蛇年春节即将到来之际，一组名为《别人家的孩子》的漫画在网络走红，引发众多网民同感。不少网民都在微博“哭诉”自己被父母拿来和“别人家的孩子”比较的经历，称“从小就有个宿敌叫别人家的孩子”，痛恨这个“神一般的攀比对象”。

Snake in the coming Spring Festival,A group called[Other people's children]The cartoon in the network,Many netizens agree.Many Internet users in weibo"crying"Being compared to their parents"Other people's children"Comparison of experience,According to"Since the childhood has an enemy called other people's children",Hate this"God general comparison object".

　　在网友“小仙miko”创作的漫画《别人家的孩子》中，“别人家的孩子都生小孩了，你还在家里当小孩”，“别人家的孩子找着好工作了，你还每天睡到太阳晒屁股都不肯起床”，“别人家的孩子考研究生、博士生了，你就一‘双失……在漫画的最后，“别人家的孩子，我真的很讨厌你”说出了大多数网民的心声。

In the Internet"Little fairy miko"Creation of comic[Other people's children]In the,"Other people's children have children,You also at home when the children","Other people's children to find a good job,You still waking up to the sun's ass would not every day","Other people's children graduate student/The doctoral student,You are a‘Double loss...At the end of the comic,"Other people's children,I really hate you"To say the most Internet users.

　　据漫画创作者“小仙miko”介绍，创作这组漫画的原因是寒假同学聚会，大家吐槽最多的就是自己被父母和“别人家的孩子”比来比去，最后的结果永远都是“别人家的孩子”总是完美的，“别人家的孩子”总是比自己强，让大家觉得心里很不是滋味。

According to the comic creator"Little fairy miko"To introduce,Winter holiday reunion is the cause of create the images,Everybody vomit slot is by parents and yourself"Other people's children"Than go to a board,The end result will always be"Other people's children"Always perfect,"Other people's children"Always better than they are,Let everybody feel the in the mind very not taste.

　　网民“bonnie博曦”说：小时候，有没有一个孩子喜欢被拿来跟你比？那个孩子叫作“别人家的孩子”，然后你就会不厌其烦地听着他的战绩……我就纳闷了，大家过的是不一样的人生，我又不是他，有什么可比性？为什么大人们那么喜欢比较呢！何必比来比去气死自己，活得自在就好！

Internet users"Bonnie, the sunrise"said:When I was a child,Is there a child likes to be compared with you than?The child is called"Other people's children",Then you will be weary of listening to his record...I was wondering,Everyone's life is not the same,I'm not him,What is the comparability?Why do adults like more then!Why ratios than to grieve,Live at home!

　　有专家表示，很多父母喜欢拿“别人家的孩子”来比较，目的是为了给孩子一个奋斗努力的目标，这种心情可以理解，但事实上，这样的做法不仅很难起到激励作用，反而会让孩子的自信和自尊受到伤害。

Experts say,Many parents like to get it"Other people's children"To compare,The purpose is to give the child a struggle trying to target,This kind of mood is understandable,But in fact,This approach not only hard to motivate,It will come back to hurt the child's self-confidence and self-esteem.

　　网民“曹囧鸭”说，许多家长让孩子觉得，别人家的孩子都是宝，德智体美劳样样强，自家的孩子连根草都不如。在文章的最后，作者感叹：这世间有多少人，年少时渴望成为英雄，最终却成了烟火红尘里的平凡人。如果健康，如果快乐，如果没有违背自己的心意，我们的孩子，又何妨做一个善良的普通人？（新民晚报）

Internet users"Cao cannonballs duck"said,Many parents let their children think,Other people's children is a treasure,Strong physique and lowe everything,Even the grass is better than their children.At the end of the article,The author sighs:How many people are there in the world,Youth is eager to be a hero,It turns out to be fireworks in the world of mortals of ordinary people.If health,If happiness,If there is no against their own will,Our children,So what do a kind of ordinary people?(Xinmin evening news)