已不再是那个曾经长发飘飘的“战神”，却还是那个潇洒豪爽的肖战波。他仿佛有一颗驿动的心，沈阳、青岛、上海、成都、呼和浩特……一路漂泊，闯荡四方。而这一次，他要走得更远计划明年全家移民（微博）美国。

Is no longer that once the long hair floats"God of war",But the natural and unrestrained great-hearted XiaoZhanBo.He seemed to have a heart of the act,shenyang/Qingdao/Shanghai/chengdu/Hohhot……Drift all the way,Make a square.This time,He will go further plan next year family immigration(Micro bo)The United States.

　　作为两个孩子的父亲，退役后的肖战波把育儿当做了头等大事，安心做起了“家庭主夫”。去美国，也是为了给孩子寻求一种更自由的教育方式。他，是一个与众不同的父亲。

As the father of two young children,The retirement of the XiaoZhanBo parenting as a top priority,At ease with the"Family Lord Randolph".Go to the United States,Is to give children to seek a more free education mode.he,Is a unique father.

开明老爸 Enlightened dad

　　球员时代，肖战波就是一个特别的人。特别的发型，特别的球风，特别的想法。升级做了父亲，他一如既往。

Players age,XiaoZhanBo is a special person.Special style,Special style,Special idea.To upgrade the father,As usual he.

　　国内的很多家长，都很看重孩子的学习成绩，但肖战波从不，一谈起应试教育，甚至于有点“深恶痛绝”。“我感觉儿子上学太累了，每天都有那么多家庭作业要做，一点玩的时间都没有。他的童年很枯燥乏味，这样对孩子的成长有利吗？”

The domestic many parents,, they are concerned about the child's academic performance,But XiaoZhanBo never,A talk about takes an exam the education,Even a little"detest"."I feel son too tired to go to school,Every day there are so much homework to do,A little time spent playing all have no.His childhood is very boring,Do this to a child's growth advantage?"

　　肖战波有两个儿子，小儿子4岁，大儿子11岁，正在读小学。肖战波说，儿子每天回到家便忙着写作业，到晚上八九点钟还写不完。“每次问他，都说今天作业挺多，我听了很不是滋味。我觉得现在的老师把学生的分数看得太重，但对他们整体的教育却很少考虑。”

XiaoZhanBo had two sons,The younger son 4 years old,The first 11 years of age,Are primary school.XiaoZhanBo said,Son came home every day was busy writing assignments,Until the evening morning also write not over."Every time asked him,Said a lot of homework today,I have listened to very not the taste.Now I think the teacher divided the students score too seriously,But for their overall education rarely considered."

　　在肖战波的理念中，至少读初中之前，每个小孩应该自由发展、快乐成长，少一些条条框框。“孩子的童年就那么几年，一眨眼就过去了，难道都在写作业中度过？”他表示，“现在的孩子从小就压力太大，竞争太残酷。其实以后有没有出息都无所谓，都是自己的儿子。”

In the concept of XiaoZhanBo in,At least read before junior high school,Each child should free development/Happy growth,Less rules."The child's childhood so a few years,The blink of an eye on the past,Don't spend all the homework?"He said,"Now children grew up pressure is too great,Competition too cruel.In fact have promise after it doesn't matter,Is his son."

　　比起学习，让肖战波更在乎的，是孩子身心的健康发展。“小孩子就应该阳光一些，不要太压抑。我希望自己的孩子天天脸上有笑容才好。”

Compared with learning,Let XiaoZhanBo more care,Is the child physical and mental health development."Children should be some sunshine,Don't be too depressed.I hope their children every day is good for you to have smiles on the face."

　　也许是多年在职业足球圈的闯荡，造就了肖战波的豁达。对待孩子，他是个十足的“民主派”。“给孩子确定几个方面，让他们自主选择，家长的作用是引导帮助他们，而不应该强制他们。”

Maybe many years in professional football adventure,Made of XiaoZhanBo open-minded.Treat children,He's a real"pro-democracy"."Give children determine several aspects,Let them choose,The role of parents is a guide to help them,And they should not be forced."

充满父爱 Full of father

　　也许是对于这样一种教育环境的失望，慢慢地肖战波有了出国的想法。经过前期的准备，他们拿到了美国的绿卡，正在张罗买房子，“都办得差不多了，等大儿子明年小学毕业，我们就准备过去。”

Maybe for such a kind of education environment of disappointment,Slowly XiaoZhanBo had the idea of going abroad.After the preparation,They got the green card in the United States,Are scare up to buy a house,"Do get about,And the first primary school next year,We are ready to the past."

　　肖战波的新居在美国加州。这些年，他把家安在了上海，而选择去加州，也有习惯了上海的因素。“那里的天气我们喜欢，冬天不会像东北和美国东部那么冷，气候跟上海差不多。”

XiaoZhanBo new home in California.these,He, the home in Shanghai,And choose to go to California,Also have accustomed to the Shanghai factors."The weather there we like,Don't like winter in the northeast and the eastern United States so cold,Climate with Shanghai almost."

　　出国的主要目的是为了孩子，因此肖战波特意挑选的是加州的“学区房”。“其实那边的别墅不算贵，好的话五六十万美元，便宜的话二三十万美元就行了，学区房相对会贵一些。”

The main purpose of going abroad for the sake of the children,So XiaoZhanBo specially selected is California"District room"."In fact there villa is not expensive,Good $daily,Cheap words 2.3 million dollars will do,School district room relative will be expensive."

　　肖战波喜欢打高尔夫，他发现大儿子对这项运动也很感兴趣，将来或许有发展前途。因此，加州的新房不远处就有一个高尔夫球场，可谓煞费苦心。“先让他在美国练两年，请个好教练带带，将来看教练对孩子的评价，看他能不能坚持，再决定是不是继续打下去。”他开玩笑说，也许儿子有一天能成为“中国的伍兹”，“但主要还是他自己喜欢。”

XiaoZhanBo like to play golf,He found that the eldest son of the sport is also very interested,Perhaps in the future development prospect.so,California's new house not far away there is a golf course,Is take great pains."Let him practice in the United States for two years,Please a good coach with,Will come to see the coach to the child's evaluation,If he can insist on,Before deciding whether to continue the fight."He joked that,Perhaps a son one day to be able to become"China's woods","But the main or he is like."

家庭主夫 Family Lord Randolph

　　国外的饮食，肖战波并不担心。去广州参加老甲A明星赛前，他和妻子特意去美国实地考察了一个月，“那边有很多中国餐馆，挺好吃的，而且饮食质量有保证。”当然，让肖战波有底气的是，他本人的厨艺也不赖。

Foreign food,XiaoZhanBo don't worry.Went to guangzhou to attend the first before A star,He and his wife have to go to the United States on-the-spot investigation for a month,"There are many Chinese restaurants,Is good to eat,And eating quality assured."Of course,Let XiaoZhanBo have bottom spirit is,His own cooking as well.

　　退役之后，肖战波没干别的，当起了家庭主夫。这位曾经的国家队队长、申花队队长，把生活的重心彻底转向了家庭。“以前踢球的时候长期在外，感觉亏欠家人太多。现在有时间了，能为家人多做点就尽量多做。”

After retirement,XiaoZhanBo didn't do nothing,When the family main husband.The former England captain/Shenhua team captain,The focus of life completely to the family."Before play out for a long time,Feel owe family too much.Now is the time,Family can do more point will try to do more."

　　他喜欢亲自下厨为家人做菜。“想吃什么，上网搜一下，很多攻略啊秘笈啊，全都有。我叫阿姨去买好原料，照着一步步做就行。”前些天，他还尝试做了一次“虾宴”。“有醉虾，有爆炒河虾。反响貌似还可以，他们说跟饭店的味道差不多。”聊到这里，肖战波有些得意地笑了。

He likes cooking for the family in cooking."Want to eat what,Internet search,A lot of strategy ah secret ah,Has all.My name is aunt bought raw materials,Do it step by step according to the line."The other,He also try to do a"Shrimp meal"."Have drunk shrimp,Have sauteed shrimp.Echo seemingly can also,They say with the taste of hotel almost."Chat here,XiaoZhanBo some satisfiedly smiled.

　　这时的他，已不再是那个万众瞩目的球星，只是一位深情款款的父亲。这份浓浓的父爱、特别的父爱，比球场上的肖战波更温暖，更立体，更鲜活。本报记者 关尹

At this moment he,Is no longer the eye-catching star,Just a loving each father.The father loves the thick/Special for the father loves the,Than on the pitch XiaoZhanBo warmer,More solid,More fresh.Our reporter GuanYin

　　【记者手记】

[Reporter notes]

别样的父爱 Father another

　　代表陕西队参赛的肖战波，最后当选首届老甲A明星赛最佳外援。如果他明年再参加，可就真成“外援”了，还得大老远从美国赶回来。

ShanXiDui on behalf of the XiaoZhanBo,The first was elected the first all-star game A best foreign aid.If he in again next year,Can really into"Foreign aid"the,Still have to come back from the United States came all this way.

　　很难想象，当年绿茵场上的那个潇洒少年郎，如今却乐得去干买汏烧的家务事；也很难想象，为了给两个儿子更多的自由和空间，他干脆举家迁往遥远的美国。

It is hard to imagine,Playing in the natural and unrestrained young lang,But now you have to do to buy Da burn of the housework;Is hard to imagine,In order to give two sons more freedom and space,He simply family moved to far away the United States.

　　肖战波教育和培养下一代的方式，可能跟一般的中国父母不一样，这无疑是对传统育人观念的一种挑战。很少有人去尝试，偏偏他敢，这就是肖战波。

XiaoZhanBo education and train the next generation of way,With the general Chinese parents may be different,This is without a doubt to the traditional education concept of a challenge.Very few people to try,Why he dared to,This is XiaoZhanBo.

　　这是一个有着丰富阅历、独特想法的男人。作为70后父亲，他的这种理念最后能不能成功，还有待实践来检验，但至少能让人看到希望，对年轻父母应有借鉴意义。

This is a country with a rich experience/Unique idea of man.As a father after 70,His this kind of idea finally can you succeed,It remains to be practical to test,But at least can let a person see hope,Young parents should have reference significance.

　　像肖战波这样的父亲太少了。多一点也许更好。（关尹）

Like XiaoZhanBo that father is too little.Maybe a little more better.(GuanYin)