“儿子要穷养，女儿要富养。”对于坊间流传的这样一种育儿理念，“80后”父亲万先生算是做到了极致。刚刚过去的这个春节7天长假，他给女儿买名牌服装、买iPad2，带着妻女赴海南旅游，7天下来，万先生花掉了3万元的年终奖，但他认为很值得，“女儿一定要富养，全部给她最好的”。

"Poor son to raise,Daughter to eutrophic."For there are rumours of such a parenting philosophy,"After 80"Father is Mr Wan to do the acme.This past the 7-day Spring Festival holiday,His daughter to buy designer clothes/Buy the ipad 2,With the wife and daughters went to hainan tourism,7 day,Mr Wan had spent 30000 yuan of award,But he thinks it's worth it,"Daughter must eutrophic,All the best for her".

　　对女儿有求必应

Soft touch to her daughter

　　今年31岁的万先生就职于汉口一家广告公司，月薪5000元左右，4岁的女儿彤彤（化名）在上幼儿园。万先生的妻子胡女士说，老公非常宠女儿，平时在家都是跪着和女儿交流。老公对女儿从来是有求必应，要什么就买什么。“有一次女儿说想吃冰淇淋，老公把哈根达斯店里8种不同口味的单球都买了回来。女儿喜欢玩小游戏，买了iPad还不够，过年又把一部iPad2买回了家。”

This year Mr Wan in hankou, 31, an advertising company,5000 yuan a month,4 year old daughter bunch ofred grapes(Not his real name)In the kindergarten.Mr Wan's wife, Ms. Hu said,The husband very spoil her daughter,At ordinary times communication are kneeling and daughter at home.The husband for her daughter never spoils,Ask for what you buy."Have a daughter said you want to eat ice cream,Husband put eight different flavors of single ball haagen-dazs store bought back.Daughter likes playing little games,Bought the iPad is not enough,New Year's day to buy a ipad 2 back home again."

　　“女儿要富养，把她宠得和小公主一样，要让她有优越感，将来长大了才不会吃亏。”万先生说。

"Daughter to eutrophic,Just like the little princess took her pet,Want to let her have a superiority complex,Grow up don't suffer in the future."Mr Wan said.

　　老公对女儿如此溺爱，让胡女士有些担忧，前天她给记者晒了春节假期的消费清单：一家三口去海南自助游花费2.1万元，给女儿上商场买衣服、鞋子花费4000多元，买部iPad2花了4000元，不算其他，这几项开支加起来就近3万元。

The husband for her daughter so spoiled,Let Ms. Hu to worry some,The reporters the day before yesterday she basked in the Spring Festival holiday consumption list:Three Tours to hainan to spend 21000 yuan,Mall to buy clothes for his daughter/Shoes cost 4000 multivariate,Buy a ipad 2 spent 4000 yuan,Among other,This a few expenses added up to near 30000 yuan.

　6成家长称“富养”女儿 6 as parents said"eutrophic"daughter

　　在网上搜索“女儿富养”一词后，立即弹出各大论坛对此育儿观的唇枪舌剑。

Search on the Internet"Daughter eutrophic"After the word,Immediately pop up each big BBS about child rearing acrimony.

　　网友“烟草味的酒鬼”说，穷养儿，富养女，有一定的道理。女孩只有富养后，长大了才不会被一些不良青年的小恩小惠给骗走。男孩要穷养，才会激发他努力奋斗，在逆境中成就人才。

Net friend"A noseful of alcoholic"said,Poor children,Rich sons and daughters,Had a point.Girls only after the eutrophic,Some bad youth grow up won't be small mercies to cheated.Poor boy want to have,To inspire his hard work,Achievement talents in adversity.

　　网友“HY纪剑”则认为，现在的年轻白领家庭，都是独生子女，男孩女孩都要富养。

Net friend"HY JiJian"Is considered,Now the young white-collar family,Are only children,Boys and girls all want to eutrophic.

　　记者就此随机调查了20位年轻的家长，其中15位家长养的是女儿。这15位家长中，9位家长明确表示会“富养”女儿，“不管赚多少钱，都会尽量给女儿创造最好的生活学习条件”。另5位生儿子的家长也认为，女儿比儿子更受宠是应当的。

The reporter randomly surveyed 20 young parents,One of 15 parents raise is daughter.The 15 parents,Nine parents made it clear that will be"eutrophic"daughter,"No matter how much,Will try to create the best life for daughter learning conditions".The other five sons of parents also think,Daughter is should, more treasured than sons.

　　不过对于“富养”这一观念，有家长提出了与“80后”家长万先生不同的定义标准。

But for the"eutrophic"The concept of,There are parents and are put forward"After 80"Parents wan different definition.

　　“女儿要富养，不是说非要给她最好的吃穿，而是应该从小带她出入各种场合，开阔她的视野，增长她的见识。”家长潘先生说，一个见过大世面的女孩，能经得起物质的诱惑，不会被花言巧语所击败，有自己的信仰，不被外界势力所左右。

"Daughter to eutrophic,Not to say don't want to give her the best food,Instead we should take her in and out of all kinds of occasions,Broaden her horizons,Increase her knowledge."Parents said Mr Pan,A girl who see too much the world,Can stand the temptation of material,Will not be defeated by the rhetoric,Have their own beliefs,Don't swayed by outside forces.

　　养育孩子要量力而行 Raising children to our strengths

　　华中师范大学教科院教授范先佐受访时称，当今社会上的确存在“儿子要穷养，女儿要富养”的说法。随着家庭生活水平的提高，不管是选择穷养孩子还是富养孩子都无可厚非，但不能溺爱孩子。

Central China normal university to teach science college professor Fan Xianzuo surveyed said,In today's society does exist"Poor son to raise,Daughter to eutrophic"The statement.With the improvement of family life level,Whether choose poor children or eutrophic children are understandable,But can't spoil children.

　　范先佐认为，“富养”孩子不能只是在物质上大把大把地投入，而是应当确保孩子身体、心理健康的前提下，增长他们的知识见闻，从而提升他们适应社会的能力。不管“穷养”还是“富养”，父母都不能太过片面了。

Fan Xianzuo think,"eutrophic"Children can't just off the commitment on material,But should make sure their children health/Under the premise of mental health,Increase their knowledge,So as to improve their ability to adapt to society.No matter"Poor to raise"or"eutrophic",Parents cannot be too one-sided.

　　范先佐建议家长们，养育孩子应该量力而行，不要盲目攀比；让孩子在精神上富起来，远比在物质上面富起来更利于健康，利于成长。 （据《武汉晨报》）

Fan Xianzuo suggest parents,Raising a child should be more,Don't blindly comparisons;Let the child rich in spirit,Than on material rich more conducive to health,Conducive to growth. (According to the[Wuhan morning post])