换同桌有情绪小学生闹“罢课” In sit at the same table have emotional pupils make"strike"

　　正式开学第二天的早上，二年级小学生小刘背着书包不出门，老爸刘先生有点儿着急，催儿子快走，小家伙一本正经地说：“爸爸，你给老师打电话，我不要这个新同桌，如果不换同桌，我今天就不上学了！”儿子说什么都不上学，可急坏了刘先生。

Officially start the next day morning,Second grade pupils xiao liu back schoolbag don't go out,Dad liu in a hurry,Push son go,Little said bravely:"dad,You make a phone call to the teacher,I don't want this new sit at the same table,If you don't change sit at the same table,Today I will not go to school!"Son said what all don't go to school,May be anxious that bad Mr. Liu.

小同学的烦心事儿 不爱换同桌 爸爸硬着头皮找老师 Small schoolmate's upset about love in sit at the same table dad to bite the bullet and see the teacher

　　经过仔细询问，刘先生问清了事情的原委。开学第一天老师重新排了座位，小刘原来在全班第三排，现在挪到了第二排。让小刘不满的是，他的同桌换了。原来小刘的同桌是班级上学习非常好的一个同学，小刘愿意和他一桌上课，一起玩。换座位后，小刘和另外一个女生成了同桌。这个小女孩学习一般，上学期经常因上课不认真听讲而被老师批评。小刘不愿意和她一桌，就去找老师，并一本正经地说：“新同桌学习不好，我不愿意和她一张桌。”老师没有同意小刘的要求，并希望小刘能帮助新同桌一起进步。这件事着实让刘先生很挠头：怎么办？和老师说不说让他左右为难。没办法，刘先生只好硬着头皮找了老师，说了事情的经过。老师表示，排座是根据个头大小排的。同时老师也考虑，让好学生起到榜样的作用。小刘在老师和爸爸的说服下，不再闹着换同桌了。

After careful inquiry,Mr. Liu ask what happened.The first day of school teacher to row of seats,Xiao liu originally in the third row of the class,Now moved to the second.Let xiao liu is discontented,He sit at the same table changed.The original xiao liu sit at the same table is the class learning very good a classmate,Xiao liu would like to with him a lesson on the table,Play together.Swap seats,Xiao liu and another girl became sit at the same table.The little girl is learning generally,Last semester in class often for listening and criticism by the teacher.Xiao liu is not willing to and her a table,Went to the teacher,And said bravely:"New sit at the same table study is bad,I don't want to and her a table."The teacher didn't agree to xiao liu requirements,And hope to xiao liu can help new sit at the same table together with progress.It really made Mr. Liu is very tricky:do?And the teacher said not to let him be in a dilemma.Can't,Mr. Liu had to bite the bullet and looking for the teacher,Said the incident.The teacher said,Row seat is according to the head size row.At the same time the teacher also considered,Let the good student plays the role of an example.Xiao liu in the teacher and father's persuade next,No longer make the change sit at the same table.

家长们关心的事儿 都瞄着班级里的“黄金地带” Parents concerned about all the aim of the class"Gold zone"

　　学前班、小学、初中、高中，排座位的方式很多，但是不管是哪个年级，家长们瞄准的就是班级里的那个“黄金地带”，即第二、三、四排正对着黑板的那几个位置。

preschool/Elementary school/Junior high school/High school,There are many ways of row of seats,But no matter which grade,Parents aim is the class"Gold zone",Which is the/three/Four row is on the blackboard of that a few position.

　　不是这几个位置，那就是第一排，吃点儿粉笔灰也无所谓。

Isn't this a few position,That is the first row,Eat some chalk also doesn't matter.

　　理由一致：听老师讲课清楚，提问时，也在老师的视野范围之内。离得远了，孩子有被忽视的感觉。一些调皮的孩子，就会觉得老师看不到，上课就很容易溜号。

Reason consistent:Listen to the teacher clearly,question,Also in the teacher's field of vision scope.Far gone the,Children have feeling neglected.Some naughty children,Will feel the teacher couldn't see,The class is very easy to sneak away.

　　对于这个问题，网友也有自己的看法：

For this problem,Net friend also has own view:

　　网友“如若初见”：女儿现在上学前班，因为个子高，开学排座被排在最后一排。说实在的，我非常不甘心啊，正想办法呢。

Net friend"If new":Daughter now go to preschool classes,For tall,The row seat was in the last row row.honestly,I'm very unwilling ah,Are trying to?.

　　网友“丛丹丹”：开学女儿已经三年级了，女儿班上是前后滚动排座，一周换一次，现在是坐在倒数第二排，家长都认为这样调换座位很公平。

Net friend"CongDanDan":The daughter is the third grade,Daughter is in the class before and after rolling row seat,Change once a week,Is now sitting in the second row reciprocal,Parents think this is fair exchange seats.

老师的闹心事儿 为排座位煞费苦心 The teacher's could take great pains for the row of seats

　　现在一家就一个娃，家长对孩子的关注简直到了“密不透风”的程度，而排座位更是头等大事，每到开学重新分座位的时候，很多班主任老师被家长找得不胜其烦。老师们为了分座位的事情，真是煞费苦心。

Now a is a doll,The parents to the child's attention to it"airtight"degree,And the pew is top priority,Every school to points seat's time,A lot of the teacher in charge teacher was parents find too troublesome.Teachers in order to points seat things,Is really take great pains.

　　关于这个问题看看老师们是咋说的：

About this question see teachers is zha say:

　　李彬（长春市某普通小学的老师）：我同学在广东当老师，他向我讲述了一件事情很让我受启发，一位高个子的同学，家长天天来找，非要坐前排，老师被纠缠得实在是没办法了，你猜怎么着，这老师把凳子的四个腿都锯掉一块，让这个高个子同学坐到了第一排。

Li3 bin(Changchun some ordinary primary school teacher):My classmate in guangdong as a teacher,He asked me about one thing I am so inspired by,A tall students,Parents every day to find,Have to sit in front of the,The teacher was entangled too is no way out,Guess what,The teacher put the stool of the four legs were sawed off a block,Let this tall students sit in the first row.

　　赵成（长春市双阳区某中学初三班主任）：我最开始按大小个分座位。后来，看网上说，这样对高个同学不公平，按照网上说的，我把学生分成四组，最高个坐一组，然后中等个坐一组，最矮的坐一组，这样，高个的同学也有机会坐在教室的前面。

ZhaoCheng(Changing shuangyang district of a high school grade teacher in charge):I am most began to size a points seat.later,Look at the net,So to tall students unfair,According to the net,I divided the students into four groups,The highest sit a group,Then a medium to sit in a group,The most short by a group of,this,Tall students also have the opportunity to sitting in the front of the classroom.

专家点评 同桌的你，对我真的很重要 Expert comments you sit at the same table,To me is really important

　　座位对学生的影响到底有多大？同桌、前后桌真的是“近朱者赤，近墨者黑”？记者昨日采访了我省著名青少年心理健康教育专家、长春市第二实验中学的矫颖老师。她说：“同桌的你，对我真的很重要。”

Seat to student's influence how much?Sit at the same table/Before and after table really is"",fleas"?Reporter yesterday interview our province famous adolescent mental health education experts/The second of changchun city experimental middle school JiaoYing teacher.She said:"Sit at the same table you,To me is really important."

　　据矫颖老师介绍，初二年级以下的孩子，同学之间的“物理距离”对于他们来说很重要，“物理距离”是指在教室中，坐的位置的距离，还有学校和家距离远近：“物理距离决定，他们是否能够成为朋友，而孩子们在一起，是非常容易互相影响的。”她说。

According to JiaoYing teacher introduction,Children below grade,Between the students"Physical distance"For them is very important,"Physical distance"It is to point to in the classroom,Sit distance,There are school and home of distance:"Physical distance decided to,Whether they can become friends,And the children together,It is very easy to the influence of each other."She said.

　　当记者问到小刘的问题时，矫颖说：“这是挺好的反应，很正常，只要帮助小男孩看到同桌的闪光点，慢慢就好了。”大部分到了初三、高中的时候，这种“物理距离”的影响就会减弱，同学们会更注重“志同道合”，同桌及前后桌对自己的影响还是很大的。本报记者 王威

When a reporter asked xiao liu problem,JiaoYing said:"This is quite good reaction,Very normal,As long as help the little boy saw sit at the same table of bright light,Slowly good."Most of the third day/High school,this"Physical distance"The effect will be weakened,Students will pay more attention to"some",Sit at the same table and table before and after to its influence is very big still.Our reporter WangWei