年仅10岁的他曾跳过两次级，已在读初一，还曾在影视作品《野蛮妈妈结婚记》、《双城之间》和《云上的诱惑》中扮演过角色。《退学申请书》在微博上引发了2.4万余次的转发评论，网友的讨论更多围绕教育理念。

Only ten years old he had skipped two level,Already reading month,Was also in film and television works[Savage mother get married]/[Between the twins]and[The temptation of cloud]Played role.[Drop out of the application]In micro blog caused more than 24000 times forward comments,Net friend discussion around the education idea more.

　　他是否真的想退学？他的父亲怎么看待此事？昨天，冯邵一和他的父亲冯银刚接受了本报记者电话采访。

Whether he really want to drop out of school?His father how look upon this matter?yesterday,Feng shao a and his father FengYinGang accepted our reporter telephone interview.

冯邵一 Feng shao a

　　这几天，面对数十家媒体采访，冯邵一已经应答如流。他虽声音稚嫩，讲话却富有逻辑，像个“小大人”。他说，看到网上热议《退学申请书》，他很开心，但他从没想过退学，只是最近学业给他造成了很大的压力，他希望做自己喜欢的事，有个宽松的学习环境。

These days,In the face of the dozens of media interviews,Feng shao a has YingDaRuLiu.Though his voice immature,Speech is full of logic,Like a"grownup".He said,See online hot debate[Drop out of the application],He is very happy,But he never thought drop out of school,It is only recently that studies caused him great pressure,He wants to do your own thing,There is a relaxed learning environment.

我没打算退学只是压力很大 I don't mean to drop out of school just under a lot of pressure

　　以前我打乒乓球，踢足球，滑轮滑。现在我每天能有半小时做自己喜欢的事就不错了。

I used to play table tennis,Play football,Inline skates.Now I have half an hour every day to do your own thing is good.

　　京华时报：你是真的想退学吗？

Jinghua times:You are really want to drop out of school?

　　冯邵一：没有，我从一开始就没打算真的退学，只是在申请书里对爸爸说了这个想法，他同意我休息一段时间，不过我懂，九年义务教育是不能终止的。所以现在我还在正常上课。

Feng shao a:no,From the beginning, I didn't really going to drop out of school,Just in the application form for dad said the idea,He agreed to me to rest for a period of time,But I know,Nine years of compulsory education is not terminated.So now I was in the normal classes.

　　京华时报：怎么会想到做这件事？

Jinghua times:Think of how to do it?

　　冯邵一：当时直接的导火索是月考成绩出来，我的成绩一般，有些失落，同学的家长也会来问我的成绩，有攀比的心理，初一的生活很不一样，有很大压力。我想做自己喜欢的事情。

Feng shao a:When direct fuse is months out of the examination results,My grades generally,Some lost,The parents of students will come to ask my grades,"Keep up with the joneses" have the psychological,Life is not the same new moon,Have a lot of pressure.I want to do the business that oneself like.

　　京华时报：你喜欢做什么呢？

Jinghua times:What do you like to do?

　　冯邵一：小学的时候，放学会去打乒乓球、踢足球、滑轮滑，看喜欢看的书。

Feng shao a:Elementary school,Put learn to play table tennis/Play football/Inline skates,Look like see of book.

　　现在根本没时间做这些。每天早上6点起床，7点10分准时到校，吃完早餐就上课，中午12点10分下课，1点要回教室自习，下午6点左右离开学校，7点多到家，吃饭、冲凉、写作业、预习、背诵，10点睡觉。每天能有半小时做自己喜欢的事就不错了。

Now no time to do these.Get up at 6:00 every morning,7 PM get to school on time,Eat breakfast, I class,12 o 'clock at noon in class 10 points,1 point to go back to the classroom self-study,At around 6 PM to leave school,7 many home,eat/Have a shower/homework/preview/recite,Go to bed at 10.Every day can have half an hour to do your own thing is good.

我写得极端一些，大家才会讨论 I write some extreme,We will discuss

　　我最希望大家讨论的是，我们现在的学习环境和学习状态。

I most like to everybody discussion is,We are now learning environment and learning state.

　　京华时报：发出退学申请后，学校是什么态度？

Jinghua times:A dropped out after application,School is what attitude?

　　冯邵一：昨天(11月22日)是我第一次和校长谈话，他们问我为什么想要退学，我们开门见山地讨论了学校、班级、教育方式、我的业余爱好，还有名次，我的烦恼。副校长说，以后会给我们一个宽松的、民主的学习环境，有什么可以直接对他们诉说。我第一次觉得校长原来一点也不凶。他们还问了我女朋友的事情。

Feng shao a:yesterday(On November 22)Is the first time I and the headmaster talk,They asked me why I want to drop out of school,We discuss the school come straight to the point/class/Education mode/My hobby,There are places,My troubles.Vice President said,Will give us a loose/Democratic learning environment,What can they tell directly to.The first time I feel the principal originally is not fierce.They also asked my girlfriend's things.

　　京华时报：你最大的理想是找一个女朋友，带她去浪迹天涯？

Jinghua times:Your biggest ideal is looking for a girlfriend,Take her to roaming?

　　冯邵一：这只是一个比方，我只是想，如果真的有一个喜欢的人，和她简简单单过日子，与世无争，活得简单一点，就很知足了。

Feng shao a:This is just a example,I just want to,If there really is a like of the person,And she simple life,Stand aloof from worldly success,To live a little bit more simple,It is sufficient for.

　　京华时报：你的《申请书》中提到了爱因斯坦、莫言，你为什么会把成为他们那样的人形容成灾难？

Jinghua times:your[application]Mentioned in the Einstein/Mo yan,Why do you will become their people like that are described as disaster?

　　冯邵一：我举了爱因斯坦一个很极端的例子，他成为了伟大的科学家，发明原子弹，稍微弄错一点后果就会很严重，所以我说自己不想成为那样的人。另一方面，我写得极端一些，才会让大家讨论我写的文章，看到很多人转载，评论，我很开心。

Feng shao a:I pointed to Einstein a very extreme example,He became a great scientist,Invention atomic bomb,A little mistake a little consequences will be very serious,So I say they don't want to be like that.On the other hand,I write some extreme,Will let everybody discussion I write this article,See a lot of people transfer,comments,I am very happy.

　　京华时报：为什么会开心？你希望大家讨论什么呢？

Jinghua times:Why happy?You want to discuss?

　　冯邵一：很多啊，比如我该不该写这件事，里面提到的内容。

Feng shao a:A lot of ah,For example, I need to write it,In the content of the mentioned.

　　我最希望大家讨论的是，我们现在的学习环境和学习状态，你知道，在老师眼里，课间十分钟不去问问题的同学都是差生，可我不想这样做，这样的效率很低，我们有自己的规划。我们想要获得自由的学习环境，做想做的事情。

I most like to everybody discussion is,We are now learning environment and learning state,You know,In the teacher's eyes,Break ten minutes not to ask questions of the students are poor,But I don't want to do it,Such efficiency is very low,We have our own planning.We want to get free learning environment,Do I want to do.

　　京华时报：有人说你的文章是对现有教育制度的控诉，你怎么看？

Jinghua times:Someone says your article is the existing education system of the accused,What do you think of?

　　冯邵一：现在学校里，老师的教育方式压得我们喘不过气，很多同学都认同这一点。

Feng shao a:Now the school,The teacher's education mode is pressed we are suffocatively,Many students agree to this point.

　　我希望老师能够理解学生，懂得学生什么时候该学习，什么时候该休息。课间十分钟本来就应该是休息的时间，不问问题就被当做差生，大家只能拼命学。

I hope the teacher can understand students,Know when to students learning,When to rest.Break ten minutes was should be the rest time,Ask no questions and be be as poor,We can only try very hard to learn.

　　又比如，老师会留很多的作业，课堂气氛也很严肃，他们觉得只有这样，我们才能学会，但是很枯燥，我们不希望被压制，希望能呼吸新鲜的空气。

And such as,The teachers will leave a lot of homework,The classroom atmosphere is also very serious,They think that only in this way,We can learn to,But it is boring,We don't want to be pressed,Hope to be able to breathe the fresh air.

冯银刚 FengYinGang

　　对于冯邵一的举动，冯银刚开始颇感意外，不过，他说他理解现在的孩子，更尊重儿子的想法，希望儿子能自由地发展。

For feng shao a move,FengYinGang began to surprise,but,He said he understands now children,More respect son's idea,Hope son can free to develop.

　　学习压力让他太不适应

Learning pressure let him too does not adapt

　　我觉得这是短时间的困惑。

I think this is a short confused.

　　京华时报：您看到退学申请后的第一反应是什么？

Jinghua times:You see dropped out after the application of the first reaction is what?

　　冯银刚：我当时就笑了，因为在出差，只能打电话给他，说的第一句话就是，“你小子不给我整出点事不消停”，当然是半开玩笑地说。

FengYinGang:I was just smiled,Because at be on business,To call him,The first word is said,"Your boy don't give me the whole out something don't persist",Of course is half jokingly said.

　　京华时报：感到意外吗？冯银刚：说实话，我还是很意外的，如果他说他学累了，我不会太吃惊，但他一下子跟我说要退学。

Jinghua times:Surprised??FengYinGang:To tell you the truth,I was very unexpected,If he says he learns tired,I won't be too surprised,But he was told me to drop out of school.

　　京华时报：您当时怎么做的？

Jinghua times:You when how to do?

　　冯银刚：他从小就和我“斗智斗勇”，我挺了解他的，我马上就明白他的诉求了。我问他，你知道什么是退学吗？我给他讲了事情的严重性，说国家有规定，义务教育期间不能终止。等我出差回来，我跟他面对面很严肃地谈了一次，我说其实我也不想上班，但是这是生活，我们还要吃饭。他是一个很理性的孩子，知道现实不允许，同意还会去上学。

FengYinGang:He grew up and I"Battle of wits DouYong",I quite understand his,I'll understand his appeal the.I asked him,Do you know what is drop out of school?I told him about the seriousness of the things,Says the country has a regulation,Compulsory education period can't terminate.Wait me back from a business trip,I told him face to face serious talk time,I said I actually don't want to go to work,But this is life,We have to eat.He is a very rational children,Know the reality does not allow,Agree to will go to school.

　　京华时报：他说直接导火索就是成绩，您怎么看他的成绩？

Jinghua times:He said direct fuse is the result,How do you see his results?

　　冯银刚：我不会太在乎他的成绩，只要他告诉我尽力了，哪怕只有20分，都接受。现在学习生活上的压力，让他太不适应了。

FengYinGang:I won't be too care about his grades,As long as he told I tried,Even if only 20 points,accept.Now the pressure of study and life,Let him is not adapted to the.

　　京华时报：有人认为他有些厌世的倾向？

Jinghua times:Some people think that some of his pessimistic tendency?

　　冯银刚：他说成为爱因斯坦、莫言就是个悲剧，我很奇怪，但也很理解。其实他现在是刚刚换了环境，一下子紧张起来，压力大，又找不到方向和目标，我觉得这是短时间的困惑，很正常。经过我们的疏导，已经慢慢好起来了。

FengYinGang:He said as Einstein/Mo yan is a tragedy,I wonder,But it can also be very understanding.Actually he is just in the environment,Suddenly nervous,Pressure big,And can not find the direction and goals,I think this is a short confused,Very normal.Through our channel,Have good up slowly.

引起社会对教育理念的思考 To cause social education concept thinking

　　身体健康和快乐才是第一位的，我们也希望他按照自己的想法自由地生活。

Health and happiness are the first,We also hope that he according to their ideas freely life.

　　京华时报：后来你们签了一份协议书，有一条是说“不允许家长长期在三米范围内巡航”？

Jinghua times:Later you signed a agreement,There is a mean"Don't allow parents in three meters long range cruise"?

　　冯银刚：对，我们在家里尽量给他创造宽松的环境，他的卧室，我们都会先敲门。这两天采访我们都会离开，本着宽容和尊重。

FengYinGang:to,Home is the place where we try to give him the creation loose environment,His bedroom,We will first try knocking at the door.These two days we will leave an interview,In line with the tolerance and respect.

　　京华时报：相比同龄的孩子，他似乎更加成熟？

Jinghua times:Compared with children of the same age,He seems to be more mature?

　　冯银刚：他有时候看待问题是很理性的。我也会把他当做成人来沟通，在他4岁的时候，我就给他讲死亡，说总有一天我也会离开他，我们不会刻意回避一些话题，包括“怀孕”，我们尽量做到平等。另外，他们这一代接触网络很多，他们在聊的事情，我们有时候都跟不上了。

FengYinGang:He sometimes look at the problem is very rational.I will also put him as adults to communicate,In his four years old,I will tell him death,Said one day I will leave him,We won't deliberately avoided some topic,including"pregnant",We try to do equality.In addition,They generation contact network many,They were talking about things,Sometimes we just can't keep up.

　　京华时报：跳级、演戏、写作，这些都是你们刻意培养的吗？

Jinghua times:Advanced placement/acting/writing,These are you deliberately culture?

　　冯银刚：他小学总共读了3年，跳级第二次是他自己选择的。我们很尊重他的选择，他愿意学漫画、钢琴、唱歌，我们就帮他报名。演戏也是一个很偶然的机会，一个阿姨带他去拍广告，人家发现他有些天赋，顺其自然就接戏了。

FengYinGang:He read in primary school for three years,Advanced placement the second is his own choice.We have a lot of respect for his choice,He is willing to learn comic/piano/singing,We will help him registration.Acting is also a very accidental opportunity,An aunt take him to the commercials,They discover that some of his talent,Let nature take its course took the play.

　　京华时报：如果有一天他不想做了呢？

Jinghua times:If one day he don't want to do now?

　　冯银刚：我们不拦着，一切都会顺从他自己，不会给他强加一个规划。

FengYinGang:We don't block,Everything will obey his own,Don't give him impose a planning.

　　京华时报：望子成龙的家长是否会认为这样的教育方式太另类？

Jinghua times:These parents will think this education way too alternative?

　　冯银刚：很多家长希望孩子刻苦，但我觉得，没必要在初中时就透支孩子，健康和快乐才是第一位的。

FengYinGang:Many parents hope children work hard,But I think,Not necessary in junior high school is overdraft children,Health and happiness are the first.

　　京华时报：现在这件事引发讨论，冯邵一出名了。

Jinghua times:Now it's cause discussion,Feng shao a famous.

　　冯银刚：我很意外，我们其实不想引起围观。

FengYinGang:I was surprised,We actually don't want to cause onlookers.

　　京华时报：您觉得这件事是好是坏？

Jinghua times:Do you think it is good or bad?

　　冯银刚：其实是好事。如果因为这件事，引起了社会对教育理念的思考，能给孩子创造一个自由宽松的读书环境，我们也不在乎成为舆论焦点。热议也是对一些错误教育理念的控诉。

FengYinGang:In fact is a good thing.If because of it,Caused the society to education concept thinking,Can create a freedom to the child comfortable study environment,We also don't care become the focus of public opinion.Hot debate is to some mistake education idea of the accused.

　　本报记者刘佳

Our reporter Helen