爸爸，你该不该“偷看”我的微博？

dad,You should"peek"My micro bo?

　　女孩发微博吐槽 遇老爸“神回复”

The girl FaWei bo vomit tank meet dad"God reply"

　　国庆前夕，网友“依旧莼白咖啡”发微博说：“8天长假，老爸管得严，不让乱跑，不过山人自有妙计！30号宅家，1号出去唱K，跟家里人说是去朋友家玩的！2号出去涮火锅，就说出门充话费！3号出去逛街，就说去营业厅交个网费，4号……”

National Day eve,Net friend"Still Chun white coffee"FaWei bo said:"The seven-day holiday,Dad pipe tightly,Don't let run,But the pseudonym of own inspiration!30 curtilage home,1 out sing K,With the family, to the friend's home to play!No. 2 out rinse hot pot,He said out fee charge!3 go out shopping,He said to business hall make a net charge,4..."

　　随后，网友“山前老李”留言：“老实在家待着！吃火锅、逛街必须由你妈跟着；充话费、交宽带费，你可以上电信网厅的网站办；想出去瞎晃，门也没有！”

then,Net friend"Piedmont Lao li"message:"To stay at home!Eat hot pot/Shopping by your mother must be followed;Fee charge/Pay broadband fee,You can do the telecommunication network hall website;Want to go out blind sway,Door no!"

　　“依旧莼白咖啡”很生气：“你谁呀？去死！”

"Still Chun white coffee"Very angry:"You who ah?To die!"

　　“山前老李”打出姓名：“李××”。

"Piedmont Lao li"Hit name:"Li x".

　　原来，李××是“依旧莼白咖啡”的爸爸。女孩连忙道歉：“爸！对不起，我不知道是您啊，您怎么也玩微博了？汗！”

The original,Li x is"Still Chun white coffee"father.The girl hurriedly apology:"dad!I'm sorry,I don't know what you did,How do you also play micro Po?sweat!"

　　11月底，羊城晚报记者再次联系网友“依旧莼白咖啡”，得悉有一次小李在家上网没关电脑，爸爸就记下了她的微博名字，请教别人如何开微博、加好友，然后悄悄关注她。“他们很关心我，但我发现被监视后，还是觉得不大舒服。”小李说。事后父女俩做了沟通，“老爸保证不玩微博了”。

By the end of November,The yangcheng evening news reporter contact net friend again"Still Chun white coffee",That once xiao li surfs the Internet at home not to turn off the computer,Dad took down her micro bo name,Ask others how to open micro bo/Add friends,And then quietly pay attention to her."They are very concerned about me,But I found that after monitoring,Still feel not well."Xiao li said.After the father both communication,"Dad promise not to play the micro bo".

　　对此，网友看法不一。网友“默默雅”指责“山前老李”：“监控女儿，有意思么？”但有人也表示理解：“做父母真的不容易，以前还能面对面聊天，现在年轻人的交流工具这么先进，在看什么在想什么，一点儿都不知道了，难怪要偷看微博。”

this,Net friend opinions differ.Net friend"Silently,"accused"Piedmont Lao li":"Monitoring daughter,Interesting??"But there are also understands that:"Do parents really not easy,Ago can also chat face to face,Now young people so advanced communication tool,Look at what's in want to??????,Don't know,No wonder to peep at micro bo."

各方声音 Parties voice

孩子：严防死守 children:defend

　　中山大学大四学生小蔡说：“平时在家里总是挨批，开微博就是想有个自己的空间。”

Sun yat-sen university senior student XiaoCai said:"At ordinary times in the home is always be criticized,Open micro bo is to have an own space."

　　小蔡的个人空间、博客等早已被爸妈掌握，她现在对微博“严防死守”，但依旧担心被发现。“之前舍友刚谈恋爱，她的爸妈在微博上看到迹象，就马上打来电话追问。她就一边哭，一边删，发誓再也不发微博了。她本来就内向，现在连这个发泄渠道也没有了”。

XiaoCai personal space/Blogs have been parents master,She is now to the micro bo"defend",But still worried about was found."Roommates just fall in love before,Her parents in micro bo see signs,Immediately call ask.She would be cry,Side delete,Promise never to the FaWei bo.She was introverted,Now even the outlet is not".

家长：穷追不舍 parents:In hot pursuit

　　某项调查显示，60%的家长看过孩子的信件、日记、手机短信、网上聊天记录等。

A survey,60% of the parents read children's letters/diary/Mobile phone short message/Online chat records, etc.

　　在广州某外企工作的杨先生，女儿正在读高三。杨先生坦言，他通过微博定位功能“侦查”到女儿的微博，“她的微博评论我会一条条地看，她不会喜欢我偷偷关注她，但是我就是担心”。

A job at a foreign company in guangzhou Mr Yang,Daughter is read three.Mr Yang said,He through the micro bo positioning function"investigation"To her daughter's micro bo,"Her micro bo comments I will see a,She doesn't like me secretly pay attention to her,But I'm worried about".

　　童女士比较放得开，“我不看孩子的微博，但孩子愿意跟我‘吐槽’”。童女士的女儿开微博好几年了，“我问过她可不可以看，她说这是隐私，我就算了。相信孩子，这种信任本身就是一种良性的互动”。

Children's lady is put to open,"I don't go to the child's micro bo,But children are willing to follow me‘Vomit tank’".Children's lady's daughter open micro bo for several years,"I asked she can see,She said this is privacy,I am the.Believe that children,This trust itself is a kind of benign interaction".

　　专家：微博是特殊日记

experts:Micro bo is a special journal

　　北京大学教育心理学博士王芳认为：“处于青春期的孩子，想保留私人空间，一旦发现父母‘偷看’自己的微博，尤其是发现父母故意伪装‘粉丝’、‘同龄人’互动时，孩子产生的不安和失落感容易激化。”她说，父母可以把微博看成一种特殊的日记，如果想藉此与孩子进行沟通，最好先征得孩子的同意。(记者 尹安学 褚韵)

Beijing university education psychology doctor wang fang think:"In adolescence children,Want to keep private space,Once found that parents‘peek’Own micro bo,Especially find parents deliberately camouflage‘fans’/‘peers’interactions,Children produce unrest and loss easily become acute."She said,Parents can put the micro bo as a special kind of diary,If you want to communicate through this with the child,You'd better the consent of the consent of the child.(Reporter YinAnXue ChuYun)