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　　“我不想做作业！”昨日下午，一条微博引发了昆明网友的关注，它来自一位初一学生，4月26日晚上，写作业时流鼻血，孩子含泪蘸血写下了这样的话。

"I don't want to do my homework!"Yesterday afternoon,A tweet cause the attention of the netizens in kunming,It comes from a new student,On April 26 night,When writing assignments, nosebleeds,Write down the words children tearfully dipped in blood.

　　最近昆明天气炎热干燥，流鼻血也不算稀奇，但在这样的场景下、含泪蘸血写下的这句话，除了让我们心疼，还应该有什么？当减负年年成为热点时，这么多年来减负的真正效果可想而知。我们关心的是，这个社会给孩子提供什么样的环境，孩子要怎么样面对现实，怎么样做才对孩子有利。

The hot, dry weather in kunming recently,Nosebleeds is not surprising,But in such a scenario/A tearful dipped in the blood to write down the sentence,In addition to let us love dearly,There should be?When during the year is hot,Over the years -- the real effect.We are concerned about,The society to provide what kind of environment,Children how to face the reality,How to do good for children.

　　

家长 顾忌影响拒绝采访 Parents hold influence declined to be interviewed

　　一张白纸上的血渍有浓有淡，但这句话透露出的心酸委屈却让人为这个孩子动容。“我不想做作业！”曾经的儿时经历，现在的为人父母，微博上的这张照片引来网友们的关注，不少人回复以泪流满面的表情符号。网友点评

A piece of white paper on blood have thick have thin,But this sentence show sad injustice for the children."I don't want to do my homework!"Childhood experiences,Now the parents,This photo on weibo attract netizens' attention,Many people reply to tearful emoticons.The comments

　　“祖国的花朵被摧残到什么程度了。”

"To what extent the flowers of the motherland is to be."

　　“我小学干过这样的事情，我直接在作业本上面用鼻血写下，我实在是不会做，最后被请家长说我威胁老师，唉。”

"My elementary school done such a thing before,I wrote directly on the homework with a bloody nose,I really can't do,Finally said I threatened the teacher parents please,alas."

　　“做作业做伤了，上学成了煎熬，我们离‘教育’二字，越来越远了。”

"Do homework do hurt,School is suffering,We from‘education’The word,More and more far."

　　“媒体应发起一轮对现在教育体制的深层讨论了，已经到了不改不行的边缘，有孩子的人最关注。”

"Media should be a round on the deep discussion of the education system now,Has to do not change the edge of the no,People with children is the most attention."

　　“从幼儿园开始，他们就没有了自由，连家长一同被捆绑在教育这辆风气污浊的公共车上。”

"From kindergarten began to,He is not free,Even parents bound together in ethos education the public car pollution."

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　　晚报记者为此联系了发这条微博的网友，原来，事情发生在她朋友的朋友的孩子身上。可是出于对老师和学校可能造成负面影响的担心，孩子家长拒绝了记者的采访，“现在都说减负，可孩子还被累成这样，说不过去，责任可能追究到老师和学校”。而几个小时后，网友也删除了这条微博：怕孩子受连累，只能删了，好无奈！

Evening news reporter contacted for this article this weibo users,The original,Things happen in her friend's friend's children.But out of fear of the teacher and the school may have a negative impact,Parents rejected a reporter's interview,"Now that burden,And the children were tired like this,Say not the past,Responsibility may be investigated to the teacher and the school".But after a few hours,Netizens also deleted the tweet:Afraid of trouble on children,Can only be deleted,Good helpless!

　　

实话 减不减负都让人纠结 The truth cannot reduce burden all let people entanglements

　　经过纠结的多方考量，王女士和先生最终决定让小升初的女儿不再继续上名校，而是选择了外语学校。身边的朋友都有印象，这个曾经懵懂可爱的孩子上小学后被课业折磨的片段；而妈妈看到的是，在从美国来的同龄孩子自信、阳光的背影下，女儿微微有些瑟缩的身躯。

After a tangle of many considerations,Mr Wang and eventually decided to among the daughter is no longer go to school,But chose the foreign language school.Friends have a impression,Once the children of the lovely children in elementary school after studying tortured fragments;The mother saw,In the age child self-confidence from the United States/Under the shadow of sunshine,Daughter slightly lain trembling body.

　　小学一二年级时，女儿常常做作业到深夜11点，有时候甚至做作业做到哭。“早上6点就得起床，这么小的孩子，正在长身体却睡都睡不够，连我都是送她上学后再睡个回笼觉”。王女士为此也跟班主任屡次沟通，老师也是一脸无奈：你知道班级之间比拼到什么程度？平均分小数点后的三位数。中国传统文化讲究学而优则仕，在王女士这一代也确实实践了知识改变命运这句话，但现在高考这条途径已经不再像过去那么有作用了。“教育动机、制度设计上符合进化论，但看看现在的教材，真是觉得我们教育内容和内核都出了问题。”现在的家长们都很矛盾，一方面在生活上百般满足孩子，一方面在学习上百般折磨孩子。

When elementary school second grade,Daughter often do their homework late into the night 11 o 'clock,Sometimes do homework do cry."Has to get up at 6 o 'clock in the morning,Such a small child,Long body are all sleep not enough sleep,Even I was to send her to school again after sleep up".Wang, director of the repeated communication has classes,The teacher is also a face of helpless:Do you know the class between competing to what degree?Average score of three digits after the decimal point.Chinese traditional culture can foster learning,In wang's generation does practice knowledge changes fate this sentence,But now the university entrance exam this route is no longer what it used to be useful."Education motivation/System design conforms to the theory of evolution,But now look at the materials,Really feel that our education content and kernel are out of the question."Now the parents are very contradictory,On the one hand meet the eyesight of children in the life,On the one hand, the study on children is worse.

　　无语的王女士看着女儿的压抑和委屈，也看到了自己的心疼带来的“恶果”：女儿不太爱勤奋学习，不愿意下苦功夫。她引用了最近在微博上被很多人转发的龙应台写给儿子安德烈的话：“孩子，我要求你读书用功，不是因为我要你跟别人比成绩，而是因为，我希望你将来会拥有选择的权利，选择有意义、有时间的工作，而不是被迫谋生。当你的工作在你心中有意义，你就有成就感。当你的工作给你时间，不剥夺你的生活，你就有尊严。成就感和尊严，给你快乐。”王女士说，她希望女儿人格健全、知识面广，而不是混得没有选择、没有机会，只为糊口而奔忙。

Wang looked at her daughter's oppression and injustice have no language,Also see my love dearly"consequences":Daughter don't love to work hard,Don't want to hard.She quotes on weibo recently by many forwarding Long Yingtai to son Andre:"The child,I ask you to study hard,Not because I want you with others than grades,But because of who I,I hope you will have the right to choose in the future,Choose a meaningful/Have time to work,Not forced to make a living.When your work is meaningful. In your heart,You have a sense of achievement.When your work give you time,Don't deprive you of life,You have dignity.A sense of accomplishment and dignity,Give you happiness."Ms. Wang said,She hope her daughter healthy personalities/Broad scope,Rather than doing without choice/Didn't have a chance to,Only for living.

　　

声音 分数论英雄不变，减负就是空谈 Sound score about hero remains the same,Burden is to talk

　　“学校布置的作业太多，这是普遍现象”，昆明市青少年发展研究会副会长兼秘书长曾汝弟告诉记者，近年来国家、省市教育部门三令五申减负，但实际是学生负担越减越重，关键还是在于教育体制。

"School decorate too much homework,This is a common phenomenon",Kunming city youth development research board vice-chairman concurrently secretary general Ceng Rudi told reporters,In recent years, countries/Time during the provincial education department,But it is the reducing the heavy burden on students,The key lies in the education system.

　　目前，我们仍是分数论英雄，仍是以分数评价学生、评价老师、评价学校。老师为提高成绩，用题海战术、加大作业量来提高学生分数，学生成绩好了才谈得上评职称、提工资、报先进。在这个过程中，老师是被迫的，因为学生的负担重了，老师的工作量也加大。曾汝弟曾问过一位屡获佳绩的中学名师，是用什么获得这样的成绩，这个老师的回答很简短：用命苦来，用命换来。曾汝弟说，中学老师、校长压力很大，但减负的主要责任不在老师，“改革教学方法，转变教育思想和评价体系，不要一切围着分数，能不能尝试着引导老师创新教育方法，既能减轻学生负担又能提高成绩？”

At present,We are still scores about hero,On students score evaluation/Evaluation of the teacher/Evaluation of the school.The teacher in order to improve performance,With the workbook/More work to improve students' scores,Ok to talk about student performance on professional evaluation/Worker wage/Quote advanced.In the process,The teacher is forced,Because students' heavy burden,The teacher's workload also increased.Ceng Rudi asked an award-winning achievements of middle school teacher,What is get such results,The teacher's answer is very brief:By knowing,YongMing for.Ceng Rudi said,High school teacher/The principal stress,But during the main responsibility is not a teacher,"Reform the teaching method,Transformation of education ideas and evaluation system,Don't all around the points,Can you try to guide the teacher education innovation method,Both can ease the burden on students and to improve performance?"

　　对于这个含泪蘸血写下“我不想做作业”的孩子，曾汝弟表示，要加强孩子学习艰苦性教育，大家的负担都是一样重，为什么有些孩子叫苦、有些孩子能适应？面对现实，提高孩子承受力，这就是学习的心理素质教育，让孩子明白学习是艰苦的劳动，好成绩不是轻而易举的来的，光埋怨、怕苦怕累是不行的。但也要体验到学习的收获乐趣，让孩子理解到一分耕耘一分收获。面对孩子的畏难情绪，家长要理解、同情、鼓励孩子。鼓励孩子“别人能做到，你也能做到”，勇敢面对困难和现实。“这些说起来简单，改变并不容易”，曾汝弟说，这个老生常谈的话题几乎是每个家庭都遇到的难题，它的解决需要各方力量的共同努力。

For this a tearful dipped in the blood to write down"I don't want to do my homework"Of the children,Ceng Rudi said,To strengthen their children to study hard sex education,Everyone is the same as the burden of heavy,Why do some children complain/Some children can adapt?Face the reality,Improve children tolerances,This is to learn the psychological quality education,Let the children know that learning is hard work,Good grades is not easy,Light complains/Can't be afraid of hardships.But also to experience the learning harvest joy,Let the children understand you reap what you sow no pain, no gain.In the face of the child's difficulties,Parents to understand/sympathy/Encourage your child.Encourage your child"Others can do it,You can do it",Brave face difficulty and reality."This is simple,It is not easy to change",Ceng Rudi said,This a cliche topic is almost every family,Its solution calls for the joint efforts of all power.

　　

建议 让作业变成孩子宠物 Suggest make homework children pets

　　没有孩子是天生爱做作业的，在目前的教育体制下，家长必须得培养孩子的学习习惯和学习技巧。两位中学生的家长向记者分享了他们的经验。

No child is born to love doing his homework,Under the current education system,Parents have to cultivate their learning habits and learning skills.Two high school students parents Shared their experience to the reporter.

　　面对常常忙得分身乏术的女儿，张先生觉得一定要培养孩子的学习乐趣，与其被动挨打不如主动出击。“你看看，这些作业就像是你养的小宠物，今天数学这个小宠物是不是吃饱了？英语那个小宠物是不是要天天喂着”他循循善诱，这样做的效果还是不错的。

Face score often busy and little daughter,Mr. Zhang think fun must cultivate children's study,Rather than passive initiative."You look at,These assignments is like your little pets,Mathematics the little pet is full today?English is the little pet feeding every day"He described,The effect is good.

　　周女士觉得在作业问题上一定要注意家长和孩子的沟通，“我儿子小的时候相当不喜欢做作业，我从来都说：做作业就跟你妈要上班一样呢，不上就没饭吃。”结果她儿子很快就把上学看得很职业化。孩子爸爸曾有个设想，与学校商讨一下，让儿子可以不做作业，等毕业时看看跟做作业的孩子有啥区别。这个主意遭到周女士的强烈反对，她觉得孩子不能孤立于群体之外，否则会给孩子成长造成负面影响，让孩子在同龄人面前抬不起头。

Ms. Zhou think on homework problems must be pay attention to parents and children communication,"My son very don't like doing his homework when I was a child,I never said:Do your homework just like your mother had to go to work,Don't don't eat."Results soon put her son to school look very professional.Children dad had a vision,Discuss with the school,Let the son can not do the homework,When graduation see have what distinction do homework with children.The idea of strong opposition from ms zhou,She felt that children cannot be isolated from the group,Otherwise you will growth have a negative impact on children,Let the kids lift head in front of their peers.

　　

发问 年年减负何时了 Asking questions when the burden every year

　　减负这个话题究竟有多热？每年全国、省市两会，每年新学期开学，这都是大家热议的话题，就连两个月前省长答复网友留言中，都包含减负这个信息。“作为家长，不忍心看孩子背那么多的习题和卷子。不是一直在提倡素质教育吗？怎么孩子的书包越来越重？”

Hopping on the topic how hot?The country every year/Provinces and cities two sessions,New semester each year,This is a hot topic,Even the governor response netizen comments. Two months ago,Contain hopping on this information."As a parent,Don't have the heart to see children back so many exercises and examination papers.Not have been advocating quality-oriented education?How a child's bag is getting heavier and heavier?"

　　2月27日，云南网友在人民网留言：“我家小孩没哪个周末可以好好休息一下。作业越来越多，不是毕业班学校也要求补课。我还以为只是我们小孩一个学校的现象，一问同事才知道基本上所有小孩都在补课。”省教育厅对此回复：我们对减轻中小学生负担历来十分重视，并把经常性工作与重点抽查结合起来，中小学生的“减负”工作取得了明显成效。因网友未提供具体学校，无法有针对性地调查处理，如您需要继续反映情况，请直接与省教育厅监察室（电话：0871-65198097）联系。

On February 27,,Yunnan netizens in People's Daily online leave a message:"Which can have a good rest this weekend. My kids didn't.Work more and more,Not graduating class would also need to make up a missed lesson in school.I thought it is a school the phenomenon of our child,Ask a colleague to know almost all children in make up a missed lesson."Reply to this province department of education:We have to reduce the burden of primary and middle school students has always been very seriously,Combined with the key spot check and regular work,The primary and middle school students"During the"Work has achieved obvious results.Because of Internet users did not provide a specific school,Cannot be targeted to investigate,If you need to continue to reflect the situation,Please directly JianChaShi with provincial department of education(The phone:0871-65198097)contact.

　　就在家长、学生不断发出减负呼吁，教育监管部门十分重视减负的现实背景下，又有几位家长能站出来向相关部门反映减负如何不到位？

In the parents/Students constantly during the call,Education supervision department attaches great importance to students under the background of reality,And a few parents can come out to the relevant departments to reflect -- how does not reach the designated position?

　　2006年1月，晚报就报道过“昆明小儿郎拖着书包上学堂”，孩子羸弱的肩头背着平均重量在4公斤左右的书包，最重的竟达7公斤。7年过去了，当年“给学生减负！”这句话仍然具有现实意义，甚至日趋严重；当年背着重重书包的小儿郎现在已经变成了中学生，他们面对的仍然是写不完的作业、背不完的习题和卷子。

In January 2006,Evening news reported"Kunming small play, dragging a school bag",Children weak shoulders with average weight about 4 kg bag,The heaviest up to 7 kg.In the past 7 years,That year"To give students burden!"This sentence still has a realistic significance,Even more serious;When carrying a heavy bag of small play has become a middle school student now,They face is still write not over of homework/Back up exercises and examination papers.

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可以尝试心理“减负” Can try to psychological"During the"

　　在日常生活中，你要教会孩子自己学会心理“减负”。

In our daily life,Do you want to teach children to learn psychology"During the".

　　

第一招 让孩子学会释放压力 The first recruit let children learn to release pressure

　　告诉孩子她的同学中也有不少人对学习、对生活、对自己都有不同程度的不满，而很多人每天都在快乐地生活。这是因为他们有些人喜欢在压力中迎接挑战，以从中获得一种惬意的满足。一个人不是每次都有好运气，压力太重会压得自己喘不过气来，久而久之便会影响自己的身心健康。所以，每个人都应该学会释放压力，放松心情，这样你也会快乐。

Tell a child her classmate also has many people to learn/To the life/Has a different degree of dissatisfaction to oneself,And many people live happily every day.This is because some of them like to meet the challenges in the pressure,In order to get a nice meet.Not every time a person has good luck,Pressure is too heavy to myself out of breath,The passage of time will affect their physical and mental health.so,Everyone should learn to release pressure,Loosen the mood,So you will be happy.

　　

第二招 让孩子学会适应环境 The second let the child learn to adapt to the environment

　　告诉孩子每个人都有每个人的活法，每个人的立足点也不一样。虽说每个人都有自己独特的方式和各自的性格，但只有适应身边的环境，才能更好地学习和生活。

Tell a child everyone has each person's life-style,Each person's foothold is different also.Although each of us has our own characteristics and their own unique style,But only to adapt to the environment around you,In order to better learning and life.

　　

第三招 让孩子学会知足常乐 3 let the children learn to be satisfied with

　　让孩子知道，一个人不可缺乏进取心和奋斗精神，但把目标定得过高往往会得不偿失。千万不要对自己太苛求，不要活得太累。

Let the children know that,A man cannot lack of enterprising spirit and fighting spirit,But set your goal too high tends to do more harm than good.Don't be too demanding to myself,Don't live too tired.

　　

第四招 让孩子学会适度宣泄 The fourth recruit let children learn to moderate intensity

　　让孩子懂得，真正的健康是一个人身体上、精神上和社会适应上的完善状态。如果觉得自己的心理状态不够好时，可以通过运动、读书、听音乐、看电影、找朋友倾诉等方式来宣泄自己不愉快的情绪。用与别人交流、沟通的方式调整自己的心理状态，一定会更加愉快。

Let the children know,The real health is one's body/Mental and social adaptation in perfect condition.If you feel your mental state is not good enough,Can through the motion/Reading a book/Listen to the music/Watching a movie/To find friend pour out to vent their bad mood.Communicate with others/Communication way to adjust their psychological state,Will be more happy.