“寝室里的人太闹，我又喜欢静，整天都烦死了，精神就要崩溃了，哪位高人有高招，帮忙指点一下迷津？”“大学寝室室友有可能偷了你的钱，怎么办？”在百度贴吧里，不少大学生发帖求解决寝室问题的方法。一则调查显示，仅四成90后大学生对寝室关系满意，三成大学生对寝室矛盾抱着无所谓的态度。

"The person in the bedroom is too make,And I like quiet,All the day be bored to death,Spirit will collapse,Which tall person have silver bullet,Help labyrinth?""University dormitory roommate may have stolen your money,do?"In the baidu post bar,Many college students to solve problems for post bedroom method.A survey,Only forty percent after 90 in college dormitory relationship satisfaction,Thirty percent of college students dormitory contradictions embrace indifferent attitude.

　　90后的大学生对寝室情谊越来越淡漠，不善于处理各种人际关系。在长沙高校中，一些辅导员表示，寝室矛盾也越来越凸显。许多大学生与网友打得火热，和室友形同陌路。

After the 90 college students dormitory to friendship more and more indifference,Not good at dealing with all kinds of interpersonal relationship.In the university in changsha,Some counselor said,Dormitory contradictions also are more and more obvious.Many college students with friends to play with,And roommate shape with stranger.

“被熬夜”让乖孩子有苦难言 "Be stay up late"Let the lovely children are suffering

　　“都快凌晨了，谈恋爱晚归的室友‘哗啦啦’地洗头洗澡后，顶着湿漉漉的头发，开着大灯，全然不顾全寝室人要不要休息，看起了小说。灯光直射在我的床头，我用衣服遮住眼睛半个小时也没睡着，真想跳起来把灯关了，因为担心会引起争吵，只得算了。”湖南涉外经济学院的周舟已经熬成了熊猫眼，因为长期“被熬夜”，她白天无精打采，上课经常打瞌睡。

"All quick at the,Fall in love came back late roommate‘hua’To wash after a bath,Top the wet hair,Open headlight,He didn't pay attention to bedroom person want to rest,Look up the novel.Direct light in my bed,I use the clothes in his eyes couldn't sleep for half an hour,Really want to jump up turned off the light,Because of fears that can cause the quarrel,Had to calculate."Hunan institute of foreign economic ZhouZhou already have become panda eye,Because long-term"Be stay up late",She listlessly during the day,Often doze off in class.

　　在长沙高校，“被熬夜”在大学寝室中是普遍现象。湖南大学的曾欢说，每个人作息时间和生活习惯不同，有的爱“煲电话粥”，有的爱深夜上网，有的早出晚归，灯光和噪声经常让人无法入睡。

In changsha university,"Be stay up late"In the university dormitory is common phenomenon.Hunan university of CengHuan said,Everyone work and rest time and life habits are different,Some love"To talk on the phone",Some love the Internet late at night,Some go out early and return till late,Light and noise often let a person can't fall asleep.

　　“昨天晚上为考试只睡了两小时，本来想好好睡一觉的，刚一躺下，快要进入睡眠状态的时候，一姐们儿就进来关门，‘砰’的一声。瞬间惊醒，接着又快要睡着，‘呲啦’一声拖椅子声，再次惊醒。当第三次快要睡着时，另一姐们儿出门又是‘砰’的一声。我完全睡不着了。”一大学生在考试前上贴吧求助怎么办。许多大学生认为，“被熬夜”已经成为导致大学宿舍关系紧张的主要因素之一。

"For the exam last night only slept for two hours,Originally want to have a good sleep of,Just a lie down,Is going to sleep,A JieMenEr came close,‘bang’sound.Moment wake up with a start,Then is about to fall asleep,‘Yi!’A loud sound drag chair,Again wake up with a start.When the third time is going to sleep,Another JieMenEr go out again‘bang’sound.I am fully awake."A college student on it for help before the exam.Many college students think,"Be stay up late"Has become causes the university dormitory tension is one of the main factors.

　　在爱晚红枫论坛、桃子湖吧等各高校贴吧论坛里，怎么对付“夜猫子”经常成为热帖。“把床装上床帘吧！你可以先去找几根挂钩，再在挂钩上环绕一排铁丝，然后再去网上或学校周围的店里买那种宿舍专用的床帘。能隔光、挡视线，但是唯一的缺点就是不能隔音。”有人立马在网上支招。

In love late red maple BBS/Peach lake it, and so on various universities stick in the BBS,How to deal with"Night owl"Often become ReTie."The bed put bed curtain it!You can go to find a few root hook,Then in the hook around a row of wire,Then go to online or schools around the store to buy the dormitory special bed curtain.Can lie between light/Block line of sight,But only drawback is not sound insulation."Someone online immediately move.

　　湖南师范大学的小辉，为了对付“夜猫子”，帘子、耳塞、眼罩备齐了。但她认为这一招只能减少干扰，而且隔着的帘子也让她与寝室好友的交流减少了。

Hunan normal university XiaoHui,In order to deal with"Night owl",curtain/earplugs/Patch prepare the.But she thinks this recruit can reduce interference,And across the curtain of the bedroom and also let her friends to reduce the communication.

卫生状况成寝室矛盾“黑匣子” Health condition into the bedroom contradictions"Black box"

　　“刚进门就被吓到了。”某高校辅导员一次下寝室检查时说道。刚打开门，一股异味迎面而来，混杂着方便面、香烟、槟榔的气息，让辅导员瞬间掩鼻，面容错愕。一眼看去，各种杂物尽入眼底，床上、书桌上衣物随意放置着，各种废纸屑、塑料瓶、可乐瓶、烟头在地上横七竖八地躺着，一盒刚吃完的方便面放在了角落。“以前认为男生寝室会比较乱，但是没有想到这么乱。”

"Just in the door, he was frightened."A college counselor once said the dormitory inspection.Just open the door,Were a peculiar smell,Mingle with the instant noodles/cigarette/Betel nut breath,Let the counselor moment cover your nose,Face fright.Look at,All sorts of sundry do into the fundus,bed/The clothes on the desk is placed at will,Various FeiZhiXie/Plastic bottle/Coke bottle/Cigarette butts on the ground lay in disorder,A box of just to eat instant noodles on the corner."Used to think the boy bedroom is disorderly,But didn't think so disorderly."

　　事实上，男生寝室关系一般比较和谐，但是很多时候，生活习惯等问题成为寝室矛盾的“黑匣子”，其中卫生问题是首因。有的喜欢在寝室就餐，有的喜欢抽烟，有的喜欢嚼槟榔，有的喜欢随手乱扔纸屑，但可惜没什么人喜欢搞卫生。

In fact,The boy is compared commonly harmonious relations bedroom,But most of the time,Living habits problem become the contradiction of the bedroom"Black box",The health problem is the primacy.Some like eating in the bedroom,Some like to smoke,Some like chewing betel nut,Some like to throw it away wastepaper,But unfortunately no people like to make health.

　　“寝室卫生总是没人打扫，跟他们说过几次了，但是都没人听。”中南大学小李说道。他们寝室总是有人有随地乱扔纸屑的习惯，有时拿卫生纸擦下书桌凳子什么的就随手丢弃了，但没有及时打扫。还有一些同学很长时间都不洗一次衣袜，直到发出很强烈的异味就挂出去“自然风干”，或者很简单地用水浸泡一下罢了。更有甚者，有些室友嚼完口香糖、槟榔等随口就在寝室吐了，有时候进寝室还有可能不小心踩到。作为寝室长，小李曾经督促过室友，但收效甚微。“这种事说了几次，也不好怎么说了，只能自己默默打扫干净，毕竟都是一个寝室的。”

"Dormitory health never clean,And they said a few times,But have no one to listen to."Central south university xiao li said.Their bedroom people always have the habit of litter the ground with paper,Sometimes take toilet paper to wipe desk stool under what is discarded,But no timely cleaning.There are some students for a long time not to wash a clothes socks,Until a very strong smell was hanging out"Natural air drying",Or simply water for the just.What is more,Some roommate chewing the gum/Betel nut and freely in the bedroom is sick,Sometimes into the bedroom and may not be stepped on.As the dormitory long,Xiao li had urged a roommate,But had little effect."This kind of thing said several times,Well how to say,But only themselves clean silently,After all is a bedroom."

　　寝室出现“邋遢帝”，有的寝室订立了寝规，规定寝室人员必须遵守的相互的约定。这一招令有的寝室有所改善，有的不仅没效果，反倒影响了同学关系。

Bedroom appear"Sloppy emperor",Some conclude the dormitory bed gauge,Personnel must abide by the provisions of the bedroom of mutual agreement.This recruit make some bedroom improved,Not only have no effect,But affects the classmates.

40%的大学生磨合期需三个月 40% of college students should be run in period of three months

　　武汉长江工商学院新闻专业学生对12所高校做的问卷调查显示，40%的大学生经过三个月的相处，矛盾冲突会相对减少。当室友之间产生矛盾，30%的大学生抱着无所谓的态度，任由矛盾“顺其自然”发展。16%的被调查者会让矛盾“烂在肚子里”，闷着不出声。仅有8%的大学生表示，寝室从未发生过矛盾冲突。

Wuhan Yangtze river business school journalism students to 12 universities do questionnaire survey,40% of college students after three months of get along with,Conflicts will be relatively reduced.When my roommate contradiction between,30% of college students hold the attitude of the matter,Let the contradiction"Let nature take its course"development.16% of respondents will make contradiction"Lousy in the belly",Boring with no noise.Only 8% of college students said,The bedroom has never been a conflict.

　　在长沙高校中，大多数大二以上的学生反映不再为寝室关系纠结。“刚进入大学时，最头疼的就是寝室关系，大家来自天南地北、城市农村，生活背景和成长环境都不相同，经常因为小事而引发矛盾。”湖南大学大二学生莎莎刚进入大学时还时常向高年级学生取经，学习如何处理寝室关系，“经过两年的大学集体生活，大家相互进一步了解，遇事从最开始的争吵，到多了一份理解和包容，在这个‘小社会’中，成长了不少。”

In the university in changsha,Most of the above two students will no longer be reflect relations bedroom ravel."Just enter the college,The most headache is dormitory relations,You come from far apart from each other/City rural,Life background and growth environment are not all the same,Often because small and cause conflicts."Hunan university sophomore sasa just entering college also often take to the senior and junior students,Learn how to handle dormitory relationship,"After two years of university collective life,We further understand each other,When anything crops up from the beginning of the argument,To much a understanding and tolerance,In this‘Small society’in,Grow a lot."

90后如何应对“宿舍危机” 90 how to deal with"Dormitory crisis"

　　专家表示，造成90后大学生寝室关系紧张的原因主要有四个方面：受应试教育的影响，比较自我；对社会了解较少，思想不够成熟；成长环境太过优越，大多以个人为中心；独生子女的娇生惯养，许多事情是父母包办。

Experts say,Cause after 90 college students dormitory tension is mainly caused by the four aspects:Education by the influence of the exam,Is self;To understand the society less,Thoughts are not mature enough to;Growth environment too is superior,Most of the individual as the center;The singleton female spoiled,Many things are their parents' wishes.

　　中南大学心理健康教育中心主任、临床心理学博士唐海波教授表示，90后孩子是个性鲜明的一代，因为不懂得宽容和换位思考，又缺乏人际交往技巧，宿舍间的矛盾日积月累，乃至出现“宿舍危机”，严重的还会诱发心理疾病。所以，90后大学生要学会心理调适，逐渐培养自己关心别人、考虑他人的习惯。不要放任自己的性格，不要太苛求他人，才能形成相互扶持的良好宿舍关系。（记者 徐媛 实习生 肖冠林）

Central south university, director of the center for mental health education/Ph.D., professor of clinical psychology TangHaiBo said,After 90 children are personality is distinct generation,Because do not know how to tolerance and transposition thinking,And the lack of interpersonal skills,Dormitory contradictions between accumulate over a long period,And appear"Dormitory crisis",Serious still can cause mental illness.so,After the 90 college students to learn the psychological adjustment,Gradually develop their care for others/Consider other people's habits.Don't let his own character,Don't criticize others,Mutual support can be formed a good dormitory relationship.(Reporter XuYuan XiaoGuanLin interns)