没想到，孩子自己回家了。

Didn't expect,The child himself to go home.

网友接力寻找“失踪女孩” Net friend relay looking for"Missing girl"

　　“李晓（化名），女，七一华源中学八×班学生，身高1.58m……今早（2012年10月8日）6：30出门，一直未到学校，联系电话139××××××××”。8日下午，一则寻人帖出现在本报初中家长QQ群里。

"LiXiao(alias),female,1 we × 8 middle school students of class,The height of 1.58 m...This morning(On October 8, 2012)6:30 out,Has not to go to school,Contact phone number 139 * * * * * * * *".8 afternoon,A people search for appeared in our junior middle school parents in the QQ group.

　　孩子走丢了，那可不是小事。众群友也着急起来，纷纷通过各种途径将寻人消息扩散。

The child got lost,That is not small.The group of friends also try so hard up,Through various channels in succession will be without news diffusion.

　　QQ群里另一名家长告诉记者，自己的孩子与走丢的女孩是舞蹈班的好朋友，发现孩子失踪后，女孩的家长快要急疯了，发动所有亲朋好友四处寻找。“这女孩平时蛮乖巧，喜欢跳舞，成绩也好，怎么说丢就丢了呢？”这名家长也感到纳闷。

QQ group in the other a parents told reporters,Their children and go lost girl is area for good friend,Discover the child after missing,The girl's parents is been mad,Launch all the relatives and friends are looking for."The girl usually pretty clever,Like dancing,Achievement or,How to say lost is lost?"This name parents also feel puzzled.

　　记者在第一时间联系李晓的家长，并将寻人信息发布在本报微博及各大家长QQ群里。

Reporter in the first time contact LiXiao parents,And the people search information release in the micro bo and each big parents in the QQ group.

　　“孩子终于找到了！”9日凌晨，李晓的家长李女士在网上报平安，并主动致电记者。电话另一端，家长的嗓音里满是疲惫。“我们从早上7点半找到晚上11点半，回到家里，发现女儿在房里睡觉。”李女士说，自己把学校和家附近都找遍了，连江滩也来回找了好几遍，都不见孩子踪迹。现在孩子回家，看上去情绪低落，当家长的满腹话语也无从说起。“只要她回来就好！”听说本报及网友热心寻人，李女士深深地表示感谢。

"The child finally found!"9 in the morning,LiXiao parents ms. Li on the Internet for peace,And actively call the reporter.Phone the other end,Parents' voice is full of exhaustion."We find from morning 7:30 in the evening at half past eleven,Back to home,Found his daughter in the sleeping in the room."Ms. Li said,The school and home nearby are searched,Even JiangTan also back and forth for several times,No child trace.Now that the children are back home,Look in low spirits,Take charge of long full of discourse also without knowing where to begin speaking of."If she would only come home!"Heard that this newspaper and netizens enthusiastic people search,Ms. Li thank deeply.

未穿校服女孩逃学 Not to wear uniforms girl playing truant

　　“就为一件校服，孩子闹起了失踪，是不是我们把她惯坏了。”女孩的爸爸李先生自责。

"For a school uniform,Children make up missing,If we put her spoiled."The girl's father Mr. Li remorse.

　　李先生说，跟女儿沟通后才得知“失踪”经过。8日早上，李晓独自上学，走到校门口才发现没穿校服。学校规定，学生进校必须穿校服。李晓怕挨老师批评，遂准备回家换衣服，又担心妈妈“嚼”她，索性在外躲了一天。

Mr. Li said,With his daughter after communication learned about"missing"after.8 in the morning,LiXiao go to school alone,Go to the school gate found that didn't wear uniforms.The school rules,Students have to wear a uniform to school.LiXiao fear was criticized by the teacher,Hence to prepare to go home to change clothes,And worry about mother,"chewing"she,Simply hid out one day.

　　“班主任早上7点半打来电话说孩子没上学，我们一听头都蒙了。”李先生告诉记者，女儿一向很听话，逃学还是第一次。家里人一下子慌了，赶紧四处寻找打听，还到学校及附近各路口调看监控录像，都没有发现孩子踪影。

"The teacher in charge at half past seven in the morning call said children didn't go to school,We are a debe obtained."Mr. Li told reporters,Daughter always very obedient,Play truant is the first time.A family panic,Hurriedly looking for inquire about,Also to the school and the nearby the intersection adjustable see surveillance video,All found no sign of children.

　　家人找翻了天，小姑娘却在汉口一家快餐店和轻轨站躲了一天。

Family find turned over a day,The little girl is in hankou a fast-food restaurant and light rail station hide a day.

　　没穿校服真有那么要紧？李晓的班主任宋老师表示，上学穿校服是学校的规定，但学生忘穿校服也没关系，跟老师解释清楚就没事了。但不穿校服就玩失踪，在宋老师看来有些不可思议。

Don't wear school uniform is so important?The teacher in charge teacher said LiXiao song,Wear uniforms to school is a school rule,But students forget to wear uniforms also it doesn't matter,With the teacher explained clearly do not have a thing.But don't wear uniforms will play the missing,During the song dynasty, the teacher looks some incredible.

家长反省：对孩子包办太多 Parents reflection:To the child do too much

　　据了解，李晓昨日已上学，家长称孩子的情绪未受到太大影响。

It is understood,LiXiao yesterday has to go to school,Parents say their children's emotional not was too big effect.

　　失踪事件吓坏了家长，也让家长反思家庭教育的不足。李先生说，女儿的性格比较内向，大小事情都是妻子一手包办。

Missing event frightened parents,Also let the parents reflection on the shortage of the family education.Mr. Li said,Her daughter's personality is introverted,Size things are wife monopolize.

　　“妈妈爱‘嚼她’，对她要求较高。”李先生告诉记者，妻子在孩子面前比较唠叨，任何事情都得她亲自过问才安心。长久以来，孩子对妈妈既怕又依赖。这次闹失踪，估计是女儿怕回家后又被妈妈“嚼”才出此下策。

"Mother love‘Chewing her’,The demand is higher to her."Mr. Li told reporters,His wife in front of children is nagging,Everything she by theirselves to ease.For a long time,The child to her mother is afraid and rely on.This time the missing,Estimation is daughter afraid to go home and be my mother"chewing"Just out of this decision.

　　李先生家离学校仅三站路，一直都是夫妻俩亲自接送。班主任认为家长照顾太多，建议适当放手，这学期开始夫妻俩才尝试让孩子自己上学。

Mr. Li's home from school only three stops,Always is husband and wife two pick-up in person.The teacher in charge think parents care too much,Suggest appropriate to let go,This semester started a couple to try to let children to go to school.

　　“老师说得对，平时对孩子大包大揽，孩子反而成了温室里的花朵，经不起一点风雨。”李先生自我检讨，没穿校服本是件小事，却吓得孩子不敢上学，也不敢回家，更不敢跟任何人沟通，缺乏自我解决问题的能力，责任应该在家长。

"The teacher said to,Peacetime to children take on all things,Children thus become greenhouse flowers,Can not stand a little rain."Mr. Li self review,Don't wear uniforms are little thing,But frighten children can't go to school,Also dared not go home,Can't communicate with anyone,Lack of self ability to solve problems,Responsibility should be in the parents.

心理专家：和孩子多沟通 Psychological experts:And children communicate

　　武汉市著名心理专家尹邓安认为，孩子没穿校服宁愿玩失踪，也不敢告知任何人，说明亲子之间的沟通存在很大问题。更令人忧心的是，当家人为她的失踪着急上火时，孩子却无动于衷，说明孩子习惯了家人对自己的付出，以自我为中心的意识严重。

Wuhan city famous psychological experts think DengAn Yin,Children don't wear uniforms would rather play missing,Also can't told anyone,Parent-child communication that there is a big problem.More worrisome is,A family member for her missing worried when fire,The child was unsympathetic,The child used to the family of their pay,Self-centered consciousness seriously.

　　尹邓安建议，家长应改变“命令式”、“保姆式”的教育方式，多和孩子平等沟通，适当放手让孩子处理自己的事情。日常生活中多鼓励孩子遇事自己想办法，即使孩子做得不够完美，也要给予她欣赏的眼光。（楚天金报 记者刘辉）

DengAn Yin Suggestions,Parents should change"imperative"/"nanny"Education mode of,Many children and equal communication,Let children properly handle their own affairs.In daily life to encourage the children to find our own way when anything crops up,Even if the kids do not perfect,Also want to give her eyes appreciated.(Chutian LiuHui 27 reporters)