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北大教授提出错龄入学观点 Peking University professor put forward wrong age entrance point of view
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　　“鉴于男女儿童智力发育速度不同，男童普遍晚于女童2年左右，同性学童之间也有智力发育差异，因此全国统一规定男女儿童7周岁入学违反教育规律。建议女童可在6~7岁入学，男童可在7~8岁入学。女孩父母显然没什么意见，因为没变化。可是男孩晚1-2年入学，男孩父母，你们同意吗？”9月24日，北京大学教授吴必虎在微博上发表观点，认为男孩应该比女孩晚入学。

"In view of the children's intelligence development of men and women at different speeds,Boy's common later than girls 2 years,Gay children have developmental differences,So the national unified regulation 7 years old children of men and women in violation of education law school.Suggest girl can be in 6 ~ 7 annual income study,The boy can be in 7 ~ 8 annual income study.The girl's parents obviously no opinion,Because no change.But boy late 1-2 years admission,The boy parents,Do you agree to this?"On September 24,Beijing university professor wu will tiger in micro bo published on view,That boy should be later than girls entrance.

　　此条微博立即引发很多人的讨论，其中不乏认同者。著名评论员曹景行也认为，解决的根本办法就是男孩晚入学一年，他自己当时就是7足岁入学。

This micro Po immediately caused a lot of discussion,There is no lack of among them identifier.Famous commentator CaoJingHang also think,The fundamental way to solve is the boy a year late admission,He was 7 ZuSui entrance.

　　网友sun_long表示了强烈同意，他说，尤其是七八月生的男孩，刚过六岁就要上学，与九十月生的孩子晚一年上学比，心理生理差距都比较大。

Net friend sun_long expressed strongly agree,He said,Especially the boy born July,Just over six years old to go to school,With nine children born October a year or more later than to go to school,Psychological physiological gap is larger.

　　随后，吴必虎在微博上说：“错龄入学的本质是遵循教育规律，让家长可在5-8岁之间自由选择孩子入学年龄。”

then,Wu will tiger in micro bo said:"The nature of fault age admission is to follow the law of education,Let parents are available in 5-8 years old children school age between freedom of choice."

　　同日，网上也对这个建议发起了投票，在参与投票的140人中，选择“强烈同意”的占21.75%；选择“有一定道理，可以考虑”的占27.8%；选择“放开年龄段，6-8岁自由选择”的比例最多，达42.6%；选择“强烈不同意”的只有5人，占4.3%。

On the same day,On the net also to this proposal launched vote,Of the 140 people participating in the vote,choose"Strongly agree with"Accounted for 21.75%;choose"There is something,Can consider"Accounted for 27.8%;choose"Let go of age,6-8 years free choice"Most the proportion of,Up to 42.6%;choose"Strong don't agree with"Only five people,4.3%.

不少家长支持错龄入学 Many parents support wrong age entrance

　　吴必虎提出的错龄入学的观点得到了很多家长的认可，不过对更多家长来说都是比较矛盾的心情，很多过来人纷纷在网上支持男孩晚一年上学的建议。

Wu tiger will put forward fault age entrance point of view to get a lot of parents' approval,But for more for parents is the more contradictions mood,Many a n experienced person have online support boy night a year school suggestion.

　　豆豆妈妈说，儿子6岁上学。在儿子的班里，女生明显学习成绩更好，也更受老师的喜欢。相反，儿子因为不细心，成绩老不如女生，获得的表扬很少，屡受打击。并且，由于儿子个子比较小，也经常吃亏。几次下来，儿子的自信心受到不小的打击，她不得不从其他地方帮孩子寻找自信。此外，豆豆由于年龄比较小，上课时还改不了爱动的毛病，因此也没少挨老师说。豆豆妈说，从儿子的实际情况看，她非常理解这个男生晚上一年学的倡议。

Doug mother said,6 years old son to go to school.In the son's class,The girl obviously better grades,Also more by the teacher's love.instead,Son because not careful,Performance is better than old girl,Get praise rarely,Repeatedly hit.and,Because my son is relatively small,Also often suffer.Several times down,Son confidence by the blow,She has to help children from other place for confidence.In addition,Doug due to the age is smaller,Class also change love dynamic problem,So there is no less get the teacher said.Doug mama said,From the actual situation of son to see,She is very understand this boy late last year learning initiative.

　　记者了解到，目前很多家长只是表示，愿意让男孩晚一年上学，但是，真正已经让孩子7岁再上学的家长并不太多。

The reporter understands,At present many parents just said,Willing to let the boy go to school a year later,but,Real have let the child seven more school parents is not too much.

专家意见 Expert advice

男孩上学不应晚于7岁 The boy to school should not be later than seven years old

　　中国青少年研究中心副主任、研究员孙云晓表示，根据国际研究表明，男孩早期大脑语言区的发育水平的确会晚于女生，男生5岁时，仅相当于3岁半女生的语言发育能力。因此，他也认同孩子晚一年上学比较好，但应该在8岁前上学。

China youth research center deputy director/The researchers SunYunXiao said,According to the study,The boy early brain development level of language would indeed be later than girls,Boy at the age of 5,Only equivalent to three and half years old girl language development ability.therefore,He also identity children late in a good school,But should be in eight years ago to go to school.

　　孙云晓认为，女孩6岁上学比较合适，因为女生那时候的认知能力已经适合小学学习。在目前“男孩危机”的大环境下，他认为让男孩晚一年上学仅仅是解决了“男生危机”的一个问题，而非根本办法。他说，男孩在学习中主要依靠运动、操作、电脑及参与体验的学习方式，而这些恰恰被学校的基础教育所忽略，应该把教育教学的评价标准更好地结合起来。

SunYunXiao think,The girl 6 years old school is more appropriate,Because the girl that time cognitive abilities have suitable for primary school learning.In the present"The boy crisis"Under the environment of,He thinks that let the boy go to school late a year only is solved"Boy crisis"A problem,Rather than fundamental way.He said,The boy in the study relies mainly on the movement/operation/Computers and participation experience ways of learning,And these just is the foundation of school education to ignore,Should put the education teaching evaluation of combined standard better.

　　孙云晓认为，比较理想的办法是，男孩统一7岁入学，女生6岁入学。因为那时候，男生的心智已经基本上达到入学的要求，可以很好地完成老师的教学。但是，由于很多家长担心竞争问题，这种做法并不可行，比较现实的解决办法是顺其自然。

SunYunXiao think,The ideal way is,The boy unity and annual income study,Girl 6 annual income study.Because at that time,The boy's mind has basically achieve the requirements of admission,Can perform well in the teacher's teaching.but,Because many parents worried about competition,This approach is not feasible,A more realistic solution is to let nature take its course.

　　孙云晓说，现在很多家长希望孩子提早入学，不惜提前剖腹产、改户口，其实完全没有必要。对于男孩子来说，上学越早，挫败感会越强，一直被女生压制,特别是在1至4年级，他们会觉得自己没有自信心，胜任感差。而女孩子在语言沟通、阅读、聊天等方面往往有比较明显的特点。

SunYunXiao said,Now many parents hope children early admission,At early caesarean section/Change of registered permanent residence,It is not necessary.For for boys,School the earlier,Frustration will be stronger,Girls have been suppressed,Especially in 1 to 4 grade,They feel they have no confidence,Feeling of competence difference.And girls in language communication/reading/Chat, etc often have obvious characteristics.

对话 dialogue

北京大学城市与环境学院教授吴必虎 Beijing university professor wu city and the environment will be tiger

建议采取弹性入学制 Suggests to adopt flexible admission system

　　京华时报：你为什么会提出“男女生错龄上学”的想法？

Jinghua times:Why do you put forward"Men and women living wrong age to go to school"idea?

　　吴必虎：主要是看到男生学习不如女生。现在大中小学都出现了这样的情况，虽然有人解释说男生上了高中就可以赶上来，但情况并不是这样。很多大学里女生数量都多于男生，高考的女状元也越来越多，并且不仅局限于文科，很多理科状元也都是女生。

Wu will tiger:Main is to see the boy learning than girls.Now the big primary and middle school has appeared in such a situation,Though some explained that the boy on the high school can catch up with them,But it was not so.A lot of college girls quantity are more than boys,The university entrance exam is also more and more women champions,And not only limited YuWenKe,Many science champions also are girls.

　　统一入学年龄是计划经济的结果和产物，《教育法》只规定了强制入学的年龄，却没有考虑到心智发育的参差不齐。其实，每个孩子的智力发掘情况、情感成熟度都有差异，统一年龄入学缺乏区分度。

Entrance age is planned economy results and product,[education]Only stipulate the compulsory school age,But they don't consider mental development is uneven.In fact,Each child's intelligence excavation situation/Emotional maturity is different,Unified age entrance lack of distinguish degrees.

　　我认为，应该实施弹性入学，现在不少家长也认为可以尝试这种方法。

I think,Should adopt flexible admission,Now many parents also think can try this method.

　　京华时报：在你的学生中，女生压制男生的情况严重吗？

Jinghua times:In your students,The girl pressing boys was it serious?

　　吴必虎：北大的研究生推荐需要参考的是本科期间三到四年的平均成绩，高分段的女生明显比男生多出很多。有人说这是高考制度的问题，但我认为不是。我们学院的面试委员会七个教授同时面试，录取的20多人中，大部分都是女生，仅有3名男生。在面试现场，无论是回答问题，还是考核，女生都表现得伶牙俐齿，条理清晰，各方面都很优秀，相反男生明显不行，一天下来找不出几个看得过去的。这种情况已经存在了好多年。

Wu will tiger:Peking University graduate recommended need reference during undergraduate course is three to four years of average,High segmented girls than boys obviously a lot.Some say this is the problem of college entrance examination system,But I think not.Our college interview committee seven professor at the same time the interview,The admission of more than 20 people,Most of them are girls,Only three boys.In the interview,Whether answer this question,Or assessment,Girls behave glib,A clear and organized,All aspects are excellent,Instead the boy not obvious,One day down to find out a few to see the past.This kind of situation has existed for years.

　　我的学生里，有一两个男生，因为从小被女生压制，再加上父母的教育，变得软绵绵的，没有阳刚之气，虽然智力好，但是果敢不足，阳刚不足，这样的奶油小生太多了，将来找对象都困难。

My students in,There is a two boys,Because be the girl from pressing,Plus parents' education,Become soft,No masculinity,Although good intelligence,But lack of determination,Insufficient masculine,This butter unripe too much,The future to find objects are difficult.

　　京华时报：那你觉得“错龄上学”能够解决这类“男生危机”吗？

Jinghua times:So do you think you"Wrong age to go to school"To be able to solve this kind of"Boy crisis"??

　　吴必虎：解决不了实质的问题，但是有一定帮助。一般来说，女生心智的发育会比男生早两年左右，如果男生晚两年上学，可以使得同班的孩子之间男女生智商发育差不多，对男生的心理更有帮助。否则，他们只能在整个学生生涯中不断体会到挫败感，没有阳刚之气。我的学生当中，不少女生也觉得没意思，和我说“老师您能招几个男生吗”。

Wu will tiger:To solve the problem of the essence,But there are certain help.Generally speaking,The girl mental development will be around two years earlier than boys,If the boys go to school late two years,Can make his children born between men and women intelligence development almost,Boys have more to the psychological help.otherwise,They can only in the whole student career are constantly learning to frustration,No masculinity.Of my students,Many girls also feel boring,And I said"The teacher you can recruit some boys".

上学故事 School story

孩子太小推迟一年上学 The child is too small delayed a year to go to school

　　今年8月，刘齐的儿子刚刚满7岁。刘齐的儿子刚满6岁时，已经顺利地从幼儿园毕业，家人都觉得孩子可以上学了。但是刘齐却不这么认为，她说，当时感觉儿子比较小，又非常淘气，很多方面不能自理，希望孩子不要太早背负起学习的压力，因此，她想效仿国外的家长，让儿子晚一年上学，作为送他的礼物。对于孩子何时上学，她也与家人进行了一次大讨论。

August,LiuJi son just seven years old.LiuJi son just over six years old,Has successfully graduate from kindergarten,The family that children can go to school.But LiuJi but don't think so,She said,At that time the son feel relatively small,And very naughty,Many ways cannot provide for oneself,Hope children don't too early bear up learning pressure,therefore,She wants to follow the example of foreign parents,Let the son night a year to go to school,As to send his gift.When to go to school for children,She also with my family had a big discussion.

　　家人觉得，孩子上学应该尽早，即便现在跟不上，等大一点后自然会跟得上学习。而且，现在学生竞争非常激烈，越往后孩子越多，压力会更大。家人都觉得早点上学没有坏处，“早一年，可能就是减少了好几万人的竞争”。

Family feel,Should children to school as soon as possible,Even now can't keep up,And after a bit bigger will naturally follow up study.and,Now the students the competition is fierce,The more the child back,Pressure will be greater.Family think go to school early harmless,"A year earlier,May be reduced the tens of thousands of people's competition".

　　经过艰难的选择，全家人最终还是同意孩子7岁再上学。刘齐还很贴心地为儿子在家附近重新找了个幼儿园，希望孩子再快乐地玩一年。不过，自从决定不去上学后，她也有了新的烦恼。儿子的情绪很低落，特别是看见幼儿园同龄的孩子都去上学了，更是格外难过，总是问刘齐“小朋友们还记得我吗？为什么我不去上学？”她不得不花费很多精力安抚孩子的心，告诉他原因。

After the difficult choice,The whole family eventually agreed to 7 years old children go to school again.LiuJi is still very close to son near at home to find a kindergarten,Hope children play happy again a year.but,Since decided not to go after school,She also has a new worry.Son mood is very low,Especially saw nursery school age children to go to school,Is particularly sad,Will always ask LiuJi"The children still remember me?Why I don't go to school?"She had to spend a lot of energy to appease the child's heart,Tell him why.

　　7岁正式入学报名时，“我们这种情况好像还比较少，老师还反复问我为什么7岁了才带孩子来上学”，她不得不跟老师解释很多遍。不过，她的想法也得到了部分老师的赞同，老师也觉得大一点上学孩子更懂事。

7 years old when signing up a formal entrance,"We this situation seemed less,The teacher also repeatedly asked me why 7 years old took children to go to school",She had to follow the teacher explains many times.but,Her ideas also get some of the teacher's approval,The teacher also feel a bit bigger more sensible children to go to school.

　　刘齐说，孩子今年已经入学一个多月，是班里的大哥哥，其实同学间的年龄相差并不大。“成绩不是最主要的，我只是希望孩子快乐”。

LiuJi said,The child this year have entrance for more than a month,In the class is the big brother,Actually between students age are not big."Achievement is not the most major,I just hope children happy".

学校经验 The school experience

小学男女生差距不明显 Primary school boys and girls gap is not obvious

　　石景山区实验二小校长苑爱红表示，虽然专家呼吁孩子错龄上学，但实际上，更多的家长则是愿意让孩子早点上学。专家所说的男女生心智上的差异，在教学中表现得并不十分明显。

City experimental nest is the principal YuanAiGong said,Although the experts urged children wrong age to go to school,But in fact,More and more parents are willing to let the child go to school early.Experts said of the men and women living mental differences,In the teaching performance is not very obvious.

　　苑爱红说，男女生的差异多是性格特点使然。女生性格文静含蓄，因此学习起来非常稳重，而男生则天生好动，处于活跃的状态。她说，在教学中，男女生在年龄上的差异其实并不太大，对老师来说，感觉他们更多的是互补。

YuanAiGong said,Men and women living difference is due to personality.The girl quiet connotation,So learning up very sedate,And the boy is born active,In the active state.She said,In the teaching,Men and women born in age difference is not too big,For the teacher,Feel they more is complementary.

　　根据她的感受，在一至四年级，的确女生的成绩好于男生，女生的组织能力和口头表达能力很强。但是，到了中高年级，特别是五年级开始，男生则变得更有优势。

According to her feelings,In one to four grade,Indeed the girls do better in boys,The girl organization ability and oral expression ability is very strong.but,In the senior,Especially five grade begins,The boy became more advantage.

　　她说，现在校园里的确存在女生比男生强势的现象。在低年龄段，男生要听女生话的还是比较普遍，学习成绩女生比男生好的也很多。不过，老师们还是在培养小干部方面注重男女搭配，有意识地培养男孩的阳刚之气。课堂上，男生参与课堂提问更积极，思维能力也更强，而女生在语言能力上更强。苑爱红认为，男女生差别并不太大。

She said,Now the campus really do exist girls than boys strong phenomenon.In the low age,The boy want to listen to the words of the girl is common,Study result girls than boys also have a lot of good.but,The teachers in training or small cadre aspects pay attention to men and women collocation,Consciously train the boy's masculinity.class,The boy to participate in classroom questioning more positive,Thinking ability is stronger,And girls in language ability is stronger.YuanAiGong think,Gender difference is not too big.

　　苑爱红说，国家规定孩子年满6岁就要入学，在今年学校招收的60多名一年级新生中，仅有两名男生是7岁入学。她说，这两名7岁入学的男童，一名是家长长期不在身边，想多陪伴孩子一年，另一名则是家长希望孩子能多持续一年在幼儿园的规律生活，保持孩子睡午觉的习惯。

YuanAiGong said,The provisions of the state over 6 years old children to school,In this year of school enroll more than 60 name in a freshman,Only two boys is 7 annual income study.She said,The two 7 annual income study boy,A name is parents long-term not at nearby,Want to accompany children more than a year,The other one is the parents hope children can last for a year in the law of the kindergarten life,Keep the habit of children take a nap.

　　她说，更多的家长愿意孩子6岁便入学，特别是还有很多不到年龄的孩子家长，总是希望能提前进入学校。她认为，不管孩子是多大的年龄入学，关键是学校的教育，要有所侧重的培养。

She said,More and more parents are willing to children 6 years old and entrance,Especially there are many less than the age of the child parent,Always hope to advance into the school.She thinks,No matter how the child is the age of the entrance,The key is the school education,Have to be emphasis on training.