老师群发短信提醒：不要跟“坏同学”做朋友？ The teacher reminded mass text messages:Don't"Bad students"Do friends?

　　“不要跟‘坏同学’做朋友，要跟‘好同学’做朋友。”昨天，张小姐发帖称，同事的孩子在花园某小学读一年级，上周五老师给家长们发了这样一条短信，让家长告诉自己的孩子，不要跟“坏同学”做朋友，要跟“好同学”做朋友。张小姐和同事们都觉得不妥。对此，花园某小学的校长解释说，老师看到部分同学有不好的表现，只是善意地提醒，并不是针对哪个学生，希望家长多理解。

"Don't‘Bad students’Do friends,Want to‘Good students’Do friends."yesterday,Miss zhang post said,Colleagues children in the garden one primary school reading a grade,Last Friday the teacher give parents send this message,Let parents tell their children,Don't"Bad students"Do friends,Want to"Good students"Do friends.Miss zhang and his colleagues all feel wrong.this,The garden a elementary school principal explained,The teacher saw some classmates have bad performance,Just kindly remind,It is not aimed at which students,Hope that parents understand more.

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老师要家长多讲“孟母三迁” The teacher to parents speak more"MengMuSanQian"

　　张小姐在帖子里写道，前两天，无意间听同事讲起他家孩子刚上一年级，就读于花园某所小学。上周五，老师给他发了一条短信，让家长告诉自己的孩子，不要跟“坏同学”做朋友，要跟“好同学”做朋友，还要家长多给孩子讲“孟母三迁”的故事。

Miss zhang in the post wrote,Two days before,Inadvertently listen to colleague speak up his child was just were in grade one last year,Enrolled in garden some primary school.Last Friday,The teacher gave him to send a message,Let parents tell their children,Don't"Bad students"Do friends,Want to"Good students"Do friends,Also parents give children speak"MengMuSanQian"story.

　　张小姐认为老师的做法欠妥，她说：“孩子刚上一年级，入学才两个多月，老师就给他们归类‘好孩子’‘坏孩子’，我们也是从学生时代过来的，如果老师把我归类为‘坏孩子’，我肯定无法在同学中交到真正的朋友。”

Miss zhang think the teacher disapproved of the practice,She said:"The child just were in grade one last year,Admission to more than two months,The teacher will give their classification‘boy’‘kids’,We are students from age come over,If the teacher make I classified as‘kids’,I'm sure I can't the students make a true friend."

　　昨天下午，记者联系上张小姐，她表示，发这个帖是让大家讨论讨论，这位老师的做法对不对。“这短信应该是群发的，调皮孩子的家长看到老师这样说，会作何感想，难道自家的孩子就成了老师口中的‘坏同学’？让孩子知道了，会不会给孩子造成心理压力，伤害孩子的自尊？”

Yesterday afternoon,Reporter contact miss zhang,She says,Send this post is lets everybody discussion,The teacher practice right."This text messages should be group,Naughty children's parents see the teacher say so,lounging,Don't their children become the teacher of the mouth‘Bad students’?Let the child know,Will give the child cause psychological pressure,Hurt the child's self-esteem?"

学校回应 School response

老师只是善意提醒家长 The teacher just remind parents in good faith

　　老师为什么会发这样一条短信给家长？昨天下午，记者联系上花园某小学的校长。李校长表示，经过查实，一年级某班的老师确实给学生的家长发过类似的短信，但短信原文与网上的表述并不全部一致。

The teacher why would send such a message to parents?Yesterday afternoon,Reporter contact garden a elementary school principal.Principal li said,After thorough check,A grade a class teacher does give students' parents send a similar message,But the original message with online statement is not all consistent.

　　李校长向记者展示了短信原文，“各位家长：这几天我们发现班里有一部分孩子眼睛只看表现不太好的同学，甚至于跟着学。希望多督促孩子，多教育孩子眼睛只看表现好的同学，并且跟着学。建议家长给孩子读读‘孟母三迁’的故事，多讲一些名人故事给孩子听。”

Principal li told reporters show the original message,"Your parents:These days we found that some of the children in the class have eyes only see is not doing very good students,Even learn accordingly.Hope more urged children,Many education child eyes only see good students,Learn and follow., suggested that parents give children read‘MengMuSanQian’story,Speak more celebrities stories to children to listen to."

　　李校长解释说：“老师是看到一部分一年级学生有些不好的表现，在放学后，跟一些调皮的学生在学校附近的小店长久逗留，买小玩具或是烤串等小零食，并有沉迷其中的倾向。老师觉得，孩子年纪还小，缺乏判断力，不能学坏了，就发了一条短信给家长，让他们加强对孩子放学后的管教。这短信只是一个善意的提醒，并不是针对哪个学生，认为哪个学生是坏学生。如果孩子可以多跟优秀的同学在一起，放学后看看书，或是做一些有益的游戏，对孩子不是更好？！”

Principal li explained:"The teacher is to see part of the first-year students some bad performance,After school,With some naughty students near the school shop stay long,Buy small toys or roast series, and other small snacks,And the tendency of indulging.The teacher felt,The child was young,Lack of judgment,Can't something goes wrong,Can send a message to the parents,Let them to strengthen the discipline of the children after school.This message is just a good remind,It is not aimed at which students,Think which students is a bad student.If a child can with outstanding students together,After school reading,Or do some beneficial games,To the child is not better?!"

　　此外，李校长也表示，对于家长提出的意见，学校会虚心接纳，以后在教职工会议上，会提醒老师用更合适更积极的方式教育孩子，同时也希望家长可以多理解。(王玉)

In addition,Principal li also said,For parents to put forward opinions,The school will accept modestly,Later on faculty meetings,Will remind the teacher with more appropriate more positive way children education,At the same time also hope that parents can understand.(WangYu)