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　　大学爱情，到底是“选修课”还是“必修课”？前晚，南方电视台《全民议事听》栏目中，面对几乎一边倒支持大学里谈恋爱的专家们，武汉两名大一女生奋力反驳：上大学不一定非得谈场恋爱！

University love,Exactly is"Elective course"or"Compulsory course"?The night before last,Southern TV[People listen to the]Column of,In the face of almost overwhelming support the university fall in love of experts,Wuhan two freshman girls to refute:The university doesn't have to talk about field in love!

　　两名女生余江和郭海蓉均来自武汉商贸职业学院，是该校记者团成员。今年该校记者团指导老师提议，加入记者团要写保证书，保证两年内不谈恋爱。最终有18名学生写下保证书。

Two girls YuJiang and GuoHaiRong are from wuhan business vocational college,Is the press corps members.This year the school press corps teacher proposal,Join press corps to write letter of guarantee,Ensure that two years don't fall in love.Finally eighteen students write letter of guarantee.

　　这一事件，正是这期节目的话题。

This event,It is this program objective topic.

专家观点一边倒 Expert view one-sidedness

　　节目现场，来自中山大学、暨南大学、华中师范大学的学者及社会专家，均认为大学生应该谈恋爱。

Program field,From sun yat-sen university/Jinan university/Central China normal university scholars and social experts,All think that college students should fall in love.

　　中山大学中文系教授柯倩婷反对让学生写不谈恋爱保证书。她说，学生无须为加入某个社团去承诺感情选择，社团也没有权力要求学生出让爱情。这是教育的悲哀。情感专家木每女士表示：“爱情是人的天性，大学生完全有权利决定自己是否谈恋爱。学校不能和学生为谈不谈恋爱签约，这是矫枉过正，老师的要求匪夷所思。”暨南大学心理委员管委会指导老师陈英认为，“爱情来了就应该珍惜。”

Sun yat-sen university Chinese department professor KeQianTing opposed to let the student write don't fall in love letter of guarantee.She said,Students need not to join a club to promise emotional choice,Club also did not have the authority to require students to the love.This is the education of sorrow.Emotional experts wood every woman says:"Love is the person's nature,College students have the right to decide to whether they fall in love.The school can't talk and students for signing don't fall in love,This is hypercorrection,The teacher's request fantastic."Jinan university psychology of the ac teacher Chen ying think,"Love to do what you should cherish."

　　当主持人提出：为什么学校越是对学生恋爱管理得严格，爱情越是发展得蓬蓬勃勃？华中师范大学彭晓辉教授说：“这种矛盾是学校不作为导致的。《婚姻法》规定：女20岁、男22岁就可以结婚，结婚的权力都有了，怎么谈恋爱的权力没有了？”

When the host puts forward:Why the more schools for students love management must strictly,Love the more developed vigorously?Central China normal university professor PengXiaoHui said:"This kind of contradiction is the school as a result of not.[Marriage law]provisions:Female twenty years of age/Male 22 years old can get married,The power of the marriage had,How to fall in love of power is gone?"

　　面对专家们，两个女生并不示弱，摆出自己的观点。

In the face of the experts,Two girls is not weakness,Set out his views.

　　“喜欢一个人，爱一个人，要有资本。学校里很多人是因为无聊和寂寞去谈恋爱。我想首先充实自己的内涵，多学知识，以后更好融入社会，而不是先去谈恋爱。”余江说。

"Like a person,Love a person,Want to have capital.School a lot of people because of boredom and loneliness to fall in love.First I would like to enrich their own connotation,Learn more knowledge,Later in the society better,Rather than go to fall in love."YuJiang said.

　　郭海蓉表示，自己刚进大学，需要学的有很多，没必要这么早谈恋爱。如果有心仪的男生追求自己，会不会因为写了保证书而拒绝对方？郭海蓉表示，如果他真心爱我，难道不能等我两年吗？

GuoHaiRong said,I first joined the university,Need to learn a lot,Don't have to so early fall in love.If there is the right boy pursue their own,Can because wrote a letter of guarantee and refused to each other?GuoHaiRong said,If he really love me,Can't wait me two years?

师生热议校园爱情 The teachers and students of hot debate campus love

　　昨日记者来到武汉商贸职业学院，对节目中的专家观点，该校宣传处处长张志雄表示纳闷，“大学里不仅要教学生文化知识和技能，也应引导恋爱观。如果一味鼓励怂恿大学生谈恋爱，这才是高校的失职。”

Yesterday reporters came to wuhan business vocational college,To show the experts point of view,The school propaganda division director ZhangZhiXiong said wonder,"The university should not only teach the students knowledge and skills,Should also guide the love.If blindly encourage urged students fall in love,This is the university of dereliction of duty."

　　张志雄正是让学生保证不谈恋爱的始作俑者。他极力倡导学生们在大学期间不要恋爱，尤其是女生，因为“爱情中受伤最多的往往是女方”。今年，他对该校记者团新成员提出写保证书的建议，“现在的学生们心理还不成熟，不懂爱情，也没经济能力去谈恋爱。”

ZhangZhiXiong is to let the students that the don't fall in love.He made every effort to promote the students during the university don't love,Especially the girl,because"Love is often the most injured".This year,He put forward a new member of the press corps written guarantee suggestion,"Now the students psychology is not mature,Do not know love,Also didn't economic ability to fall in love."

　　余江的妈妈彭桂菊非常支持女儿签不谈恋爱保证书的决定。她说：“女儿今年才18岁，是学习知识的阶段，处理个人问题还不够成熟、全面。等她毕业参加工作以后再谈吧。”

YuJiang mother PengGuiJu very support daughter sign don't fall in love guarantee decision.She said:"Daughter this year just eighteen years old,Is to learn knowledge stage,It is not enough to cope with personal problems as well as mature/comprehensive.She graduated from such as job'll talk about it later."

　　记者了解到，记者团29名新成员中有18人写了保证书。周钰是没有签保证书的一员。昨天，周钰问妈妈对自己谈恋爱的态度，得到的答复是“你要谈妈妈也管不住，但一定不要上当”。

The reporter understands,Press corps and name the new members have and to write a letter of guarantee.There is no sign ZhouYu a member of the guarantee.yesterday,ZhouYu asked her mother to the attitude of the fall in love,Get the answer is"Do you want to talk about my mother also cannot manage,But must not be duped".

　　5日，记者再次就此采访彭晓辉教授，他依然表示：“我就鼓励学生谈恋爱，还教学生怎么谈恋爱。大学不谈恋爱还什么时候恋爱？”

5,,This reporter interviewed professor PengXiaoHui again,He still says:"I will encourage students to fall in love,Also teach students how to fall in love.The university don't fall in love also when in love?"