扬子晚报讯 （通讯员 周丰梅 记者王璟）江宁高中优秀学生周强（化名）在高二时就拿到数学竞赛全省一等奖，信心满满冲刺清华大学,然而在高考前两个月却突然不复习了，甚至要弃考！记者昨天获悉，该校成立的学生发展指导中心全面关注在理想、心理、学业、生活等方面出现困扰的学生。据悉，根据省教育厅统一部署，南京其他高中将陆续成立学生发展指导中心。

Yangzi evening news - (Reporter correspondent ZhouFengMei Jing king)Outstanding students, zhou qiang, jiangning high school(alias)In eleventh grade mathematics competition when they get the first prize,Confident the sprint tsinghua university,However, in the college entrance examination in the first two months suddenly don't reviewed,Even to abandon exam!Reporters learned yesterday,The school set up student development guidance center comprehensive attention in an ideal/psychological/academic/Life and other aspects of the students in trouble.It is reported,According to the provincial department of education unified deployment,Nanjing other high school were established to students' development guidance center.

　　尖子生高考前突然要放弃

Top student suddenly before the college entrance examination to give up

　　周强（化名）是江宁高中的小名人，高二时数学竞赛就在全省拿了一等奖，大学的愿望是清华,然而就是这样的一个优秀学生在高考前两个月突然不愿高考了，也不复习了。“他的班主任告诉我，他在高三自主招生时遭遇滑铁卢，在二模之后就彻底被打败了。”学生发展指导中心心理老师赵蓉花告诉记者，一般优秀类学生对自我的预期很高，在几次考试突然失利的打击下，累积的压力爆发出来，转化为自我怀疑、自我怨恨。

, zhou qiang,(alias)Is the small celebrity jiangning high school,When high mathematics competition is in the province took the first prize,University wish is to tsinghua,However is such a good student in the university entrance exam before two months suddenly don't let the university entrance exam,Also not review the."His teacher in charge told me,In his senior year when recruit students independent encountered Waterloo,In the two mode then completely defeated."Students' development guidance center psychological teacher ZhaoRongHua told reporters,General good class students to self high expectations,In the exam several times suddenly lost blow,The accumulation of pressure out,Into self-doubt/Self hatred.

　　指导老师找学生谈心6次

Teacher to find students speaking six times

　　“从4月15日开始咨询直到高考，我们共进行了6次谈话。第一次交谈中我帮助学生具体分析了他的二模数学分数，发现他的实际分数与理想分数相差不到5分。”赵蓉花分析说，孩子实际上的问题症结是如何重新认识自己、肯定自己并悦纳自己。在第二次交流中赵蓉花给周强提出两个问题，“清华越来越远，高考对自己还有什么意义？”“当实现清华这个目标变得不可能时，有没有备用目标？”两个问题打开了周强的话匣子，他谈了很多困惑和冲突，交流气氛很好。在之后几次交流中，赵蓉花发现他吃饭睡觉不规律，就引导孩子从生活习惯开始改变，生活有规律了，精神状态才会好，思考问题就会更积极。

"From April 15 consulting until the university entrance exam,We performed 6 conversation.The first conversation I help students specific analysis of his two modulus to learn fraction,Found that his actual fraction and ideal score difference less than five points."ZhaoRongHua analysis said,Children in fact question crux is how to know yourself/Sure themselves and accept yourself.In the second exchange ZhaoRongHua give, zhou qiang, puts forward two problems,"Tsinghua university is more and more far,The university entrance exam to oneself still have what meaning?""When implementing tsinghua the goal becomes impossible,Have a spare target?"Two questions opened, zhou qiang, the ice,He talked a lot of confusion and conflict,Communication atmosphere is very good.After several times in the communication,ZhaoRongHua found him food and sleep not rule,Leads the child from living habits began to change,Life is the rule,Mental state will be good,Thinking will be more positive.

　　在距离高考一个月时，周强主动找赵蓉花说，“最后一个月我想拼一下”。最后，在各位老师的共同努力下，这个学生考上了哈工大。

In the distance the university entrance exam a months,Zhou qiang actively looking for ZhaoRongHua said,"Last month I want to spell".finally,In the joint efforts of all teachers,The students admitted to the Harbin institute of technology.

　　设学生发展指导中心解心结

A student development guidance center of this solution

　　江宁高中校长周世东告诉记者，新成立的学生发展指导中心将通过团体辅导活动和一对一个别咨询的形式，对在理想、心理、学业、生活和生涯等方面出现困扰的学生给以及时指导，减少困扰及其对学生的不良影响。对于个别有严重心理问题的学生，能够及时识别并转介到校外专业机构接受辅导。中心下设心理咨询室，周一至周五中午安排专门教师值班，及时为需要帮助的学生提供心理咨询服务。

High school principal jiangning ZhouShiDong told reporters,The newly established student development guidance center will through the group guidance activities and one to one individual counseling form,In the ideal/psychological/academic/Life and career, etc appear troubled students give timely guidance,Reduce trouble and its bad influence on students.For individual have serious psychological problems of students,Can timely identification and interface to external professional agencies to accept guidance.The center has counseling,Monday to Friday noon arrange for special teachers on duty,In time for need to help students with psychological counseling service.

　　(来源:扬子晚报)

(Sources: the yangzi evening news)