央视街头采访“我是从哪里来”引热议，网络调查显示 CCTV street interviews"I am from where come"Lead hot debate,Network survey

　　

“从垃圾箱里捡来的”竟占三成 "From the dustbin to pick up"Have accounted for thirty percent

　　新闻源@腾讯女性：“我是从哪里来的？”几乎所有的孩子都问过父母这样的问题。日前，微博上有人提出这个问题，引起数千网友晒身世：众多“来自垃圾桶”的邻居互相问候、来自“买奶粉或充话费附送”的网友自嘲、来自“卖烤红薯的大叔”的网友晒童年恐怖感觉……亲，你从哪里来的？

News source @ tencent women:"I am from where come of?"Almost all the children asked their parents this problem.a,Micro bo was put forward on this issue,Cause thousands of netizens sun life:many"From the trash can"Neighbors greet each other/from"Buy milk powder or filling with telephone attached"Net self-mockery/from"Sell KaoGongShu uncle"The net friend of sun childhood terror feeling……close,Where do you come from?

　　继“你幸福吗？”之后，11月20日，央视再推街头采访调查活动。这次采访的话题是“我是从哪里来”。央视记者在街头采访了多位市民，年龄涵盖了1940年到1990年出生的人，得到的答案是“捡来的”“咯吱窝里生出来”“洪水冲来的”等。于是，“我从哪里来”这个话题在微博上也火了起来。据一项300多位网友参与的调查显示，47.37%的网友称小时候被告知是“从妈妈肚子里来的”，32.57%的网友是“垃圾箱里捡来的”，3.95%的网友是“洪水冲来的”，还有16.12%的网友晒出了其他千奇百怪的答案。

the"You happiness??"after,On November 20th,CCTV to push street interview survey.The interview subject is"I am from where come".CCTV reporter interviewed many people on the street,Age covers the 1940 to 1990 people were born,Get the answer is"To pick up""Creak nest to be born""The flood", etc.so,"I come from?"This topic in micro bo also fire up.According to a more than 300 users to participate in the survey,47.37% of the net friend say when I was a child was told that is"From mother to stomach",32.57% of the net friend is"The dustbin to pick up",3.95% of the net friend is"The flood",There are 16.12% of the net friend drying out of the other very strange answer.

　　

“我是从烤地瓜炉子里捡来的” "I am from roast sweet potato in the oven to pick up"

　　@小蓝：是天上掉下来的，妈妈刚好接住了！

@ small blue:Is dropped from the sky,Mother just caught!

　　@越子花花：我小时候妈妈说是从地里刨出来的，我还庆幸他们刨得仔细，至少我也没缺胳膊少腿，也没受伤。

@ the son flower:When I was a kid, my mother from the ground out of the plane,I was glad they plane it carefully,At least I didn't also lack the arm little leg,Also didn't hurt.

　　@小f儿：小时候被告知我是发大水时大水冲来的！所以每个雷雨交织的夏夜，我都不敢睡着，生怕一不小心大水又把我从爸妈身边冲走。

@ small f son:When I was a child was told that I am flood waters when the impact!So each thunderstorm mixed summer night,I can't fall asleep,For fear that he and the me from parents side wash away.

　　@qxqzx_tg：我是从烤地瓜的炉子里捡来的！我还真信了，因为从小就特别爱吃烤地瓜，所以觉得从烤地瓜的炉子里捡的，还是有道理的，也挺幸福。

Qxqzx_tg @:I am from roast sweet potato in the stove to pick up!I really believe,Because since the childhood special love to eat baked sweet potato,So think from roast sweet potato in the stove pick up,Still is reasonable,Also pretty happy.

　　@笑靥如花：挖沟挖出来的，后来又说是饭店门口捡的，在一个小纸箱里，裹在小被子里，还有袋奶粉，我深信不疑，直到后来快20岁了，和姐姐容貌长得越来越相似，才确定我是亲生的。好傻好天真啊！

@ henceforth no longer:Trench dug out,Later, at the door of the hotel to pick up,In a small boxes,Wrapped in small quilt,And bag of powdered milk,I believe in,Until almost twenty years old,And sister looks grow more and more similar to each other,I am not sure of his own.Very silly good naive ah!

　　

热议：“我从哪里来”？ 性教育教材太直白 Hot debate:"I come from?"? Sex education teaching material too straightforward

　　“我是从哪里来的？”小孩子好奇的追问，曾让许多家长不知如何应对。日前，北京市公布首部小学生性教育试点教材《成长的脚步》大纲，“性教育”将从一年级开始试点，其中对一些内容的直白解说更引起争议。对低年级小学生进行性教育，是否为时过早？性教育该不该过于直白？

"I am from where come of?"Children curious questions,Once let many parents don't know how to deal with.a,The first primary school published by nature education pilot teaching materials[Growth steps]outline,"Sex education"Will begins from one grade pilot,The content of some of the more controversial straightforward interpretation.In the lower grades pupils progressive education,Is too early to?Sex education this shouldn't be too straightforward?

　　

小时隐不说，长大风险多 Hours not hidden,Grow up more risk

　　与西方社会对孩子的性启蒙教育较早相比，中国学校和家长都羞于对孩子谈“性”，甚至谈性色变。其实，对孩子的性教育，老师和家长大可不必采取“鸵鸟策略”，遮遮掩掩。

And the western society to the child's sex enlightenment education than earlier,Chinese schools and parents are shy to talk to the child"sex",Even talk about sex colour change.In fact,To the child's sex education,Teachers and parents don't need to take"Ostrich strategy",secretive.

　　中国孩子接触性教育，学校和家长经常两头“不搭”。孩子问家长，“我从哪里来的？”家长们大多惊慌失措、乱了手脚，不知怎么回答，还有一些家长干脆说：“等你长大了自然就知道了。”学校系统讲述性知识是从初中生物课开始，但奇怪的是，很多生物课，只要谈到身体和性这一章节，老师会匆匆跳过，甚至课堂不会讲解。因此，不少孩子到了十二三岁情窦初开，却依然生活在对“性”讳莫如深的家庭和社会环境中，对自己的身体仍然了解不多。甚至一些高中生、大学生还认为亲吻了就会怀孕、避孕套是女生用的等等，在生理学方面很“白痴”。这些知识空白，都是家长的遮掩和学校性教育的缺失造成的。

Chinese children contact sex education,Schools and parents often two head"Don't take".The boy asked the parents,"I come from??"Most parents panic/The wrong hands,Don't know how to answer,Some parents simply said:"Waiting for you to grow up naturally know."The school system about sexual knowledge from junior high school biology class began,But it is strange that,A lot of biology,As long as when it comes to body and property in this chapter,The teacher will skip in a hurry,Even classroom will not explain.therefore,Many children came to 1023 years first love,Life is still on"sex"Working on family and social environment,For your body still don't know much.Even some high school students/College students still think kissed will be pregnant/Condoms are girls use and so on,In the physiologically very"idiot".These knowledge blank,Are parents the cloak and school education caused by the absence of the sex.

　　北京出台首部小学生性教育教材，一些家长忧虑：这样的教育对小学生来说是不是太早了？甚至有的家长认为，这些书上的知识和漫画会误导孩子。其实，很多孩子到了三四岁，就会不停地追问父母自己从哪里来，并且对自己身体的方方面面包括男女差异很感兴趣，对他们进行启蒙教育就显得很有必要。在性问题上，一味让“羞答答的玫瑰静悄悄地开”，只会更加激发孩子的好奇心，他们不能从正当途径了解相关知识，势必会从黄色书籍、不良网站等别的途径去寻找答案，风险更大。

Beijing issued first primary school education teaching material by nature,Some parents worry:Such education for the pupils is too early?Even some parents think,The book knowledge and cartoons will mislead children.In fact,Many children in three or four years old,Will be kept asking his parents come from,And to all aspects of your body including men and women interested in differences,The enlightenment education is very necessary.In the sex problem,Blindly let"Timid rose quietly open",Will only become more stimulate a child's curiosity,They can't understand the knowledge from the right way,Will books from yellow/The bad websites and other ways to find the answer,Risk more.

　　有些家长还认为，书籍中出现生殖器名称及插图，尺度过大，怕对孩子造成不好的影响。性教育要不要太“直白”？国外教育专家认为，5岁左右就应该把这些知识告诉孩子，而且这一年龄段谈性问题很安全，孩子并不会产生不好的联想。孩子的世界很单纯，不能用成人的有色眼镜看孩子。芬兰有本性教育书《我们的身体》，家长就像讲《一千零一夜》那样每天讲一节，性教育自然而然地开始，水到渠成。

Some parents also thought,Books appear genital name and illustrations,Scale big,Not to cause bad effects to the children.Sex education should not too"straightforward"?Foreign education experts say,5 years old or so you should put that knowledge to tell the children,And this one age paragraph talk about sex problem is safety,Children will not produce bad associations.The child's world is very simple,Can't use adult colored glasses look after the children.Finland has nature education books[Our bodies],Parents like speak[The Arabian nights]Every day that speak a day,Sex education naturally start,follow.

　　

知识宜“虚”讲，更要讲“道德” Knowledge should be"virtual"speak,More to tell"moral"

　　如果单纯把“性教育”等同于“性知识”传播，这种理解过于狭隘，并将在现实中产生偏差。我们的“性教育”不能照搬西方模式，而要符合中国文化传统。

If the simple"Sex education"Is equal to"Sexual knowledge"spread,This kind of understanding is too narrow,And in reality produce deviation.our"Sex education"Cannot copy the western pattern,But want to accord with Chinese traditional culture.

　　中华五千年，向来以含蓄为美。从古至今，羞于谈“性”，成为整个社会文化的常态。在当前的社会大环境中，“性问题”尚属于国人的“绝对隐私”，如今却要求学校公开宣讲，将成人化的很多性知识和过程向低幼的孩子和盘托出，是不是过于超前？

The five thousand years,All along with reservation for beauty.In all ages,Ashamed to talk about"sex",Become the social culture of normal.In the current social environment,"Sex problem"Still belongs to the people"Absolute privacy",But now requires schools open preaching,ChengRenHua will be a lot of sex knowledge and process to easy to child come clean,Isn't too advanced?

　　孩子从小确实会对“我从哪里来”这类问题好奇，会追问父母。但是，笔者既不赞同对这个问题讳莫如深，也不赞同对这个问题进行详尽地“技术性”展开。一说到“出生”，就要讲到“性交”，讲到“阴茎”、“阴道”，其实并无必要。孩子年龄太小，只会对男女的外形特征有大致的了解，至于细致的生理结构和具体过程，即便讲了孩子很可能仍无法理解，反而会引发更多疑问。

The child to do"I come from?"This kind of problem curiosity,Will ask parents.but,The author did not agree to keep secret to this problem,Don't agree to the problem in detail"technical"expansion.Said to"Was born",Will be talked about"intercourse",said"penis"/"vaginal",Not necessary.The child is too young,For men and women will only shape characteristics have roughly understanding,As for the detailed physiological structure and specific process,Even speak the child is likely to still can't understand,It will cause more questions.

　　对低幼儿童的性教育，宜“虚”而不宜“实”，而且不宜过早，应随着年龄的增长、生理发育的成熟逐渐推进。对一二年级的孩子，只要告诉他：宝宝是妈妈肚子里生出来的，是爸爸把“种子”种到妈妈肚子里。至于爸爸的“种子”何来、为什么妈妈肚子里可以放“种子”而爸爸不能等疑问，完全可以等到小学高年级甚至初中，男孩开始遗精、女孩初潮之后，再具体讲精子、卵子、子宫等知识，既方便孩子理解，又能提高性教育的有效性。

To: juvenile sex education,appropriate"virtual"And should not be"real",But also shoulds not be too early,Should be as the growth of the age/Physical development mature gradually propulsion.For a second grade children,Just tell him:The baby is born out of the mother belly,Is father"seed"The mother of stomach.As for father's"seed"no/Why does mother belly can put"seed"And dad can't doubt,Can wait until the elementary school higher grades and even junior middle school,The boy began to emission/Girls menarche later,Be more specific about sperm/eggs/Uterine knowledge,Convenient children understand,And can improve the effectiveness of sex education.

　　“性教育”不单是“性知识”传授，而应是涵盖性生理、性心理、性道德等多个纬度的综合性教育。有专家提出，没有性道德的性教育是没有意义的。我们的性教育一方面要解答孩子对性知识的疑惑，另一方面应更多地肩负起普及性道德、教会孩子自我保护等责任，帮孩子树立正确的生命观、健康的性文化观念，这才是性教育的根本目的。

"Sex education"Is not only"Sexual knowledge"teach,And should be umbrella physiology/psychological/Sexual morality, and other latitude of comprehensive education.Experts have,No sex moral sex education is of no significance.Our sex education on the one hand to solve the child to sexual knowledge doubts,On the other hand, should be more shoulder universality moral/To teach children to self protection responsibility,Help children to set up the correct view/Healthy sex culture idea,This is the fundamental aim of sex education.

　　

父母该怎么回答“从哪来” Parents how to answer"Come from"

　　对于大多数父母搪塞孩子问“从哪来”的这个问题，有网友认为，家长[微博]应该正面回答孩子的问题，正确引导，不然也许会对孩子造成心理伤害。

For most parents shuffling the boy asked"Come from"This question,Netizens think,Parents [micro bo] should answer the problem of children,Correct guidance,Otherwise may cause psychological harm to children.

　　@凡人： 孩子好奇是好事，能回答就回答，回答不了就要引导他去学习，告诉他只有不断的学习才会知道更多事。不能不答也不能乱答，对孩子以后成长很重要。你要一问三不知对孩子会造成影响。

@ mortal: Children curiosity is a good thing,Can answer will answer,Can't answer will guide him to learn,Tell him only by constantly learning will know more.Have to answer can't disorderly answer,After to the child grow up is very important.You want to utterly ignorant of the child will affect.

　　@额济纳广播电影电视局： 这事其实很影响孩子的心理健康和发展。

@ egina radio, film and TV bureau: It really affect a child's mental health and development.

　　@午夜梦语：“我从哪里来”也不见得就是“性问题”吧？孩子们会一直追问下去。“性是什么？”如何回答呢？不如老老实实地告诉孩子们：人类并不是知道许多事，尚有许多事情人类是不明白的。希望在你们孩子身上了。我以为，这样的回答最好。(山东商报山东商报记者 张舒)

@ midnight dreamspell:"I come from?"Also is not"Sex problem"it?The children will have been pressed further."Sex is what?"How to answer??As honestly tell the children:Human is not know many things,There are many things human beings are not understand.Hope in your children.I thought,So the best answer.(Shandong business newspaper shandong business newspaper reporter zhang)