四、阳光雨露，在孩子的心里种下一颗正向的“种子” four/The sunshine rain and dew,In the child's hearts a positive"seed"

　　在孩子教育而言，我们在种种子。孩子长成是按照父母说的去长，父母怎么说，有可能就把孩子培养成什么。我在跟家长交流的时候说，一般我们讲玩笑都是客气的说两句，讲的很好。那次校长激动了，就分享为什么当校长，第二我为什么只能当校长，就是曹老师刚才讲的种种子。我之所以能当校长，是我奶奶给我种的种子，我奶奶说我这大孙子是戴着官帽来的。而我为什么只做到了校长呢？是我妈给我种的种子，我妈说你也就能当个小官，能当个校长就不错了。所以，种什么种子？种正面的种子，千万不要种负面的种子。

In children education in,We are kind of seed.The child is grown in accordance with the parents said to long,What do parents said,May the child into what.I am in communication with parents said,Generally we speak a joke is politely say two words,Speak very good.The principal excited,Just share why when the headmaster,The second why I can only when the headmaster,Is CaoLaoShi just speak kind of seed.I can when the headmaster,Is my grandmother gave me kind of seeds,My grandma said I this great grandson is wearing officer cap.And why do I only did the headmaster?Is my mother give me kind of seeds,My mom said you to also can be a small officer,Can be a principal is good.so,What kind of seeds?Kind of positive seeds,Don't kind of negative seeds.

　　有一个个案，爸爸妈妈都是工人，就想从孩子身上改变，从小你就管好你自己，你就把学习弄好，什么事都不让他参加，什么都不让他操心，爸爸中风了都不告诉他，妈妈特别痛苦，遇到事情也不跟他说。结果孩子真的很棒，名牌大学毕业，真的很出色。但是三十出头的时候，人生关系遇到了坎坷，跟上级关系遇到了问题，跨不过去。人有儿童时候受的影响，有父母传给我们教育的影响。所以当人遇到特大的挑战的时候，这一块的能量就会出来，就管好我自己，不让自己痛苦，最极端的做法就是离开这个世界，所以他就选择了自杀。他没有想到白发人送黑发人是什么感觉，更没有想到当我离开这个世界，我解除了痛苦，我的父母怎么办。这是谁种的种子？是我们家长。所以，种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆。我们一定要给孩子种正向的种子，永远跟孩子说，儿子，闺女，你就是一个好孩子。永远是爸爸妈妈的好儿子，好闺女。我们永远是在一起的。

There is a case,Father and mother are workers,Just want to change from children,Since you can manage yourself,You study well,Anything won't let him play,What all don't let him worry about,Dad had a stroke are not tell him,Mother special pain,Comes across the matter also don't say to him.Results children really great,Famous university graduation,Really good.But 30 s,Life relations have encountered difficulties,With superior relations have encountered problems,Span not the past.When people have children by influence,Have the parents to us the influence of education.So when people meet extra challenge,This piece of energy will come out,Will manage myself,Don't let yourself pain,The most extreme approach is to leave this world,So he chose to commit suicide.He didn't think outliving your is what felling,More didn't think of when I leave this world,I lifted the pain,My parents do.Who is this kind of seeds?Is our parents.so,As a,reap.We must give the child kind of positive seeds,Always follow the boy said,son,girl,You are a good boy.Forever is mom and dad's good son,Good girl.We are always together.

　　时间有限，我希望我们以后有机会再分享，很感谢各位今天在一起分享教育孩子。你留给这个世界的是什么，就是你能传承的生命是什么。那就是我们人生最美的作品，我们的孩子。我们怎么样让我们的孩子健康成长呢？让我们拥有智慧，让我们成为一个智慧的父母，让我们用智慧在引领孩子。谢谢大家！

Time is limited,I hope we will have a chance to share,Very thank you for your share education today in children.You left this world is what,That you can on the life is what.That is our life the most beautiful works,Our children.How can we let our children healthy growth?Let we have wisdom,Let us become a wise parents,Let us use wisdom to lead the children.Thank you!