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　　“不许打小孩的节日，谁设立的？肯定不是中国人。”

"Are not allowed to play children's festival,Who set up the?To be sure it is not Chinese."

　　“我们小时候谁没有挨过打？我女儿不听话的时候我也打过她的手心，我认为还是有效果的。”

"We play when I was a child who doesn't have dragged?My daughter not obedient when I played her palms,I think still have effect."

　　一种观点

一种观点

　　“打孩子只不过是因为父母没有教育孩子的耐心。

"Spank their children because parents just don't have education child's patience.

　　昨天，不少网友在 微博上转发一则消息：“今天是国际不打小孩日，不许打小孩哦！”原来，这个特殊的节日是1998年由美国反体罚组织“有效管教中心”发起的，提出了“请来试试看，至少在今天不要打小孩，或者你将会发现，今天过后的每一天，你都不需要打小孩了”的口号，借此反对儿童体罚，宣传对孩子的正面管教方法。

昨天,A lot of net friend to forward a message on weibo:"Today is the international day for the children don't play,No children play!"The original,This special holiday is in 1998 by the United States against corporal punishment"Effective control center"Launched by the,Put forward the"Please give it a try,At least don't child today,Or you will be able to find,Every day after today,You don't need to hit a child"The slogan of the,To against the physical punishment of children,Positive discipline methods of propaganda to the child.

　　成都商报记者昨天在街头随机访问了100位12-60岁的市民，90位受访者表示自己小时候挨过父母或者长辈的打，有89位市民表示，适当的体罚对孩子不失为一种有效的教育方法。

成都商报记者昨天在街头随机访问了100位12-60岁的市民,90 respondents said they played as a child by the parents or elders,There are 89 residents said,The appropriate corporal punishment of children can yet be regarded as a kind of effective education method.

大人：小时候谁没挨过打？ adults:When I was a child who was not playing?

　　“不许打小孩的节日，谁设立的？肯定不是中国人。”昨天下午，正带着12岁女儿婷婷在红星路二段等公交车的市民许凤一听“国际不打小孩日”就笑了。“我们小时候谁没有挨过打？我女儿不听话的时候我也打过她的手心，一代代都是这么过来的，我认为还是有效果的。”而在她周围，有不少已为人父母的市民都点头赞同，“国情不同，国外的教育方法不一定适合中国家庭。”大多数受访市民表示，一般父母打孩子并不会打得过分，更多的是一种象征性的惩罚”。

"Are not allowed to play children's festival,Who set up the?To be sure it is not Chinese."Yesterday afternoon.,With 12 years old daughter tingting in red star road 2 citizens sheu a listen to) wait for the bus"The international day for the children don't play"Laughed at."We play when I was a child who doesn't have dragged?My daughter not obedient when I played her palms,Generations are so over,I think still have effect."And around her,There are quite a few people have parents nod,"Different national conditions,Foreign does not suit Chinese family education methods."Most of the people polled said,Usually parents beat children will not be too much,Is more of a symbolic punishment".

　　在100位受访者中，仅有10位市民表示自己小时候从来没有被父母体罚过，但他们其中的7位，反而支持适度的体罚。21岁的大学生小黄从小跟着爷爷奶奶生活，从来没挨过父母的打，长大之后他觉得这并不见得是好事。“年纪小不懂事，有时大人讲道理不一定能理解，挨几下能印象深刻，起码可以规范行为，道理可以慢慢懂。”

在100位受访者中,Only 10 people said they had never been parents corporal punishment as a child,But seven of them,Support a moderate amount of corporal punishment.21-year-old college student huang with grandpa's grandmother life since childhood,Never get the beat of the parents,When I grew up, he think it's not necessarily good."Young don't understand,Sometimes adults make sense can not understand,Can get a couple of impressive,At least can regulate behavior,Can slowly understand."

　孩子：挨打让我感觉很无助 The child:Beaten let me feel very helpless

　　在受访者中有8名12-18岁的少年，他们都表示：“很讨厌挨打的感觉，过后都有心理阴影”。17岁的唐磊还记得，上初中有一次没考好，他被父亲打得夺门而出，在街上躲到12点过才回家。“很无助，以后再也不敢不好好学习了。”

在受访者中有8名12-18岁的少年,They all said:"Hate beaten,After all have psychological shadow".17 years old tang still remember,On the junior middle school have a didn't test good,His father played a dash for the door,Hiding in the street to 12 points to go home."Very helpless,Later any further don't study hard."

　　“不过，等到孩子懂事后就没打过了，会伤害他的自尊心，”唐磊的妈妈钱女士说。

"but,Wait until child sensible hasn't played,Will hurt his self-esteem,"唐磊的妈妈money女士said.

　　观点：打孩子是没有耐心的表现

观点:Spanking is a sign of impatience

　　昨天，“国际不打小孩日”也成为微博的热点话题，不少网友表示，打孩子只不过是因为父母没有教育孩子的耐心。网友“宝得适Britax旗舰店”说：“他们渐渐长大，会有自己的想法，要耐心去倾听，耐心开导，以好朋友的角度去对待，让他们有平衡的心理，如此才会说出真心话。”

昨天,"The international day for the children don't play"Has become a hot topic in the weibo,Many people said,Spank their children because parents just don't have education child's patience.Net friend"Treasure to be Britax flagship store"said:"They grew up,Will have their own ideas,Be patient to listen,Patience to teach,To treat in good friend's point of view,Let them have psychological balance,So can say true."

　　昨天，公安部打拐办主任陈世渠也发表微博：“不要再把爱孩子当作简单粗暴的借口！”并透露，反家庭暴力，国家正在立法，打孩子轻则违法，重则犯罪。

昨天,Chen shiqu, director of the ministry of public security DaGuaiBan also published weibo:"Don't love kids as simple and crude!"And according to,Against domestic violence,Countries are legislation,Spanking is illegal,Or crime.

　网友观点 Users point of view

　　棍棒下出孝子 有时不打不行 棍棒下出孝子 有时不打不行

　　@张怡筠：天天都该是“不打孩子日”！父母打孩子，就等于承认自己无能力与孩子沟通。暴力父母，教出的是暴力孩子或者懦弱孩子，而非懂事明理的优秀孩子。

@张怡筠:Every day it is"Don't spank their children,"!Parents spank their children,Is to admit that he has no ability to communicate with children.Parents' violence,Children or cowardice child teach is violence,The excellent kids rather than sensible understanding.

　　@520兰儿：古语云：棍棒出孝子，有时确实不打不行滴，现在太多的小孩就是欠打、欠教训……

@520兰儿:Archaism cloud:Sticks out of the son,Sometimes really don't play no drops,Now too many children is playing/Owe the lesson……

　　@谌强SQ：适当惩罚孩子怎么就不对？方式得当，有分寸就是很好的教育。

@谌强SQ:Appropriate punishment children why can't you?Proper way,Measured is a very good education.

　　@那朵连花：不赞成现在宣传的教育理念中的打不得，因家长各种不同，孩子又千差万别，只记住打不得，整体理论又跟不上，现实中骄纵得多，有小孩无法无天。本就物以稀为贵，全家大人就以一个小孩为中心了，含着怕化了，捧着怕摔了，不舍得碰一下……据@人民日报微博

@那朵连花:Now don't agree with propaganda education idea in the play,Because of different parents,Children vary widely,Just remember to play,The whole theory and can't keep up,Put to much in reality,Have kids lawlessness.This is content with rare for expensive,The family's adult with a child as the center,With a fear of change,Holding fear fell,Don't want to touch……According to @ the People's Daily microblog

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