楚天金报讯 两年前，为了让女儿安心学习，家住武昌的谢女士在汉口一重点初中附近租房陪读，颇懂得沟通艺术的她将女儿调教得格外优秀，在学校小有名气，被称为“无所不能”的“万能”妈妈。然而令谢女士不曾料到的是，她的教女有方，竟引来其他家长代为陪读的请求她们希望在谢女士的出租房里，另支床铺，将自己的孩子送来请谢女士一并教育照顾，当然，她们出价不菲。

Chutian 27 - two years ago,In order to let daughter at ease learning,The lady in the wuchang thanks in hankou a key junior high school or relatives can apply for renting a house nearby,The art of communication quite know she will daughter really particularly outstanding,In the school a little famous,called"omnipotent"of"universal"mother.Yet, to thank lady never expect is,She's goddaughter square,From that other parents or relatives can apply on behalf of the request they hope in ms xie rental room,Another branch bed,Will their children sent please thank lady education care together,Of course,They offer does not poor.

　　

“万能妈妈”教女有方出名 "Universal mother"Goddaughter square famous

　　谢女士在华中科技大学做行政工作，她对女儿的教育非常关注。两年前，谢女士的女儿通过自主招生进入了汉口一所著名的初中就读，为了方便照顾女儿学习生活，谢女士在学校门前租了一室一厅的房子陪读，自己每天上班则长途奔波。工作之余，谢女士将所有的时间和精力用在了孩子的身上。

Ms xie in huazhong university of science and technology to do administrative work,Her daughter's education is very concerned about.Two years ago,Thank lady's daughter through the independent recruit students entered the hankou a famous in junior high school,In order to facilitate the learning of life care for her daughter,Ms xie in the school door rented one room the house of one hall or relatives can apply for,His work every day is long distance on the run.Work more than the,Thank lady will all the time and energy use in the child's body.

　　去年，谢女士的外甥女也如愿进入这所初中就读，考虑到妹妹工作比较忙，谢女士主动承担了两个孩子的陪读任务。由于性情温和、善解人意，同时有过当教师的经历，能够辅导孩子的数理化，谢女士将两个女孩调教得很是优秀：两个女孩性格开朗、人缘极好，在学校担任班干部，成绩均能进入年级前20名。因此，谢女士在孩子所在的学校有着极高的知名度，她应邀在班级QQ群里传经授道，还和老师、家长们保持着非常友好的关系。

Last year,Thank lady's niece also fulfill a wish to enter the junior middle school study,Considering the sister too busy,Ms xie active undertake to the two children or relatives can apply for the task.Because the personality temperate/considerate,At the same time experienced teachers' experience,Can counseling children's science,Thank lady will be two girls really is very good:Two girls character cheerful/Popularity extremely good,In the school as a class cadre,Result all can enter grade top 20.therefore,Ms xie in children school has a high visibility,She was invited in class QQ group ChuanJing feedback way,Also and the teacher/Parents keep a very friendly relationship.

　　昨日，记者来到了谢女士的出租房，房里简洁却雅致，没有电视机，书架上堆满了书籍，厨房里还放着烤箱谢女士经常为女孩们做点心，照顾很是用心。

yesterday,Reporters came to thank ms rental housing,The simple but elegant,No television,Bookshelf is cluttered up with books,The kitchen was placed the oven xie lady often for girls do snack,Care is very attentively.

　　

家长出价请求代为陪读 Parents or relatives can apply to offer request

　　谢女士说，不久前，女儿所在的毕业班进行测试，她的成绩跃居班级第一。之后，一名学生家长在QQ群上请求私聊，“她说自己不懂教育，想把女儿交给我带……”谢女士以为只是开玩笑，一笑了之。

Ms xie said,Not long ago,Daughter graduating class in the test,Her performance in the first class.after,A student parents in the QQ group on request private chat,"She said they don't understand education,Want their daughter to me to take……"Thank women think that only joking,Laugh it off.

　　不料，当天晚上，两名女生家长提着礼物敲开了谢女士出租房的门。她们声称，自家孩子和谢女士的女儿是好朋友，一起玩时经常提及谢女士，惹得女儿非常羡慕有这样“万能”的妈妈，“你反正是在带两个孩子，不如就加个高低床，给我们的孩子一起辅导吧……”

behold,That night,Two girls parents carrying gifts open the ms xie rental housing door.They claimed that,Their own children and thank lady's daughter is a good friend,When play often mentioned xie lady,Provoked daughter is very envy have such"universal"mother,"You anyway is in with two children,Might as well add a high and low bed,To give our children's coaching together……"

　　谢女士说，两位妈妈和她聊了两个多小时，声泪俱下，称自己工作忙、不懂教育、无法辅导孩子的功课，和孩子的矛盾冲突不断。她们希望谢女士代为管理孩子，除了孩子的生活费，她们每人可以支付1500元的月托管费，如果谢女士感到累了，每周可以休息一天，由两名家长顶上。

Ms xie said,Two mother and she chatted for more than two hours,In a tearful voice,Say they work favour/Don't understand education/Can't counseling children's homework,And the child's conflicts constantly.They hope thank lady to manage the child,In addition to the child's living expenses,They each can pay 1500 yuan monthly trustee fee,If ms xie feel tired,Weekly can take a day,The top by two parents.

　　

花钱将孩子推出去不明智 Children spend money will be launched to unwise

　　对于家长“求代理”的做法，谢女士费了一番口舌予以婉拒，“我有自己的工作，照顾两个孩子还是蛮辛苦的，虽然我喜欢孩子，但还要再带一两个，肯定精力不济。”最重要的是，谢女士觉得，孩子明年就要参加中考了，家长就这样将她们推出来，让人代为管理，并不合适。

For parents"For agency"practice,Thank lady took a breath to decline,"I have my own work,Take care of two children or pretty hard,Although I like children,But also to take one or two,Sure losing energy."The most important thing is,Thank lady think,Children will be next year to participate in the examination,Parents so they will launch to,Let a person to management,Is not appropriate.

　　对此，武汉大学心理特聘教授尹邓安认为，家庭教育跟吃饭一样，得自己吃才能得到营养，“别人的父母再怎么优秀，其教育效果主要还是体现在自家孩子的身上，对其他的孩子和家长只能是一种正面的鼓舞。”对上述两名“求代理”的家长来说，与其花钱将孩子推出去，不如正视自身教育中存在的问题，通过学习来提升自己的家庭教育技巧，这样的做法才是明智的。 （记者赵莉） this,Wuhan university psychological distinguished professor Yin DengAn think,Family education to eat,Have to eat to get nutrition,"Other people's parents again how good,The education effect is mainly reflected in their child's body,For other children and parents can only be a positive inspiration."The above two"For agency"For parents,Instead of spending will be launched to children,As to face up to the problems existing in the education itself,Through the study to improve the family education skill,This practice is wise. (Reporter ZhaoLi)