《2012年中国大学生就业报告》显示,在2011年毕业的大学生中,有近57万人处于失业状态,十多万人选择“啃老”。近年来,大学生面临沉重就业压力,但是仅一届毕业生中就有十多万人在家“啃老”确实令人吃惊。

[In 2012, the Chinese university students' employment report]display,In 2011 graduates from university,Nearly 570000 people in unemployment,More than ten thousand people choose"Nibble at old".In recent years,College students are facing heavy pressure of employment,But only the graduates have more than 10 ten thousand people at home"Nibble at old"Is really amazing.

　　这么多大学毕业生加入“啃老”大军,固然跟整体就业形势有关,但恐怕也与一些年轻人图稳定、进取精神不足的精神状态有关。现在的年轻人大多从小在父母的疼爱下长大,没有父辈挨过饿、受过穷的体验,因此可能不喜欢太艰辛的劳作,更羡慕安稳的生活。这种图稳定的心态让一些大学生在选择工作时把目光对准了公务员等安逸稳定的职业,如果找不到这样的工作,宁肯回家啃老。而中国父母也把为已成年子女提供生活帮助视为理所当然。正如一位大学生母亲所说,“孩子还需要时间适应,反正家里也不缺她这点钱糊口。”

So many university graduates to join"Nibble at old"army,With the overall employment situation is relevant,But I'm afraid also with some young people diagram stability/Enterprising spirit shortage of the mental state.Now most of the young people in the love from parents to grow up,No parents suffer through hungry/A poor experience,So may not like too hard work,More envy in secure life.This diagram stable state of mind let some students in choosing a job look aimed at the civil servants and ease stable career,If can't find such work,Would rather go home on the.While Chinese parents also for the adult children help provide life for granted.As a college students' mother said,"The children need time to adapt to,Anyway, home missing her the money mouth."

　　然而,对于这些大学生来说,啃老可能不是一个好选择。工作是年轻人早晚要经历的一道坎儿,也是一个必经的社会化过程。尽管现在一些人面临着工作机会少、工资低等现实困难,但也并不是说没有工作机会。实际上,只要认清自身情况,放下身段,总是能找到点事情做。这样的工作,一个人可能不会从事很长时间,但是你可以从中体会到融入社会、直面现实的喜悦,也能在其中得到锻炼和积累经验的机会,为将来寻找更好的工作打下良好的基础。

however,For these college students,Chew old may not be a good choice.Work is the young people to experience a KanEr sooner or later,Is also a necessary socialization process.Although some people now faced with less job opportunities/Low wages realistic difficulties,But also is not to say that no job opportunity.In fact,As long as recognise their own situation,Down figure,Can always find something to do.Such work,A person may not be engaged in a long time,But you may get to experience the mainstream society/Face to face with real joy,Also can be in among them get exercise and accumulate experience opportunities,Look for a better job for the future to lay a good foundation.

　　大学毕业后的三五年是一个人寻找自我定位的黄金年龄段,也是让自己心智逐渐成熟的最佳时期,过了这个村就没有这个店。回家啃老,不仅给父母增添了经济负担,也可能错过了参与社会竞争、寻找自我定位的最佳时机；不仅会导致自身社交等各方面能力的退化,还可能导致抗压能力弱等性格方面的缺陷,几年下来,就会让自己在社会竞争中处于更不利的地位。有些人还会因为长期在家,与社会脱节,产生了严重的心理压力,甚至患上了抑郁症等精神疾病。

After graduation from the university of 35 years is a person find yourself positioning of the golden age,Also is to let his mind gradually mature optimal period,The village is no this shop.Home on the,Not only to the parents added economic burden,May also missed the participate in social competition/Find yourself positioning of the best time;Not only can lead to their own social and so on various aspects ability of degradation,It can also cause compression ability weak and the defects of character,A few years down,Will let themselves in social competition in a disadvantageous position.Some people will also because at home for a long time,And social disrupted,Had a serious psychological pressure,Even suffering from a mental disorders such as depression.

　　转型期的中国社会还存在许多问题,各方面利益调整都在进行中,这让大学生在初入社会时会面临工作、买房、结婚等诸多困难和挑战,但这些困难、挑战不是什么洪水猛兽,不能因此就索性退回自己的安稳窝中去。对于啃老族来说,与其猫在家里等待好机会砸到自己头上,还不如直面现实,积极向上,活出精神头,承担起家庭和社会责任,靠自己的双手为自己创造机会。（吴华伟）

Transition of Chinese society there still exist many problems,The adjustment of interests are in progress,It makes university students in fledglings will face social work/To buy a house/Get married and so on many difficulties and challenges,But these difficulties/The challenge is not what a great disaster,You can't just simply return their safe in its nest to.The boomerang kid for it,And cats at home waiting for good chance to hit his head,Face reality as well,positive,To live out the spirits,Take responsibility for family and social responsibility,By their own hands to create your own opportunities.(WuHuaWei)