志愿者第一时间探望、社工着手帮扶、妇联派专人沟通……

Volunteers first time to visit/Social work to help/The women's federation assigned to communication...

　　在白云区教育局协调下，幼儿园将免除伙食费外的一切费用；

In the international coordination of education,Kindergarten meals will be relieved from the outside of the all the costs;

　　父亲老全说，会让孩子外婆从老家来广州带他们

Father old all said,Will let the child grandmother from his home to guangzhou to take them

　　本版采写：新快报记者 阮剑华 罗仕

This article:New express reporter RuanJianHua LuoShi

　　实习生 钟梓毅 董有逸

Interns ZhongZiYi dong have escape

　　本版摄影：曾泓

Benban photography:CengHong

　　生活所迫，湖南籍水泥工老全夫妇用铁链锁着年幼儿女，带到工地上班（见新快报昨日A05版），经本报报道后引起极大争议。昨日，铁链解开了，孩子获得自由，但夫妻俩的心锁却始终无法打开老全有苦难言，妻子更一度以泪洗脸。

Forced by life,HuNaJi cement worker old all couples with a chain lock with young children,To site work(New express yesterday A05 edition),By this newspaper reports caused by great dispute.yesterday,Chains solved,Children get free,But the couple's heart lock has been unable to open the old all are suffering,His wife once more to wash a face to tears.

　　不过，好消息接连传来：志愿者率先行动，他们找到老全，聆听他的苦衷，为孩子去向出谋划策；石井家庭综合服务中心社工开了紧急会，商讨帮扶这对姐弟的可能性；妇联副主席发话“如需要帮助，妇联责无旁贷”；白云区教育局更给力，他们表示已经有幼儿园愿意接收姐弟，今日即将上门拜访。

but,The good news coming in:Volunteers take the lead in action,They found old full,Listen to his difficulties,For the children to give counsel;Stone well family comprehensive service ZhongXinShe worker opened an emergency meeting,To discuss the possibility of supporting the elder sister and younger brother;The women's federation deputy chairman utterance"If need help,Women's responsibility";Baiyun area education bureau to force more,They say has kindergarten willing to receive elder sister and younger brother,Today is the door to visit.

　　这便是广州的包容。

This is the tolerance of guangzhou.

　　妈妈辞工带孩子

Mother quit the children

　　环滘村，楼房工地，一楼大堂。全家小姐弟作息的地方，昨日成了新闻发布厅，长枪短炮都对准了父亲老全。

Ring kau village,Building site,The first floor lobby.Small family elder sister and younger brother work and rest place,Yesterday a news release,Pike short gun all aimed at the father old full.

　　锁链和棉被都已不见，地上露出一片未干的混凝土。刹那间，这片混凝土已被蜂拥而入的记者踩得稀烂。老全一身泥灰，手中还握着铲子，靠着砖墙接受采访。他低着头，不时左右晃动，躲闪刺眼的闪光灯，苦笑道：“没事了，谢谢你们，我们再也不绑了。”

Chains and quilt are missing,The ground shows a piece of wet concrete.In an instant,This piece of concrete has been flooded in reporter on him.Old all a marl,Hands still holding the shovel,Interview against the wall.He low head,Around from time to time shaking,Dodge dazzling flash,Forced smile way:"It's all right,Thank you,We no longer bound."

　　当晚，夫妻一夜没睡，最终做了决定：妻子暂停工作，专心带着孩子。“现在暂时先这样，过几天看能不能请他们外婆过来帮忙。”老全说，由于少了得力帮手，他的工作量几乎重了一倍，只能加班加点干，以免误了工期。

That night,Husband and wife didn't sleep all night,Finally made my decision:His wife break-off,To take their children."Now this first temporarily,A few days can see grandma asked them to come over and help."Old all said,Due to the less capable assistant,His workload almost twice as heavy,Can only work overtime dry,In order to avoid missed the time limit for a project.

　　采访间，老全话极少，眼睛不时向外张望，围观人群一多起来，他就连连摆手，中断采访。如此反复了约10分钟，老全终于按捺不住，表示不愿意再被打扰，也不想麻烦大家帮助，麻利地爬上支架，刷墙赶工。

Interview room,Old all things rarely,Eyes sometimes look outside,A crowd up more,He repeatedly motioning with his hand,Interrupt interview.Such again and again for about 10 minutes,Old all finally cannot hold back,Says it does not want to be disturb,Don't want to bother everybody to help,Brilliant climbed up the support,Wall rushed.

　　工地里跑来跑去

The site running

　　孩子“重获自由”，危险却伴随身边。顽皮的弟弟一会儿爬上高高的红砖堆，一会儿拿着边角带刺的木板搅和石膏粉，妈妈还得紧盯着孩子以免冲出摩的横行的巷道。不知是心疼孩子，还是不忍丈夫太累，抑或是锁住孩子承受了太大压力，看着跑来跑去的小姐弟，母亲直掉眼泪。

children"free",Danger is associated with side.Naughty brother for a while climb high red brick pile,For a while with edge stinging board mingler gypsum powder,Mother have to tight stare at a child to avoid rushed out of the streets of the plague-bound roadway.Don't know is love children,Or to husband too tired,Or lock children have suffered too great pressure,Look at running small elder sister and younger brother,Mother straight away tears.

　　其实，虽然夫妻俩作出了短暂打算，但他们面临的困难并未解决。最直接的是经济压力，老全说，姐弟俩之前常常生病，家里还欠着亲戚两万元，他们必须拼命干活，省钱还债。而对于孩子的读书问题，老全更是焦头烂额。打零工居所不定，接送孩子困难，而且每年不到3万元的收入，实在负担不起广州幼儿园的费用。

In fact,Although a couple made a short going to,But they are faced with the difficulty of not solved.The most direct economic pressure,Old all said,Before the sister is often ill,Home still owe twenty thousand yuan relatives,They have to work hard,Save money to discharge.For the children's reading problems,Old all is burned.'s doing odd jobs to turn an habitation indefinite,Shuttle children difficult,And less than a year of 30000 yuan in revenues,It can't afford the cost of guangzhou kindergarten.

　　明年女儿将满5岁，届时他们会把孩子带回湖南老家读书，由外婆抚养，夫妻俩则继续在外打拼。“他们出生就带在身边，以前不会走，我们花了100多块钱买了床车，拉着去上班，现在长大了，真的要离开我们了，好舍不得。”当妈的再次痛哭。

Next year will be full five years old daughter,When they will take the children back to hunan home reading,The grandmother raised,A couple continues to fight outside."They were born took in the side,Previously won't go,We spend more than 100 dollars to buy a bed cars,Took to go to work,Now grew up,Really want to leave us,I can't bear losing you."When mother cry again.

　　对话老全

Dialogue old all

　　“我也怕触犯法律”

"I also fear that beyond the law"

　　新快报：在这里上班多久了？老全：我是农村的，没读几年书，靠抹腻子（扇灰的一道工序）吃饭。在这里干了两三个月，老婆小孩都在。有时候在夏茅村做，有时来这里，没有固定的。

New express:How long work here?Old all:I am rural,Don't read a few years,Wipe be bored with child by(Fan the ashes of the procedure)eat.In doing here two or three months,The wife kid all in.Sometimes in XiaMao village to do,Sometimes come here,No fixed.

　　新快报：孩子一直带在身边吗？

New express:The child has been with you?

　　老全：女儿四岁多，儿子三岁多，大的在江高医院生，小的在石井医院生。生下来一直跟着我们生活。最开始买了100多块钱的童车，孩子睡在里面，长大会跑了没办法。

Old all:Daughter more than four years old,More than three years old son,Big in the river high hospital was born,Small in stone well hospital was born.Born followed we live.The beginning of more than 100 yuan to buy the baby carriage,Children sleep in it,The long run can't.

　　新快报：怎么想到要绑着孩子呢？

New express:How to want to bind the child?

　　老全：可是这里人来人往，小孩一会儿跑到白灰上来，一会儿又爬到架子下面，碰到小孩我也心痛。这样绑一下应该没什么关系。是不是啊？我没有绑得很深。我把小孩放在这个板子上面，你看多干净，钉都没有。我也怕触犯法律。

Old all:But this people come and go,A child ran to the pale grey up,For a while and climbed to the shelf,Meet the child I also heartache.Such a tie should have no relationship.Is ah?I don't have tied so bad.I put the child in the above board,You see how clean,Nail are not.I also fear that beyond the law.

　　新快报：会不会对孩子留下心理阴影？

New express:To the child will leave psychological shadow?

　　老全：没办法。如果我不绑，机架倒下去，出了大事，房东也为难。

Old all:Can't.If I don't tie,Frame fell down,Out of the big,The landlord also difficult.

　　新快报：将来有什么打算？

New express:What is the future plan?

　　老全：我老婆不干活了，带小孩。准备把这里干完回老家去了，女儿让她外婆带，明年在老家读书。

Old all:My wife does not work,children.Prepared to back here to finish,Daughter let her grandmother belt,Next year in their hometown reading.

　　专家支招

Experts move

　　可试试“亲帮亲、邻帮邻”

Can try"Close to help close/Adjacent help adjacent"

　　广东省青少年事业研究与发展中心曾锦华主任表示，全家的个案应该是比较极端的案例，父母出此下策也是无奈的。他建议，老全可以采用一种“亲帮亲、邻帮邻”的方式，召集工地其他有小孩的工人，一起出钱请相熟的亲戚或者邻居专门照看大家的小孩。

Guangdong youth business research and development center CengJinHua director said,Family case should be more extreme cases,Parents were out of this decision is helpless.He suggested that,Old all can use a"Close to help close/Adjacent help adjacent"way,Call site other have children of the workers,All chip in and please phase of your relatives or neighbors special take care of everyone's child.

　　曾主任还介绍，其实在东莞和惠州也有一些工业园区会为职工子女设立幼儿屋，安排专人照看职工子女，这样对稳定员工情绪也有很好的帮助。但对于全先生这种流动性比较大的工作并不适用。

Director was also introduced,In fact in the dongguan and huizhou some industrial park will be set up for worker children children house,Arrange special care worker children,So to stable mood employees also have very good help.But for Mr. All the liquidity bigger job is not applicable.

　　白云区教育局今日上门商谈入学事宜

Baiyun area education bureau today the door negotiations for admission

　　昨日下午5时许，新快报记者从白云区教育局获悉，得悉事件后，该局马上发动辖区学校，寻求热心帮助，目前已经有幼儿园表态愿意接收这对可怜的姐弟。“除了伙食费以外，其他费用都免了。”负责此事的工作人员说。

At about 5 yesterday afternoon,New express reporters from baiyun area of education bureau,After that incident,The school immediately launch jurisdiction,Seeking enthusiastic help,At present there are kindergarten are willing to receive it declare to poor elder sister and younger brother."In addition to outside board expenses,Other expenses are not."Responsible for the it staff said.

　　不过，他们还是尊重老全夫妇的意见。今天上午，教育局工作人员将亲自拜访老全夫妇，详细商谈孩子就读幼儿园的具体事宜。

but,They still respect the old all the opinions of the couple.This morning,Bureau of education work personnel will personally visit old all couples,Detailed negotiations children attend kindergarten concrete matters.

　　越秀区知心社工中心志愿者上门做心理辅导

Yuexiu district of bosom social work center volunteers to do psychological counseling

　　昨日下午3时许，来自广州市越秀区知心社会工作服务中心的志愿者宾瑜和黄婉华来到老全所在的工地。宾瑜是一名心理导师，她说，此行目的是摸清老全的状况，再发动更多志愿者进行援助。

Yesterday afternoon 3 when xu,From guangzhou yuexiu district of bosom social work service center volunteers bin yu and HuangWanHua came to old all the site.Objective yu is a psychology teacher,She said,Visit old purpose is to get the whole situation,Reboot more volunteers for aid.

　　由于老全曾多次表示不愿接受帮助，宾瑜首先对他进行了心理干预，“我们想减轻他的戒备心理，让他知道其实大家是真心想帮他”。经过短暂交谈，心理干预初见成效。

Due to the old all had repeatedly said that is not willing to accept the help,Objective yu first to the psychological intervention,"We want to reduce his alert psychological,Let him know that we really want to help him".After a short talk,Psychological intervention produced results.

　　“他希望他的孩子可以读书，还问了一下我们这边的情况，大致有什么方式可以帮到他。”宾瑜介绍，目前广州市内有很多家庭综合服务中心服务中心，还有志愿者和社工，均可以帮助老全，“如果家庭综合服务中心能提供场所，我们可以召集志愿者排班去帮他们照顾孩子，直到他们能有更好的解决方法。”

"He hopes his children can read,Asked about the situation of us,Roughly what way can help to him."Bin yu introduced,At present a lot of families in guangzhou city comprehensive service center service center,There are volunteers and social work,All can help old full,"If the family can provide comprehensive service center place,We can call scheduling volunteers to help them to take care of the children,Until they can have a better solution."

　　广东省妇联责无旁贷将尽全力帮助

Responsibility of the guangdong provincial women's federation will try our best to help

　　广东省妇联副主席杨建珍昨日表示，他们将尽力帮助小姐弟及其父母。

Vice chairman of the guangdong provincial women's federation YangJianZhen said yesterday,They will try our best to help the little elder sister and younger brother and their parents.

　　“一切教育都应该是爱的教育，任何父母看到这样的事情都会难过。”杨建珍说，铁锁绑小孩这种行为是错误的，会对小姐弟造成心理上的阴影，但也不能过多地责怪老全夫妇，“我相信他们也是无奈之举”。她同时呼吁父母应该拥有正确的儿童观，尊重和保护儿童。

"All education should be love of education,Any parents see such things will be sad."YangJianZhen said,Iron lock bind child this kind of behavior is wrong,Will the little elder sister and younger brother cause psychological shadow,But not too much blame old all couples,"I believe that they are also trepidation".She also called on parents should have the correct views on children,Respect for and protection of children.

　　杨建珍表示，省妇联将会和白云区妇联沟通，通过妇联组织为小姐弟提供帮助，“去工地附近寻找爱心家庭，寻找一些有闲、有爱的老人，在小姐弟父母上班的时候，看能不能临时照看一下小姐弟。”她说，妇联会派出专业人员，与全家进行沟通，提供专业的心理和生活指导。

YangJianZhen said,Provincial women's federation will and women's international communication,Through the women's federation organization for little elder sister and younger brother to provide help,"Go near the site looking for love family,Looking for some leisure/Have a love of the old man,In the small elder sister and younger brother parents go to work,See if you can temporarily look after little elder sister and younger brother."She said,The women's federation will expedite professional,Communicate with the whole family,Provide professional psychology and life guidance.

　　杨建珍说，广东省妇联一直致力于妇女和儿童的合法权益保护，“如果小姐弟和小姐弟父母需要帮助，广东省妇联责无旁贷。”

YangJianZhen said,The women's federation has been committed to children and women's legitimate rights and interests protection,"If the little elder sister and younger brother and sister small parents need help,Responsibility of the guangdong provincial women's federation."

　　石井家庭综合服务中心召集社工系统地去帮助

Stone well family comprehensive service center called social work system to help

　　石井家庭综合服务中心负责人莫先生昨日告诉新快报记者，看到报道后他们已经第一时间召集社工开会，研究如何系统地帮到老全一家。“我们首先可能会提供心理上的帮助，接着联合志愿者以及这方面的专家，系统地去帮助他。”问及是否愿意提供场地，让志愿者照顾姐弟俩，他表示有操作的可能性。

Stone well family comprehensive service center director Mr. Don't tell the new express reporter yesterday,See the first time after reports they have called social work at the meeting,Research how to systematically help to the old full a."The first thing we might provide the psychological help,Then joint volunteers and an expert on the subject,System to help him."Asked if you are willing to provide site,Let volunteers to take care of the sister,He said have the possibility of operation.