近日看到一则帖子，是一位母亲在对比两个同龄女孩一个星期内的不同表现之后的感受。两个女孩，同是高一年级，一个是她的女儿，一个来自美国。读来令人深思。

Recently saw a post,Is a mother is comparing two same age girl feelings after the kinds of behavior within a week.Two girls,With the higher grade,One is her daughter,One is from America.Read to ponder.

　　美国女孩来自美国一所私立高中，这位母亲发现，相较于对自己的忙碌早已熟视无睹的女儿，美国女孩更习惯于赞美别人和帮助别人。“这是我吃过的最好吃的早餐，非常感谢您！”“我可以帮助您洗碗吗？”

American girl from the United States at a private high school,The mother found,Compared with the daughter of turn a blind eye to their own busy already,American girls are more used to praise others and help others."This is me to once eat the most delicious breakfast,Thank you very much!""Can I help you wash the dishes?"

　　美国女孩对待自然与动物的态度也令这位母亲尊重，小小的年纪，在面对上海名菜“鸡煲翅”时，竟因为菜的食材中有鱼翅，而坚决拒绝，“这道菜我无法接受，动物需要保护。”没有任何回旋的余地，甚至是不近人情。

American girls attitudes towards nature and animals also to respect the mother,A little old,In the face of Shanghai dishes"Chicken soup is fin"when,Because food ingredients of shark fin,And resolutely refused to,"I can not accept this dish,Animals need to protect."Don't have any wiggle room,Even ruthless.

　　令人感叹的远不止于此。这位母亲发现，当自己女儿将几乎全部业余时间奉献给各种培训班时，美国女孩却将时间花在去世界各地游学，迄今，她已经去过大约30个国家游学。而这并不代表女孩的功课很轻松，她每天的作业量大约是5个小时。

A person plaint of far more than that.The mother found,When his daughter will be dedicated to all kinds of training classes at almost all his spare time,American girl has spent time with go to travel all over the world,So far,,She has been to travel and study in about 30 countries.But this does not mean that the girl's homework is easy,She every day the work is about 5 hours.

　　两个女孩的一次对话也让这位母亲记忆深刻。两个女孩聊天时，女儿问美国女孩遇到的最恐惧的事情，美国女孩回答，是有一年暑假，几个家庭的父母将几个10多岁的孩子送到原始森林里长达一个星期，没有带任何食物，为了生存，孩子们学会了保护自己与自力更生。

Two girls in a dialogue also let the mother remember profoundly.Two girls talking,Daughter asked American girl met the most fear thing,American girl answer,There is a summer vacation in a year,A few parents of several of the more than 10 years old children to the primeval forest for a week,Didn't have any food,In order to survive,The children learned to protect themselves and self-reliance.

　　还有更令人惊讶的，美国孩子即将回国前，与几个中国孩子一道去电玩城玩耍，她没有同其他孩子一样，用大人给予的钱去玩自己喜欢的游戏，而是在观察了电玩城所有游戏之后，选择了一个盈利最大的游戏，先赚得了许多游戏币，之后才去找自己感兴趣的游戏玩。

There are even more surprising,American children before coming home,With a few Chinese children go to play video games city,She is not the same as other children,With adults to give money to play their favorite games,But after watching the video game city all game,Chose a game of profit maximum,Earned many game currency first,Later only to find themselves interested in play games.

　　就这样，仅仅一个星期的时间，在对比中，这位母亲陷入了深深的沉思：爱动物、爱自然，视野开阔、生存能力强，尊重别人、愿意帮助他人，放眼长远、懂得做到利益最大化，到底是怎样的教育给了美国女孩与自己的女儿如此之大的不同？

In this way,Just a week's time,In contrast,The mother fell into a deep meditation:Love animals/Love the nature,vision/Strong ability to survive,Respect yourself, respect others/Willing to help others,Take a long view/Who knows how to do benefit maximization,How education gave the girl and her daughter is so big different?

　　不同的教育方式一定会带来不同的教育结果，或许这位母亲所看到的仅仅只是一个侧面，但是，给我们带来的反思，却是深刻的。

Different way of education will lead to different education results,May be the mother can see only one side,but,Bring us the reflection,It is deep.