十多年前，在象牙塔里面的大学生们谈“性”色变。十多年后，大学生们大方谈“性”。

Ten years ago,Students talk in ivory tower"sex"Color change.After more than ten years,College students and easy to talk about"sex".

　　12月8日，大学生“人类性行为与道德”论坛在广西大学举行。作为2012第三届南宁性文化节暨首届广西-东盟成人保健及生殖健康用品（南宁）展览会四大主要内容的“三大科学论坛”之一，广西大学、广西医科大学、广西师范学院等8所高校组织的代表队参加了辩论赛，公开探讨当代大学生对“婚前性行为”的认知。

On December 8 th,College students'"Human sexual behavior and morality"BBS in guangxi university.As the third nanning festival 2012 and the first in guangxi and asean adult health and reproductive health supplies(nanning)Four major content of the exhibition"Three major scientific BBS"One of the,Guangxi university/Guangxi medical university/Guangxi normal university and other universities organization's team took part in the debate,Public discussion of contemporary college students"Premarital sex"The cognitive.

婚前试“爱” Try before marriage"love"

道德下降还是思想进步 Moral decline or ideological progress

　　在12月8日上午的第一场辩论赛中，广西大学与广西民族学院相思湖学院的代表队就“大学生婚前性行为是道德沦丧还是思想进步”展开交锋。广西大学代表队作为正方认为，大学生婚前性行为是道德沦丧。随着近年互联网的普及，大学生对性的观念日益开放，特别是上世纪90年代后，西方“性解放”思潮传入中国，年轻一代彻底打破了原有保守的性思想，随之而来的是人流、堕胎等现象泛滥，性道德观念降低。

On December 8 in the morning the first game of the debate,Guangxi university and guangxi university for nationalities acacia lake college team"College students' premarital sex was immoral or ideological progress"On meeting.Guangxi university team as a square,College students' sex before marriage is immoral.With the popularization of the Internet in recent years,Open to the idea of college students,Especially after the 1990 s,In the west"Sexual liberation"Thought was introduced into China,Younger generation completely broke the original conservative ideas,With the people/Abortion phenomenon such as flood,Sexual morality.

　　不过，广西民族学院相思湖学院代表队则认为婚前性行为体现的是当代大学生对性认知的提高。大学生作为接受高等教育的群体，在达到法定年龄并且双方自愿的前提下，冲破传统思想禁锢，发生婚前性行为，于情于理展现的是大学生对“性”的解放，思想上的进步。

but,Guangxi university for nationalities acacia lake academy team that premarital sexual behavior reflects the contemporary college students to improve the cognitive.University students as a group of receiving higher education,Is in after achieving legal age and under the premise of mutually voluntary,Break through the traditional thinking,Premarital sex,To show emotion in reason is for college students"sex"The liberation of the,Thoughts on the progress.

随机采访 Random interviews

大学生们持开放态度 College students are open-minded

　　台上针锋相对，台下观众对婚前性行为同样有话要说。记者随机采访了几位大学生。他们都表示对婚前性行为不支持也不反对，对婚前性行为表示理解。

On the tit-for-tat,The audience of premarital sex also have something to say.Reporter interviewed several random college students.They all said to not support against premarital sex,To understand that premarital sex.

　　广西民族大学相思湖学院的大二学生小唐告诉记者，身边的同学对婚前性行为基本持开放的态度。在她看来，情侣之间相处久了，如果感情稳定且有结婚的意向，在正确使用安全措施的前提下，发生婚前性行为，没有什么奇怪的，毕竟爱到自然处，无须道德的牵绊。

College of guangxi university for nationalities acacia lake student xiao tang told reporters,Side of the students on the opening of premarital sex basic attitude.In her eyes,Between lovers get along for a long time,If feelings stable and have intention to marry,On the premise of proper use of safety measures,Premarital sex,There is nothing strange,After all, love to nature,Without morality.

　　广西师范学院的大二男生小玮则表示自己是个“伪开放”派，虽然对大学生婚前性行为不反对，但是行为背后所面临的身体健康危害及代价，自己目前还无法接受。

Guangxi normal university of small junwei, said he is a big boy"- open"pie,Although sex before marriage of college students don't mind,But facing the behavior behind the body health hazard and price,But we can't accept your current.

　　在采访中，记者发现，尽管大部分大学生对婚前试“爱”持开放态度，但也表示对性知识缺乏系统的学习和了解。有调查显示，中国大学生中近50%的人认为婚前可以有性行为，而来自国家计生委一份统计报告显示，中国每年人工流产多达1300万人次，位居世界第一，其中25岁以下女性占一半以上，女学生群体的人流数也在逐年上升。

In the interview,Reporter discovery,Although most of the college students to try before marriage"love"open-minded,But also said lack of sexual knowledge learning and understanding of the system.A survey shows that,Chinese college students in nearly 50% of people think can premarital sexual behavior,And a report from the national population,Abortion as many as 13 million people every year in China,Ranks the first in the world,Which accounted for more than half of women under the age of 25,Female student group is also rising year by year the number of people.

专家忠告 Expert advice

大学生应三思而行 College students should think twice

　　“大学生婚前性行为的普遍，背后折射出当下高校性教育的缺失。”广西医科大学第一附属医院男性科专家梁季鸿博士认为，当下大学生在学校中得到的性教育很少，主要通过网络了解性知识，但网络中的信息有暴力、色情的成分，对学生的身心健康是很大的影响。同时，很多私人医院散布的人流、男性广告同样误导大学生树立正确的观念。

"College students' sex before marriage in common,Reflects the present behind the lack of sex education in colleges and universities."Guangxi medical university first affiliated hospital male experts Dr LiangJiHong thinks,Contemporary college students in the school of sex education,Mainly through the network to understand knowledge,But the information in the network have violence/The composition of pornography,Is a great influence to the physical and mental health of students.At the same time,Many private hospital distribution of stream of people/Men also misleading advertising college students set up the correct ideas.

　　梁季鸿博士建议，高校应该正确组织开展性教育讲座，开设性教育课程。针对大学生的婚前性行为，学校不能过分干预或禁止，只能提倡文明交往，而学生个人则需要对婚前性行为“三思而行”，考虑要承担的责任。（雷小琴 童荘装）

Dr LiangJiHong Suggestions,Colleges and universities should correct the organization carries out the sex education lectures,Sex education classes.In view of the college students' sex before marriage,The school cannot be too much intervention or banned,Only advocate civilization,While students need to premarital sex"Think twice",Considering to assume responsibility.(LeiXiaoQin 荘 tong)