高学历人才的痛苦：总是在追求最好

    The pain of the highly educated talents:Always in the pursuit of the best

　　女研究生精神障碍住进了医院

女研究生精神障碍住进了医院

　　总在追求最好，26岁山东姑娘吕叶（化名）这次却没能如愿。

总在追求最好,26 years old girl in shandong lu(Not his real name)This time is can't fulfill a wish.

　　研究生毕业在即，她为了能让毕业论文做到最优秀，没日没夜地查资料，却发现耳鸣越来越严重，话也不受控制越来越多，和同学起争执也越来越频繁。

研究生毕业在即,She do the best for graduation thesis,Day and night to check information,Only to find that tinnitus is more and more serious,Is not subject to control more and more words,Argue with your classmates is becoming more and more frequent.

　　最终，她被送至武汉市精神卫生中心，接受治疗。主治医生说，她的精神障碍问题需要至少两至三个月的住院治疗，也就意味着，吕叶今年毕业基本无望了。

最终,She was sent to the mental health center in wuhan city,For treatment.Doctor said,Her mental disorder issues that need to be at least two to three months of hospital treatment,Which means that,Lu graduated from unlikely this year.

　　交男友第一要求是上进 交男友第一要求是上进

　　4月18日，记者见到了吕叶的父亲吕宝贵（化名）。他是一名教师，听说女儿病了，赶紧和妻子来到武汉，尽可能多陪在她的身边。

4月18日,Reporters saw the Lv Baogui lu ye's father(Not his real name).He is a teacher,Heard that her daughter is ill,Hurry and his wife came to wuhan,As much as possible to accompany in her side.

　　“我这姑娘非常上进，学习上总是要争第一，在学习方面总是比身边的人强。大学时候有个男生追了她四年，最后毕业的时候她跟人家说，你不考研究生，进取心不强，我们不合适。”吕宝贵说。

"I the girl very ambitious,Learning is always the first,In the aspect of learning is always better than the people around.University when a boy chasing her for four years,Finally she told somebody else when you graduated,You don't graduate,Motivation is not strong,We don't appropriate."Lv Baogui said.

　　只不过，吕宝贵没有发现的是，因为给自己的压力太大，吕叶从上初中的时候就出现过耳鸣之类的症状，那些时候她都自己克服过去了，没有发展成如今这样。

只不过,Lv Baogui is not found,Because give yourself too much pressure,Lu leaf from top junior high school of time will appear tinnitus symptoms,That time she is overcome in the past,No development into this now.

　　“我现在无比自责，是我给她压力太大了，不去了解她，却要求她怎么怎么样，生病的时候也没发现她的问题，唉！”吕宝贵说。

"I'm very remorse,Is my pressure is too big for her,Don't go to understand her,Was asked how she,Was ill and didn't find her,alas!"Lv Baogui said.

父亲不到1月瘦了16斤 Father is less than 1 month lost 16 pounds

　　来到武汉后，吕宝贵和妻子换过两个地址，住的小旅馆价格也从80元每天降至30元，而由于心情沉重和睡眠不足，他的体重从137斤降到121斤。

来到武汉后,Lv Baogui and his wife were changed in two address,Live in the small hotel price from 80 yuan to 30 yuan a day,Due to a heavy heart and lack of sleep,His weight from 137 kg to 121 kg.

　　“我每天吃什么？买了十斤咸菜，再买五六块钱的馒头，再就着生蒜薹，就是我一天三餐。武汉的热干面什么的吃过，不习惯。”吕宝贵说。

"I eat every day?Buy ten catties of pickles,Buy another five or six dollars of steamed bread,Born with young garlic shoot again,I eat three meals a day.Wuhan hot-and-dry noodles or something to eat,Not used to."Lv Baogui said.

　　现在，他每天从汉正街步行至医院，也是为了省钱，他戏称自己对周边道路的熟悉程度要比当地人高，“我闭着眼睛都能找到医院。”

现在,He walk from financing to the hospital every day,Is to save money,He calls himself the surrounding roads familiar with degree is higher than the local people,"I close my eyes you can find the hospital."

　　吕叶看到父亲会说，自己现在感觉很好，希望能早日出院，她甚至觉得自己跟其他病人不太一样，听到女儿这样的说法，吕宝贵笑得合不拢嘴。

吕叶看到父亲会说,Now the feeling is very good,Hope to be able to discharge at an early date,She even think she is different with other patients,Hear daughter,Lv Baogui smiled from ear to ear.

　　一些医护人员说，吕宝贵为了多见女儿几次，每天都是最早来医院，最晚离开。他每天早上7、8点、下午1点半和晚上6点都会准时等在大铁门边，或者透过病房玻璃纸上的缝隙，远远地看着女儿。

一些医护人员说,Lv Baogui in order to see the daughter a few times more,Every day is the first to the hospital,At the latest to leave.He 7 every morning/At eight o 'clock/At 1 PM and 6 PM will be at the edge of the iron gate,Or through the ward aperture on the cellophane,Far looked at his daughter.

　　他说，他现在最期待的就是看着女儿早日走出医院，恢复健康的那个时刻。

他说,He is now looking forward to most is watching her daughter out of the hospital as soon as possible,The moment back to health.