留深者：萧潇　“不返乡”理由：害怕家人逼婚 Leave a deep person:Xiao Xiao"Don't return home"Reason to:Afraid of family forced marriage

　　你为什么没有回老家过年？没买上回家的票，害怕父母逼婚，要留在深圳工作，还是今年你终于把家人接到深圳来过年了？每逢春节便“空城”的深圳，市民留深过年的趋势越来越明显。“不返乡”的人多了，这个城市的各行各业也被带动起来。不管你不返乡过年的理由是什么，都先祝你新年快乐。

Why didn't you go home for the holiday?Didn't buy the ticket to go home,Afraid of parents forced marriage,Do you want to work to stay in shenzhen,And finally you bring your family to shenzhen this year New Year's day?Every Spring Festival"Empty city"shenzhen,People leave a deep new trend is more and more obvious."Don't return home"Much more people,All walks of life have also been driven up in the city.No matter what is the reason that you don't return home New Year's day,First I wish you a happy New Year.

　　“结婚了没？有男朋友了吗？”春节本来是和家人团聚的日子，在深圳工作了六年的女白领萧潇，每年都回家过年，但家里的“催婚咒”把她逼成了“恐归族”，今年她做了个“艰难的决定”：留在深圳过年。

"Get married not?Have a boyfriend?"Spring Festival is originally and the day of family reunion,Working in shenzhen for 6 years of female white-collar Xiao Xiao,Home New Year's day every year,But at home"Urge marriage to curse"Drove her into"Could belong to the family",She made a this year"Hard decision":To stay in shenzhen for the holiday.

　　催婚像咒语　念得人心烦 Read gadites upset urge marriage like a mantra

　　老家湖北荆州的萧潇今年29岁，毕业后就来到深圳工作，现在在深圳一家广告公司做文案策划。相貌姣好、收入也不错的她，却一直没有遇到合适的对象，“工作太忙，没有时间也没有精力去谈恋爱。”眼瞅着要“奔三”了，每次假期回家，爸爸妈妈总是找机会跟她谈话，正面侧面提醒她“是时候了”。

Hometown of hubei jingzhou Xiao Xiao this year 29 years old,Will come to shenzhen work after graduation,Now, a copywriter and planer a advertising company in shenzhen.Looks good/Her income is good also,But has not met the right object,"Work too busy,No time no energy to fall in love."Eye watching to"The running of the three"the,Each time vacation home,Mom and dad are always looking for the opportunity to speak with her,Positive side remind her"It's about time".

　　经过沟通，爸爸妈妈算是应付过去了，可是七大姑八大姨却没有那么好打发的。“眼光别那么高嘛，现在挑人过两年就人挑你了。”“隔壁家的那个谁谁谁，比你小一岁，都已经怀上了。”萧潇说，这个话匣子一开，七大姑八大姨们围绕着她总有聊不完的话题，让她浑身不自在。

After communication,Mom and dad will be deal with the past,So good but extended/priest has not sent."Eyes don't be so high,Now pick two years people pick on you.""That somebody on the other side,One year younger than you,Have been pregnant with."Xiao Xiao said,The chatterbox opened,The extended/priest around her always have a chat not over of topic,Let her whole body uncomfortable.

　　萧潇说，哪怕出门遇到街坊邻居，也都会来一句“结婚了吗？”“这就像一个紧箍咒，一念我就头疼。”为了避开“催婚咒”，萧潇今年只好下狠心不回家过年。

Xiao Xiao said,Even if go out meet neighbors,Also will come"To get married??""It's like a straitjacket,As soon as I read my headache."In order to avoid"Urge marriage to curse",Xiao Xiao had to fall cruel-hearted don't go home New Year's day this year.

　　未回家已被安排三场相亲 Did not go home has been arranged three blind date

　　家人“催婚”可不止嘴头上说说，大家在行动上也十分积极。萧潇说，还没放假呢，就接到了老家表嫂的电话，让她今年过年赶紧回家，“她要帮我安排一场相亲。”

family"Urge marriage"More than talk about on the tongue,Everyone in action is also very active.Xiao Xiao said,Haven't holiday?,Just received a phone call from his wife in her hometown,Let her this year New Year's day go home quickly,"She will help me to arrange a blind date."

　　表嫂要介绍的，是在北京工作的一个家装设计师，比萧潇要小三岁。萧潇害怕这种陌生的见面，以年龄差距为由婉拒了表嫂。

Wife. I would like to introduce,A designer is working in Beijing,Is three years younger than Xiao Xiao.Xiao Xiao afraid meet this kind of strange,On the grounds that the age gap declined his wife.

　　不仅表嫂要安排相亲，连跟家里相熟的一位中学老师，在得知萧潇单身时，也嚷着要介绍对象，让萧潇抽时间去见面。而身边的同学朋友也不甘示弱，“我同学的前任女朋友，在QQ上给我留言，要介绍她现任男朋友的同学给我认识，这情况有够复杂的。”亲戚朋友的盛情让萧潇有点招架不住，只好以过年不回家的理由，摆脱大家热心的相亲安排。

Not only his wife to arrange blind date,Even familiar with the home of a middle school teacher,When learned that Xiao Xiao single,Also clamouring for introduction object,Let Xiao Xiao take time to meet.Friends and classmates around you not to be outdone,"My classmate's former girlfriend,Give me a message on QQ,Want to hook me up with her current boyfriend schoolmate,This situation is complicated."The relatives and friends kindness let Xiao Xiao a bit overwhelmed,Had to return home with New Year's day is not the reason,Get rid of people eager to arrange.

　　比萧潇小两岁的表弟今年结婚了，准备春节后在老家摆酒，这也是萧潇决定留在深圳过年的原因之一，“参加婚礼，大家还不围着我催婚。”

Is two years younger than Xiao Xiao cousin to get married this year,Ready for the Spring Festival after the wine is placed in the home,This is Xiao Xiao decided to stay in shenzhen one of the reasons for the Chinese New Year,"Attend the wedding,I urge marriage they is not around."

　　“剩女也要淡定，婚姻要负责任” "Leftover women also want to calm,Marriage is responsible"

　　不回家是害怕家人催婚，但萧潇也表达了对爱情的渴望，“有时候参加同学聚会，有的人已经带着小孩来参加了，我还单着，有时候也想找个人一起生活。”

Don't go home urge marriage is afraid of his family,But Xiao Xiao also expressed the desire for love,"Sometimes a classmate party,Some people are already carrying the child to attend,I was still single,Sometimes looking for someone to live together."

　　不过，萧潇认为“剩女也要淡定”，“结婚不是闹着玩的，要理性对待，不能为了结婚而结婚，婚姻里面包含着一种责任。”萧潇说，尽管奔三了，但在选择伴侣时还是要坚持“宁缺毋滥”。“闪婚闪离，这又有什么意思呢？”

but,Xiao Xiao think"Leftover women also want to calm","Marriage is not a joke,Want to rational treatment,Not to get married and get married,Marriage inside contain a kind of responsibility."Xiao Xiao said,Despite the running of the three,But in choosing a mate will keep on"Nothing more"."Flash from the lightning marriages,What's the meaning of this?"

　　“现在一个人也挺好。”今年留着深圳过年，萧潇说，不用面对家人亲戚的唠叨，自己可以趁着假期在家里好好看看书，她还准备去一趟香港，在香港感受一下过年的氛围，“有人陪很好，没人陪日子也可以过得很滋润。”

"A person also quite good now."Stay in shenzhen this year New Year's day,Xiao Xiao said,Don't have to face the nagging family relatives,They can take advantage of this holiday at home and have a good read,She is going to take a trip to Hong Kong,Feel the atmosphere of Chinese New Year in Hong Kong,"Someone with a good,No one to accompany days also can live very good."