误区一：要求越紧反抗越强 Myth a:Require tight against the stronger

　　中考是一种选拔性考试，能够升入重点。

Examination is a kind of recruitment exam,To the point.

　　中学继续就读的学生毕竟是少数，这就对初一、初二年级时学习成绩并不理想的学生造成很大的心理压力。

Are only a few high school students continue to study,It's on the first/2 grade students study result not ideal caused great psychological pressure.

　　于是，在一些孩子身上，会出现与家长、老师的要求格格 不入的行为，诸如对学习成绩无所谓、行为习惯逐渐散漫，甚至发生更为严重的叛逆对立现象。要求越紧，反抗越强，失望也就越大。

so,In some children,Will be with parents/The teacher request space space does not enter the behavior,Such as the study result doesn't matter/Gradually loose behavior,Even more serious rebellious opposite phenomena.Require tight,The stronger the resistance,The greater the disappointment.

　　分析对于这部分学生，需要家长、老师保持冷静，切忌一味地责怪埋怨，要多去了解孩子，经常进行平等的交流，把握问题的所在，解除孩子的困惑，争取孩子的配 合，加强科学的引导。

Analysis for this part of the students,Parents need to/The teacher to keep cool,Don't blindly blame blame,To get to know more children,Often equal communication,To grasp the problem,Remove the child's confusion,For children with us,Strengthen scientific guidance.

　　家长要改变不切实际的要求，和孩子共同确定符合孩子实际能力和意愿的目标，共同向着这一目标努力，使之认识到“我尽力，我也行”。

Parents want to change the unrealistic demands,And children jointly set accord with the actual ability and willingness to target children,Working together toward the same goal,Make it realize"I tried my best to,I also go".

误区二：不求实际盲从别人 Myth 2:No actual blindly follow others

　　向上一届初三学生讨教，这是很多家长和学生的做法。因为别人经验能帮助自己认清形势，汲取经验，少走弯路。

Up the grade students for advice,This is a lot of parents and students.Because others experience can help you understand the situation clearly,To learn,Little detours.

　　分析别人的一些学习方法看似不错，但并非与你的个性特点和学习习惯吻合，全盘接受、临时改变自己也许会带来学习上的不适应。

Some kind of learning approach for the analysis of others looks good,But it is not match your personality traits and learning habits,acceptance/Temporary don't change yourself, may make learning adaptation.

　　面对各种繁复的信息，家长和学 生一定要保持冷静的头脑，不慌乱，不盲从，要认真分析研究，多方咨询，信任老师，这样才能确保无虞。选择适合自己的，才是最好的。

In the face of all kinds of heavy and complicated information,Parents and students must keep a cool head,Don't panic,Don't blindly follow,Want serious analysis and research,Multilateral consultation,Trust in the teacher,So you can assured.Choose to suit oneself,Is the best.

误区三：大量做题大量补课 Myth 3:A lot of a lot of make up a missed lesson. To solve the problem

　　这是很多学生在升入初三年级之初会产生的一种心里想法。面对升学在即，他们会积极地尝试改变自我，在意志上、在行动上寻求自我完善，希望克服以往学习过程 中思想上、行为上的不足之处，争取大幅提升学习效果，以求实现理想的升学效果。

This is a lot of students from grade to grade the beginning of an idea in heart.Facing the entrance of,They would actively try to change yourself,In the will./Seek self-perfection in action,Hope to overcome the previous thoughts on the learning process/Deficiency in behaviour,Strive for improved learning,In order to achieve the entrance effect.

　　于是，在其中很多人的身上，大量耗时间、大量做题目、大量去补课的现象时常 可见。这种精神是值得嘉许的，但“人有多大胆，地有多大产”式的做法是不科学的。

so,Many people in it,A lot of time consuming/Do a lot of questions/A lot is a common phenomenon to make up a missed lesson.This spirit is worthy of recognition,but"People have more bold,How much to produce"Type is not scientific.

　　分析在初三学习中，不光要努力，更要掌握学习的科学方法，掌握学法、提升效率、循序渐进、适度紧张是非常重要的。

Analysis in the third study,Not only should efforts to,Better to master the scientific method of learning,Master the method/Promote efficiency/Step by step/Moderate stress is very important.

　　所以，不能只靠喊口号扎猛子，而是首先要 静下心来仔细分析个人的学习特点和存在的问题，充分征求老师的意见，借鉴成功同学的做法，认真制订个性化的学习计划，要十分注意避免“高投入低产出”的学 习方式。

so,Not just shout slogans dive,But first of all want to calm down and careful analysis of the characteristics of an individual and the existing problems,Consult the teacher fully,Reference to the practice of successful students,Personalized learning plan carefully,Be very pay attention to avoid"High input and low output"Way of learning.

误区四：分不够钱来补 Myth 4:Points is not enough money to repair

　　在升学过程中，要面对自费择校的问题，“分不够，钱来补”，是相当一部分家长和学生的选项。

In the process of enters a higher school,Face at school choice problem,"Points is not enough,Money to repair",Is quite a number of options for the parents and students.

　　在实际生活中，不少家长对孩子提出的要求是“我们没钱给你自费上学，只有靠你自己努力”。

In real life,Many parents of children is request"We don't have the money to you at school,Only on your own efforts".

　　但是，你还会看到一部分家长会说“只要你好好努力，哪怕分不够我也愿意花钱给你上学”，甚至还听到家长会这样说，“没事，你该 怎么学就怎么学，学校我们已经给你花钱找好了”。

but,You'll see part of the parents said"As long as you work hard,Even enough I would also like to spend money for you to go to school",Even heard parents say so,"ok,How do you learn how to learn,The school we have to spend money to find a good for you".

　　分析也许分数确实不是最重要的东西，但是一部分家长这样的观念，带给孩子的有时不仅仅是对学业的松懈。

Analysis may score is not the most important thing,But the part of parents to the notion,Bring children sometimes not just to academic lax.

　　更重要的是，有可能让孩子在人生的一次考验中失去了 奋斗、拼搏的动力，让孩子过早对家长产生依赖心理。

What is more important,May let the child lost in the life of a test/Struggle of power,Let children early to rely on parents.

　　所以，提醒家长们在孩子的初三时光中，一言一行皆要慎重，要传递积极情绪。多加强学习，多咨询老师，提升自身素养，陪伴孩子顺利度过这人生的重要一年。

so,Remind parents in the child's third time,Be careful in word and deed,To deliver positive emotions.How to strengthen learning,And consult the teacher,To improve its quality,Through this important year in life together with your child.