面对孩子的粗心，妈妈要拿出更多的耐心和宽容，慢慢想办法，千万不要瞎指挥、乱批评，更不要期望一蹴而就。孩子细心的好习惯是在日常生活中一点一滴养成的。

In the face of the child's carelessness,Mother to work out more patience and tolerance,Slowly trying to,Never stop being a backseat driver/Disorderly criticism,More don't expected overnight.Children careful good habit is in daily life a bit by bit.

方法一：帮助孩子找到“粗心点 Methods a:Help children find"Careless point

　　一位10岁孩子的母亲在解决孩子的粗心问题方面很有心得：

A 10 years old the mother of the child in solving the child's careless problems is a result:

　　我家孩子数学成绩不好，经过我和孩子仔细分析他每次做错题的原因，我们得出一致的结论：不是题不会做，而是每次都会把题目看错。由此，我得知，容易看错题目就是孩子的“粗心点”。

My home child math bad grades,After my child and I dissect every time he do the wrong topic reason,We draw the same conclusion:Do not do not question,But every time the subject will be wrong.this,I've learned that,Easy wrong topic is the child's"Careless point".

　　于是，我便告诉孩子：“你粗心的原因是每到审题时，你的思维就滑过去了。怎么办呢？以后你每次再做这样的题时，先停一下，闭上眼睛数三个数，然后再睁开眼睛往下写，这样就不容易错了。因为你没让思维滑过去，而是有意识地给它设了一个障碍。这就像警察叔叔在交通事故多发地段设置提示牌一样。”

so,I will tell the child:"Your careless reason is that every when examines the topic,Your mind will slip past.How to do?Every time you do it again after such questions was,First stop,Close your eyes and number three number,Then open your eyes down to write,This is not easy wrong.Because you didn't let slip past thinking,But consciously give it set a disorder.It's like police's uncle in the traffic accident black spot set as DiShiPai."

　　孩子用我教他的方法去做，效果果真很明显，每次做作业时，因为粗心出现的错误少多了。

Children with I teach his way to do it,If effect obviously,Every time when you do your homework,Because careless mistakes much less.

　　看，面对孩子的粗心，妈妈与其批评孩子、给孩子上“政治课”，不如具体地帮助他们找到问题的症结所在，采用正确的方法帮助孩子解决问题。

see,In the face of the child's carelessness,Mother and child criticism/Give children"Political lesson",As specifically help them find the crux of the problem,The correct ways to help children to solve problems.

方法二：让孩子准备一个错题本 Method 2:Let the children to prepare a the wrong topic this

　　一个孩子的作业本、作文本里到处都有错别字，孩子因此很自卑，他的妈妈对此也很无奈。

A child's exercise book/In the ZuoWenBen everywhere wrong character,The child so very inferiority,His mother are very helpless.

　　于是，孩子的妈妈便去请教儿童教育专家，在教育专家的指导下，妈妈想出了一个好办法。她和这个孩子一起统计和整理他作业本里的错别字，整理完之后，她和孩子都惊奇地发现：原来，总是写错的字就是那么几个。最后，她让孩子准备了一个小本，把整理出来的错别字写在这个本子里，并且和孩子一起分析这些字写错的原因，把这些也写进本子里。

so,The child's mother went to consult the children education experts,In the education under the guidance of experts,Mother came up with a good solution.She and the children together statistics and finishing his homework in the wrong character,After finishing,She and the children are surprised to find:The original,Always write wrong word is so few.finally,She let the child have prepared a small,The sorting out of the wrong character written in this book,Together with the child and analyze these word write the wrong reasons,These are written in the book.

　　在妈妈耐心的指导和孩子的认真坚持下，一周以后，这个孩子作业本里的错别字已经明显地减少了。

In the mother's patient instructions and the children are seriously insistence,A week later,The child in the exercise books the wrong character has been obviously reduced.

　　如果你的孩子有粗心的毛病，你不妨让他准备一个错题本。

If your child has any of carelessness,You might as well let him to prepare a the wrong topic this.

　　其实，只要对“粗心”问题进行详细地整理，这些问题就可以在思想上、意识上得到纠正。孩子以后再遇到类似的问题，大脑就会自动提出预警和反应，这样， “粗心”的现象就可以最大限度地得到控制。这就如人在冰上走路，因为冰很滑，所以要小心翼翼地走，因为小心翼翼，所以犯错误的可能自然会少了很多。

In fact,For as long as"careless"Problems are detailed arrangement,These problems can in thought/Consciousness be corrected.After the children meet again similar problems,The brain will automatically puts forward the early warning and response,this, "careless"The phenomenon can maximum limit under control.It is as a man on the ice to walk,Because the ice is slippery,So to walk Spanish,Because be careful,So make mistakes may naturally a lot less.

方法三：围绕细心做文章 Methods three:Make a fuss about around carefully

　　遇到孩子粗心的问题，一般的妈妈要么抱怨、要么批评，但这样做往往效果不是很明显。其实，妈妈如果转换一下思维，围绕细心做文章也是一个不错的办法。

Meet the child careless problem,General mother or complain/Or criticism,But do tend to effect is not obvious.In fact,Mother if change my thinking,Around carefully make an issue of is also a good idea.

　　一位妈妈曾经这样介绍她的经验：

A mother once introduced this her experience:

　　有时，我不总是盯住孩子因为粗心而犯的错误不放，而是寻找机会表扬孩子的细心之处。如孩子在没有经过大人的提醒下把地板扫干净了、孩子避免了一次以前经常会犯的错误等，我都会把这些记录下来。

sometimes,I don't always stare at the child because of careless mistake not to put,But look for opportunities to praise the child's careful place.As children in without adult's remind next swept the floor clean/Children avoid a used to make mistakes, etc,I will put these records.

　　在我们家墙壁上贴着一张细心表，孩子每细心一次，我就给他画一个红色五角星；当五角星满五个时，我就会给他一个小奖励，如带他去吃一次肯德基等；当小奖励满两次时，我就给他一个大奖励，给他买身新衣服、买个新文具盒等。这样坚持一段时间，我发现孩子的细心点越来越多了，而粗心的毛病也明显地减少了。

In our house on the wall a careful watch,Each careful a child,I will give he painted a red five-pointed star;When the five-pointed star full when five,I would give him a little reward,If take him to eat a Kentucky Fried chicken, etc;When the little reward is 2 times,I will give him a big reward,To buy him a body new clothes/To buy a new pencil case, etc.So hold to period of time,I found the child's careful are more and more,And of carelessness is obviously reduced.

　　妈妈要特别注意这一点，当孩子出现粗心的毛病时，千万不要给孩子贴上负面标签。“你真是屡教不改”、“你就是一个‘小马虎虫’，我看你这粗心的毛病是真改不了了”，当家长说出这样的话时，孩子自己也会丧失信心。

Mother to pay special attention to this point,When children appear when of carelessness,Don't give the child with negative labels."You're incorrigible"/"You are a‘Small careless insect’,I see your this of carelessness really couldn't change",When parents when to say such words,Children will lose confidence.

　　人往往是有求证心理的，孩子更是如此。如果我们努力去寻找孩子的细心点，并不失时机地肯定他、鼓励他，孩子便会感觉自己真的很细心。当孩子的细心点越来越多时，细心便成为了孩子的一种习惯。

People tend to be a verification psychological,The child is so.If we try to search for the child's careful,And lose no time to sure he/Encourage him,The child will feel really careful.When the child's careful it more and more,Careful became the child's a habit.

方法四：培养孩子整齐有序的生活习惯 Methods four:Cultivate children to order living habits

　　孩子粗心的毛病不是一天养成的。如果孩子从小就生活在一个无序的家庭中，没有一定的作息时间、没有一个好的生活习惯，那么孩子做事丢三落四、马马虎虎就会成为“家长便饭”。

Children of carelessness is not a day of the form.If the child is living in a disordered family,There is no certain schedules/Not a good living habit,So children to do something forgetful/Just so so will be"Parents meal".

　　所以妈妈要引导孩子养成整齐有序的生活习惯。生活上，让孩子养成保管自己物品的好习惯，不仅仅是学习用品，衣服、鞋子等也要放到自己的柜子里，自己保管。学习上，要培养孩子养成当天的作业当天完成、做完作业要检查、课前要预习、课后要复习等好习惯。

So my mother will guide children to develop good order living habits.life,Allow children to develop the good habit of keeping their goods,Not only is the study supplies,clothes/Shoes and so on also want to in your closet,keeping.learning,To cultivate children to develop the day's homework finish that day/Finish homework to check/Class to prepare/After class to review etc. The good habit.

　　生活、学习都整齐有序地进行，粗心大意、马马虎虎当然也就是少有的现象了。

life/In order to study,careless/Just so so, of course, is also rare phenomenon.