观察 observation

攀比心理作怪 Bandwagon psychological time

　　时代不同了，社会大变样。作为即将入学的大一新生，为更好地学习、生活与交往，配备一款手机，拥有一台个人电脑，未尝不可。但若不顾家庭条件，无视父母为难，一味唯“名牌”是瞻，唯“高配置”是求，就很不妥了。

The Times are different，The big social variant。As the entrance of the freshmen，For better learning、Life and communication，Equipped with a mobile phone，Have a personal computer，Have not cannot。But if not GuGuTing conditions，Ignore parents embarrassed，Blindly only“Famous brand”Is been，only“High configuration”Is to ask for，Is not。

　　都云十年寒窗苦，谁解其中父母难？想想看，我们每个人从第一次踏进校门始，风风雨雨一路走来中，父母为我们的衣食住行、各种学杂费等，又该付出多少辛劳，操尽多少心血！按说，十年寒窗结束，马上要读大学，既然已是成年人，也该体谅父母养育之苦，尽可能地让他们歇歇脚，喘口气了。可如此这般，大学开学之际，父母为难时。这不知感恩，似乎永远长不大的“孩子”，叫人情何以堪！

All cloud ten years learning bitter，Who solution including parents difficult？think，Every one of us from the first set foot in school beginning，Disturbances in along the way，Parents for our basic necessities、All kinds of miscellaneous fees, etc，The pay and toil，How much exercise do efforts！ordinarily，Ten years learning end，Immediately to read university，Now that is already an adult，Also should be considerate of parental rearing of bitterness，As far as possible, let them get back on your feet，Breath the。Can such and such，The university of，When parents embarrassed。This don't know Thanksgiving，Never seem to grow up“children”，Call and why me！

　　再者，没有“苹果三件套”，就会在大学丢脸？当然不可能。不可否认，“苹果”产品，确实设计卓越，性能超凡。但这又能怎样？在日常通讯、资料搜集、休闲娱乐上，对一般的大学生而言，两千元左右的一款手机，四千元左右的一台电脑，足以供学子们掌控信息。非“苹果”不买，非“高配置”不用，除了见证虚荣、攀比心理在作怪，除了对大学生活有误读，又能说明什么？

moreover，no“Apple three-piece suit”，Will be in the university lose face？Will not, of course,。undeniable，“apple”products，Really design excellence，Extraordinary performance。But it can do？In daily communication、Data gathering、Leisure entertainment，For most of the college students in，Two thousand yuan or so a mobile phone，Four thousand yuan of a computer，For students to control information。the“apple”Don't buy，the“High configuration”Don't，In addition to witness vanity、"Keep up with the joneses" psychological in time，In addition to university life have misread，And can explain what？

　　显然，从此番对父母缺少感恩，对是非美丑缺乏辨别上，足以看出虽名为大学生，实则很懵懂。而这体现在现实生活，又绝非个例。其中缘由，有家庭教育的缺失，有学校引导的错位，有社会风气的影响。但同时，作为大学方面，也不应置身事外，而应在观念上给以纠偏，制度上加以规范。要让学生明白，“苹果”固然好，但不能“乐不思学”，“乐不思奋”。相反，乔布斯的创新、韧性与执著，牛顿在科研上的专注与痴情，更为重要，更显可贵，更值得学习、效仿与发扬。(张兰军)

obviously，From now on and the lack of gratitude to their parents，To is lack of beauty and ugliness in discrimination，Enough to see that collectively called college students，Actually very ignorant。And this reflected in real life，And not case-by-case。The reason，The lack of a family education，Have a school the dislocation of the guide，The influence of a social atmosphere。But at the same time，As the university，Also should not stay，And should in abstracto to rectify，To regulate the system。Let students understand，“apple”Is good，But not“Joy don't think learning”，“Joy don't think Vincent”。instead，Jobs innovation、Toughness and persistent，Newton in research on the focus and crazy，Is more important，More valuable，More worth learning、Follow and carry forward。(ZhangLanJun)

担忧 concerns

不利于形成健康人格 To form healthy personality

　　诚然，上大学配置一些必要的数码产品，这倒也并无不妥，毕竟时代不一样了，数码产品已经成为我们生活中不可或缺的必备品之一。但是，手机有必要非得买最新款，最昂贵的吗，电脑有必要非得高配置的吗？配备手机、电脑是生活需要，是为了方便联系，是为了学习需要。所以，给孩子买手机，买电脑都能理解，可是绝对没有必要去迎合孩子攀比的心理，高端消费不是学生群体的范畴。动辄要新款，要高配，这些高端数码产品的消费，已经不是单单的生活需要，反而助长了孩子扭曲的攀比与炫富心态，继而把大学当成了炫富的舞台。家长忍辱负重去满足孩子这样的心态，不仅给家庭造成严重的生活负担，更不利于孩子形成健康的人格。

admittedly，The university configuration some necessary digital products，It is not wrong，After all, age is not the same，Digital products has become us to live in one of the indispensable necessary article。but，Mobile phones have necessary to buy the latest model，The most expensive?，The computer is necessary to have to high configuration？Equipped with mobile phone、The computer is the life needs，In order to convenient contact，In order to study need。so，Give children to buy mobile phones，Buy a computer can understand，But absolutely no need to cater to children bandwagon psychological，High-end consumption is not a student group category。Easily to new，With higher，These high-end digital products consumption，Is not only the life needs，It encourages the child twisted bandwagon and dazzle rich mentality，Then take the college as the dazzle rich stage。Parents humiliation to satisfy children such a state of mind，Not only to the family cause serious life burden，More against the child to form healthy personality。

　　其实，冷静地思考，这样的问题之所以出现，我们的社会、学校、家长都有不能推卸的责任。我们只顾关注孩子的学习成绩，为了能让孩子成绩提上去，而去满足孩子一切的要求，自然而然地让孩子觉得，要什么就得给什么，这是他们应得的。而学校呢，除了关注孩子的成绩，起码的道德教育与品德教育早早就排除于课程之外。至于，社会物欲膨胀导致的攀比与炫富恶俗兴起，更对年轻人造成了不利的影响。

In fact，Ponder calmly，Such problems appear，Our society、The school、Parents have not shirk responsibility。We want to pay attention to children's academic performance，In order to let the child achievement carry it up，And to meet the requirements of all children，Naturally let children feel，What to have to give，This is they deserve it。And the school?，In addition to pay attention to children's achievement，At least moral education and moral education were excluded from outside the course。As for，Social worldliness expansion in bandwagon and dazzle rich flashily rise，More to the young has had an adverse effect。

　　一切都是为了孩子能考上大学，而这样的大学生，是家长一直渴望的吗？他们能担起社会的责任吗？大一新生非“苹果”不要是攀比与炫富心理在作怪，家长没必要去迎合这种不健康的心态，并且有必要好好给孩子上一课。另外，作为一名准大学生，我们更应该清楚地认识到自己将来的责任与义务，要主动转变心态，做一名真正合格的大学生。(程奎星)

Everything is for the children will pass the college entrance examination，And such of college students，Parents are always anxious to？They can bear the social responsibility？Freshmen not“apple”Don't is bandwagon and dazzle rich psychological in time，Parents didn't need to cater to the unhealthy mentality，And there is necessary to give children a lesson。In addition，As a prospective students，We should be more clearly aware that their future responsibilities and obligations，Should take the initiative to change state of mind，To be a truly qualified college students。(ChengKuiXing)