敲定了时间。

But for the newlywed,This is the most special ceremony.2012 years after the Spring Festival,Four years of love and WenYuan a-shin wowed the"married"Put on the agenda.The boy was born in the countryside,The girl grew up in the city.Don't buy a house,Do not have a car,No special courtship ritual,Just meet both parents,Finalized the time.

　　“我们彼此心有灵犀。”阿信说，当他提出要把婚礼和公益结合起来时，在中国人保财险电子商务南方运营中心任职的文苑告诉他，自己也一直这样想。

"We each other heart eye to eye."To xin said,When he offered to put our wedding and public welfare when combined,In China property insurer e-commerce operation center in the south of the WenYuan told him,Oneself also has been think so.

　　他们的想法源于在贵州省大方县油杉小学一段绵延5年的感情。

The idea comes from in guizhou province DaFangXian keteleeria elementary school for a period of five years of feelings.

　　说起来，阿信第一次去往油杉河村，是一个“偶然中的必然”。2007年，大二“五一”长假，新闻学专业的他和朋友去贵州“走访”，他长期关注教育领域的新闻，而正好在那段时间，贵州出现了好几个“感动全国”的教育人物，他想亲眼看看那些“新闻现场”。

it,For the first time to xin to keteleeria river village,Is a"Accidental necessary in the".In 2007,,sophomore"The May Day"holiday,Journalism professional he and his friends to guizhou"visit",His long attention in the field of education news,And just in that time,Guizhou appeared several"Touched the"Education characters of,He wanted to see those"News site".

　　一位早就联络好的贵州网友将阿信带到了自己的家乡大方县。在草坪乡和星宿乡同当地人“吹水（聊天）”时，阿信得知，四里八乡最穷的地方，是悬崖那边的油杉河村。

An early contact good guizhou net friend will to xin brought to his hometown DaFangXian.In the village and township stars with the local people"Blow water(chat)"when,A-shin wowed learned that,SiLiBaXiang the poorest places,Is the other side of the cliff keteleeria river village.

　　吃过午饭，阿信向着老乡手指的方向步行出发。冒着雨，他穿过断崖边坑洼湿滑的石头路，直到下午3点多才到达一片山谷。远远望去，两山之间一条小溪流过，溪边是3间平房。

After lunch,To xin toward the direction of the villagers fingers on walking.Braved the rain,As he crossed the precipice edge pot hole slippery stone road,Until more than 3 PM arrived at a piece of the valley.Far looked,Between two mountains a stream flow,The stream is 3 bungalow.

　　“没有别人的指引，我根本看不出那是一所学校。”阿信回忆，眼前的油杉小学，连最起码的一根旗杆都没有。当时的他还并不知道，这毫不起眼的3间平房，是附近唯一一套砖瓦结构的房子，村民们住的还都只是木屋。

"No one else guidance,I can't see out of that is a school."A-shin wowed memories,Present keteleeria elementary school,Even at least a flagpole all have no.Then he also does not know,The clues 3 bungalow,Near is the only a set of tile structure house,The villagers live all just log cabin.

　　即使是5月，山中下起雨来，依然寒气逼人。学校里，乡村教师赵鹏听说广州来了大学生，兴奋极了，“围着火炉，嗑着瓜子”，他向阿信讲解了油杉小学的情况：

Even if is may,Lower mountain suddendly it began to rain,Still the cold is very penetrating.school,Rural teachers ZhaoPeng heard that guangzhou to the college students,So excited,"Round the fire,The melon seeds",He asked to xin explained keteleeria elementary school situation:

　　一百来个学生，两名教师，每年只能收到三分之一的学费，数学成绩却是全乡数一数二。整座学校除了屋子和桌椅，什么都没有。墙壁突出的部分被涂黑，就当黑板用，每学期都有孩子辍学。

One hundred to a student,Two teachers,Every year can only receive a third of tuition,Math scores is one the entire town.Entire school in addition to the house and desks and chairs,nothing.Wall prominent part is painted black,When the blackboard with,Each semester has children drop out.

　　“有的家庭连盐巴也吃不起，哪来钱交学费。”赵鹏对阿信说。面对山村的贫穷，出生在广东湛江农村的阿信坦言自己并没有什么伤感怜悯，而是“直面它的存在”。但他同时也觉得，自己得做点什么。

"Some families even salt also leave,Which money to pay my tuition."To ZhaoPeng ahshin said.In the face of the poor mountain village,Was born in zhanjiang, guangdong rural a-shin wowed concede and no sentimental compassion,but"Face to face with its existence".But he also feel,He had to do something.

　　这年暑假，阿信在校园网上招募了4名志愿者，回到油杉小学支教。同年10月，他创立了“向日葵天使”支教助学公益组织，成为广东商学院青年志愿者协会的下设部门。又过了半年多，社团招新，阿信和文苑相遇了。

This year summer vacation,To xin in campus online recruitment four volunteers,Back to keteleeria primary school education.In October,He founded the"Sunflower angel"Education student public welfare organization,Become guangdong college departments of youth volunteer association.And after a little more than half a year,Community recruit new,To xin and WenYuan met.

　　初见阿信的情景，文苑“永远也忘不了”。那天，在广东商学院读大二的她赶着去参加学校招募暑期支教志愿者的讲座。因为有事被耽搁，这个迟到的姑娘低着头钻进教室，在最后一排落座。而当她抬起头时，便看见了讲台上侃侃而谈的支教志愿者队队长阿信。

First sight to xin scenarios,WenYuan"Never forget".That day,Read at guangdong college sophomore forced her to attend school education recruitment summer volunteers of the lectures.Because something is delayed,The late girl low head into the classroom,In the last row takes a seat.And when she looked up,He saw the podium speaking education volunteer team captain to xin.

　　在文苑的记忆里，阿信的眼睛很亮。“他内心一定很有力量。”她忍不住对身边的同学说，“我要加入这个团队”。

In WenYuan memory,To xin eyes are very bright."His heart must be very have the strength."She couldn't help to the students around said,"I want to join the team".

　　讲台上的阿信对这一切一无所知，他只是后来听说，文苑是社工系的活跃分子。“吸引社工加入公益活动，一定有很大帮助。”这位完全投入工作的“队长”表示，最初他有一点功利心。

The platform of a-shin wowed to all these know nothing,He just heard later,WenYuan is social work system of active molecule."Attract social workers to join public welfare activities,There must be a great help."The fully in work"captain"said,At first he is a little utilitarian heart.

　　如今，阿信和文苑谁也说不清楚，不到两周后的那天傍晚，到底是他先牵她的手，还是她先靠在他的肩膀。只记得从志愿者面试到两个人在一起，“时间快到连月牙也来不及变圆”。

now,To xin and WenYuan who also said not clearly,Less than two weeks after that evening,What is he first, holding her hand,Or she first on his shoulder.Just remember from volunteers interview to two people together,"Time is to even link also without enough time to go round".

　　

当她结束家访离开时，女孩在山上大声喊着：“老师！一定要回来啊！” When she left the family visit the end,The girl cried out with a loud voice in the mountains:"The teacher!Be sure to come back ah!"

　　在男朋友的“领导”下，文苑开始参与广商“向日葵天使”支教助学公益组织的活动。一个月后，她随阿信一同深入油杉河村，在油杉小学支教3周。

In a boyfriend"leadership"under,WenYuan started to participate in the wide business"Sunflower angel"Education student public welfare organization's activities.After a month,Together with her ahshin deeply keteleeria river village,In keteleeria primary school education for three weeks.

　　文苑坦言，去支教最初是因为自己过得“太平顺了”，总想“找苦吃”。

WenYuan said,To education first because I had"Too smooth the",Always want to"Find bitter to eat".

　　第一次支教的经历让这个在城市里长大的独生女吃足了苦头。她第一次坐了20多个小时的硬座车；第一次和同学裹着潮湿发霉的棉被，挤在课桌拼成的“床”上。她一周只能洗一次澡，而这珍贵的“洗澡水”则让她和几个女孩身上长满了令人奇痒难忍的皮疹，“无聊时互相数，足有100多颗”。

The first volunteer experience let this in the city grew up only daughter eat enough bitterness.The first time she sat for more than 20 hours of hard-seat car;The first and students wrapped wet moldy quilt,Crowded at the desk Mosaic"bed"on.She can only take a bath once a week,And this precious"bath"Has she and several girls who are covered with a JiYang painful rash,"Each other when boring number,Foot has more than 100 a".

　　文苑并不愿承认这样的生活算是“吃苦”。在她眼中，油杉河村的人们虽然贫穷，但他们的生活并不显得苦闷或消极。外人来到村里，会受到热情的款待，说起未来，他们也总是非常乐观。这是她从未有过的经历。

WenYuan is not willing to admit that such a life is"hardship".In her eyes,Keteleeria river village people although poor,But their life is not appear anguish or negative.A stranger came to the village,Will be affected by the enthusiasm of his hospitality,Speak of the future,They are always very optimistic.This is she has had no experience.

　　但在她家访的过程中，一个三年级小女孩不断地要求“老师抱抱”，“老师和我说说话”。女孩的父母都在外地打工，家中只有年近古稀的外公外婆。“童年缺失的爱是任何方式都无法再弥补的。”这是文苑最为“揪心”之处。

But in her family visit's process,A grade three little girl constantly demand"The teacher hug","The teacher and chat with me".The girl's parents are working in the field,Home only getting on for's grandpa and grandma."Childhood lack of love is any way are unable to remedy."This is the most WenYuan"due"place.

　　当她结束家访离开时，女孩在山上大声喊着：“老师！一定要回来啊！”

When she left the family visit the end,The girl cried out with a loud voice in the mountains:"The teacher!Be sure to come back ah!"

　　在阿信看来，山区儿童特别是留守儿童所需要的，并不仅仅是好的校舍和吃饱穿暖，更需要精神和情感的交流，而这是支教志愿者最应做到的。

In a-shin wowed seems,Mountain children, especially left-behind children need,Not only is a good school buildings and eat satisfied wear warm,Need more spiritual and emotional communication,And this is the most education volunteers should do.

　　因此，阿信对他的团队管理非常严苛。从备课、上课，到家访、交谈，每一个和孩子有关的环节阿信都要求志愿者们力求完美。他同时会注意到当地的“礼仪风俗”，在观念比较传统的老乡面前，志愿者“大大咧咧”的行为会被队长严肃批评。

therefore,To xin to his team management is very tough.Prepares a lesson from/class,To family visit/conversation,Every child and relevant link to xin require volunteers strive to perfect.He also will notice the local"Etiquette customs",In the more traditional concept of before villagers,volunteers"careless"Behavior will be captain serious criticism.

　　“我们那时是地下情。”阿信回忆和文苑共同支教的几十天。为了和女友保持距离，他甚至刻意减少和她谈话的机会。该批评的时候，这个之前“很会照顾人”的男朋友毫不留情。说起那时的阿信，文苑笑称“很凶”。但她同时也觉得，“认真工作的男人极具魅力”。

"We then is to lower levels."To xin memories and WenYuan mutual assistance dozens of day.In order to keep distance with his girlfriend,He even deliberately reduce the opportunity to talk with her.This criticism,Before the"Very will take care of people"Boyfriend no mercy.Speaking of at that time to xin,WenYuan smile said"Is tough".But she also feel,"Work hard man extremely attractive".

　　“那里见证了我们的感情，也让我看到阿信最好的一面。”20岁的文苑对着大山暗自许下诺言，如果将来真的能嫁给他，一定要回到那里。

"There has seen our feelings,Also let me see a-shin wowed the best side."At the age of 20 WenYuan to dashan secretly make a promise,If the future really can marry him,Must return to there.

　　当时已经是阿信第3次去往油杉河村。此后，他又回去过4次，有时哪怕只待一两天，只够教孩子们唱一首歌。

At that time is to xin third but also keteleeria river village.Since then,He go back to four of the past,Sometimes even if only for a day or two,Only enough to teach the children sing a song.

　　“那里不是农家乐，不是游乐场，也不是拿给你体验的地方。”阿信严肃地回忆着自己的支教经历。作为队长，遇到以美化简历或满足好奇为目的的报名者，他总是直接刷掉。在他看来，“打游击”式的所谓支教，走了不知何时再来，是不负责任的行为，没有任何效果，甚至还会对孩子们的心灵造成伤害。

"It's not the farm,Not playground,Also not give it to you experience place."To xin seriously memories of his own experience to lend a hand.As the captain,Meet to beautify the resume or meet the curiosity for the purpose of applicants,He always direct brush off.In his view,"Fight as a guerrilla"Type of so-called to lend a hand,Go don't know when to come again,Is irresponsible behavior,Do not have any effect,Even the children's heart damage.

　　有段时间，阿信忙于支教工作，得不到家人的认可，也找不到体面的工作，他感到“迷茫，像所有年轻人一样”。然而，文苑始终和男友站在“一条战线”，从未抱怨或要求过什么。

For some time,Busy with a-shin wowed education work,Family is not recognized,Also can not find decent job,He felt"confusion,Like all young people".however,WenYuan always boyfriend and stood in"A front",Never complain or for anything.

　　但油杉小学的日子越过越好了。2009年，县政府为油杉小学盖起两层新校舍，修起围墙、铺平操场，旗杆在校舍前立起来。在国家免收学费的新政策下，几乎没有孩子因为贫困而失学，不少学生考上高中。5年下来，阿信收到学生的来信，足足攒满了一大箱。这个箱子他走到哪里都带着，一封信也不曾遗落。

But keteleeria primary school day crossed well.In 2009,,The county government for keteleeria elementary school built two new school,Fix up the fence/Paved the playground,Flagpole in the school set up before.In the country the new tuition policy,Almost no children drop out of school because of poverty,Quite a few students admitted to high school.Five years down,To xin received a letter from students,Fully saving filled with a big box.This box where he goes with,A letter is never lost.

　　“在那里我感觉到自己的存在，非常强烈。”阿信说，那种满足感是拥挤繁华的都市无法给予他的。

"There I feel its own existence,Very strong."To xin said,That kind of satisfaction is crowded prosperous cities can't give his.

　　

一个孩子直到第二天还念念不忘，写纸条给阿信：“你们来了我很高兴，烟花真美。” A child until the second day still on the brain,Write note to to xin:"You come to me very happy,Fireworks beautiful."

　　11月2日，这对情侣登记结婚。一天晚上睡前聊天时，他们商量着，可以用红包购买冬季校服，作为新年礼物，让孩子们的小手不用被冻伤，也不用再背着煤去上学。

On November 2,,The couple married registration.One day before sleeping in the evening when chatting,They talk of the,Can use a red envelope winter uniform purchase,As a New Year gift,Let the children's hands need not be frostbite,Also need not carry coal to go to school.

　　新婚第二天，阿信和文苑就回到了油杉河村。阿信想在那里拍摄结婚照，给孩子们发喜糖。站在山头的老树下，新娘穿着洁白的婚纱。她的肩膀露在不足摄氏10度的空气中，心里却感受到“意义非凡的热烈”。

The day after the wedding,To xin and WenYuan went back to the keteleeria river village.To xin want to marry according to shoot there,Give the children send wedding candies.Standing in the old tree,The bride wears a white wedding gown.Her shoulder dew in less than 10 degrees Celsius in the air,But in his heart he felt"Remarkable warmly".

　　这对新人并没有想到，在结束拍摄回到学校后，他们得到了“高规格”的迎接。从赵鹏老师那里得知阿信和文苑要回来，学生家长们自发操办了婚庆的酒席。

The couple did not think of,In the end after shooting back to school,They got"High specification"meet.From ZhaoPeng teacher know there to xin and WenYuan will come back,Students' parents spontaneous make arrangements for the wedding feast.

　　女人钻进厨房，切菜炖鸡，男人端起白酒，点起鞭炮。教室里的课桌被临时“征用”，在场院里被拼成4个大桌。全村来了100多人，从下午5点到晚上8点，足足吃了4轮流水席。当雾气散去，夜晚来临，他们在山谷里点起烟花。所有人都仰头看着那穿透黑暗的光彩，一个孩子直到第二天还念念不忘，写纸条给阿信：“你们来了我很高兴，烟花真美。”

Woman got into the kitchen,Cut vegetables stewed chicken,Man end up liquor,Point off firecrackers.The desks in the classroom is temporary"requisition",The cinema is Mosaic 4 a big table.The whole village to more than 100 people,From 5 PM to 8 PM,Fully ate four wheel LiuShuiXi.When the fog dispersed,The night comes,They in the valley point up fireworks.Everyone looked at the upward through the darkness of the luster,A child until the second day still on the brain,Write note to to xin:"You come to me very happy,Fireworks beautiful."

　　像传统婚礼上所有的新人一样，新婚夫妇穿着红衣服，挨桌敬酒。一位大叔把红包塞进阿信手里，阿信执意拒绝。看着大叔“黑着脸”走掉，阿信赶紧召集老乡“开会”，约定12年是一个轮回，红包就包12块钱。有些家长来了并不吃饭，把红包放下就走。临走前，阿信和文苑总共收到3456元。

Like a traditional wedding as all newbies,Newlyweds dressed in red clothes,Get table to propose a toast.A red envelope plug into the uncle ahshin hand,A-shin wowed determined refused to.Looked at uncle"Black face"off,To xin hurriedly call person of hometown"meeting",Agreed 12 years is a cycle,The red envelope is bag 12 yuan.Some parents come not to eat,The red envelope go down.Before he left,To xin and WenYuan received $3456 in total.

　　阿信把钱悄悄压在赵鹏老师的枕头下，带文苑返回广东。然而很快，他接到了赵老师满腔不乐意的电话。“我们之间已经不用谈钱，这是大家的心意，把你的银行账号发过来。”

The money to xin quietly pressure in ZhaoPeng teachers under the pillow,Take WenYuan return to guangdong.But soon,He received a zhao the teacher so averse to telephone."Between us has not to talk about money,It is everyone's mind,Put your bank account send."

　　阿信无法推辞了，但他已经想好了应对的办法把乡亲们的红包也用于给孩子们购买冬衣。

To xin can't refuse the,But he has had to cope with the folks red envelopes to children is also used to buy winter clothes.

　　形容自己“特立独行、不善交际”的阿信觉得，自己“最大的本事就是做了这件事情”，而且会继续做下去。而在文苑看来，公益正是他们共同的追求。这个24岁的女孩觉得，跟着阿信去支教的经历让她懂得“所得一切都并非理所当然”，应该倍加珍惜。

Describe their"stands/Good at communication"Ahshin think of,oneself"The biggest skill, is done this thing",And will continue to do it.And in WenYuan looks,Public welfare is their common pursuit.The 24-year-old girl feel,Follow a-shin wowed the experience of education to let her know"Income all is not taken for granted",Should instead be treasured.

　　在香港读研和实习时，她曾穿过国际名牌，但却“并不向往”。她甚至没有把“甜蜜校服计划”告诉同事，因为“小小的虚荣心”已经在贵州大山里的那场婚宴上得到了满足。

In Hong Kong to go to graduate school and practice,She had been through the international famous brand,but"Not yearn for".She didn't even put"Sweet school uniform plan"Tell my colleagues,because"Small vanity"The mountains in guizhou has the wedding banquet satisfied.

　　那天，村长拉住了文苑的手。“都是华信面子大。”这个在村里颇具声望的人说。

That day,Village head pulled WenYuan hand."Huaxin face is big."This in the village the prestigious academicjournals man said.

　　在离开之前，文苑又一次站在了讲台上。这个还沉浸在新婚喜悦中的新娘子，把手语“我喜欢你”教给孩子们，她希望他们抱着“有爱”的心态，坚强勇敢地面对未来。

Before leaving,WenYuan once again standing on the podium.This still immersed in the joy of the new bride,The sign language"I like you"Teach children,She hoped that they hold"There is love"mentality,Strong face up to the future.

　　赵鹏老师的妻子张梅回忆起初次见到阿信的样子，“瘦瘦的，背着一个大包。”那时的她怎么也想不明白，外面的世界那么精彩，这个大学生来山沟里做什么。

ZhaoPeng teacher's wife ZhangMei recall at first time to see the appearance of a-shin wowed,"thin,Carrying a big pack."At that time she how also not understand,The outside world so wonderful,The student in the valley to do.

　　“走的时候他说他会回来。”张梅说，“我们谁都不相信。”

"Go when he said he would come back."ZhangMei said,"We who all don't believe."